about

i'm melanie, call me melly ♥
i'm 18 years old & from long island
i go to University at Buffalo,im majoring in nursing and absolutely love it!

i have the big accent, the big smile and the even bigger heart :)


i love giving advice and helping people out, which is why i`m here. I also love getting feedback, it tells me if I did my job. =)


No question is stupid, ask away! ♥

....I might not always give you the answer you want to hear, but from me youll only hear the truth



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i did the cabbage diet, the original version from Poland, and i lost 7 pounds in 6 days. it's an unhealthy diet since you don't eat carbs, but you should only do it for 1 week at a time. And most people say its impossible to keep the weight off, but I prove them wrong.



advice

I run track
And i did last year too
I have gotten a bit fatter and like, so ive slown down. I need help on getting a little faster, and loosing weight in the legs (thighs mainly) and stomach

PLEASE help
and what can i eat to help if that works

Just click my user and theres sites dealing with weight that can help you.
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i know that people are probably tired of answering this question, but im not sure if i should even bother trying to loose it. Im 5'3 and about 134 ish pounds. I dont think its that much but i feel the biggest out of all the girls in my grade basiclly because all the girls in my grade are like 100 pounds. I think that the reason i feel so big is because of the cloths i wear. They arent tight or anything like that but i hide in big sweatshirts sometimes or i wear like t-shirts that when i sit you can see all the belly rolls lol. So, i was wondering what i could do to make my stomach flatER, or any kind of shirts or whatever i should wear so that my belly rolls arent that noticable lol. help anyone?

Just click on my user and theres a list of sites you can check out to help with weight issues.
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im 15/f about 5'3" 141 lbs. i want to loose 15-20 pounds mainly in my arms. i hate them and im always self-concious about them. im in softball right now if that helps out with anything. can anyone help me? thanks so much.

I had the same problem with my arms, they were too flabby, and i decided to do something about it. My advice is to lift weights. Not only will you loose some fat, but you`ll gain muscle too. I lift two 5 lb. weights (a little weak i know :])and do 5 sets of 20, with 5 minutes in between each set. But you want to work your shoulders too. I`ll try to explain how to do it, it`ll be a tad difficult. Holding the weights, place your arms straight down on your sides. then turn your arms so the paler side of your arms are facing out. Then start lifting the weights, and as you pass your waist, switch sides of your arms, and lift the weights as high as you can over your head. Then come back down, and switch sides of your arms when you pass your waist.
if you need more clarification, hit the inbox.
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how many times does a teenage boy think about sex in a day. im a boy, but its not like im going to count, but im sure some sad psychologist has, so im wandering, what are the guys findnings? jus curious

I remember watching something on discovery channel saying that boys have urges about 17 times a day, while girls have it at about 7. I`m not exactly sure.
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how do you double space?
like what do i press. like format, then what? or am i wrong? idno. help

You can either double space at th ebeginning or end. If you want to do it in the beginning, do it before you type anything. And at the end, highlight everything, then click format, make sure your in the indents and spacing tab, and in the third row where it says spacing, towards the right it says Line spacing: single. choose double. and wah-laah!
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why do people like horror movies, dont get me wrong, i love them, but why do we? because thewy scare us, and fear isnt a good thing right? also, how come movies have changed throught the years, like "the evil dead" from the 60's is so much scarier, and bloody than something from the 80's, or today. thanks.

As an alltime scary movie fan, i think it`s the thrill that makes them so loveable. like you don`t know whats coming next, and you hold your breath. Kind of like a natural high.
""the evil dead" from the 60's is so much scarier" -- this is your own opinion.
but i also think that they were scarier back then because thats when they were really new, and people didn`t know what to expect.
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what is the difference between holding hands with your fingers laced or just with the two hands cuffed together. does it mean something different if a guy holds your hand in one way or the other?

and does hugging from behind mean a guy likes you? when do you know a guy wants to kiss you?
thanx everyone i really need to know soon hahaha. =)

"and does hugging from behind mean a guy likes you?"
this is a very general statement, and there really isn`t an answer.
Usually when a guy wants to kiss you, he will constantly look from your eyes to your lips, about like every 2 seconds. It really depends. And honestly i dont believe there is a difference with how you hold hands.
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I need a website or something that has layouts on it. Premade layouts.. made for projects. Where to put text, pictures... a good font and a matching color scheme. Because I can't put these things together and make it look good.

