My name is Nikita. 19 years of age. i answer all questions. However i answer truthfully so don't take it personal if i say something rude. I've been on this website for 6+ years. I live in Texas. And right now i go to hcc. I love hanging out with my friends, facebooking, pigging out, and going on walks. If you have a question please inbox me :D thanks bye!
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what do i do with a dead cat in my yard its starting to stink (link)
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Well first off i just want to say i am sorry for your loss and you should probably wrap it in some sheets and bury it. i hope i helped.
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so i dont have an answer to this one but maybe someone else does. its kinda hard. but i was just wondering and this question hit me and i couldnt answer it. just a note, my faith is strong and am not doubting anything, i think that wondering and asking questions just brings us closer to god. so the question is, there have been alot of description of heaven in all religions and they are pretty much all the same. what i am wonder is, am sure heaven differs in preceptive from one person to another. what if heaven from my preceptive is living now, having this sort of life, feeling pain, guilt, happiness, love..etcc... what if heaven to me means being human? what if the heaven i want is what i have now? i dont want palaces or river or any of the things in different religion descriptions. so will god provide each person a heaven that different from everyone else according to his/her own preceptive of it? so this is really what i was wonder about. its difficult for me to reach an answer. i hope its easy for someone else. thanks (link)
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to be honest i have no idea either, and we won't know til we get there. I've always imagined a golden gate and you enter in and live on clouds, haha i highly doubt what it's like but whenever i think of heaven i think of that. i hope i helped.
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I have posted a couple questions about my husbands and my relationship the thing is the only respone I ever get is to leave him. What i am trying to say is i am scared to or feel that way. its like he does things that make me feel like he cares even though he doesnt work he doesnt help with the kids and he wastes money like i could go pick it off the trees. I feel obligated that i have to stay in this realtionship and that i couldnt just go ahead and kick him out. (link)
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I think you should both go to couple's therapy. The therapist will work with you both to help you solve your issues. good luck, and if your husband doesn't agree to go to therapy with you then you should leave him.
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I am 13 and the guy I like is 13 too. I am a female and he is a male. How do I know if he likes me? We are good friends. I know all his secrets and he knows all mine...we hang out a lot too. Does he like me, or like like me? (link)
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If a guy likes you he'll flirt with you, treat you differently than he does other girls, and if he's bold enough he'll ask you out! i hope i helped.
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22/f
i need advice. i've been with my boyfriend for about 7 years now and hes great and we're really in love and we have plans to marry eventually. the problem is when he gets angry or upset even if its a stupid fight that could have been over with one word, he gets too angry and just opens this whole portal of really hurtful words. i know he doesnt mean it cuz hes angry but at the point it really hurts and it makes want to leave him which i dont want to at all. so how can i get him to stop being mean when hes angry? thanks. (link)
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here's the thing with that you can't make him stop. in other words you can't control what he does. you can talk to him and tell him how you feel, when he says those things, but if it doesn't stop then you need to leave him, because he has no respect for you or himself probably. i hope i helped.
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I can't remember the name of this song...does anyone know? I don't know the exact lyrics but its something like:
And i thought of all the bad stuff and all the troubles we went through, how i found me and you found you.
Its kind of a slow song if that helps..
thanks so much! (link)
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it's called heart of the matter by renato russo
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So I've never had a scarf before but I FINALLY got one. Do I just start wearing it right away or wash it first? Would scarves even be safe in the washing machine..? (link)
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It depends what your scarf is made of. i found this website that has a lot of information on scarf washing. http://wittylittleknitter.com/?page_id=193 i hope i helped.
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Hi i'm a 18 year old female who has a serious problem with her body. lately on my lower level of the body...i've been getting bumps. i've been having them for over two years now. i'm not sexually active or anything. i'm still a virgin. i don't know what to do. my overall concern is that i think i might have std's or something. but i'm really hoping its nothing of that sort. please please help me or give me dome advice...!! (link)
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Even though your a virgin you can still get an STD from oral sex and anal sex. if you haven't done anything with anyone then it maybe a yeast infection, such as vaginitis, or something else. But you should go to your doctor and get tested. good luck, and inbox me and let me know how it goes.
