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Hey everybody! My name is Ann, and I think I give pretty good advice. I am nineteen, my favorite color is orange, I love pasta, am the oldest child out of five, am Catholic, and am a music education major with flute as my principle. Feel free to ask me anything, and I'll do my best!
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You know those Livestrong Bracelets that everyone is wearing now-a-days? Well according to my Spanish teacher, they're also a symbol for hospitals to not ressusitate (sp.) you if you get in some sort of accident and are put in the hospital. Is this true??? Because if it is, that's awful, and I'm not wearing mine anymore.
The Live Strong bracelets are bracelets in which a portion of the money used to purchase the bracelet is given to the Lance Armstrong Foundation helping cancer research. You spanish teacher was very much mistaken.
Hope this Helps,
Ann
14/female Okay well this is going to be long, so I'm just going to warn you ahead of time, but please help. Well, a friend of mines mother has tumors in her head. Well about a month ago they were removed and there was this tube thing that the doctors put in her. Well less than a week ago the tumors came back and she had to go to the hospital for surgeory. I was pretty close w/ my friends mom and it's hard for me and one of my other friends to deal with it, and so were thinking about how our friend who's going through it is feeling. Well the girl who's mother is in the hostpital (Brittany) is being checked for tumors, and we just found out that she has one and will be getting her head shaved. Well a few of us girls (about 5) and a few close guy friends (about 10) were thinking of shaving our heads/cutting our hair really short. If you were the girl Brittany, how would you react to that? Would you think it's kind of mean/too hard to handle, or do you think it's a good gesture? I am so willing to do it because it's such a great friend, but I want some other opinions, the guys are defninitley doing it, and I got her a bunch of x-mas gifts and we've talked a lot. Brittany is very sensative when it come to her mom and her own problems and we think she'll either be sooo happy that she'll shed some tears of joy, or sooo sad that she won't be able to face us 'bald'. I know you guys don't know her, but if it were you, how do you think you'd respond. Again, I apologize for the lenght, I just wanted to add some detail, and sorry if it's confusing I tried to make it not confusing, but it still sounds that way to me. Thanks in advance for any help.
That is incredibly nice of you. I think it is a good idea and she will feel so much better that she has great friends like you. I know I would definatly be selfconcious if I was bald, but if my friends were too, it would be much much better. I am not Brittany, but I think that if you all did that she would be happy and glad that she has as great of friends as you.
Good for you,
Ann
OK listen boy friends brother told me that my boy friend says that i never call him or any thing and he was mad at me for leaving his house to be with my friend this one time and his brother said people were tellin him that im a big hoe and before i went with him i sucked alot of guys a yeah ok so i went home and called him to get it all straightin out and his sister picked up and i asked for him and she sed hold on and i heard her call him and he told her that he'll call me back well he never did i just don't know what to do with that i mean he says i never call but when i do he says he'll call back and he never does! can some one please help on this?? thanks
Maybe he'll call you back later...but you will see him eventually. And when you do you need to stop these retarded rumors. No one deserves to have crap like that being spread about them, and if he doesn't get that, then you shouldn't be around him.
Lots of Luck,
panther_grl03
Different Chick: Ok, being a girl with a boyfriend maybe you should think about putting your boyfriend over your friends a little bit i mean it is kind of rude and hurtful to leave his house with YOUR friends. It seems like you spend more time with your friends then with your boyfriend. What would it hurt to give a little time to him? It doesnt sound like you get to spend alot talking to one another or spend time. So, give a little more to him and a little less friend because it kind of seems like you care. But, i dont know wether or not this was about the trouble with your boyfriend or the rumors being spread maybe you should think on it.
Think about it,
Different Chick
I'm a 24 yr old girl...and I met this great guy at a bar a few weeks ago and since then everytime I'm out, no matter where I am, he seems to be there. (Like it's meant to be?) Well, I went over to his house after leaving the bars twice. The first time we just hung out, we didn't even kiss... and then the second time we went a lot farther then that. I think he's wonderful and I want him to like me for me even though everytime I see him I'm pretty wasted.. I want to keep talking to him and I don't want to ruin things because I feel wierd and don't know how to act because I went too far with someone new.. but I really like him, I think he's so perfect... what should I do?? How should I act???
Well, OK. First thing is first, doesn't it seem a little odd to you that every time he wants to be with you your are wasted!!! I mean come on it sounds like someone is trying to take advantage of someones intoixcation. And on the other hand how long have you really known this guy or do you really, remember you were wasted. I think you might want to salow things down a bunch and if not try not being wasted when you do them so you might be able to really remember what happened. AND if you really like him good for you. You might also want to think about him stalking you just in case since he is EVERYWHERE!
