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Hey whattsupp, my names Erin, but i sign E whenever I answer a question. I'm a sophmore in high school. I used to run, but strained my back and now i'm done. I love track so if you need any help in that I'm your girl! I'm love giving advice and helping people with their problems. I've been through so much in 15 years, that I can pretty much help anyone. Feel free to ask me anything I'd rather tell you that i don't know than give you a bad or wrong answer.I love clothes so i'm best at answering questions about style or fashion. When I grow up I want to be either an actress or a fashion desighner. So these are my best subjects! Butt, I can help in pretty much all of them :). Please feel free to ask me anything, I'll ALWAYS answer to the best of my ability, and come on here as often as possible!
-E!
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I was wondering if you have to put in a urine/drug sample for a regular job at a pizza place or somthing like that. to see if you're on drugs. thanks!
That depends on the place. Most places tell you if they ate going to test you.
-E
I got my nails done (a full set) and they've grown out. I can't afford to get them filled or to go back to the place to get them removed. Last time, I tried tearing them off myself, but it took a week and they looked miserable. So is there anything cheap I can buy at that store that will take them off?
Soak them in nail polish remover. You can buy a $1.00 bottle, and still have some left over. It's the easiest and ceepest thing to do!
-E
so this person i am seeing says some of the most hurtful things to me. then goes out and does something all sweet, and thinks because he has done this wonderful thing it makes up for those hurtful things he says. is words i qoute " actions woman not words"
that is what he says when i confront him, what do i do? he never can talk serious when i bring up this stuff he starts acting like a child and making noises so he cant hear me! it frustrates me beyond belief! i have hadto tell him to grow up! wwhat happend to the man i met that was loving caring respectful ?
ps i am 21 female
Do you want a man that treats you like this? I know that you can find better than this.
You are in a relationship, your not getting paid. Therefore,e you SHOULDN'T be babysitting!
Tell this creep to get lost.
The man that you first met, is gone. Now you see his true colors, and you don't like it. SO why are you still with him?
Good luck!
-E
are there any other sayings like bro's before hoes? Like is there a saying like that for girls? And while I am asking this does anybody know where that came from?
The most common one that people ue/used is "chicks before dicks"
I think its funny!
It deffinetly makes sence and fits.
I have no idea where it started. I think that guys came out with theirs first,and then eventually, some girls made one. Its clever!
-E
can somebody please tell me what prude means? Somebody called me a prude, and I have no idea what it means but from the way they said it I can only assume I was supposed to be insulted by it.
Thank you
It means you don't do anything. Usually in the sexual way.
That you are scared, and (like others said) Goodie, Goodie. You don't like to get in trouble.
etc.
Hope I helped
-E
hey, I saw someone ask for jobs for 15-year-olds, so I thought I would ask are there any 13-year-old jobs? I can't find any! Can anybody help? My family really needs money!
You cannot work at a real place until you are 15. It is aganst the law, and even at 15 you still need a permit. I suggeest babysitting, mowing lawns, lemonade stand(not sure how sucessful this would be) etc.
Just stuff around the neighborhood.
Hope I helped!
-E
I usually have very clear skin I only get the occasional zit but sometimes I get those very big painful ones...
OF COURSE....I now have one right on the tip of my nose. I have a required class field trip this Saturday and I'm really attracted to this guy in my class it's gonna suck if I'm self conscious about my nose all day long.
It was still in the red stage, like before it turns into the kind that obviously can be popped...or so it looked....but just now I sort of squeezed it and it popped even though it didn't look ready.... So now I need help
Whats the best way to shrink it down by Saturday??? (It's Wednesday night) It doesn't have to be completely gone just gone enough to cover it up with make up and not be able to see it.
So I guess this is a two part question how do I get rid of the redness quickly??
And whats the best way to cover it up with make up??
Just wash your face twice a day. Try not to wear makeup-until the field trip. You don't want to clog that pore back up. If you pop it, and get all the puss out, it will be red but flat. and you can over up red, but not a bump.
