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Should i stay or leave?
Hi I wanted to answer your questions about your responds to my question of should I stay or leave?
To my boyfriends sibilings, he brother disliked me without ever talking to me and told my boyfriend that i wasnt worth my boyfriends time. His sister liked me or so i thought but now got under the impression that i was calling her brothers or at least one of them a jerk when i wasnt. I was talking about things going on in my life. My boyfriend is constantly fighting with his parents over our relationship. His mom doesnt seem to like me very much but doesnt say anything to me, his dad totally nuetral.
I dont think i have done anything to his family to hate me or even dislike me this much. I avoid talking to them because i know they dont like me but they somehow look for me on facebook, myspace and things like that and cause a scene on the internet. I dont know if any of this make any sense to you because it really doesnt to me.
Oh yeah in case you forgot the question in the first place i'm 18 and a girl.
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Wow. This is weird. I have never heard of a family making their son, well basicly miserable. He doesn't want to upset them, yet he likes/lives you. I think you should ask them to start over. Go over there for dinner.
It's weird that the brother doesn't like you. Usually brothers are cool. I would suggest starting over with everything.
NEVER SAY ANYTHING OVER THE INTERNET. It doesn't go away and they can show each other what you say- causing more hatred. Don't accept their friend requests on social sites. They shouldn't be creeping on you. Also, since you can send messages without bring friends, if they do send you a message, DO NOT respond. Don't start problems. Put your profile on privite.
So it is a lot of work. But I guess it comes down to how much you like your boyfriend. Are you willing to work at it. Is he the one?
These are questions you need to ask yourself. Let me know if you need help with this or anything else.
P.s I just remembered you said you are 18, you are going to college. Are you going to stay with him? Do you think you guys will last? Do you see a future with this guy? --- more questions!!!!
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