let's not bore you with my life story. or completely bore you with who i am.. i'll just tell you that my name is destiny. and i give pretty damn good advice. =]
i think i give good advice,
im gonna be honest, im not gonna add u on myspace,
unless i talk to you,
and get to know you a little,
E-mail: randomconfusionx@yahoo.com
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Ok so my best friends little brother keeps kissing or making out with his guy friends, he is eight. Im over their house more than mine. i have nothing against gay people but how do we get him to stop!? I don’t want him to turn out gay. He said him and his best friend he was makin out with were gona have sex hes eight both boys and he was serious. I love him like a brother his sister and I realllly have no idea what to do and shes grounded for getting mad at him about it what are their parents tryin to do? What do we doo?! (link)
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uhm.
sex is a little too much
but it's his choice if he wannts to be gay
i found out i was bi when i was like, 9.
but just,
tell him that he needs to stay a virgin
tell him why,
but i think.
that you should just have support.
be there.
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really crappy advice,
but take it
it mighte help.
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16/m gay
basically, i have been crushin on this guy for a while, and i think he might like me back. he is always kinda flirting with me when we see each other, but i am not sure. last night, me and my friend both talked to him on the phone, and i asked my friend what he thought (he is bisexual), and he said that he really thinks he might be. he acts just like both of us did before we would even admit to ourselves that we liked guys. he acts super homophobic, if you ask him how he thinks another guy looks he will say "i dont know, im not gay". i mean, he just acts like he is in the closet. he is a christian, but i was too for a while. i am not sure, he is kind of hot, and i would like to go out with him, but i am not sure he likes me like that. is there i way i could be more sure if he does or not? and please dont say things like "you need to just let him know how you feel" or "you need to ask him if he does". thank you for your help (link)
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i think,
you should wait for him to open up to you
tell you if he's gay or not
help him figure it out
i think you should wait.
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it's really corny.
but,
hope i helped.
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destiny
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I started dating a guy and I really really liked him. He was the first guy I had ever hooked up with without being in a relationship.
The only thing was-- he was on a break with his girlfriend of four years. The reason for their break was he wasn't ready to be married, and she was.
I had never felt so close to a person before, and we knew that we were falling in love, but that it was a really difficult situation because he had this good girl who did nothing wrong but want to be with him.. and a new girl who he was starting to fall for.
Well, I lost in the end. And not only did I lose a guy that I loved, I also lost a friend. It's been months, and God knows I've tried. But I miss him so much.
I don't want to contact him, because I care about him enough not to ruin what he has. In the same matter, I never got the closure I thought I deserved. But how do I get passed this? How can I move on? I need help because this all ended in December and I still think about him everyday.
Please help. (link)
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i think yoou should call him.
BUT JUST AS FRIENDS
just talk to him,
ask how the marriage is going [[if they're married yet]]
just as friends
it'll make you feel better.
then you'll feel better next time you call him.
and then you'll be friends again.
[[hopefully]]
but don't be TOO good friends
his girl might start hating you.
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There is this boy that goes to my school and he always flirts with me. I am in the 7th grade, and I've liked him since 4th grade. Well; Friday night I finally told him I liked him. MAJOR MISTAKE--> he has a girlfriend. He DOESN'T care about his girlfriend, the only reason he is going out with her is because the first time he dumped her, she wouldn't quit crying and he felt bad. But we were hanging out the whole time at the dance on Friday, and he was MAJORLY flirting. Well, school is out this Thursday, and I'm REALLY IN LOVE with him, what do I do?! (link)
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ask him if he really likes ms waterworks.
then ask if he likes you.
if he likes you.
then he'll put up with the tears from ms waterworks.
i mean
she should get over it.
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talk to him about it .
that's all i can say.
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hope i helped.
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I've gotten myself into a tough spot. It's kind of lengthy, I apologize.
I am currently dating this one boy, and things have gotten really stale, because he hurt me a couple of times really badly, I've never been able to get over this. So as i was kind of edging away from him (for months) I found a really nice guy at work , and we started to hang around just as friends, but there was obvious sexual tension,so anyway, we kind of just ended up making out, and he (who didn't know i was dating the other boy, bad i know) asked me out,and I defintely like him so I said yes.
