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what is a reasonable curfew for a responsible sixteen year old? (link)
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dependes... do you have a cell phone? do your parents or whoever know generally where you're gonna be? i'd say a good time is sometime between 10-12... but my parents are pretty lax so my curfew is 2am...
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13/f
and i babysit but i only do it on occasion.
i NEED some extra cash & fast. well I'm going to Florida in June and i really want a 200 dollars to spend there. PLUS i need money for clothes now- let's just say i'm not the richest person in the world and getting 50 dollars every other month isn't working. Any ideas? Maybe on how to get my "babysitting expirence" out there? I love kids. Uhm. I hate cleaning though but i'll do it if i have to. I'm smart? i guess tutoring might be an option but i'm really not sure. I just need some cash fast. I don't have any clothes for the summer/spring and well that explains it. thanks so much in advanced!!
-stephanie (link)
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at your high school you can get a working permit from your counciler, then you can get a job as a waitress, cashier, basically anything you don't need a highschool daploma for
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how long should they last .
and like
how do i actually give one
how long should it last
and is it wrong to give one in a movie theatre?
sites ? (link)
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blow jobs should last until the guy comes... then a few seconds after that, but only a FEW seconds, otherwise you could hurt him.
suck... move your head up and down, relax your throght, rub the shaft while you suck on the head... stuff like that.
i've given them in movie theaters before and the people around us complained, both of us were removed, and they called our parents... so, in short, it's a very very very bad idea
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i'm only 15, and i really would like a job. i've applied to two different grocery stores and i haven't gotten called back yet. i live in new york. does anybody know where i can work at only 15? i'm not really into a babysitting job, babysittings alright occasionaly. (link)
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at your high school you can go talk to the counceler and ask for a working permit, then it's like your old enough to get a job where ever you want
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Does anybody cut themselves? Anyone used to cut? If so why?
help... how do i keep myself from not cutting..? (link)
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i used to cut myself, i don't anymore... sometimes it's hard not to though. i used to cut for a couple reasons
-i felt stupid for being sad for no reason... being depressed and not knowing why... so i cut to give myself a reason for being miserable
-there were some family problems that i was blaming myself for, so since i did something wrong, i had to be punished...
-lastly, it was a releif... i could just sit there, see blood run... and there was something deeply calming about that...
think about it, do you really want those scars for the rest of your life? what happens when people find out and can't understand it so they jump to conclusions and such? another thing that i think helps is wearing rubber bands on your wrist and snaping them when you feel like cutting... hope i helped... DON'T CUT!!!
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so my friend wants me to get help. i guess i may just need help. i just stopped cutting about a few weeks ago, because my mother found out. I have family issues, like my father. i used to hate the world. sometimes i feel all depressed because of my family.. i dont know, advice? (link)
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i used to cut... i did it cuz of family issues too... what i did to stop was wear rubberbands or hair ties on your wrist, whenever you get the impulse to cut snap the rubberband... it doesn't leave scars and i'm pretty sure it's concidered healty... so try it... hope it works for you ^_^ i hope things get better, really
another question like this is at: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=489207
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Okay so theres ths guy that i really like: (im gunna put it in like..bullets so its easier to read):
-and it all started last month around the beginning of March.
-and we've met before but never really talked much because we dont go to the same school but he lives in the same town as me.
-we work at the same place, and thats basically how we started talking.
-so over the weeks in March, we started to text all the time everyday; from the time we'd wake up to the time we'd go to sleep.
- everything was going good and i got the chance to get to know him a bit more and he seemed like a really sweet guy. just had bad luck with past relationships because of the way he was treated.
- only problem: we never got the chance to hang out because i had drivers ed 3 times a week, basketball 2 times a week and work on the weekends.
-->this was a problem because he was always bugging me about hanging out but i nevr had the time to.
So everything was going pretty good.
APRIL:
-So he then invites me like..last minute to some semiformal thing on a tuesday and the semi is on that saturday.
--im not able to go because my parents dont know him and i wasnt getting great grades at the time.