I've tried searching but all i get is myspace layouts!

You`re not too specific on what you need, but i`ll give it a shot.

http://office.microsoft.com/en-us/templates/CT101426031033.aspx?Origin=EC010223681033&CTT=6&av=ZAC

Those can be templates or "layouts" for many things.


You can also simply use mircrosoft office publisher. On the left there is a column that says "new publication". In the column there are letters next to blue arrows. It states publications for print, websites and email, design sets, and blank publications. If you need these "layouts" for school, then you should click "publications for print", because it offers you a huge variety of school related needs.
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13/F

Hey...I'm looking for a place to find a dress for my 8th grade graduation. I want something that's formal but not like a prom dress. My price range is medium...I don't want anything that's like, cheap/bad quality (maybe between $100 and $200?) I guess I'm looking for stores like Macy's or Nordstrom (it doesn't have to be a department store though.)

Thank you so much for advance! Any suggestions are welcome.

$100-$200?!?! My graduation dress was only $60. Graduation from middle school isnt really a big deal. Some good stores to get cute dresses is Sears, Macys, Estelles, Mandees, and Dots
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ok im getting bored of the songs i have what are some good new songs???

you`re not very specific...but i`ll give it a try.

knock u out-tila tequila
verme-baby ranks
remember the name-fort minor
buffalo soldier-bob marley
could you be loved-bob marley
Funky Kingston - Toots and the Maytals
i got your man-lady shaw

and yeah.
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A LOT of people at my school talk about how they always steal from hollister & abercrombie, all the time. they say they never get caught, i really don't think that it's a good idea, but i'm just wondering what are the chances of getting caught stealing at abercrombie or hollister, if you bring the clothes into the dressing room and rip off the tags and stuff them in your purse or whatever. thank you.

A good show for you to watch is Juvies, on MTV. It will definetly change your mind about stealing.

http://www.mtv.com/ontv/dyn/juvies/series.jhtml

DON`T do it. its not worth the risk
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okay so i have a real problem lying to my mom..i have no problem going behind her back and doing stuff but lying to her face is just so hard. so when she confronted me about drinking at some parties i had to just come right out and say that i did. and now, of course, she doesn't trust me, and probably won't let me go to this one girl's graduation party (i'm 15 by the way). so what can i do to make her trust me again? i already agreed to not go to any of her parties during the school year but i REALLY want to go to her graduation party. i'm trying to be good and helpful so is there anything i can do to gain her trust back you think? maybe helping around the house and staying home more weekends?

thanks for any advice!!

To gain her trust back, DON`T go to this graduation party. TRUST ME. It`s only a couple of parties, hundreds of more will come. Theres always next year. And just think about th eocnsequences if she finds out you went tot his party, when you already agreed not to. You will probably totally lose her trust. So just don`t go to the party like you said. And maybe you can try to make an effort to stop drinking. you don`t need to get drunk to have a good time, well at least i don`t. and if you need to drink in order for you to have a good time, that`s sad. In all honesty.
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theres this guy in like almost all of my classes. He flirts with me a lot and teases me, (lol i seriousely just noticed that today) but you see he has a girlfriend. So why would he be flirting with me and giving me all of this attention?? I would just like to know why? Or a better question is why do guys do that even when they know they have someone already?

Because guys are horny basturds. haha, sorry that made me laugh. But sadly, its true. You can flirt back if you`d like, but don`t take it seriously. He shouldn`t be doing this if he has a girlfriend, obviously he`s unloyal and not worth your time, unless you just want a boytoy.
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14.f. ok, so i've been really depressed latley. over guys. i know i'm only 14 and i have some time to have a boyfriend, but i'm tired of waiting. i've never had a boyfrined before, and i like this guy, but he doesn't even notice me, and all my friends are like "when you get into high school, you'll have a boyfriend" but i want one now! i only have one good guy friend, but besides him, i never talk to guys. i always see the "popular" girls talking to guys, because they talk to the girls first, but guys never talk to me. and it makes me feel sad. i've tried to loose weight (not just because of guys, i really am fat- bout 160 pounds) is that why guys don't like me? beause i'm fat? urrr!! it just drives me nuts. what if i never go out with any guys in my life, and i become 20 years old, and live all alone with a dog and on friday nights i'm stuck at home with nothing to do. help please. what do i do?