Today at skool I called myu exbf a fag. He completly hates me and I dont even think that he cares that I called him it, he just gets mad and I kno that.I honestly feel bad.I still care about him for some dumb reason. For the past few hours it just replays back and forth in my head me calling him a fag. Should I feel so guilty? He isnt the nicest person to me either. It really sucks going to school with him bc I have to see him everyday. I really want to forget him but I cant.I try and avoid him and completly ignore him but it doesnt work. I dont even look at him anymore. We just act like we both dont exist to eachother. I dont like being ignored by him. I broke up with an exbf a few months ago and it is easier to get over him and I was in love with him, then it was to get over chris.Why am I like this? Why do I still care about him? Is it bc at one point in my life he made me happy, I loved him and wanted him more then anything?...is that it! plz help me its driving me nuts!
OK...well calling your ex a fag when you still have feelings for him obviously isn't helping like you think it should. And you wonder why you feel so guilty? Well, what is he really doing to you that doesnt make him the nicest person? Going to the same school and haveing an ex can be hard I know I went through the same prob. All I can say, if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. Just going up to him and calling him random names isnt helping and maybe u feel so bad becuz he didnt even say ne thing to you in the first place. Well all I can say is either avoid him all together and not say anything to him or try and compromise and be friends. Otherwsie you will probably continue to feel bad. Sit down and talk to him and tell him how you really feel...you never know it just might help.
What's the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone to you guys? I'd appreciate some of your opinions.
JyNxiE
I my mind, if you are "in love" then you have a passionate relationship with someone. If you love someone, then it is as if you love them like you would love family members. For example, I love everyone, but I have never been "in love." I hoped that helped.
Ann
Hey, lat night my friend was suppost to sleep over but then at the last minute she couldn't so she said that we would hang out tomorrow, which is today. Then she told me that she was going out to lunch wit her bf so i was like o i thought that we were hanging out today and she is like ya we still are..when i get bak from lunch. She hadn't told me that she was going out with him because we had made the plan before she made the plan to go out with her boyfriend. Should i be mad because she has been out the whole day with him when she told me that we would hang out.
I would bring it up to your friend if she ditches you like that a lot. However, it is her boyfriend. It sucks, but you may want to try to feel for her.
Loads of luck,
Ann
I'm not sure how to explain this. For example, I'm trying to lose weight, see. And my Aunt tells me that I've lost some weight. I don't like to hear those things from her.
At first I thought it was because I fear success. But if my wife gives me an encouraging comment like that then I take it good. I feel good. I feel encouraged. And it's like that with everyone. But from my Aunt... well, with the weight thing, it'll make me feel like eating more and gaining weight to make her wrong.
It might help if I explain a little bit more about my relationship with my Aunt. She raised me and for a long time I felt like she was my mother; even after she told me she wasn't. In the last few years though I've thought like that somewhat less. I still feel somewhat like she's my mother but not as strongly as I once did.
So what could be the problem?
It may be possible that your aunt has always been right. Maybe she has done something to make her apear to be smarter then you. In case you are not following, let me give you my example. I am the oldest of five children. My sisters have always been right up there with me. Always...ALWAYS it seems like I am competing with them. If I looked they were wrong, then I felt that I looked better, though that isn't true. I think that you maybe feeling somewhat like this.
As for her being your mother. It is obvious that she is not, but she is a motherly figure. She was the woman who raised you. So, the feeling would be the same, even if she is not.
Hope I helped,
Ann
I've had my period for almost 10 months now and it still doesn't come on the same days or "schedule" or whatever. I don't know when I am going to get it, because it's such a bad frequency. I don't want to leak in school, and I'm always scared that I did leak, and I didn't notice, and like people are laughing behind my back. I just don't know what to do. I don't wear pads either so..please help?
Listen, don't worry to much. If you had leaked enough for anyone to tell...then there would have been stains on your pants and underware. If you haven't seen any, don't worry. As for not knowing, my advice would be to ware a pantyliner everyday. That way you don't have to worry. It will straighten up soon enough.
Lots of Luck,
Ann
how can i proove to mi boifriend that i love him?..and how can i make him believe me that i didnt cheat on him?
He should trust you. Unless of course you have done something to make him beleive otherwise. If you haven't, then just tell him that. "Have I ever EVER done something to break your trust? I love you." That should help.
