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ok so my boryfreind came into work today to introduce me to his best freind...i was excited about meeting her, till i saw her. She was gorgous, exactly how my boyfreind used to explain how i looked wen he first met me...tall long black hair, tan, skinny...spet shes prettier then i am...least i think she is. I know he would never cheat on me, cuz he loves me, and i love him..blah blahl blah,...but now that i met her i feel completly uncomforatable with my boyfreind bieng around her...ahh i hate bieng jealous..what should i do? (link)
ok trust is a major foundation of relationships if you love him you should trust him whatever you do dont make him choose you or her he will be so mad and probly dump you on the spot get to know her and become friend s with her that way you will end up knowing what she is doing and what your boyfriend is doing without looking like your sping


This might sound like a weird question but this always get on my nerves: ok i blush/my face turns red very easily and it gets embarassing because i just blush SO easily-even at things that are hardly embarassing! i don't mind doing it once in a while but how can i stop myself from blushing so much-because people notice, and they're like "why is your face always red?" yeah so as you can tell, it can get to be a pain. anyone have any tips? thanks!:) (link)
ok try icing your face (hold ice on your face for an hour or two ) it works two ways it can reduce the chance of pimples and close your pores then put powder and base not to much but anouff that it will cover your cheeks if that dosent work it could be your hormones are acting up to test them go in front of a mirror privtely and spray axe somthing that has pharimone not to much though jist 1 or 2 seconds hold it down if you turn red its your hormones and there acting up if you turn red say your alleric to colligine and perfume and start coughing to make it sound reall it is a lie but a very good one and it will help you get out of some very emmbarising sittuations


Well I have had this problem occuring lately. My vagina area around the outside of it, not the inside seems to get really dry and it will itch. It doesn't do this all the time but it has done it a couple times lately and it is very annoying. There isn't much moisture and I think this may be causing the itch. But why is it so dry? Thanks. (link)
dont panic dont you could have an STD or somthing else are you drinking anouff water that could be the problem i would ave a check up done it could be serious


Alright heres the story ... I had to break up with the man I love becuase he cheated on me ... I still really want to be with him though but i'm staying away form that for now. We talk online all the time and on the phone, he says hes really sorry he had to loose me to a girl he doesnt even like. Well I recently asked my mom if he could come and visit me over the summer for two weeks and she said maybe, yes its an internet relationship but dont think about that cuase I know hes not a creep trust me I'm so paranoid about that stuff well anyways what I wanna know is should I have him come up here? We both really want to see each other and I know we will be making out the whole time and i know he still loves me he didnt even ask the girl out she asked him.

I'm almost 16 and he will be 16 in a few days. (link)
ok i your really shure he is that old whatb he looks like and what he is like how long have you known him if you trust him well anuff you should be dating then makingout go slower or your going to end up with a baby if you really like him o out go on a date dont kiss him the first day set limits i think that if he wants to commmet go for it but just cause he lives far and you dont get to see him alot dosent mean you should have sex or anything like that keep a connection going you could end getting married or being best frinds i think if you wanna go out with him go for but tke it slow (he wants to change for you he really likes you) but if you wanna be friends you cant kiss him and dont go out just to kisss each other you should decide yourself on this one


So there's this guy I like who likes me back.. the only reason we're not going out is because he lives in another city really far away. But its sort of understood that we have this thing going on. Anyway.. he's always talking about how hard it is for him to communicate openly with girls considering he doesnt have many female friend... ha yeah right. I just so happened to have guessed his email password (wrong I know.. but I have it and now I cant just not have it anymore!) and he has a ton of emails from all sorts of girls. There are "xoxo"'s and "love so and so"'s everywhere!!! I know Im not technically supposed to be mad considering Im not supposed to have been in there anyway.. but I cant help it. Is there anyway I can confront him about the girls.. ask him if there's someone else.. without him knowing I went in his email? Or should I shake it off and leave him and his email alone? (link)
ok it could be a joke i one time did that to one of my friends i mean who know rubber ducky was such a comman password go to yahoo make a free e-mail account and be like its sharh (example)so funny in school today kisses gallor love ooo muck byeness xoxox. and see what he says he could be liying to you but on the other hand relationships are built on trust