Also, just rock it!
If you like this guy, and what stops him from liking you is a pimple? Then, he obviously only looks at magazines. EVERY girl gets pimples, and guys should understand that. Plus, do you want a guy who's that shallow?
Have confidence. That is what is key. That's what guys look for and what they like.
Hope I helpd!
-E
Hello (: In my drama class we are required to do a duo scene. My partner and I are both female, 17 years old, and we are having the most DIFFICULT time finding a scene. if ya'll could help that would be absolutely FANTASTIC! we dont have a preference to whether its a drama or comedy but it does need to be 8-10 minutes long from a full length contemporary play (1950-present day). and if you could... have lots of different choices for us to pick because we may have done that play before or someone else may be doing it. i know beggars cant be choosers but... im begging you!!!! HELPP! (: SO!! theather geeks.... drama nerds... band together and help us find a kick ass duo scene! pretty please? I LOVE YOU ALL!
xoxo fellow drama nerd :))
DRAMA NERD,, present.:)
Okay, so I'm on the speech team and this is usually what we need for a duo piece.
I do't know names, because, the best ones are from books of short stories/skits.
Go to amazon.com
type in what you want, I understand that you don't care-comedy/drama. But if you have an idea, your preformance will be so much better.
So, anyway, type in short stories and then a keyword like rape/abuse/funny/drama just random stuff.
THEN, because no one wants to spend money:), go to your public library and see if they have these books.
Thats what I do, and since my library has an online website that I can put holds on, it makes it all the more convienet.
IF all else fails, just go with the ones suggested below.
Hope I, kind of, helped?:)
-E
Does the Wave really work?
In short, no.
It does nothing special. It is a big waste of money. It does the same as a foaming clenser or just any clenser for that matter. Plus, clensers are cheeper.
So it is not worth the money.
-E
I really want to get my fake nails taken off. Does anyone know how you can remove them other than chipping them off and going to the nail place (not an option as of this moment)?
You can go to the local drug store and get a container that allows you to just soke your nails off. All that's in there is nailpolish remover so you could do it at home with a bowl and a bottle of remover ($1) as aposed to the plastic thing that I described before($5ish).
Hope I helped!!
-E
what flat iron do you reccomend?
I recomend the Chi. Works amazing!!
-E
Hi I wanted to answer your questions about your responds to my question of should I stay or leave?
To my boyfriends sibilings, he brother disliked me without ever talking to me and told my boyfriend that i wasnt worth my boyfriends time. His sister liked me or so i thought but now got under the impression that i was calling her brothers or at least one of them a jerk when i wasnt. I was talking about things going on in my life. My boyfriend is constantly fighting with his parents over our relationship. His mom doesnt seem to like me very much but doesnt say anything to me, his dad totally nuetral.
I dont think i have done anything to his family to hate me or even dislike me this much. I avoid talking to them because i know they dont like me but they somehow look for me on facebook, myspace and things like that and cause a scene on the internet. I dont know if any of this make any sense to you because it really doesnt to me.
Oh yeah in case you forgot the question in the first place i'm 18 and a girl.
Wow. This is weird. I have never heard of a family making their son, well basicly miserable. He doesn't want to upset them, yet he likes/lives you. I think you should ask them to start over. Go over there for dinner.
It's weird that the brother doesn't like you. Usually brothers are cool. I would suggest starting over with everything.
NEVER SAY ANYTHING OVER THE INTERNET. It doesn't go away and they can show each other what you say- causing more hatred. Don't accept their friend requests on social sites. They shouldn't be creeping on you. Also, since you can send messages without bring friends, if they do send you a message, DO NOT respond. Don't start problems. Put your profile on privite.
So it is a lot of work. But I guess it comes down to how much you like your boyfriend. Are you willing to work at it. Is he the one?
These are questions you need to ask yourself. Let me know if you need help with this or anything else.
P.s I just remembered you said you are 18, you are going to college. Are you going to stay with him? Do you think you guys will last? Do you see a future with this guy? --- more questions!!!!