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Hi I'm a 20 yr/F. the problem that's occurring in my family is that my sister is neglecting her family. she is 21yrs old and in love with this guy who is 19 yrs old. i have no problem if she likes him or not, but she is totally obsesses with him. she cant stop thinking about him. the main point is that they're just friends. she always tells everyone that oh we're just friends. she always calls him 24/7 and always goes to visit him. she lives with me and our parents and doesn't give our parents respect. she always tells them lies and she occasionally steals money from them. just for this guy. and whenever she would go out to see him she wouldn't come back till 4 in the morning. i know u guys think that oh shes 21 and that she has her freedom, but she's dependent on our parents. and our religion does not allow smoking and drinking which she does and lies striaght to my parenbts face while shes drunk. i really need your help...please help me solve this problem. how can we keeep her under control cause shes totally out of it..?? (link)
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well she lives under their roof right? so she needs to follow those rules or leave. i think you need to discuss this with your parents. I think they need to give her consequences take her phone and car away. As for this boy you don't know if he likes her not, eventually he'll get sick of her calling him and tell her to move on. Your sister needs a wake up call, because all this lying, stealing, drinking, and smoking, is going to get her into some serious trouble. she needs to respect your parents. after you talk to your parents they need to talk to her calmly, and need to tell her they know everything, and her behavior is unacceptable. i hate saying kids go through this, because i went through a phase where i did stupid things that got me in trouble, but i grew up, learned from my mistakes, and i don't do things behind my parents backs, because i know they'll be disappointed in me, and they won't be able to trust me again. i hope i helped. please inbox me and let me know how everything goes.
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My 24 year old son and his now wife have an 8 month old child. His wife became pregnant while on the pill ( she is 21 years old). He married her and they are struggling financially. My husband and I have been helping but wonder if we should. I worry very much about their future as a couple How involved should we be. (link)
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they've put this on themselves. your son got her impregnated so they need to take care of all that, and support themselves financially. They need to realize that they need to take responsibilities for their actions. Babysitting their kid every once in a while is fine. i hope i helped. good luck Nikita
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i live in Bergen county NJ, but i can go 2 New York for these auditions. (link)
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Hey ok well i found near where you live called Juju Model and Talent Management. i googled modeling agencies in Bergen, new jersey. it gave me some other places nearby. http://www.google.com/search?q=modeling+agencies+in+bergen+new+jersey&hl=en&client=firefox-a&hs=lFl&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&prmd=mc&source=univ&tbs=plcs:1&tbo=u&ei=HRzwTNDxAsWclgeY8unCDA&sa=X&oi=local_group&ct=more-results&resnum=1&ved=0CFMQtQMwAA i hope i helped. Nikita
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So i went to this party and smoked alot of weed with these guys i am not friends with really we got along tho.
I was wondering would it be weird to ask them if they could hook me up with some weed or what
Cause i need a dealer with goood shiit.
No negativity cause i know its illegal and im too young or whatever.Better than hard drugs aye. (link)
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i can't tell you how to get drugs its wrong and it'll get me banned from this website. you shouldn't be smoking pot. You probably think ugh why is she lecturing me? I am telling you this because it's dangerous and you could get arrested, and when you to find a job and they see that on your record, the chance of them hiring you is slim. Smoking pot makes your heart beat faster. it makes it work faster to pump blood. not only that people who smoke pot are paranoid. they are more likely to become depressed, and people who smoke pot are at 40% increased risk of psychosis. So i told you all the facts. i hope you realize what your doing is wrong. And just because those guys were smoking pot that doesn't mean you h ave to do it just to fit in. You know it's illegal so why bother. find someone else to hang out with that you won't have to impress by doing stupid things like smoking pot. I hope i helped. Nikita
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hey what are some top REAL (no scammers) acting agencies for teens. Because i am trying to find one at least, all the rest just want your money or it's a scam. Can you guys give me some helpful hints that it is a scam? Also any reccomendations/agencies? again i don't want any fake, or scam agencies. websites/numbers/ agencies? And if anyone has went to a particular agency they say is real and is gonna provide auditions, please express how, or why a differnt one is also good. And if you guys are sure of an agency i might come across, and you know it's a scam please tell.
Thanks so much ♥♥♥ (link)
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Hey so you need to give me the city of where you live so i can look. inbox me. nikita
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18-f
ok this might sound a little gross, but im starting to worry ? yesterday, i went to the bathroom and my stools were like flat out green..? i thought it was a little weird and was like whatever. tonight, i just went to the bathrom and the same thing happened? that is not normal i dont think. does anyone know what caused this or anything? thanks! (link)
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having green stool is normal. The reason for it being green is probably because of the foods you eat especially vegetables such as spinach. i found a website for you also. http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/green-stool/MY01088 i hope i helped.