Lots of Luck,
Ann
im 13 years old. theres this guy that i REALLY like! we kiss in the mornin but its just a little peck. hes goin around telling everybody that we make out and crap. and i really wanna make out with him. im just scared hes gonna say we did somethin else you know...should i talk to him about it?
You should be able to trust your boyfriend. I would definetly try to talk to him because you do not want your reputation ruined over one bad dude. I would tell him that he's out of line. If he doesn't respect you, then sadly you should probably end it with him.
Lots of Luck,
Ann
okay well my dad knows basically all of my guy friends b.c our culture is really really close to eachother so when im talkin to my guy friends they'll be like ur dad is the best hes so cool he talks to me abut this and that well there is no problem really i guess its cool that he talks to my guy friends but a part of me doesnt want him to.. why is this>?
I get what you are talking about totally. And, of course you don't always want your dad to talk to any of your friends. Its just weird. But, even though thats what we teenagers think, it really is no big deal. All I can't tell you is don't stress too much, unless your friends don't like him. (lucky they do)
Lots of Luck,
Ann
sorry, girl....i'm rice06
my bad :o(
That's cool...I'll add you soon.
Ann
I have a hematome in my right quad from football. Basically it's bone that grew in my muscle. Should i play hurt with it for highschool football, or should i not risk injuring my leg indefinately?
If I were you you, I think I would see a doctor. They should ne able to tell you whether or not it is a good idea. Though by the sound of it, it doesn't sound like you should risk it.
Lots of Luck,
Ann
i do straiten my hair and i use things in it but it wont stop!=(
Oh, ok. Sorry, I would try to look for shampoos and conditioners especially for frizzy hair. They will help more then anything. And, I would recomend that you do not blow dry your hair too much. That can lead to more damage.
Lots of Luck,
Ann
ok my hair has bin really really fruzzy latly and i dont no how too make it stop i go new shampoo that is supposot too help but it doesnt HELP?!?!
You could try straitening your hair. That may help it look sleaker and smoother.
Lots of Luck,
Ann
how do you get rid of back cramps when your in your period???
Take a nice hot bath and relax. You'll feel better soon enough. There is also a medication called Midol. If you can get it, that will help too.
Lots of Luck,
Ann
Hi everyone! I probably sound a little dumb, but I never knew what's going on with politics and stuff.... I just wanted to know, since elections are today, when do we get to know who the winner is? Do we get to know tonight or tomorrow? Can someone please tell me because I want to know who wins the presidential elections! Thanks so much!
We may not know exactly by tonight, and it will be harder if it is close (which it probably will be) all I can tell you is that they will start giving us info as soon as the polls close. If it isn't close, then it will be pretty obvious who the winner is, but if not...who knows. I think we all remember last time....
Hope you get your info,
Ann
I feel torn between two groups of friends. One group (Group 1) doesnt like the my friends in the other group (Group 2). They are always fighting and I fel that if I stand up for my friends in Group 1 then my friends in Group 2 will hate me. Group 2 friends are always teasing and saying really rude things to Group 1 friends. I DO stand up for my friends....I just feel that I am hurting my other friends by standing up for them and telling them to back off and to stop saying those things. Group 2 doesnt ever seem to minds it when I tell them to back off but then they never talk to me unless Group 1 isnt around. How can I not feel so torn between my friends? I love them all and dont want to lose any of them!
I sounds like your freinds are a bit immature. But, I do know what it is like to be friends with people that dislike eachother. I don't think that you really have to deside between them. If they are really your friends, they should like you know matter who your other friends are. Tell them that. If a group doesn't agree with you, then you probably shouldn't hang out with them anyway.
Lots of Luck,
Ann
Does any guy here have bad luck with relationships??? Cuz i am one of em. Ive had a g/f during the summer, not anymore we where way to busy and couldnt do it anymore and plus she lived a lil while away and then i tried with another girl and she just kept blowing me off and then with another girl who never likes to call bak. I dunno i must be in the worst month with girls or something and no its not that im not confident in myself or ne thing like that or physical looks or anything. Just a normal guy looking for a girl. I dunno if ur havin troubles the same way, just leave a reply on how its happening with you. Wouldnt mind to help ya out or u help me out. Aight thx. appreciate it. -TiM-
Well, I am a girl. So, I may not have THE advice your looking for. All I can tell you is that the month will pass. "Luck" will come around and you will meet the girl who really makes you happy.
Lots of Luck,
Ann