-E
A few years ago I got married to my darling husband. He's really a wonderful man but I wasn't ready for a baby then. Two of my best friends have BOTH just become pregnant and it makes me realize that I'd like to be pregnant now as well. I am ready to have my first baby but I don't know how to tell my husband now. When we got married he really wanted to have a baby right away and I told him how I didn't want that to happen so he was very disappointed.
He is only going to be happy. He obviously wants kids, and respects that you wanted to wait.
No reason to be scared, he wants kids.
Just walk up to him and tell him you would like to try and have kids. Just flat out tell him.
Make a nice dinner, and tell him. It doesn't really matter where or how, as long as you do it.
And yes, do it in person.
-E!
so ive been dating this guy for coming on 6 months not we are really close and we get along perfect.unfortunetly we dont go to the same school... at his school he has a friend that is a girl. lets call her...kim. anyways so kim has told him that he finds him cute and that his girlfriend (me) is the luckiest girl in the world.. also she is constantly wrighting in his face book wall and texting him.. she claims that she really wants to meet me and hangout with me but for some reason it really bothers me.
am i just being over protective? what should i do?
She does obviously like him, and wants to hang out with you to get dirt or something.
Go ahead if you want, but everyone is right, you need to trust your boyfriend that nothing will happen between them.
They are friends, so don't force him to not talk to him, but let him know that you feel she likes him. But not in an accusing way, just concerned.
It's totally okay for it to bother you. You are human. YOU ARE A GIRL. It happens.
Meet her if you want, be careful what you say. Don't trust her.--She is not your new BFF.
But let your boyfriend know how you are feeling, maybe ask him if you two should hang out.
Hope I helpe!
-E
my young neighbour has an interview, prob is she whilst working at tesco picked a sandwich off the shelf, walked to the canteen at lunch time, and ate it!! She says she looked for a supervisor to sign for the sandwich, and could not find one, because I guess she did not have the wit to plan her lunchtime needss properly.
She also says that on her way to find a supervisor after her lunch in tesco time not hers as hers is limited, a supervisor found her, and challenged her.
No real challenge. She was given the option of handing in her notice after four years service, or being sacked for gross misconduct. She gave her notice in, got another job several weeks later sacked because of bad reference from tesco. Now some months later she has another interview for another job what can she do re references. Does she have a leg to stand on?
When you write your references on the application, check the box for them not to contact them. Both of them. Because if they call the one that says that she had a bad reference from the one store they will be curious and want to call.
If for some reason there is not a plcae to say do not contact, maybe don't put the phone numbers down.
Try to give them no way to contact these places without saying you have no experience. So show that you worked there, but it is not important as to why you left.
Hope I helped!
-E
My friend called to tell me that Ricky Martin has come out of the closet and has announced being gay but I just can't believe it. I'm a HUGE Ricky Martin fan, and have been since Livin' La Vida Loca came out, but this is a shocker. If he is REALLY gay then how did he have two boys? I know his twins are just a couple of years old or something...wow! Is he REALLY homosexual?
Yes, he is. It has been a controversy for years. Just because he is gay, does not mean that he would not be with a women. Maybe he was experimenting, and got her pregnent. Or, he was trying to cover it up by being with a women and she ended up pregnent.
It really is not a big deal. It is nice that all of his fans are sticking by him. I hope that this does not change the fact that you like his talent.
-E
Hello i recently got married and my husband has pointed out that i argue with him a lot. I've noticed it too. Whenever he says something or points something out i always have to argue with him and tell him he's wrong. Like for example today he was telling me about a certain breed of dogs and their behavior and immediately without even thinking i started arguing saying thats not true. I've never been like that before. Also i tend to pick fights and get mad easier. Does anybody know why this is and how to fix it? I'm doing my best but i still pick fights and i dont want it to ruin my marriage :(
Thanks!
When something is of no importance, like the dog thing, just let it go. Don't comment. I do realize that you said you weren't even thinking, but try to think about things before you say it.
