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Hi im just your average teenage girl whose friends are in different groups. Last year one of my friends made my other friend cry (not purposely) and I was just the silent watcher. So now this year how do I get along with one friend without leaving the other behind? Even if my friends both don't like eachother.
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i have this problem a lot. im not one to boast but i do have quite a lot of friends and they are all split into different groups. the only thing i know how to do is spend some time with certain groups of people and rotate it. the worst is when you want to go out with someone and then other groups dont like it. if they are a true friend, they should stand by you know matter what and it shouldnt matter who you are friends with.
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I've found that the only way to keep friends in different groups or cliques is to separate your time with each of them equally, if that makes sense. In other words, just hang out with them equally. If one mentions the other- change the subject or just shrug the subject away. Don't schedule things with both of them. If both want to hang out on a particular day, hang out with one, and then if it happens again, hang out with the other group. If you have to chose, I would personally chose the girl who was "bullied" I guess you would say. She probably wants to see that you still support her and that you are still her friend.
Good luck!
--Jack
(15/m)
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i had the EXACT problem this year. what i did was divide up time between them. During lunch i would sit with them on different days. Also make sure they know you are friends with both of them, becasue at the starting i made the mistake of keeping it on the down low and it got me in trouble. And also dont try to force a friendship between them, unless they act as though they want to be friends with eachother...good luck :)
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I would mabey try to get them to get along and go bowling together or something fun like that.
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