--> so saturday comes and hes like..really reallyyy sad i cant go.
--> a couple weeks go by, and everythings still going good.
--> then all of a sudden one day, he just starts acting wierd. and this carries on for 3 days.
- so i had to work one of the days and he was like "oh maybe ill stop by"
--> so he stops by and we didnt talk but just smiled at each other. he stayed for maybe an hour.
- so after work, i check my messages and there are three from him explaining how he was sorry he acted the way he did.
--> so days go by and then its vacation.
since i go to a catholic school in a different state but i live in the same state as him and he goes to public school in the state we both live in, our vacation is different.
- i ended up giong to florida for vacation for a week.
we texted the whole time i was down there and things seemed to be fine.
-until the last 2 days i was down there, he didnt respond to my txt messages.
so i was worried something was wrong.
-i get back from vacation, all happy to be home (sadly haha) and then i just look on his myspace, since i dont have one (not allowed) and it says "in a relationship"
--> so im like...ohh great what the hell happened now? then he signs on that night and tells me that his phone has been dead and it wont hold the charge.
so i asked him why it said "in a relationship" on his myspace and hes all like "What? i thought u werent allowed on myspace? i thought it was blocked? and im like...noo....its not blocked. i jsut cant have a myspace"
so then hes like...about that...i thought u were jsut leading me on the whole time and we havent even hung out yet so i was getting tired of it.
so iim like...okay, i told you before vacation that after i got back, we could hang out because drivers ed would be done with. and hes like..well i dont remmeber that and you didnt seem like you were interested in me that much because you never made plans to hang out.
--> i definetly remember making plans to TRY to hang out but they didnt work because of drivers ed.
and now he just wont talk to me or anything, and i dont know what to do.
what would you do if you were me?
Thanks,
steph
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i can see your side... but i have to say that i feel kinda sorry for him... because i really liked this guy for a long time, he was really into me, i was really into him.... but it seemed like he never made time for me... or even tried to (that's probably how this guy felt) so which felt like no encouragment from your side left him feeling unwanted, so he went somewhere else to get attention aka. his new girlfriend.
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how to decrese boobs any excercise plz u have to help me out in this i am really pissed off (link)
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push-ups, bench presses, they'll build muscle wear you're boobs are, and in turn your boobs will start to loose fat...which is pretty much all they are....
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yellow dude~where do you get the pics of the little yellow guy and sometimes with the blue dude. one says 'i picked you a flower but it was a venus fly trap and it bit my head so i killed it and got you this peice of grass instead' another says 'i made you a cookie but i eated it' (link)
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they're names are pon and zi, here's the artist's website http://www.azuzephre.net/site/gallery/5/
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does NAIR && VEET work??
thanks in advance (link)
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my friend uses veet and she swears by it... and she has really really soft legs... so it probably works really really well ^_^. i use nair, it works really well for me, it smells pretty bad though... but otherwise i think it's great
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how do you get gum out of hair (link)
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lip gloss works wonders, use it like you'd use peanut butter, the upside is that it doesn't smell bad... it'll just make you a little glittery ^.^
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when you get your hair thinned, does the sylist cut hair off the outside of your hair or the inside layer? and where does she thin it? bottom? under the ear and lower? (link)
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the styleist uses specail sissors and it cuts some of your hair, so that you don't have as much, but the problem is that when it grows back it looks like a really really bad mullet
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15/f 110lbs
i know im skinny and i dont want to loose weight. i want to gain muscle without loosing fat. im worried if i work out that im going to loose the little body fat i have but i dont know any other way to gain muscle other than to work out. i mainly just want to build muscle in my arms because they're a little scrawney looking. (link)
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if you gain muscle your matabolism will raise and you'll loose fat no matter what, but if you want muscle just lift wieghts, it'll build curves so it won't matter if you loose that fat.
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I think my friend is a lesbian, but I don't want to ask. She NEVER has crushes on any guys and if she has, she's never told me. I've caught her looking at girls butts and it's really creepy! One night we had a sleep over but i left some of my clothes at home. I asked to borrow hers but she insisted it would be fine with her if i slept in the NUDE!!!!!