okay well i rlly rlly like this guy and we flirt a lot...but the problem is that i'm 14 and he's 16...he thinks it would be wrong to go out w/ me b/c im still in middle school...but i don't think its wrong at all b/c everyone else does it...do you think he's scared or that he doesn't like me?,...please helpp (link)
ok in my opiaoin i think age dosent matter bu the law does do you really like this guy and does he truely like you back cause somtimes all a guy wants to do is get in your pants next you have to make shure that your mature anoff for him and then are you ready for a relationship a serious one cause he is older and he is probly what a 9th or 10th grader if you go out with him it isnt middle school he probly wants longterm so be propard


okey, i didn't know what category to put this in so i just chose love life. Anyway I was wondering about all the sweet nicknames.. I mean everytime a guy calls me babe or darling i die inside..seriously just a name can make me fall. But what can we call guys? Is there anything we can say to make them shiver? can we call them babe? Is there any laid back names? (like you know if we're just talking on msn and he says : hey, babe - what's up? Can we say something like that, even if we're not dating? cuz guys can use babe howvever..do we have anything like that? Something that will make them all nervous and stuff or just happy. And nothing that will make them embarresed, like darling is probably too feminin for them..Thanx!//marlena (link)
ya shure when i talk on AOL i always talk ot guys like wats ^ hot stuff (example) i used to call one of my boyfriends stud there are tons of nicknames for guys you just have to find the right one


Does anyone know like any websites that you can go to to get like makeup tips and not google or anything cause i have tried!!thnx tonzzz

ps.i rate hiiiiigh (link)
well i dont exactly know any wbsites but put some ice on your lips (apply chapstik first) and keep it there for about an hour for reder lips or have you heard of cleo eyes you take a little eyeliner ans put a small line on the side of our eyes( the side closes to your hair) to make them look larger and thiner but dont make it to obivous and (not to be racial)if your black try putting a little shimmer powder and blush togher so your face will catch attention also golds will perfect for eye shadow if your white try puting ice on your checks for a redder look to them and white,baby blues ,and pinks look very good with a fairer skin color or purples,greens,and navy blue can do wanders if you are tan hope this helps


My best friends are the 2 hottest girls in school. Every guy likes them...this is the order and why guys check them out

Alex-because shes gorgeous, crazy, and outgoing
Paige-because shes pretty, down to earth, and not prude
Me-because of my personality and bc im not prude


It bothers me so much that I'm not pretty. I know having a good personality is better than everything, but Id rather look good.

So my question is:
Should I change myself *not like i havent tryed* just to be pretty? or just deal with it that im not pretty?? (link)
ok this is sooo tuff are you skinny thats good if your not get in shape i soo know how you feel im not the prettest bae in school but that personality can so come in handy cause what are you going to say on your first date this is what i did get in shape wear a push up bra wear super cute skirts that match you (they should be at least above the knee) and wear tight shirts bu look nice you dont want to look like a slut but not a grandma have you thought of a new hairstyle also


i'm super confused. I think i may be a lesbian but i'm not sure. see, i find myself flirting with guys like any normal 14 year old. but i find myself checking girls out too. i'm not afraid to be a lesbian but this has been going on for quite sometime now so can somebody just help me decide? am i a lesbian or not? (link)
ok think you may talk to guys but do you like girls for this question no one can help you but youself do you feel akward around guys it could be normal becuse of your still going through perberty ( im not trying to be mean ) and you feel closer to girls cause you have a lot of stuff in comman but you need to decide on your own


anyone know the usual cost for professional highlights?? (link)
well i gotmine for around 50$ that was cheap so you better save before you get highlights


what brand of mascara works really well? (link)
nyc if not keep trying to you get the right one or see whatlooks good on your friends and get what they hve