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What are some good names for horse stables?
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you can name the stable after the area the are its in. or here are some names: Shady stables, Green trails stable, or Star Stable. i hope i helped. nikita
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I have been taking orthocyclen birth control pills for nearly 2 years now. I have never once missed a pill, until just recently. I missed the very FIRST pill of a new pack (right after I stopped taking the placebo pills) and I am now late to have my period. I took the pill the very next day that I remembered, around 12pm. My normal time to take my pill is around 4:30pm. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex 5 or 6 days after this occured and now I am late. Could I be pregnant, or could it just be from stressing so much about it, or could it be that my period is a day late, due to taking my pill a day late?
Any comments would be a great help. I could really use some reasurance.
Most websites I've found said that it was alright not to use an emergency contraceptive, but I have also read that by missing one of the first pills in your pack puts you at more risk of pregnancy.
I'm just really scared and confused and any answer right now would be better than none.
Thank you so much. (link)
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I think the best thing to do is to take a pregnancy test. Also visit your doctor to make sure you aren't. good luck girl, you'll be in my prayers.
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My ex broke up with me 3 months ago...pretty long story, basically he broke up with me as he had a feeling I was gonna break up with him (true to some extent, I was crazily stressed with work & didn't think it was fair for him to deal with me like that) OK so I realize that was a mistake. any way he's tried staying friends with me but I have refused...all or nothing. I told him I want to get back together but he said he's not sure what to do. he's been saying this for 3 months now!
when we first broke up he didn't do much, but ever since I told him I went to clubs a lot, I've met new guys, he turned crazy and he's honestly out every night! more to the point, after I told him id gone a date with a guy, he started seeing this girl, took her on a date and stuff. thing is he doesn't know I know this (im friends with his friends) I know they text and stuff and it does really hurt because I'm only going on dates, not seeing anyone. any way a week ago he text me saying he loved me still, missed me, can't get over me, but he's still unsure what to do with us. at first I thought maybe he's doing this cos he's finished with this girl, but his friends said he still sees her! why is he still talking to me if he's got this other girl?!? (link)
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I think you need to talk to him yourself, and ask him do you really want to get back together with me because it's been 3 months and your friends told me that your seeing some girl. You really can't believe what his friends tell you, but at the same time you have to protect your heart and make sure he's not playing you. Also you said you were stressed, so you might want to think about if getting back together is a good idea. You can get back together with him if you want to, and find healthy ways to relieve your stress. Just talk to him, let me know how it goes. hope i helped. Nikita
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I'm under 18 and I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend a few weeks ago. My period is a week late and I was told I could take a pregnancy test now and it might show me if I'm pregnant. Somebody said I have to be 18 to buy an over the counter pregnancy test from a store. I look mature for my age but obviously I don't have an ID to show them at the counter. So, how can I get a pregnancy test without being 18 if this is true? I really don't want to have to go to a doctor right now just to find out if I'm pregnant. :\ (link)
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You don't have to be a certain age to be pregnant. Just go to the store and buy it. I hope i helped, and let me know what the results are. thanks.
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There is this boy in my life and he is special to me i really care about him and want us to be more than friends. we tell each other everything but there is one problem HIS EX ugh she hangs around him nonstop she cheated on him so he says he doesn't like her but i know she likes him should i be worried? (link)
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You guys aren't dating yet, so i wouldn't be too worried about his ex. talk to him flirt with him and see where it takes you. if he doesn't flirt back then he's not interested and you should move on. i hope i helped.
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This is kinda embarassing to ask, but i'd rather ask people I don't know then someone I do.
I'm 16 and my boyfriend and I have talked about having sex. He's not a virgin, but I am. I'm scared that my vagina doesn't look normal. I really don't want to hear "if he loves you he won't care" stuff. Like, in all honesty I'm scared to even take my pants off around other people. Attempting to explain what I mean..My lips don't touch because I guess the part called the labia(?) is large and sticks out of my lips. That's really the only thing that bothers me, besides my skin being very sensitive so I have really bad razor burn. Any tips or ideas to help me out? Thanks! (link)
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I think maybe since you don't feel comfortable being naked around other people, you and your boyfriend should wait. Also maybe you should see an OBYN/GYNO to check out your labia, because i am not exactly sure, in honesty if that's normal or not. I hope i helped, good luck.
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