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How do I flirt Back?


Question Posted Friday May 9 2008, 2:58 pm

Hey, im 14/f
and there is this kid lets call him... Joe.
well like Joe is in almost all of my classes.. period 4,5,6,8 and 9.
And like I think he likes me because he is constantly flirting with me and always trying to be near me. Like for example in 9th period we sit at tables and my friend Sarah put her backpack in the seat next to me and then Joe threw her backpack in a different seat and took the one next to me. Like, Since he's always flirting with me I wanna flirt back but I don't know how. Like we have had some pretty funny times so sometimes he brings them up and I just laugh, cause i dont know what to do And then he stops talking to me.. Like i don't know what im supposed to say back so i just giggle. Also, he always makes fun of me and i don't know what to say when he does so once again i just giggle. And he knows i get mad when people kick my feet under the desks and hes always doing that and when he does i don't know what to do when he does it, should i kick back? So i just giggle again!! So yeah, what should i do or say when he's doing all of this? I don't want him to think i don't like him and im putting no effort into showing him i do. So yeah please help mee and give me some tipss=) thank you so much.


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randomconfusionx answered Sunday May 11 2008, 6:41 pm:
uhm.
:D

uhm,
try not to giggle.
smile.

keep eyecontact.
when he teases you, and makes fun of you.
make fun of him back.
show that you're not scared.

sit next to him to.
kick him back
:D

show him you can lash back,


hope i helped.
:D

destiny

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raffy21 answered Saturday May 10 2008, 10:48 am:
k tips to showing someone you like them ..
hold eye contact
smile. try not to giggle when unnecessary. if theres something that could be said , say it. or else he will prob end up thinking ur ditsy
anyyways wat else.. sublty make contact. not like touchy touchy but just if you brush up against him , he'll know somethings up. and finally when you really begin to like him alot. tell him! , you wont regret it. and if you need tips on how to tell him ,just find me =) good luck

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schochie16 answered Saturday May 10 2008, 10:13 am:
When he brings up a funny time cut him off and finish it for him then laugh at the end. When he takes the seat next to lightly or playfully slap his arm and be like Sarah was gonna sit there!! and then just laugh when he kicks your feet be like stoppp! in like a winey funny voice and kick him back.

hope i helped

btw, flirting is just putting in more effort than a friendship so if as a friend someone tells you ajoke you'd just laugh and if its someone you like and your flirting then your going to laugh, smile, tilt your head that sort a' thing

-E
=]

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B00TSZ answered Saturday May 10 2008, 9:05 am:
when he brings up a funny time you guys had together tel him "you can always make me laugh."
when he kicks you..grab his hands and say i wont let go till you stop kicking...and if he likes you grabbing his hands he wont stop kicking so you get to hold his hands longer :] haha. when he moves your friends backpack to sit next to you say something like "your more fun to talk to then sarahs backpack" and give him a smile.
when you see him in the hallways..pinch his side...
i did that to my boyfriend to flirt with him before we went out..he use to jump up when i did it and then grab me and tickle me...so its pretty fun lol
when he makes fun of you...dont make fun of the way he looks because then he will think you dont think hes cute..make fun of an ex girlfriend he had.

hope i helped :]

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DramaQueen63 answered Saturday May 10 2008, 9:04 am:
OK, you right about him liking and flirting with you. NOW, how you can flirt back. When he brings up the funny times, you can giggle AND THEN bring up another funny time that you have had together. When he makes fun of you, you can either giggle and tease him back or just tease him back. AND when he kicks your sit, I would kick him back and giggle lightly so the teacher doesn't hear you but he does.
Hope I helped!

♥DramaQueen63♥

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