Other times, we've had sleepovers and she'd change right in front of me. Most girls do that, but when i went to change in the bathroom, she freaked! she kept saying "we are both girls, why don't you feel comfortable around me?"
It probably wouldn't be good by saying i thought she wanted to take pictures of me but.....
i've joked around saying "what are you a lezbo?! Haha!" but she puts on like a pity smile and changes the subject.
Once i said it in front of other people and she was quiet for the rest of the night.
HELP!? it's creepy, she's into me!
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this is what i said the last time i answered a question like this...
i don't think she has a crush on you... there are a bunch of reasons why she'd be looking at you:
-she's comparing herself to you, body wise (which also explanes why she's looking at your boobs
-she just stares off into the distance because she has alot on her mind (belive me i do this alot... and even though i'm really straight i often find that when i come back into the real world i'll be staring at some other girls ass or boobs... i don't know why)
-she's just curious...
and about the sleeping in the nude thing, she was probably just kidding, i joke like that with my friends. and conserning the changing thing, lots of people are just raised like that, my mom's like that, don't put too much thought into it unless she does something to you.
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How does a female condom work? (link)
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i have just one thing to add to the last comment, and that is that you're probably better off sticking to a male condom because female comdoms make sex alot alot less pleasureable... it just doesn't fit right...
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hey..I read your profile and i thought you could hepl me with this (plzzz)Well im gonna go short.In DEEPLY in Love with my Best friend but he has a gf.I reallly want to tell him how i feel but im scared:(.plz guys tell me what to do..i really really really like him.Do you think theres something i can do to make him leave her??or i dunno plz just hepl out:'(
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i just got over a guy that i had about the same problem with. the first thing you have to ask yourself is does he like you back? and also do him and his girlfriend love eachother. if he likes you back then i say tell him that you like him and see what happens, but if he's inlove with her there's really nothing you can do but wait till they break up. so good luck
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Is it bad for a girl to have a lot of discharge? (link)
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it depends.... if it's clear and pretty much oderless it's perfectly fine, especally if you get this around the time you're starting or stoping your period. if its white or yellow, smells really bad or just comes out for no reason you might want to get it checked out
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I have dealt with a huge skin problem in the past. So now I have scars all over my body:my legs, arms, and back. They look so obvious, and it makes me feel so self-conscious that I have to cover it up with jeans and long-sleeved shirts. However summer is close and I want them to be gone, or less-noticable at least. I want to look better again. Is there any treatments or surgical procedures I can do to get rid of the scars?
Please give me some hope with this because I look so ugly! Thanks (link)
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you can get scar cream from a pharmacy or you could go to a dermatologist and get lazer tretment for it
It's where your dermatologist takes a laser and removes layers of skin, then after it heals you should have near perfect skin again ^_^
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15/f
okay first of all i want to go on birth control because my period is rediculous. i know im only 15 but it can last for up to 9 days and i get really heavy clots so i want birth control to lighten it up. i dont know how to ask my mom for it because she thinks im sexually active even though im a virgin. she doesn't believe me when i tell her im a virgin.
okay so i dont know how to ask her and i've never been to a gynocologist and i really dont look forward to going.
is there any sort of pelvic exam needed to get birth control?
also i heard a rumor that it can make your boobs bigger, is that true? because if it was that would be a nice added bonus (link)
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just tell your mom why you want birthcontrol, tell her that you really need it and so on... if she really won't get it for you then go to a planned parenthood location near you and then get them yourself. oh yeah and they do make your boobs grow about a cup size, my two friends that are on bc now went from A to B and from C to D.
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me and my g/f act really close around eachother like she'll let me tickle her put my arm around her and stuff..but i never tried to do anything else.to me it seems like we both wanna go further.but how can we tell if the other one wants to too? (link)
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move in about 80% of the way and see if she comes the rest, if she does then you know she wants it as much as you, if she doesn't just pretend that you were trying to grab something on the foor or something, that way it won't be akward
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