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I'm fourteen, my girlfriend fifteen. We've been together for 1 year.
I love her lots and lots and I want to be with her. She wants to get engaged now, however I'd like to wait longer. I want to get engaged to her, but just not yet, maybe in a year or two's time. School will come first, i'm doing my GCSEs at the moment and I intend to go on an do 4 A levels.
Am I right to be thinking this? (link)
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No absolutly not. You guys are still in puberty. You don't know what its going to be like when you have to live together, or really what it takes to be married, it is sacrifice, commitment, an compromise. Love dosent stay wonderful either when you have to worry about paying bills and work and the kids. Its great when you dont have anything else to worry about other than visiting after school hours, and hanging out together, but when you get out there in the real world, it is not fun and games. But if you do get engaged, its fine cause you can be engaged for as long as you want, but marrige is forever.
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I used to have thick, nice hair. UNTIL I CHOPPED IT OFF ALL THREE YEARS AGO. Biggest mistake I've ever made...I cringe when I think about it.
I got it short and thinned out. now, three years later, my hair is medium length at best and so damaged.
I refuse to cut it. seriously. I won't even trim it. I haven't gotten it cut in over a year.
It's so thin and ugly ugh. it's just past my shoulders. I want it past my boobs.
HOW CAN I MAKE THIS HAPPEN. Over the summer, I'm going to condition it every day and not use any heat tools. but until then, what the hell can I do?
does damaged hair even grow?
ugh. (link)
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Your hair isnt growing well because your ends are fried. If you do what peeps says, it would be great. Plus for now, go to Sallys and get something called chloresteral. A week from then do some oil treatments. Mayanase works well as gross as it sounds it worked wonders with mine!
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okay so for the past month ive been dieting and i needed to lose about 15 pounds. ive lost ten this month i have 5 more pounds to go! but today i had a bad day i ate sooo much bad food! am i going to be fat tomorrow? am i going to gain weight? can you get fat in one night? i feel so bad about eating it all but for the past month ive done so good but now im scared im gonna gain weight back that ive tried so hard to lose??? (link)
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Diets don't work unless it is only a few pounds you want to loose. You will be fine, and you wont be fat tommarow!! lol! Being a good weight and staying it is changing your way of eating for life.
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I had sex with my boyfriend on saturday. He has really long and gross pubic hair. Anyway, on sunday I got my period and when I pulled out my tampon, I had one of his pubic hairs on it. What am I supposed to do? Do I tell him, should I not be really grossed out cus I am. I'm pretty much looking for opinions really. Any input would be great. (link)
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Try to make it a sexy cute game! By getting in the shower with him. Shave yourself and then shave him! And then go have hot sex!
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whenever im masterbating& stimulating my clit, it really only takes me a few seconds to get an orgasm. i would say it takes less than 10 seconds. and then after i get one, i dont feel sexual anymore. is this normal? (link)
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Yes it is normal to loose sexual feelings after an orgasm.
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whats it called when you have a big hit to the head and it gives you memory loss of just a few months pryer to the accident? like say i got in a car accident hit my head, what part of my brain would it hit? and what would the temp memory loss be of? (link)
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When you hit your head its a concussion. When you suffer memory loss from it, it is called Amnesia.
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ive been talking to my friend, who i like, for about 3 months on msn. id say 90% of the time he used to start the conversation, but now its about 50%. which is fine whatever, but i feel like im starting it constantly then he takes about 30 minutes jsut to give a response to my 'hello.' i asked him why one time and he said sometimes hes just busy.
but yesterday he asked me to get on, and i was really busy toda and so tired when i got home, but i still got on for him. i surely thought he would IM me first, but nope stayed on for 40 minutes, not one IM, so i signed off. i dunno what to do..i started crying. yeah im a baby, but i just felt so let down. how can i handle this? do i not come on msn for a few days? or should i come on and just not talk to him, cause i just have a feeling he wont im me and ill be let down. please, any suggestions. i dont want to cry anymore over someone who could potentially be wasting my time. (link)
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He seems like he is just not that into you. Even if you leave him hanging, it is apparent that he wouldnt be the one hurt, you will.
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I've been having to take care of my parents for a couple of years now, its been easy before because they could do alot of things for themselves. Now, its not so easy. My mom's mind is getting worse by the day, she can't remember a whole lot and can't comprehend hardly anything that is not very easy to comprehend. She takes alot of pills daily that I have to lay out for her because she simply can't keep anything straight in her head. My dad is getting over lung cancer, now going through chemo and having a hard time with that, plus has now lost his eye site completely due to glaucoma. He always had a tiny bit of eyesite left, but this past weekend woke up saying it was gone. When I'm home its going to be ok because im here to constantly help with what they need, but I dont know what I'm gonna do during the day when I'm at work.
My mom tries to help him but ends up being more harm than good because her mind is like a young teen now. Her doctor says her poor memory and understanding of things is a combination of her age with a couple strokes shes had in her life. So they usually end up arguing when she tries to help because she doesnt fully comprehend stuff and he no longer has the patience. Plus she has a hole in her heart and is not suppose to lift anything over 3 pounds so I have to constantly watch out that shes not doing that.