I'm babysitting this little boy and he wont listen to me at all. I told him it's time to eat, he wouldnt eat. He also wont go to sleep... I need help before the parents get home because I want to be asked again to babysit for them!
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ok sitt him down and tell him if you dont listen to me i will send blank (make somthing up) out to get you i tryed it to this girl i babysat it worked like a charm i even got he to sit behave and watch a movie her mom said i did such a goood job she wanted me to babysitt agian fo double what she paid but remember to tell her parents you had a little trouble getting the kid to do somthingso you made a little somthing up to help you


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i'm writing a script for a skit to do for my school talent show. does anyone have a storyline for the skit? i was thinking it could take place during the 1950's. i'm in middle school and it needs 2 be appropriate for all ages. there are only 8-10 girls doing the skit! please help!
thanks (link)
well i love dramma soooo cool that your doing a skit for your school around then they had just gotten out of the war and hey were worrided about the russian satilite sputnik and russian spies mabe that can help in some sorta way


I am 20 and I am 300 lbs, I am also female which raises the cruelity level up a few notches. I desparetly need new deit tips so I can lose the extra flab. (link)
ok honey what is your diet that much weight i hazardous to your health have you thought about gastrobypas surgry mabe that can help if not hit the gym if your mad about some one critizing you get a punching bag cause i used to be on the obies side and i hated swimming or the tredmill walking burns the most calleres try walking around the neigherborhood or waking in place wathing your favorite show thtas what i did i hope you can shed the pounds good luck


Hey guys! Well, I just got a dog and he's about a couple weeks old. I want to start training him now, but I can't do that without a name. Got any ideas? He's brown, black, and white. Thanks a million! =D (link)
well that is a tuff one well your dog reminds me of a horse cause those are the rugular colors or some how about quarter one of the most common horse breeds or belguin bell for short i dont know if that will help but if it does write back i love animals and i would love to hear about if the training is going


I have an adorable new baby puppy and he's a golden retreiver mixed with a boarder collie!! He's SO adorable! But I have no name for him.. any ideas? (link)
what does he look like i namee my dog comet cause he runs fast does your dog have talent or somthing like that i have a few names
1. oreo
2. astro
3. ret
4. leo
4. bell
mabe these can help also i hope you have fun with your new puppy i love animals i have 2 dogs and a horse if you like one your wellcome glad to be of sevice if not keep trying and good luck


Does anyone know how to tell if you're bipolar? (link)
well do you change aditude easily like one minute your happy then the next your mad i think you should just go to a doctor and get checked out by him and if you dont feel comfortable doing that go to a conslers office at scool or a theripist if you dont wanna try any o those go to goggle or ask jeeves and look for a medical site


f/13 im going out with this guy....lets call him bill. ok well i met bill at a convention thingy away from both of our hometowns. we got each others numbers and talked on the phone after we got back to our houses blah blah blah and now were going out. he lives about 2.5 hours away. now i was talking t this other guy who i recently went out with and ever since we broke up weve been pretty much best friends and talked on the phone all the time. he lives about 5 minutes away but he is moving about 30 minutes away(no biggie) lets call him fred. so im currently going out with bill right...and im was talking to fred on the phone and we still both love eachother more than anyone would believe and we got to talking about our relationship (i was thinking about dumping bill to go out with fred anyways) blah blah blah and i ended up asking fred out. of course he said yes and the problem now is that i have 2 boyfriends and ive never been the person that cheats. so what i want to know is how do i dump bill with out hurting his feelings and still be really good friends with him???? HeLp Me pLeAsE!!! ThAnX! (link)
hey well i think that it is bad to lie but in this case you should just say "i know we have been going out for a while but you have changed i liked it when we were friends " i did it when i broke up with one of my x's and we are best buds and he sooo understands we should be friends




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