And here in lies the problem. How do I go about breaking up with my previous boyfriend? I'm still in highschool, before class, lunch or after class? I'm kind of afraid because he really likes me,and I know this is going to really hurt him, but I just lost feelings. Not even because of the other guy. (link)
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just tell him.
it doesn't matter where, or when.
but really.
it'll hurt him more if he finds out you're seeing another guy.
or if you stay with him and don't care about him.
trust me.
:D
but just, tell him it's over.
i hope he'll understand.
:D
hope i helped.
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so im 13 & i want a boyfriend and all the guys that like me are ugly but thats my opion but yeah i really do want a boyfriend yett theres no one that really catches my interest really so what do i do ? and i want a guy to ask me out because to me its wierd for girls to ask guys out lol so yeahh HELPPPPPPPPP
please :) (link)
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:D
i love your question.
uhm,
well,
looks aren't always everything,
personality is good to,
like.
you wouldn't want a totally hot boyfriend that abused you and denied going out with you.
trust me.
:D
but i think you should give some of them some more thought.
get to know them.
:D
hope i helped.
destiny.
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ZMy latest boy troubles. I've never had a boyfriend, and I'm beginning to believe that it's all my fault, all the time.
But another part of me wonders why guys don't ever come after me? Why am I always the one who has to make the first step forward?
I liked a guy, and he found out from a friend of mine. We sort of talked about it over text (this was on Sunday), in which he made some vague comments about how weird it was to find out "stuff" like that. That was about it.
The next day, when I saw him at first, he smiled at me, and said "hey". But that didn't last long, because I saw him a lot for the rest of the day, and it was kind of awkward.
Today, maybe it's just my imagination, but I swear he was staring at me. We were playing a buzzer game in class, I was up, and he was in the audience. After a while of losing horribly, I was just like "Anyone, take my place." and I went back down in the audience. As soon as I get up, he moves too. Not next to me or anything, but he moves. This happened a couple of times.
What I should do is text him and say "Why are things still weird between us? What is going on?"
I don't want to screw this up, but I don't know what to do. I don't know if he likes me, I don't know what he thinks, and there is only 5 more days I will see him (10 more days of school left).
I need a miracle or something. (link)
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lemme tell you,
it's not your fault.
:D
but just..
ask him.
i don't think he'd think anything wierd about it.
:D
just ask him.
while you still have a chance.
:D
i hope i helped.
feel free to ask me anything else.
:D
destiny
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i was with this guy for almost 5 months and we broke up because of a bunch of drama and now we r wanting to get bak together but my ex best friend is saying that he wants to be with her. i dont kno wat to believe. (link)
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uhm
well, ask him.
but i noticed you said, EX-best friend.
so she might be mad at you
or something.
she might just be trying to make you mad.
and sad.
i think you should confront him about it.
[[your ex]]
just ask him.
see what he says,
:D
hope i helped.
destiny.
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ok so me and my friend are reallly close ill tell her everything. but she wants me to do her a huge favor she wants me to date her ex because he likes her but she doesnt like him. i mean hes cute but idk if i want to date him because idk how do i tell her i dont want to do this. (link)
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uhm
i think it's up to you.
she can't force you to date him.
if you don't want to,
tell her that you don't want to.
and tell her that she should just tell him it's over.
and to leave her alone
to move on,
but first she needs to make sure that she doesn't still have feelings for him deep down.
:D
hope i helped.
destiny
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17/f
i broke up with my boyfriend on monday. he was unsure of our relationship and was doubting and apparently "confused" about it. i decided to break it off so i wouldnt get hurt in the end. now, he's telling me that he never was gonna break up with me in the first place. im shocked and devastated. ive been seeing this guy for five months. well...now..even though he doesnt suggest we get back together (even though he shows it through body language) he flirts like CRAZY with me. i dont understand why. he points to places where we used to make out...touches me...all those things. i thought that breakups meant ignoring the other person. what does this all mean and how should i act? should i follow him around or ignore him? i dont wanna seem desperate. thank you in advance :) (link)
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uhm.
the real question is,
do you still like him.
if you still like him,
show it,
flirt back,
makeout with him,
and once you're absolutely sure he wants to get back together
ask him out
or keep flirting and acting like you like him until he asks you .
if you don't like him.
tell him that things are over,
it all depends on how you feel
:D
hope i helped.
destiny.