woah woah woah! slow down hunny.
guess what?
i`m 14, in highschool, and have never had a boyfriend before either.
I have a 17 year old friend who is model material, and she has never had her first kiss, or a boyfriend. and guess what? she`s alive.
There are billions of guys out there, if the one you think is cute doesn`t seem to notice you, screw him. he isn`t worth it anyway. And the only reason guys talk to the "popular" girls is because their easy whores, who are willing to suck their dicks after talking to them for 2 minutes. If you want ideas on how to eat right and to lose weight, just click my name and under my bio is a list of links you can use. And I`m positive you wont be 20 and boyfriend less. My sister is about 40 lbs. over weight, and shes 18 and in college now, and she had a very very sexy boyfriend, that was thin. Don`t look down on yourself, remember: guys look for confidence. And you`re still in the middle school. Kids are immature and cruel in the middle school. In highschool, people are so much nicer, and theres such a HUGE variety of guys. Don`t worry about it. Just live your life and have fun. Life is how you make it. :]
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How do I get rid of my top friends on my profile, but still have a link so veiwers can still view all my friends?

Here`s the site:
http://www.hot-lyts.com/hiding-friends-2.php

just what you wanted. =)

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ok last night i wore a pad
and i got a little blood on my underwear
and i have ben throwing a lot of underwear out
because they are stained too much
how can i try to clean them

heh, welcome to my life.
right after you stained your undies, soak them in cold water, rub soap all around them, and then take two different sides of the underwear, and rub them together. make sure it`s where the stain is. You may need to scrub pretty hard, especially if the blood has already dried. If cold water & soap don't do the job, try using straight ammonia, which contains enzymes that break down blood. If your garment is white, you might try a little bleach as a last resort if the above 2 methods fail.

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my legs "jiggle" when i walk. what foods should i avoid and what excersizes should i do so that they will be firm by june 21st?

and as for my abs - what foods should i avoid and what excersizes should i do so that it will be completely flat by june 21st? when i wear jeans my stomach hangs over. please help!

i see this all the time, click my username and read my bio, theres great sites in there.
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Hey im 17/m and i am around 200 pounds and got a pouch and i really want to get rid of it so any ideas please let me know


i see this all the time, click my username and read my bio, theres great sites in there.
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so i wanna learn how to do some really cool dance moves for prom cus there is a dance off. if anybody has any link videos to youtube or watever and can explain how they do that move please help me out. I wanna know how to move like shaquira or however you spell it. i like how she can move her body in just certain places thats wat i wanna know how so anybody help me out! please!

Truly this is something you could search yourself, but I went to search it, and it was kind of fun.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=tk4P3ppViRE



i dont know what kind of dances you mean, but heres a go:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=snrVO1BFYJY

http://youtube.com/watch?v=rob57-GGp-0




http://youtube.com/watch?v=5wmU-evr0G0

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Okay, well im 14/f and i have a size 36D boobs (im a little on the chubby side) but i dont think that matters. well, my boobs sort of sag a little and my nipple (the brown ring) is really really big. like of course ive seen my friends becuase were girls or whatever and theres arent nearly as big but they also have smaller boobs. ive watched like funny movies where u get glimses of girls boobs and it doesnt look like theres is that big either...is there like anyway i can get it smaller....if i lose weight will it get smaller with my cup size...waht do i do cuz its really weird and ugly and how do i get rid of the saggyness?
PLEASE HELP.

Ooh, your in a tough spot. The only way I can think of lifting your breats is getting a breast lift or plastic surgery for breast reduction. To see if there are any other options, you should speak with your gynecologist. (spelling?) The thing is that during puberty, no matter what your weight, your boobs will continue to grow, and nothing you do will stop it. However after puberty, the size of your breasts will depend on your weight.
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