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i have these reddish bumps on my arm. some other girls/guys i know have it too...i was just wondering what it was called. my doctor told me that people are born with it and it is not contagious but it can't be cured. what is this called? is there a website about it?
hey, well i used to know what it was called, but im not sure if i still do. it begins with a "k". like kiloparlarius or something. hold on let me google it. im sorry, but i cant find it. hopefully another advicenator will read what i wrote and it will ring a bell with them. also why dont you ask your doctor what its called?
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I am 13 years of age. I have been put in a situation where I could have sex. I really like the guy and I think he likes me. I am not sure if I should have sex with him or not. I really want to. I need advice. HELPPP!!
hey, well this is a stupid question. if your asking us on advicenators if you should have sex, than that just proves to all of us that your too immature and not ready to have sex.
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Tonite I am going to a party with my boyfriend. We haven't had sex or any thing yet but he says he wants to do anal tonite. The only reason I'm nervouse is because I feel like it will hurt. What position should I be in so that it is not as painful? Also what other stuff can I do with him tonite to not stop after we do anal?
hey, i agree with the girl below. also let me add in that ifyour nervous about it, your not ready. sexual things should come naturally and you shouldnt feel like you have to do anything that you dont want to.
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any cheap stores that have styles like charlotte russe or forever 21 things?
hey, gadzooks.
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theres this guy that i think i like: but im not positive because he goes from liking one girl to another sooo fast and he acts totally diffrent towards me when he likes me and were just friends: its like when he likes me were BESTFRIENDS and are sooo inseprable: then when he likes someone else hes like that with the other girl and i start liking him everytime he starts acting like he likes me i start liking him: i even went out with him once but things didnt really work out: because i had softball basically everyday and we didnt really have time for eachother and like we havee soooo much in common and i get really upset everytime he likes me then just kind of goes on to someone else
what do i do? just let this keep happening?
hey, you like him. trust me. you just dont like the things he does like switches from girl to girl. talk to him straight forward. say i like you, but i dont like how you switch from girl to girl. we can either give us a shot with no strings attaches, or i try to move on.
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15/f
I am also looking to do modeling...but i live in Maine, and there are like no places...
Im 5'9, and i weight about 119lb, and everyone tells me i should model, but im sure how to get started..any advice?
hey, try barbizion. pro scout is always good for portfolios.
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I am a 34 year old female, and I just met this woman that i like, and my best friend of 6 years is now jelous and says she is in love with me. I do love her as well but i never thought she looked at me that way. But recently i met this other woman, who i like I dont want to hurt her feelings, but i want to give my bf a chance too. Sounds crazy i know but what should I do. I dont want to lose my bf because of this woman, that would be too much for me. How do I break it off without hurting her?
hey, well sometimes the truth hurts. always put yourself first. let the lady off whos interested in you easy. yes, she will be upset, but her happiness is not worth you loosing your true love.
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Ok I'm 16 and a female. It's summer and all i can do is think about this one boy. Does anybody know what i could do? I really like him and im not really sure if he likes me back. He's usually at my bus stop and lives on the street right behind me! Please Help!!! Thank You All!!!
hey, well this is a stupid question. your asking us on this website if somebody that we dont know likes you. you need to ask him stragiht up if he likes you or not and tell him that you like him. point blank.
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okay. this may be a tricky one, or i just may be stupid to not have figured it out. my ex-boyfriend & i went out back in november for about 3 months & broke up. then we went out for another month in like april / may. we broke up when we had this huge fight but i wasn't too upset about it at the time, but ya know the whole you don't know what you got till it;s gone. obviously he felt the same way because this other guy asked me out, & when i said yes my ex was like all "i want you back". i still loved him but like i needed a change. when me & the other guy broke up about 2 weeks later my ex asked me out. again. although one of my friends liked him & we were all going to a party at her house & i didn't want it to be awkward between us, but he said he didn't like her, & we weren't that good friends. so i told him that of coruse i'd go out with him, but not until the party which was 2 days later. BIIIGG mistake. at the party, all these guys "forced" my ex into asking the girl out, a likely story. but anyway he told me he didn't really like her, but when they broke up he didn't want me anymore. that was like 3 weeks ago. since then , or since november!, i haven't been able to get him out of my mind. i want him back. i need him back. & don't just say to give up because i know that'd be the logical thing to do, but i'm willing to work for this. please give me some tips to get him back! =\
hey, well you got it right when you said the logical thing to do would be to give up. it really needs to be done. he plays with your head way too much. no guy is worth that much, especially if you guys had issues before. if your heart is really set on giving him ONE more chance, think about why you guys ended it before. if he cheated on you, i take that give him another chance back. that to me is ridiculous. if it was for other various reasons, maybe try it ONCE more. if i were you, i would just give up tho.
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when is the best time to apply for a job? like at the usual places teens work: fast food stores, ice cream stores, mall, etc.
before the summer is one time, right? b/c the almost-college grads will have free time and also during the school year in the fall? b/c they go back to college?
hey, yes. right before back to school, so that all the college kids go back to school. =]
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what the heck is a fitted shirt?
hey, haha you made me laugh. a fitted shirt is a shirt that it fitted tightly to your body. you know, like a tight shirt.
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my right ear.
it really hurts.
i had a silver earring in it for like 1 month
i never took it out.
[idiot me]
so i finally took it out cause my ear was starting to hurt.
and it was really hard
both my ear and earring were extremely dirty.
so i figured great an infection
so i put some ear cream on and gold earring to not get infection
now like 10 days later my ear is killing me again
whats happening?
hey, are you sure the earring wasnt nickel? nickel is common for bothering peoples ears. find out and let me know. then i can help =].