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so ive been dating this guy for almost 2 months. i knew him 2 yrs prior as my sisters friend. but weve always had a thing for eachother during those 2 yrs. infact we dated a couple times for maybe a day or two but this time we wanted to really give it a try. well id like advice on what to do. the other day we celebrated a friends bday- when he gets extremely wasted he becomes another person. not physical but very mental, he will bring me down and call me names. im not defending him but i do use the same game back until its like a hurricane hit us and were left with the aftermath to clean up. well this time i had enough so i broke up with him. he said something ill never forget and i cant believe im sharing it online becuz i cant even tell my friends in real life but i have to get this off my chest. he said outloud (and i really dont think he knew he said this, he really was out of his mind)...he says "quit embarrasing yourself your f***ing a fat obese person".
im a big girl, so yes hes talking about me. first i was shocked, he wasnt facing me when he said it its like he just blurted it before his brain processed it. after a minute i said "are you serious did you just say that?". he didnt realise what he said you can tell, he changes the subject asks what hes supposed to do and goes home. i broke up with him before his comment and he called me 9 times in a row the next morning to aplogise that he was "real drunk", i yelled at him and told him it was completely and officially OVER. i havent spoken to him in 2 days but his myspace page clears hes depressed about the break up. i dont know what to do...ignore that he said that becuz i want to be with him, but i dont know i havent even cried. please help? (link)
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uhm
i think you should move on,
i mean, unless he's going to give up drinking
but i mean,
what if it gets worse
like hitting.
or what if he has a gun,
a person can do anything if they're drunk,
so i think you should let go.
stay friends.
bc i don't think you should stop being friends,
if you stop dating.
but stay away from him dating wise.
i really hope things get better
i hope i helped.
:D
destiny
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well i really want to move schools. im in year 10 and im going to be doing my school certificate this year. so yeah i want to move schools because i hate my school now. everyone there is just so stupid and pretty much all lack common sense. so i talked to my mum today and she just starts telling me off about how next year we will talk about it becuase i should just do my school certificate this year etc. but its not going to be a problem if i do my school certificate at a new school! i just really want to move schools. please how can i convince her?
thankss (link)
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ugh, you and me both.
i really wanna change scohols.
bc like, people know i'm bi,
and spazz out when i come around,
and they think my friends are bi,
bc they stand up for me,
and yeah.
ugh.
it's annoying as fuck
ugh, but yeah.
tell her why you wanna move.
like,
give her reasons
=D
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17/M
She says I'm not good enough for her, but I know she's the one who doesn't deserve me. I've liked her for 15 months now. She's done nothing but jerk my emotions back and forth. She the only person I keep in my life who has never opened up to me... or anyone else. I want to be with her so badly. Why can't I get her out of my head? (link)
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sweetie.
i think you're in love
you might hate her.
but you love her,
:D
and idk if that's good or bad.
=/
but you like her.
sort things out with her
bc things won't get any better or worse unless you do.
hope i helped.
:D
destiny.
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I live in KY, but my dad lives in IN and i visit him every 6 weeks, and there is a boy there that is friends with my brother. Well this boy got into a fight because some kid was going to stab him, so now he is grounded and his brother, who helped him, is in a detention center. I know it sounds bad, but i dont really think so.
And he has a gf...but from what i hear he really likes me, like a lot, and wants to hang out with me this summer. And people are telling me that because he thinks im cute and stuff and he has a gf he is a player, but i dont neccersarily think so.
what should i do about this?? whats your opinion??
PS::::
And please dont tell me that i need to leave him alone if he has a gf because i know that and im not gonna do it..i dont play that game...or say that its long distance or anything like that...i know its hard but chances are if anything were to happen it would be for three weeks only..while im there.. :D (link)
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uhm.
wow, just ask him.
or flirt with him,.
trust me, im not gonna tell you to leave him alone.
bc idc if he has a gf.
if he likes you.
then he'll leave his gf for you.
=D
i think you should i guess talk to him when you can.
whenever you get a chance.
show him you're interested
=D
i really hope things work out.
:D
destiny
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Hey, im 14/f
and there is this kid lets call him... Joe.
well like Joe is in almost all of my classes.. period 4,5,6,8 and 9.
