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sorry if its so long
so there's this boy that i like. He knows I like him. Im confused though because he always looking at me and stuff. On myspace he don't wanna add me or talk 2 me. I know its just myspace but that bothers me. We do track together and when i talk 2 somebody he wants to know what im talking about. Like for example one time we were at a track meet and i asked this girl where the concession stands were and she told me and the boy i like was walking behind me and he asked her what i asked her. i know this because the girl said to him real loud no she just asked where the
concession stands! i didnt know he was behind me until i looked back because i thought the girl was talking to me but she wasnt she was talking 2 the boy i like. he's quiet and im shy so i dont really talk 2 him. but im confused so plz it would be helpful if u could help me out (link)
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If he is the quiet type and hes always looking at you or wanting to know what your talking about then he is interested, maybe not in the same way that you are though. the fact that he doesnt want to add you , or talk to you could be that he doesnt want to lead you on. but dont be discouraged by that, use this knowledge to your advatage. try to branch out a little and be more confident. if you give me more info on the situation i bet i could help you in getting him interested. so if you want contact me later =)
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I have really gay friends that made an advice colume im a female and i had a sleepover with them last night? How should i tell them that they give bad advice (link)
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I have a feeling that your friends wont think this is as funny as you do. Yah they want to give out advice to people who come here and ASK for it.funny though how you call these people your friends and your treating them this way. You might think they give bad advice but you know what the poeple that come to this site really just want to hear other peoples thoughts on what to do. your friends must obviouly like the fact that they are actually possibly helping people out or they wouldnt have registered to this site. my advice to you is be more supportive to your friends, stop taking them for granted, because they wont deal with your unkindness forever.
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i have a friend who wants to break up in the summer with his girlfriend what do u think about that? (link)
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hm.. that sounds interesting. You know i think i might know these people. and knowing the girl i think she is more than ready for what might happen. something you could do though is stay friends with the girl, dont stop just because they did.
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hey. i have dis boyfriend dat goes to a different skool. im scared dat he might cheat on me or flirt with other girls. i dunno if i should trust him.please help me.
thank u,
girlfriend troubler (link)
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okay. well you have to trust him for one , or else he will get frustrated with you. there are signs that you should look for if you think there is a chance he will cheat. like, if he erases his calls or texts before letting you see his phone then you should definetly look into it.
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i have a pet gator who doesnt know who his daddy is. So he bites me and chomps on my arm at night. What should i do and how should i stop this madness??? (link)
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well thats interesting that you have a pet gator, i say you cant train this thing . so i suggest you transfer it to a zoo before you are eaten alive. Im so sorry but thats what has to be done. if you need any advice on how to deal with loss of dear friends, contact me again =)
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Ok my best friend is dating this guy i knew before she did. Last year him and I hung out a lot and we had this intense energy between us like sparks. We fought a lot but it was the type of fighting you see in movies when the girl and the guy get into a completely heated debate and then attacked each other like animals. We never officially went out but the energy is still between us in a way. We still fight like that but obviously without the shock ending. My friend feels really uncomfortable with me still talking to him but says it wouldn't be fair if i just avoided him though i've offered time and time again. She thinks she's being paranoid and keeps saying that he told her he once loved me but now he loves her more. I try to comfort her but i don't really know what to say, since i had pretty much similar feelings for him. So if someone could help is there anything i could possibly do to console her so she won't freak out that i'm going to steal him away when i'm obviously not going too. (link)
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if she is freaked that your gunna take him away from her it obviously means that she is insecure. dont yell at her or get frustrated, you have to understand dating someone that ur firend has already had chemistry with is hard. she prob feels like she has to be better than you, or he will leave her for you. show her that your over him by sociallizing with other guys that u find interesting. go on a double date with them and bring someone you could possibly like. when she sees how much fun you are having with the new guy , it will console her, but it will take time for her to feel completely secure. good luck =)
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Hey, im 14/f
and there is this kid lets call him... Joe.
well like Joe is in almost all of my classes.. period 4,5,6,8 and 9.
And like I think he likes me because he is constantly flirting with me and always trying to be near me. Like for example in 9th period we sit at tables and my friend Sarah put her backpack in the seat next to me and then Joe threw her backpack in a different seat and took the one next to me. Like, Since he's always flirting with me I wanna flirt back but I don't know how. Like we have had some pretty funny times so sometimes he brings them up and I just laugh, cause i dont know what to do And then he stops talking to me.. Like i don't know what im supposed to say back so i just giggle. Also, he always makes fun of me and i don't know what to say when he does so once again i just giggle. And he knows i get mad when people kick my feet under the desks and hes always doing that and when he does i don't know what to do when he does it, should i kick back? So i just giggle again!! So yeah, what should i do or say when he's doing all of this? I don't want him to think i don't like him and im putting no effort into showing him i do. So yeah please help mee and give me some tipss=) thank you so much. (link)
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k tips to showing someone you like them ..
hold eye contact
smile. try not to giggle when unnecessary. if theres something that could be said , say it. or else he will prob end up thinking ur ditsy
anyyways wat else.. sublty make contact. not like touchy touchy but just if you brush up against him , he'll know somethings up. and finally when you really begin to like him alot. tell him! , you wont regret it. and if you need tips on how to tell him ,just find me =) good luck
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i envy the way some people can make eye contact with someone while they are talking and still be able to concentrate on what the person is saying AND be able to think about what they said, and then come up with a response. I CANT DO THAT! i am pretty much infamous for asking people to repeat what they said a lot of the time.
whenever i make eye contact i focus on their eyes instead of what they are actually saying..and then when they finish what they said i have to ask them to repeat it. i also noticed that sometimes i am kind of a slow thinker i guess, like a lot of times i realize that im just staring at a place but not really thinking.
this is bothering me, especially the eye contact thing. i need advice on how to look @ people but FOCUS on what they are saying and be able to think about what they said. WITHOUT freaking them out. (link)
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ohkay. heres what you do! practise practise practise, I too sometimes have this problem when looking into the eyes of a beauty. OH! something you could do is look the person right in between their eyes. so your not looking directly into their eyes but they dont notice that your not looking them straight in the eyes. this way you'll be able to concentrate on what they are saying =)
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