When you disagree with him say, "really?" as in explain more, so that i can see why you think that.
Also, let him know that you are going to try and work on this--so that he knows that you are trying and can't get mad if you do pick arguments, because you are trying to change.
Ask him to help point out when you do it. It will help you to understand why. Maybe, its because you are in a bad mood, the topic, or the situation.
Do something like, whenever you do it you have to give your husband a massage. Or something to motivate you to stop, but make him okay with you picking fights. Does that make sence?
Hope I helped!
-E
I'm 18 years old and a girl. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half. We dont really fight much but when we do its usually about his family. They dont like me at all. Which i think its fine doesnt bother but what i dont like is that they want me to respect them when their constantly saying things about me and mean things to me. His older brother who's 23 calls me immature and tells me i need to grow up. He's always making fun of me and once he even said he's gonna burn his clothes because he touched me. if that isnt bad enough my boyfriends sister hates me too now i called someone a jerk and she thought i meant her brother and now is giving a bunch of crap when it didnt even deal with their family.
I'm tired of all theses things and i really dont know if i should break up with my boyfriend or just tell his siblings to butt out of it? Anybody got advice for me??
I wouldn't leave your boyfriend over this. Sit him down and talk to him. The other person is right, it is his place to say something. He needs to show that he cares what they say about you. It is rude on their parts, and they should know better. Even if he says something like "I am happy with her, and you guys need to deal with it", that would help. They just need to respect you. I do think you need to have some sort of respect for them--and given the circumstances, I understand why you don't. I'm curious as to why they don't like you. Did you do something? Maybe you did something that you didn't realize upset them. --I am not trying to put the blame on you, because them treating you this way is wrong. I think you should tell your boyfriend that you don't want to leave him, but you can't deal with this stuff anymore. Say that he needs to say something. And if he refuses, tell him that you are not sure that you can deal with it anymore. It is hard to constantly be around that negative energy.
If you did want to say something to his siblings, simply sit them down and just talk to them. Just be like, can we start over. If they say no, then say that you would rather avoid each other. Where you are not talking about each other, and you try not to interact with them unless you have too.
How are the parents to you? Do they see this, and say something? Or, do they agree with the feeling of hatred towards you?
If in a while, nothing changes then you should seriously consider if you want to be around this behavior. You diserve a boyfriend who can stick up to people for you.
Hope I helped
and if you need anymore help, feel free to leave a question in my inbox!
-E
So for two years, ive always dyed my own hair from kits from the store. Well, my hair ended up developing this orange tint to it. So i said enough was enough, and decided to save my money up to get it professionally highlighted. I tried to get these platinum blonde highlights, but it turned out even worse becase.. 1) the lady didnt even do a good job and 2) because my hair still had this orange tint to it. So my question is - how do i get rid of the orange color? I cant just wait for my hair to grow out. Ive decided to get light brown and blonde highlights at a DIFFERENT salon this time in April. But is there a way they can get rid of all the gold/orange tones in my hair FIRST? (Instead of just dying over it.) If so, how much do you think it will cost?
They would probably have to strip your hair of the color, die itg all brown then put highlights in. Pretty lengthy process. Going to be expensive because each step can cost anything around $80-$100. I would call the salon you are planning to go to ask about prices. Then, ask to speak to a hairdresser. See what the person says/thinks about your situation. Then if you like what they say they can do. Then make an appointment with the person you talk too.
Hope I helped!
-E
I'm 16 and I was supposed to get my driving permit. I just realized that I have to get it in literally within the next three days or else I won't get my license on my birthday because you have to have your permit for six months. If I get my permit about a week after than I'm supposed to, how long after will it be until I get my license? Because apparently if you don't get it before the six months you have to wait a looong time. I hope it's not too long :/ Anyone know?
In my state it is 9 months you have to have your permit. I do know that if you get your permit 3 days late, so you wouldn't get your license until 3 days after your 16th birthday. You don't have to wait a long time, you just have to wait the time that it takes for you to complete the 6 months of having your permit.
-E