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Q: 15 f

i have to work and go to summer school at the same time. school ends at 200 and i enter work at exactly 255 or even 3 but no more then that. so like she told me that if im late to work then shes late also and she cant be late under no circumstances!. so i dont really know how i am going to do this. i also want to know like approximately how long it will take me from school to her house so i can babysit her son. is there a website that i can jsut put the 2 adresses and it can tell me how long it will take me? thanks so much!

mapquest.com

Q: Also, what does it mean when someone has medium texture?

coarse hair is thick and real textured.
medium texture is just between, so not to textured but still is textured some. hope im not to confuseing

Q: i'm 17, i'm a guy, i've never been kissed, i've never had a girlfriend, i really don't have any kind of friends, i have speech problems, i've got social disorders, my face is a wreck, i don't leave my room because my face is a wreck, i hate 95% of the people in my school, i hate society and the nature of human beings, my life is trash and i'm completely nonexistent in the world. thats not the worst part though. the truth is, i really am one of the nicest kids you will ever meet when i'm not having to battle with my social problems and i'm a good looking kid too when i don't have acne. when i was acne free girls that i never met before told me that i look like johnny depp's twin but the acne won't go away and it has alot to do with me wasting away my high school years. over the last few months i had been talking to amazing girl and getting kind of close with her. seriously, she's better than anything i could have drawn up. she loves metal, in fact metallica, pantera, and tool are some of her favorite bands, she's got dyed black hair, wears black all the time, she's quiet like me, absolutely perfect but recently i messed that up completely. any color i had in my life has faded away and gone and i find it hard to believe that i can get it back. does anybody have any answers for me? i don't know where you would possibly start butany advice would be helpful.

i never been kissed never had a boyfriend dont have much friends i have mood disorder i hate about 95%of my school im real nice. some people do not understand you if your having trouble like that. but all you say is not real bad at all you have acne so you stay inside? i had acne i cleaned it then sealed it then put coverup over it although i dont think you should wear makeup. you dont have friends because you dont make them you sit inside. go talk to people. im quiet too. someone does somthing to you do worse back or just tell them to fuck off. a guy became my bestfriend, then we liked eachother, then loved, then his other reall close friend and i got real mad then we were pretty much forced to stay away. i lost my bestfriend to love. and your amazing girl is hard rock HC like me, id want my best friend back then patch things up then i want him not to shy off if someone says something bad about either of us hed leave, id want him to know something about what i like, and act a little like me just A LITTLE for me to notice. chances are shes wondering how to fix things also. you sound like a good guy. not like most guys. i might add later g2g fix my life

Q: im 14 female, 5 feet 7 inches tall, and weigh about 119.. and i overweight?

ur underweight its 5 lbs for every inch.

Q: my boobs really just started growing last year and this year and i'm a 34 b now. i have these redish purpleish lines on them that are all over them. i hate it cause i can't wear a bathing suit top that revels a little or wear a low cut shirt cause they are seen. any ideas on what they are, will they go away and how long will they be there?

their stretch marks use lotion. when you wear a suim suit use liquid make-up foundation. hope i helped

Q: What should I include in my thank you letter addressed to those who interviewed me during a job interview?

thank you for giving me a chance thanks for your time. thanks for the interveiw. dono what else

Q: My friends ALL tell me I'm emo.
I don't dress any particular way, I wear random stuff, and nobody else I know would DARE dress like me.
I am really down a lot, and I have contemplated suicide more than once[and planned it].
I really hate people saying I'm emo, because I don't mean to. How can I stop??
Unfortunately, the other side of me is that I'm "really smart" but I'm also a complete ditz. I never get whats going on around me, because I'm so caught up in what I'm thinking.
Yet, I also have weird sensory crap going on. I am really really sensitive, and I can tell right away if something's wrong with those I'm close to, even if they're not there. I get feelings telling me to call them.
Someone HELP. I am so sick of feeling alone.
Suicide is on the table again, but I'm trying not to. PLEASE HELP!

join the club...they say im emo to but i am not at all im in no way EMOtional. emo is just short for emotional. everyone says if your suicideal your emo its wrong. sensitive is emotional. i wear random stuff therefor im random now emo also lol nobody dresses like me. you cant stop being urself. lifes a bitch. they say it to break you. they dont know any emo people. so they say anyone along the fuckn guidlines is but no not everyone is. if you cut your wrists thell never shut up wear arm warmers. tell them to fuck off. most people say emos are suicidal cutters, cry for hours all day, only get emo hair cuts, wear all tight jeans, and are plain emotional. if you do any of that theyll say it. tell them to fuck off or use guilt their your friends they should leave you alone unless its in a joking way. my friends and i do and say anything to eachother beat up cuss out everything but you gata love them. if its joking tell them to stop..ill write more later.

