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Torn between 2 people.
I am a 34 year old female, and I just met this woman that i like, and my best friend of 6 years is now jelous and says she is in love with me. I do love her as well but i never thought she looked at me that way. But recently i met this other woman, who i like I dont want to hurt her feelings, but i want to give my bf a chance too. Sounds crazy i know but what should I do. I dont want to lose my bf because of this woman, that would be too much for me. How do I break it off without hurting her?
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I think you need to talk to your best friend. You need to ask her why all of a sudden she's decided that she loves you. Maybe she is jealous of the other woman you met. You should let your friend know, that she will always be the first in your life, whether you two stay friends or start a relationship. It's important that you talk to her and try to determine if she really does like you or not, or if she's just a little jealous.
You shouldn't have to feel like you have to choose between this woman and your best friend. And that's exactly what you should tell your friend. Honestly, you should do what YOU want to do. If you want to date this other woman, go ahead! Your best friend should respect your choice no matter what. But if you want to try a relationship with your best friend, then that's okay too.
As for the other woman, you can just tell her that you like her a lot, but you need some time to think things over, that you're having some problems and second thoughts, and you really don't think you can be in a relationship with her right now. After that, it's up to you if you want to date your best friend or not.
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hey, well sometimes the truth hurts. always put yourself first. let the lady off whos interested in you easy. yes, she will be upset, but her happiness is not worth you loosing your true love.
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I would choose the best friend. You have known herlonger than this other woman. If you go for the wrong woman, you might uncover secrets about this stranger beacsue you didn't know her as well as your best friend.
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