Between the both of them I dont know what to do, I dont really have any outside family help. They do not want a "stranger" coming in helping while I'm gone and I've always told them I'd do everything in my power to not have that happen, so I just dont know what to do. Is there a system or program out there available to apply to that will let me be home with them for now out of work or any other suggestion at all?
Thanks alot,
Brandon (link)
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Depending on what field you work in, maybe you can work out of home for a while. As far as anything else, you may just have to have someone come into the home to help, even if stubborn parents say no, you have to think of their well being.
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i have a friend..we really close but she has another friend.my friend friend and i are not very friendly with each other. i mean we do not like each other that much. Anyway, my friend always hang out with her friend, and she does not hit me be or text me except if she depresst, need something, or if her friend hurt her. And i feel like i am not in the picture except if she need something from me or if there is no one she has to go to. so is she really a close friend for me or just someone who want to use me whenever she want? (link)
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I couldn't agree more with Jami!
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Heey . does anyone think its a bit slutty to break your virginity at 13 ? (link)
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I lost mine at 14. I think we all thought it was going to be something incredible but it is not always that way. I think that now a days, kids are having sex now at age 10. I think it is sad, but as far as slutty, it really depends on how proud they are of it, how many people they want to tell, and how they are as a person overall.
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this may be gross but i've been having really bad itching around my vagina. it's not constant, but it happens every few days. there is also a lot of discharge, but it's clear without any lumps in it or anything. would this be a yeast infection? if so, what do i need to do to treat it or the symptoms? i have a handheld shower head at home and i make sure to wash down there very well and rinse with really hot water every day, but it keeps happening. (link)
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You could be allergic to the soap you are using. If you are washing and it gets inside your vagina, it may cause a slight vaginal infection. I suggest using Summers eve Feminin wash. It is soap free smells great, and gets the job done. I used to get infections all the time, and when I switched to that, it took care of it. If that doesnt work, I suggest going to an obgyn, to make sure its not something serious.
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Me and my girlfriend have been talking for about 6 months. But started being gf bf about 2 months ago. Everything was going great we would talk all day. But a couple of days ago i could tell something was wrong. At first she didnt tell me when i asked but when she did she said that it was about her ex boyfriend but didn't want to tell me what exactly happened. Because she said she didnt want to worry me and that i had nothing at all to worry about. She said dont worry ill get over it in a little bit. I went to bed right after that because i didnt want to think about it anymore. The next day i apologized for letting it bother me and i told her that i trust her. But since then we havent been talking like we use to. Sometimes we do but i still get this weird feeling that somethings not right. Im trying really hard to get back to the way i thought it use to be by surprising her and letting her know how much i love her.
My question is am i over thinking? I know she loves me. Another thing recently someone she knew passed away. (link)
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I am a woman, and I am pretty sure that she cheated on you and feels guilty. I have done this before. Im not proud of it but I know how this works and what we say. We will act our ex has done something to us really bad so it looks like they harassed us, and then say oh dont worry about it because we dont want a confrontation. Only if we are guilty will we bring it up this way, because we feel we have to kinda tell someone to get it at least half way off our chest. I'm sorry it happened to you. Women are complicated sometimes, but at least get yourself an honest one.
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Okay, I just recenty had sex for the first time with my oyfriend of 6 months. I would say he's a good 2 inches thick and about six inches long. Is that considered big or not? (link)
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If its big enough for you, it's good!! Every womans vagina is built differently. Some women like them really thin and long, while others like them thick and short. The size of the man matters somewhat, but it all depends on how narrow, or wide the vagina is.
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well im really into this guy weve startd talkn febuary 11 but we made it official on the 20 and yesterday 03/08/09 was my first time over his house and we had a great time he told me that his heart was beating fast and that he couldnt breath and im a junior and he is a senior in high school and i think im falling head over heels for him but im scared because he is going to college please tell me what i should do (link)
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Some say that young love isn't real love but it is. I was in a similar situation too. Depending on what you yourself can handle, I would say be together as long as you can. A love had then lost, is better than no love at all. If you do end up breaking up, at least it will make you stronger for the next, and you will learn alot of things about yourself in the process! What I know now is that I could stop it right now so I don't get my heart broke, but I would've missed the dance!
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ok so i really like this guy, the problem is my mom thinks he is ugly.
he may not have like the cutest face in the world but he has an AMAZING body like his abs and muscles are like crazy!
and hes also a really nice guy.
BUT my mom says he's ugly and he isn't good enough for me and i better not date him because i "i could do way better than him" my mom thinkings im just desperate for a boyfriend or something but i really like him! What should i do :( :( (link)
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My mom says the same thing to me all the time. But a guy who is her type, may not be my type. If you like him, that is all that matters, you spend the most time with him and you really know him and she doesnt. As for your mom, she is just looking out for you, so dont take it to heart. That is her job!
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