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Heyy my name is Alisha i'm 13 and i'm only in the 8th grade but I'm always the one people come to for advice becuase usually i know the solution so don't be afraid to ask away. Anyway um i love to play hockey, soccer, and baseball so i'm atchletic but when i'm alone in my room singing and acting is my love. Acting is so much fun to me and i have a lot of friends that enjoy it too. I enjoy acting but singing is something I'm really good at and something i would love to do for the rest of my life. Alos i'm very out going and i can get along with almost everyone. I think that's all you really need to know unless you want to know more just IM me or message me
Gender: Female
Location: rhode island
Occupation: baby sitting
Age: 13
AIM: alishaaa x3
Member Since: May 13, 2005
Answers: 62
Last Update: August 20, 2007
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I was wondering

if you want to have a baby, like when ur old like 25 and stuff, do you not wear a condom?

i was always wondering

and does sex hurt for the first time??

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yea if you want to have a baby don't wear a condom or use any type of birth control pills and yes sex does hurt for the first time it hurts some more then others but no matter what if it's your first time it will hurt


What are some REALLY good tips on flirting? Like I want to start to make my boyfriend really interested in me. Like I already know he likes me but i want him to show he likes me. So I need tips on flirting and stuff like that. Thanks in advance! =) (link)
easy just smile a lot, touch his arm when u say something, give him sweet little waves when you see him in the hallway and when you leave after talking to him put your hand on his chest and slowly move down as you walk backwards and when you turn make sure u hair flips believe me these things make them so happy and it'll bejust the thing you need to get him interested


i think i might have a phobia of some sort...
before i have to give a speech or even read out loud i freak out. i have something like a panic attack. i cant breathe right, my mouth is dry, my voice shakes, i start trembling etc...
are there any medications i can take for this?
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aw don't worry about it.. it's just stage fright it happen's to alot of people.. i used to get it to but all you have to do is focus 100% on what your doing and forget about the people infront of you or just don't look at them it helps to look past the crowd find a spot on the back walla to fucus on instead of the people there


whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
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theres absolutley nothing wrong with that i'm a freshman and im dating a junior its completely fine 2 years is no big deal at all


Ok, so last summer i started talking to this guy, we'll call him mark. We never met each other or anything, but we talked on the phone all the time. when school started we started dating the 2nd week. we broke up the day before our 3 month. Thing is, there wasnt really a reason, we just did it now so that the break up wouldnt be worse later. We were having a lot of fights and stuff though. Now, we still talk like normal and we talk about getting back together sometimes, and i want to. but he doesnt really know what he wants, our feelings for each other are still the same. but i just don't know if I can wait for him to make up his mind...and advice for what i should do? (link)
i'm going through the same thing right now so i'm gonna tell you what i was told. Tell him you'll wait as long as he needs for a desicion btu remind him of the fun you had together and tell him if he has any feelings for you at all that you should try again cause it obviously means the feelings aren't going away any time soon


what are some good punk bands, Im lookin for some hardcore shit... all I have right now is some distillers and a few songs from the gits
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misfits
murder dolls
korn
green day
mcr
papa roach
kiss
acdc
three doors down
system of a down
twisted
marylin manson


Hey Guys!!
Can you give me some songs about **LOVE yea i want stuff bout like how my boyfriend is good and how i feel about him.. I wouldn`t like any mariah carey or anyting new please.. nothin about breaking up either.. Thanks (link)
Protecting Me- Aly & Aj
Baby Boy- Big Brovas
Noly Wish- Britteny Spears (its christmas but its near that time)
I Turn To You- Christina Aguleria
Come To Me- Jesse McCartney
Take My Breath Away- Jessica Simpson
Butterflies Don't Lie- Kaci Brown
Until The Day I Die- Story Of The Year
It Happens Everytime- Dream Street
With All My Heart- Dream Street


Okay I'm 13/f and I have liked this one guy scince last year. Me and my one friend talked to him about it. He said that I'm prude and weird to my friend and when I asked him about it he said that He loves me and never would say that. Then he asked if I could give him a hand Job. At first I said sure but I didn't really feel like doing it becuase I was neruves. After that he asked my friend if I would let him eat me out and let him finger me. Then my friend asked me if I would and I said I dunno and she told him IDK[I odn't know] and then he asked if I would give him head[blow job]. I wanna do this stuff to him. Like I've fingured my self before and like I want him to do it. I'm just kinda worried. Would he like it shaved. Would he like me after. Should I do it?
13/f (link)
well i was in that same situation and i'm the same age as you so i know how hard it is but i wouldn't do anything with him just yet cause so far from what he said to your friend and from what he said to you their completely different and he may just be using you for his own pleasure. Before you make any more moves towards him find out if he really likes you. Have your friend ask if he really likes you but make sure your near-by when she asks so you can listen to what he says to see if he really does like you or if hes using you. If he says something mean then i'm sorry but you shouldn't do anything with him btu if hes nice and sweet about it and says he does like you then go ahead do what you want to! Go get him if that's the case!