Q: ok be warned this is a crazy unusual question and i would really appreciate it if you take it seriously. i am looking for anyone who knws about anything concerning getting a new identity....

so ok i am 21/f from a very traditional yameni family. and i really really really want to change my identity (even go as far as my nationality). i have no control over my life what so ever. i am not here to talk about that i just want to know who or how or where i can find the rite sources to just escape and start a new beginning. i know it sounds like i am asking for something impossible out of the movies. but it's not uncommon for girls with my situation to actually fake a death (fire, drowning...etc) and flee... i just don't know how to do it.................. so if anyone knows....

to fake a death you could...
fall in water make a comotion and get away as fast as possible ~or~ in the water hide under something for a while like a dock or something then later on leave fast as possible(i did this but to leave for a week).
you could start a fire then just keep running-at night probly.
hide for a while as you are wrighting out your new life, so you dont trip in your words if you teel it.
get a haircut die your hair change your clothes style.
to set a calaus deeply wet your hands then take a match or something very hott then touch it till it swells a bit NOT ALOT then use cold water.
if your going into it that far id say switch countries but i just do states.
...im good at this kinda stuff my life is worse then anything possible. this is what i do and how i do it...im serious and i do this but dont tell anyone theyd probly know me in the US. i hope i help at all

...parents didnt look for me only my best friend thats a guy.no one else noticed me gone for about that week.drowning there was one witness who didnt think about it but told my parents. idk for a job i just brought money. how would you be a terrorist ur just innocent? ......anything else

Q: does getting your cartilage in your ear hurt to get pierced?

no it doesnt hurt. but people do have pain differences if thats what you call it. its not any different than getting your lobe or anywhere else peirced. only eyebrow actually hurts cuz they practically grab ur eye.lol

Q: Hey so summer's here and so i wanna know what types of clothes are in this summer. I know baby doll dresses with flats are in but i was wondering what color dresses go with what color flats besides white or black. I also wanna know what other summer apparel you guys love this season or a must-have item. Thanks! Any advice on what to buy and how to put together would be great! Links and pictures would also be much appreciated.

my friends and i love cut up jean skirts shorts and jeans, and layer lotsa rib tanks, swim trunks, band tanks, mismatched sandals, big jewry, dresses and jeans, arm warmers, lacey flats or low flats with shoe strings, anything circles skulls solid poka-dotted or striped, neon nail polish, big purses...and i like nothing to match and tight shirts and baggy skirts jeans and shorts.
the types of clothing thats in is what ever you like or you could folllow eevveerryybbooddyy else.like a robot.lol.add your own twist to everythin thats 'in'.
colors~black, purple, neons, silver, white, red, yellow, orange. all colors mixed or alot of them.
wearing all one color in the summer is boring mix everything. mix up your shoes wear one the main color of your shirt and the other the main color of the bottoms you wear.
must have item is ribbed tanks, big jewry, big purses.
you could mix any colors but dont put red and purple right on top of eachother its called red hat oldies lol dont.
the pictures idk how to add...but look in aero and hot topic and H&M and new york fashions.
~hope i helped~

Q: so im having a birthday party tomorrow night, me and 6 gfs are going in a limo into like this beachy city, out to dinner and shopping and stuff, it should be really fun. ive gone thru a rough 2 years .. and everytime something is supposed to be fun, it's not. it's my birthday today, and i dont feel happy. i feel just so tired and upset by everything going on, it happens alot. how can i just let loose and have fun? i wanna forget whats happened and move on, but i just cant. pleaseee help

call your friends over early. im always depressed till i see my friends then im fine. if your anything like me youll feel so much better by the time...thats what i always do. you should have fun, come on your shopping. happy birthday woot woot! lol ive been talking to my friends all day today and still am and i can tell im a depressed bitch people call me. friends save your life especially mine. have fun blast the stereos!

Q: i want to get my eyebrows done. but the problem is my mom thinks my eyebrow are fine and she won't let me tweez, thread or even wax them! what should i do to convice her to let me get my eyebrows done?

tweeze them yourself if she notices to late you already did it. so what. i do it myself my mom still never noticed. ~or~ you could mess them up make them look bad and just say you really want them to be more normal if your mom thinks they look bad if you mess them up alot shell get them fixed. lol i did that.
i say just do it yourself.

Q: Like my title says: is there a cheaper and more "original" subsitute for American Eagle?

