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14.f. ok, so i've been really depressed latley. over guys. i know i'm only 14 and i have some time to have a boyfriend, but i'm tired of waiting. i've never had a boyfrined before, and i like this guy, but he doesn't even notice me, and all my friends are like "when you get into high school, you'll have a boyfriend" but i want one now! i only have one good guy friend, but besides him, i never talk to guys. i always see the "popular" girls talking to guys, because they talk to the girls first, but guys never talk to me. and it makes me feel sad. i've tried to loose weight (not just because of guys, i really am fat- bout 160 pounds) is that why guys don't like me? beause i'm fat? urrr!! it just drives me nuts. what if i never go out with any guys in my life, and i become 20 years old, and live all alone with a dog and on friday nights i'm stuck at home with nothing to do. help please. what do i do?
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woah woah woah! slow down hunny.
guess what?
i`m 14, in highschool, and have never had a boyfriend before either.
I have a 17 year old friend who is model material, and she has never had her first kiss, or a boyfriend. and guess what? she`s alive.
There are billions of guys out there, if the one you think is cute doesn`t seem to notice you, screw him. he isn`t worth it anyway. And the only reason guys talk to the "popular" girls is because their easy whores, who are willing to suck their dicks after talking to them for 2 minutes. If you want ideas on how to eat right and to lose weight, just click my name and under my bio is a list of links you can use. And I`m positive you wont be 20 and boyfriend less. My sister is about 40 lbs. over weight, and shes 18 and in college now, and she had a very very sexy boyfriend, that was thin. Don`t look down on yourself, remember: guys look for confidence. And you`re still in the middle school. Kids are immature and cruel in the middle school. In highschool, people are so much nicer, and theres such a HUGE variety of guys. Don`t worry about it. Just live your life and have fun. Life is how you make it. :]
hope i helped
xo
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Sweetie, you're 14 years old. You've got all the time in the world for guys, and they're not really all that important. I mean, they're nice to have around, but guys can be annoying & ugh. They're just full of trouble. I'm not trying to tell you to turn into a lesbian & just forget about boys, but forget about them for now.
If a guy doesn't notice you or like you, then that's his problem & his loss. Don't let it bum you out. I'm sure you're really pretty with a great personality. Just keep waiting. The right guy will come around eventually.
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i agree with your friends, when you get into high school you will have a boyfriend. most boys in middle school are really immature and only look at the physical appearance of girls. most guys in high school are more mature and care about whats in the inside. you should consider yourself lucky that you don't have to deal with boys because basically they're just stress, haha. have funnn theres so much more important things in life when you're 14. you could always work on your appearance but don't do it just because of guys, do it for yourself and your health. hope i helped<3
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