Question Posted Saturday September 24 2005, 11:23 pm
Ok...i go to school and i feel like a geek...im not really one but i just fell like it.Like i look at all the popular girls and i wanna be like them..how do i?? does anyone know??? I used to have a lot of friends that went to my school but they moved.
Ill rate high if you help me!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? summergrl05 answered Saturday October 1 2005, 12:48 pm: i just started high school this year...and well looking back on grade school i remember that i used to want to be popular 2. now i realize that i was being really stupid hehe. i hugn out with the "popular" group for a while, then i found out that they were mean kids that bagged on everybody cause they were insecure about themselves. my advice to you is that you shouldnt change yourself for other people. gradeschool goes by so fast im not even kidding. i wish that i had spent more time hanging out with my true friends than trying to fit into the popular group. im not sure if thats what the popular group is like at your school, but if it is, i would advise you not to be like them. if there are any new kids in ur class then you should take the time to get to know them. its really easy to make friends with the new kids cause for the most part, they dont know anybody.
if you really want to be like them, then you could dress like them, BUT DONT DRESS SLUTTY.
you could act like them BUT DONT BAG ON PEOPLE. IT WILL COME RIGHT BACK AT YOU.
AND MOST OF ALL, DONT GET PRESSURED INTO DOING ANYTHING THAT YOU DONT WANT TO DO. nobody has to make you do anything.
have fun and dont worry about it 2 much.
hope i helped! [ summergrl05's advice column | Ask summergrl05 A Question ]
dreamist16 answered Wednesday September 28 2005, 6:22 pm: well if you really want to be like them , dress like them and act like them, even talk to them, but if i were you id just be myself and dont care about being popular but thats just me
maria2653 answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 9:40 pm: wear expensive clothes, lots of make up and straighten your hair every day. flirt with any guy you want. any one. thats what the popular girls do. but why be popular? they suck! [ maria2653's advice column | Ask maria2653 A Question ]
Sum41bizzyd504 answered Sunday September 25 2005, 10:50 pm: First of all who cares if you are popular or not. Geeks are the ones that get great jobs and make their dreams come true. Dont hang out with the popular people they are the rude ones.. [ Sum41bizzyd504's advice column | Ask Sum41bizzyd504 A Question ]
Askme247 answered Sunday September 25 2005, 5:47 pm: Your not a geek!! Ok im really smart and i do good in school and i amd friends with the 'popular' girls..... start a conversation with them befriend them.... hang out with them.. but dont be a stalker... if you cant be friends with them dont worry about it.... if they dotn wamt to be friends with you their not good enough for your friendship....hope i helped....
sk8trash answered Sunday September 25 2005, 1:46 am: Hey!!! Just to tell you, popularity isn't everything. Sometimes it can be a bad thing. Cause when someting happens like lets say you and a guy made out, the popular kids would spred roumers about you and so the whole school knows.
But, if you really want to be popular, I suggest be friends with a couple of them. It would be easy if you have popular kids in your class. First be friends with all the popular people in your class, then gradually upgrade your friendship by hanging out where they do.
--LISA-- answered Sunday September 25 2005, 12:31 am: It ok i was once in your position and i adventully got to hang a bit with the popular peoples but nowtheir like notthatpopularnow were in high school.I found a good mate to hang and we didi go oour seperate was in highschool and i found the best ones i could eva have and thie popular.So just be yourself and in high school you will change and for the better. [ --LISA--'s advice column | Ask --LISA-- A Question ]
*Kate* answered Sunday September 25 2005, 12:22 am: You shouldnt have to change who you are to get people to like you and want to be friends. Just be yourself. If you have a hard time making and keeping friends it is easiest to join a club or something where the kids have the same interests of you. If you want more ideas on making and keeping friends instant message me my sn is pvbandfreak [ *Kate*'s advice column | Ask *Kate* A Question ]
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