I hope i helped you and good luck


Im making my boyfriend a mix cd of love for our 1 year ann. and i need to know some rock songs that are about love, my goals is 18 and i have 10
WILL RATE FIVES

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Seasons- Good Charlotte
Everytime- Simple Plan
Addicted- Simple Plan
Be My Escape- Relient K
Swing Swing- All American Rejects
Only one- Yellowcard
Memory- Sugarcult
First Date- Blink 182


Here goes my story I already know this girl for almost two years now and lately she is quite acting really wierd for the past three months now.. It goes like this I usually hear my name with one of her friends. Whenever I get close to her,her friends kinda laugh and they do some signallings with her. I usually catch her staring at me or doing eye contact.. And one thing she really cares for me like always keeps on telling me what things to do, What to wear and etc...At one time we have this contest about a play in English class.. At the back stage she suddenly said that she wants to put her hankerchief inside my pocket oh for pete's sake she could just put it inside her own pocket.. Im quite sure her pockets is empty.. And sometimes whenever I tease her she get's really mad Im mean not that Mad like in joking manner..and to top it all off when me and my classmates went on a practice at her house I notice something's wrong I noticed that all her relatives (ie, uncle,cousins,her mom) kinda smile at me and stared at me for a few seconds maybe she told her relatives about me. Well that's about it well I could put more examples but it's gonna be quite too long for just an advice hope this helps.. (link)
well i'm a girl and all of those signals deffinatly means that she likes you! Staring at you and her frineds doing little hand signals it's all secret code for "oh my god i like him" If you like her too start doing what she's doing get your own signals if you don't like her like that then just continue to be her friend and let her give you signals. Also if you want to know for sure that she likes you just ask a few of her friends and if they don't answer ask her face to face if she does. But in my view she does like you and there's no question about it.

Alisha


OUCH! I have terrible terrible cramps that keep me up at night and make me tear. Ive been in tears off and on..I REALLY NEED SOME HELP! Make these stop. Please help! Ill rate 5! Umm I cant go get any type of medicine like midol. Im stuck at home...so dont say that..HELP! (link)
just drink a lot of water and continue eating it really does work cause then your body is more focued on digesting and getting cooled down then causing you pain


i just ruined my friendship with a girl i know because she found out something i said...i mean, she still is my friend but she knows something i said that i didn't want her to. she pretty much knows i said it but not for sure...what do i do to make it up to her even though she is not mad i still want to do something nice

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i think its so cute that you want to make it up to her but if your willing to spend money then take her out somewhere as a little friendly i'm sorry night or get her something she really likes. If you are not willing to spend money than just write her an i'm sorry letter saying how much your sorry even though she says shes not mad at you and then maybe just walk with her and talk and help her with anything she needs again


my gf talks all the time on the phone about wanting to have sex and stuff, but when we're together she doesnt seem like it at all...any ideas? im sort of confused here (link)
well a lot of girls say things but then when it comes to a time when they could do the things they talk abouy they get to nervous or they begin to wonder if you want to do the same things. So either just ask her if she really wants to or if shes scared. Or you could just make the first moves and see how she feels after a little bit. Hope i helped



Is it normal for like you to get horny wen you look at like nude pics of the same pics? because like i dont really no if that means im bi or its just normal.. i rate good!! thanx

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yea its completely normal..don't worry about it and it doesnt mean your bi at all its just a normal thing that everyone does


i wanted to make my room over can you tell me wat should i put in it like bean bag chairs or like a lil table and a rug my walls are lite blue can you also give me some websites where i can get ideas i give 5s (link)
well if your walls are light blue then try and get a color combination going. For a carpet try and get a color that you really like but isn't blue cause then you'd be over doing it with one color. Then try and add some different colored beanbag chairs or a bufferfly chair. And to make your room look really cool maybe you could add some posters of your favorite bands or your favorite artists, and around your room you should put in some lights like one of those colored disco balls or a lava lamp or even a black light to make it look cool at night. good luck and i hope i helped


My boyfriend is getting back from his 3 week trip to Texas & when he gets back, I want to do something special for him. What can I do to show that I missed him & that I'm really glad he's back? (link)
well get a few close firneds of his and a few of clsoe frineds of yours and have a lil get together kind of like a party but not somethng like huge. Just somehtign enough to say welcome back and i missed you. Also you can get him something like a gift and a card saying i love you or missed you something like that.


my friends and i were talking and, i know it sounds dumb but i was raised kinda "good girlish" and they were raised kinda not. Well they always talk about things that i don't understand. i just wanted to ask what is sandwiching? and well theres other stuff but i'm too embarressed to ask so this is just fine. thanx..and don't make me feel anymore stupid than i already do. Please? (link)
dont worry about not knowing what some things mean. It not a big deal. but sandwiching is when 2 boys r dancing wiht a girl and the girl is in the middle or 2 girls dancing wiht a boy and the boy is in the middle its basicly just a dancing term. But if you have any other questions about whatthings mean you can ask me its not big deal and you dont have to feel embarassed about it.


what's a good love song that tells someone how much you love them and miss being with them! please help! (link)
we belong together- marieh carry ( i think i spelt her name wrong)

goin crazy- natelli

i'd do anything- simple plan

perfect world- simple plan

first time- Lil Corey

bottom of my broken heart- brittney spears

and if you wanan go really far back you can use-

the hardest thing- 98 degrees
or
all i have to give- backstreet boys

hope it helped


I am 13 and I have already had sex twice with my bf who is 15....people always say I am a huge slut and whore...stuff like that...but i dont think I am that much...i meen i thought I was ready so I had sex...what do you think?

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your deffinatly not a slut or whore people are retarded, if you though you were ready then hey its your choice not theres. And your only a slut if you go around fucking like 10 guys a week


13/f


hey i just really want a guy. im attractive and pretty popular but i cant get a guy! im in 7th grade.. ive asked out a couple of guys in 8th and they automatically say no because i think they think its a joke. one time i gave a guy a note saying it wasnt a joke and he never wrote back.. i guess he wasnt interested but idk what to do! idk how to apporach a guy that i dont know, and want to go out. i've had boyfriends before and all but its been real hard lately. could you help me please? i rate 5 on anything that answers. ~thanks~ (link)
well to start with dont jsut go right up to them and ask, always get to know the person first. So one day just randomly go up to a guy and start up a conversation but make a flirty talk you know like play with your hair and smile a lot then when you think you know them enough then see if they ask you first or you could go and ask them yourself. good luck




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