FYI I live in central NJ (USA), so don't give me stores indigenous to the cali area.

khols
gordmans
platoe's closet
marshalls

Q: ok well u say to get to know him...i talked to him almost every nite on aim for 2 hours about random stuff and we laugh and watch tv together...hes like the best friend that is a guy ive ever had...he tends to like be "flirtatious" with girls alot even if hes just friends with him.....i cant tell if what he does with me is true or just him being himself(he puts his arm around me and talks, tells me all eve ngirls he likes or if he is weird, i played chiken with him and he asked me...he grabbed my feet in the pool and pulled me towards him and he was like walking on my feet afterschool--weird huh? i really like him and im afraid to break up with my bf because ive never done it before i dont kno what to do and im nto sure if i shud just say J things have been slightly weird do you like me...what to do??

when my best friend liked me i just asked him who he liked the first time he said someone i have always know and you know very well then the next day i asked him again and he said me. then he asked me and i said him...but we never went out we didnt wana loose our friendship but we lost both. and he always flirted with most girls to. just say to him who do you like when your by yourselves orr with your friends NOT infront of everyone. just ask him. and who do you like more. and would you rather have him as a close friend or a bf. hope i helped

Q: i wanna lose my belly

but how?

do crunches, situps, run or walk

Q: Does anyone know where I can get like lime green nail polish and maybe some other like electric and bright colors. Any help is appreciated. Thanks.

clairs
walmart
bath and body
walgreens

Q: i have this project and i need to get 100 people to do this four question survey. me and my friends already got some people, but it will be very helpful if you answered these questions to increase the numbers.. seriously, this will take you like less than a minute to type!~ :]

1.Would you rather eat skittles or M&Ms?
2.What is your favorite kind of chocolate? White, Milk, or Dark?
3.Which would you like to have inside a chocolate bar? Nuts, caramel, or fudge?
4.What is your favorite flavor of starburst? Yellow, Orange, Pink, or Green?

thanks for answering! remember to choose one, and in your answer do something like the sample below:

1. skittles/m&ms
2. white/milk/dark
3. nuts/caramel/fudge
4. yellow/orange/pink/black

again, thankyou!

1 m&m
2 milk
3 nuts
4 pink
lol they do have black starburst most think its sick but i like it

Q: how do i show this guy that i like from school that i like him but i wont ask him out..at least not just yet. how can i at least lead him on that i like him...but the thing is that i think he likes me back well thats what lots of people think..but i need ways to flirt with him and show that i really do like him....thanks alot [ :

how id do it~
tell him straight up
tell him through a note or email or aim
how most would~
get someone else to tell him
drop a note saying it all
drop hints or flirt
playing zap ask him out
go to a party and make it happen
~to lead him on~
flirt
make jokes
ask if theres anyone he likes then tell him you like him
go to the movies with alot of people and sit with him
be yourself and get noticed
~hope i helped~

Q: hi, im a 17 year old girl, and ive been talking to this guy for a while. and im really interested in him and i think he is in me. we are going on a date today. we would have a couple weeks ago but he became very sick with mono. mono has 3 stages the first stage where you get really sick, the second where your really tired, and the third where you are recovering. so i've never had mono and i do not know how contagious it is in the second stage (which he is currently in). basically hes been telling me that hes not really contagious anymore but i think that is just so he can kiss me... so what do i do?.. do i kiss him? or if i shouldnt kiss him... what could we do instead.. remember its the first date but we have been talking for a couple weeks like everyday so nothing too promiscuous. :)

when you have mono its always in ur system you could always be contagious but just barely. not as bad. you will get mono if you do before his recovery but there is always a small chance you will. even sharing food or a drink will pass it to you. be very careful because theres a very big chance youd get it. dont kiss him yet.
~hope i helped~

Q: what goes on in you gothic peoples heads? like do get songs in your head and what are your thoughts and do you love people or not and what do you goths think about?

we think of normal stuff you bitch. we like music so does everyone. we do love some people but we hate people like you who think goths are a whole different species. we think about normal stuff. goths just wana be different there going through hard times usually unless your a poser thats a wanabe goth which if you are you are a dumbass for trying. if you say we think about killing people its probly you and people like you who ask fucked up questions like this one. fuck off and go to hell. were normal we just dont wana be a robot following everybody else like you people. its you kinda people who make my life worse. so fuck off

bio

-i dont change for people -my only fear is being hated again -i am extremely hyper at times and adicted to coffee -i curse way to much -i have a bad temper -in love with taking pictures -has had a very emotional life -im NOT emo or gothic but thats what everyone wont stfu with -i think of guys as better friends -id be gone without my friends -my old friends have put me threw way to much -i used to be one of the popular people but now i cant stand them but still talk -i love guitars -my favorite music is taken away forever -ill answer any question honestly just dont hate me for bein brutally honest