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whenever my boyfriend comes over, he and my mom will sit and talk forever. and for some reason this makes me sooooo mad! he's so irritating cuz its like he's trying to show off and impress her with all these stories about himself. and she listens to him and laughs like he's the funniest person she ever met. my mom says he's just trying to make a good impression because he likes me so much. and she says she only listens to him because his own parents pretty much ignore him (which is true) and she's just trying to be nice. but it still really bothers me, and i'm not sure why. i know i could join in their conversation, but instead i just get mad. why does this bother me so much?
hey, well i understand her point of view. that was how my mother was with my ex boyfriend. dont talk to your mother about it, talk to your boyfriend. let him know that it bothers you. if he knows it doesnt make you happy, im sure that he will cut down. talking to your mother was pointless, it doesnt make your boyfriend cut down on the talking. people cant fix what they dont know that there doing wrong.
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16/f
i stayed with one of my friends monday night and we were watching a movie but she fell asleep before it went off and her brother walked by and saw me by myself and asked me why i wasnt asleep yet because it was like around mindnight. i told him i wasnt really that tired and i couldnt fall asleep yet and he asked me if i wanted to come play ps2 with him in the living room and i said sure. well, were playing and all of a sudden he put his hand on my inner thigh and like started rubing but he was still looking at the tv. ive had a crush on him for like a year so i scooted closer and he moved his hand so he could put his fingers under my shorts. i cant really remember exactly how it happened but we ended up fooling around until aorund three but we didnt have sex. well then tuesday before i left that afternoon some girl came over and picked my friends bro up and she said it was his gf and i didnt even know he had one so now i feel really bad but is it really even my fault? i mean, he knew he had a gf and i didnt. isn't it his responsibility to tell me had a gf and he made the first move so waht to do? sorry its so long.
hey, well to me it sounds like you got used. i mean you were an easy target. his younger sisters teenage friend alone at midnight with his sister sleeping. i wouldnt even talk to him ever again. hes an asshole. if he ever does try to talk to you first again, ask him why he didnt let you know that he had a girlfriend. well first make sure that your 100% sure that he really does have a girlfriend. also if he ever trys to fool around with you again, dont give in.
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you know how there are the outer lips and the inner lips? well, myinner lips kind of peek out of the outer ones all the time. is that normal?
hey, yep. your not an alien, your normal =].
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Sorry this is long!! I am 14/f and I am going into high school. I like this one boy that I went to grade school with. We were at this party and we wre playing truth or dare and I dared him to tell who he likes. He looked at me and was like i like someone who is sitting right in this circle. I was thinking omg i think its me cause when he was saying it he was looking directly at me and was smiling. Then i said who is it he said um its tara. Ouch did that hurt! but my friend says she thinks that he is lying but i dunno i felt sometimes that he liked me. he told me he i am the only one he can talk to about anything and he trusts me. But the problem is we are really good friends now i am stuck in "just friends" and i would never want to ruin our great friendship. what should i do?
hey, well i understand how you would not want to ruin your friendship with him, but then again there goes that word friendship. the word that you just said that you dont want to be stuck at. you need to tell him that you like him. yes, its a bold and confident move and you might not be bold or confident, but it needs to be done. trust me, if you dont do it youll just be stuck wondering what if i did and what could have happened if i did, and i know that you wouldnt want that. sometimes guys are super shy and dont want you to know that they like you, thats why you can tell him that you like him first because then if he likes you, he wont be afraid to say so because there is no rejection involved. believe it or not, guys are totally afraid of rejection. its actually one of there worst fears and thats what usually stops what could have been a good reliatonship, because the guy is too afraid to ask the girl out and the girl doesnt make the first move. dont let that happen to you. guys also love confident girls, so be confident! oh yes, also if he doesnt end up liking you after you confess to liking him, dont worry. it might be akward at first, but let him know that your not going to let it ruin the friendship that you two have or bring you down. let him know that your perfectly fine with it, even if your not. good luck. =]
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if your boyfriend cant get it up does it mean hes not attracted to you?
also if he cums real fast, will he ever get better?
hey, well i talked to my guy friend and he said that thats true. he says for girls that he doesnt find attractive, he cant get it up for. yes, its possible for a guy to get better. the cumming really fast comes from inexperience with sex (only having sex once or maybe twice), or just being a virgin totally.
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i need new hair styles pictures and directions would be nice -- thanks
hey, well magazines like seventeen and cosmogirl give step by step pictures and directions. try going through those and see if you find any good ones.
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Okay well I guess I should describe myself before asking for advice.
Well I am 16/f and I'm Asian.
Anyways, now that we have that out of the way, I've been interested in dancing, especially hip hop, breakdancing(yes the typical asian move there XD) and etc.
I can't really take classes because I can't get a ride so I got some dvd's like Laurie Ann Gibson one and the one where they teach moves from 'you got served'
So what I wanted to learn more was how to krump, poplock, and breakdance. I mean there's instructional dvd for hip hop but there really isnt any for pop lock and krumping.
And I can learn breakdance by my boyfriend later on.
Actually I can get taught how to pop lock by my boyfriend because he's really good but I kind of wanna surprise him.
And I heard this kid in my school learned how to Krump all on his own.
So How can I learn all those?
hey, try searching on youtube. they usually have everything.
http://www.youtube.com
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So I really like this show called "the best years" and its really new. It just premiered yesterday. So anyways the main actress, charity shea (that's her real name) well I like her hair a lot. And I wanna get my hair cut like hers. So I went on google but there no pics of her with straight hair so the person cutting my hair could see what it was cut like, so if anyone can find me pics of her with straight hair or w.e then thank u sooo much
hey, i think this is straight enough.
http://images.filmmagic.com/images/tnm/5899146.jpg
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