And like I think he likes me because he is constantly flirting with me and always trying to be near me. Like for example in 9th period we sit at tables and my friend Sarah put her backpack in the seat next to me and then Joe threw her backpack in a different seat and took the one next to me. Like, Since he's always flirting with me I wanna flirt back but I don't know how. Like we have had some pretty funny times so sometimes he brings them up and I just laugh, cause i dont know what to do And then he stops talking to me.. Like i don't know what im supposed to say back so i just giggle. Also, he always makes fun of me and i don't know what to say when he does so once again i just giggle. And he knows i get mad when people kick my feet under the desks and hes always doing that and when he does i don't know what to do when he does it, should i kick back? So i just giggle again!! So yeah, what should i do or say when he's doing all of this? I don't want him to think i don't like him and im putting no effort into showing him i do. So yeah please help mee and give me some tipss=) thank you so much. (link)
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uhm.
:D
uhm,
try not to giggle.
smile.
keep eyecontact.
when he teases you, and makes fun of you.
make fun of him back.
show that you're not scared.
sit next to him to.
kick him back
:D
show him you can lash back,
hope i helped.
:D
destiny
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i need to know what to DO at my goodbye party. ages 14-16 im leaving to move to another state and saying goodbye to all my friends. like 20 people. I just dont know what people do at good bye parties...well what teens do. im having it in my back yard. no sports and no karaoke. im just happy to have my friends there but i dont want people to get bored. they dont all know each other but will at least know a couple people. all ideas welcomed :) i will rate---thanks! (link)
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uhm,
have people say what they love about you.
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Heey!
the bottom layer of my hair is always so disgusting. it gets knotty and snarled with split ends all over. i condition it all the time and the rest of my hairs fine. how do i fix it? please help. thankss!
i have borderline wavy hair btw.
14 (link)
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ugh,
sweetie you're not alone.
but i think you should use a wide tooth brush when you get out of the shower.
then use a thin tooth brush,
uhm,
try to get the roots,
if they're straight, it's likely that new hair will also grow straight,
:D
hope i helped.
destiny
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i have recently having sex whit my gf from 15 ( i am 13 ) but she has some problems whit my penis, because when i got a boner its going like right to my face and it kinda hurts 4 me , is this normal on my age that your penis aims at ur face??? i dont think so please answer my question!! (link)
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uhm.
they can point in any direction.
but if it hurts everytime you have sex with her
i think you should see a doctor.
it's supossed to hurt the first time
but it should stop after that
hope i helped....
:D
destiny.
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me and my boyfriend are in a long distance realatiionship.. we both want to do like.. phone sex and talk dirty on the computer.. but im not sure waht to say.,. any suggestions? or things that are proven to turn guys on? (link)
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:D
i'm gonna enjoy this.
uhm,
start out flirting.
make noises you would make if you were having sex with him,
:D
uhm,
tell him you are "undressing"
even if you're not,
it'll turn him on.
:D
tell him he's sexy,
:D
i can't think of anything else right now
but i will soon, and get back to you.
:D
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okay so there is this boy named john, he has a girlfriend named shelby. theyve been on and off for 3 years. so while they were on a break me and him started to talk,(bf gfish) so i was really starting to like him , and he would always tell me he liked me. so me and john were getting pretty serious but then one day he randomly went back to his ex? so i was pretty pissed and hurt. so while he was wit her hes like im only w/ her so she doesnt go w. other guys. and yeah so we still flirted. and then they broke up again. so we startd talkin again. then he got a girlfriend again. and hes like i made such a mistake and i really want you and blah. he tells my friends this all the time. and hes always thinkin about me and brings me up to shleby. so ya recently the pas few nights i was thinking well fuck this im not waiting for him to be done w. shelby. so me and my ex starteed to talk and i started liking him again. so me and trey were talkin and shit so then he asked me back out and isaid yes. so then i go on aim in the morning and see i have an im from john sayin .. "wow you jus get a man like that? well i cant be mad since i did the same thing..hope it works out." wich i could tell it was SO fake. so i was like watever you ddi that to me twice and i never got mad at you. and hes like ight watever i was like okay shove that fake watever up your ass so then hes like okay i will then i was like i dont get it i did nothing to you and we werent guna work out since your never going to leave shelby. and i havent talked to him since that
but its like i totally rather be with john then trey but its like im not guna be his rebound and shit and wait for them to be over?
like shelbys a bitch
she flirts with tons of guys
and shes cheated on him before
she hits him all the time
and he forgives her EVERYTIME
ugh wat should i do? =(
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ugh,
tell him how you really feel.
[[john]]
see what he says.
then tell him that if you go out with him.
tell him that you're not gonna be his rebound.
tell him that you care about him.
and that you still like him.
just talk to him.
=D
hope i helped.
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