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Ok my best friend is dating this guy i kinda have history wi
Ok my best friend is dating this guy i knew before she did. Last year him and I hung out a lot and we had this intense energy between us like sparks. We fought a lot but it was the type of fighting you see in movies when the girl and the guy get into a completely heated debate and then attacked each other like animals. We never officially went out but the energy is still between us in a way. We still fight like that but obviously without the shock ending. My friend feels really uncomfortable with me still talking to him but says it wouldn't be fair if i just avoided him though i've offered time and time again. She thinks she's being paranoid and keeps saying that he told her he once loved me but now he loves her more. I try to comfort her but i don't really know what to say, since i had pretty much similar feelings for him. So if someone could help is there anything i could possibly do to console her so she won't freak out that i'm going to steal him away when i'm obviously not going too.
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You have feelings for hima nd he obviously still has feelings for you. The two of you without your friend need to talk it out and if the feelings are still there either get together and stop torturing your friend or completely avoid each other and get over it. Those are your options.
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if she is freaked that your gunna take him away from her it obviously means that she is insecure. dont yell at her or get frustrated, you have to understand dating someone that ur firend has already had chemistry with is hard. she prob feels like she has to be better than you, or he will leave her for you. show her that your over him by sociallizing with other guys that u find interesting. go on a double date with them and bring someone you could possibly like. when she sees how much fun you are having with the new guy , it will console her, but it will take time for her to feel completely secure. good luck =)
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