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hey i'm nicole.. i'm 13 n filipino and i like giving advice so if your in need ask me haha.. please write feedback
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i need help im a guy and my hair is like out of control its super wavy and when i try to grow it out it compacts and wont go down how can i straighten it out or fix it please?
use garnier fructis smoothing milk when your hair is slightly damp, or shampoo and condition with Simply Straight by Marc Anthony. any straightening shampoo works fine.. good luck
Ok, well there is this guy that I like and he absolutely adores me. He asked me out but I said no, maybe sometime soon. I like him, I really do. But see, I don't know if we went out that it would work out. He likes to play video games and talks about them a lot. I could care less half of the time but I listen and try to be interested in what he is saying because I care if that makes sense. And well, I'm the kind of girl who really likes to cuddle and kiss and sometimes other things. I don't have sex or oral sex.. just other things if you catch my drift. I mean I can live without those things if I have to. So my question is, should I go out with this guy? What are your blunt opinions on if you think it'd work out for us or not? Thanks
Well.. yea. I HATE IT WHEN THEY SURROUND THEIRSELVES AROUND VIDEO GAMES.. i know b/c i have cousins and guy friends who are ALL about it, even looking for codes. But i'm sure that's not all that hes about. You should go out with him and see how it goes.. if he's a good boyfriend then you're a lucky gal. break if off if you're not happy, who knows? if he knows you're serious about a relationship, hell either try to get better.. or it will make a turn for the worse and he really isnt for ya at all hope i helped. good luck
I have this friend(a guy)who i really like...yesterday he came over to hang out wth me and my other friend...me and him wrestled for like an hour and he kept hugging me...he also held my hand but we were playin around so after a second of owkward silence he pushed me and we started playin mercy...im not sure if he likes me or not...Please Help!
definitely.
i go to a private school...we don't have uniforms but we have a dress code...polo shirts, sweaters, that kind of thing...what do you suggest i do to accessorize/spice things up?
I go to a private school too. I try to spice things up, but they ususally dont allow much. NOT EVEN DANGLY EARRINGS. We could wear bracelets but its ONLY ONE BRACELET PER ARM. You could do something cute with your hair, cute wristbands, rings, and with shoes you could get mismatched laces. I dunno, try folding your polo sleeves a bit.. I know its kind of stupid but there's not much you can do. Try wearing American Eagle, A&F, or Aeropostale polos instead of the regular kind. I doubt your school will let you wear colored polos.. but yeah, i think they'll prolly let you do with a sweater that has a hood. Try to get away with anything you can. Sorry this probably wasnt much help, and good luck
Hey Nicole, this is Nicole again! I need some advice again. I've had this problem for almost 4 years, and I need help. I know you're a good columnist so I came to you. Okey, so I really love playing sports. My favorite sports are Volleyball, Football, Badminton, and Pool. I like basketball too, but the reason why its not my favorite sport is because I'm scared to play it. After school, everyone usually goes to the old school grounds and plays basketball. I love playing basketball, but whenever guys are playing bball with us, I get scared. I'm embarassed that everyone will make fun of me that I dont shoot well, I missed an easy shot, or I just do something stupid. Please help me get rid of this fear.
~**~((NiCoLe AnNe))~**~
PS. IM me if yooh can. my sn is FCNikkiBoO2011
hey nicole i added ya on my blist already.. :P
But yeah.. i've had the SAME EXACT PROBLEM as you! OK, here's what you do. Its not a very hard problem to fix. When you play bball and see guys playing, dont mind them. it's hard but it works. I mean -- who cares, really? They're just guys, and even if you make a mistake like shoot weird, usually those guys wouldn't notice b/c they're always so into their game. They most likely think that the girls are watching them compete against each other and are trying to show off. Start playing basketball but don't play alone, shoot some hoops with a couple of friends. It doenst even have to be a game, and have fun! If you concentrate so much on doing something stupid, most likely you will. keep your mind on something else. I hope you get rid of this fear like i did and good luck!
Whenever I'm around guys I get really shy and don't have much to say and then I get insecure and it's hard to be myself. So now all the guys at my school probably think I'm like really snobby or stuck up or something because I'm so quiet. Like there have been a few guys this year that have tried to be friends with me, but I just didn't know what to say around them, so they just kind of stopped talking to me. Help!!!
hey -- we've all had that problem. but wait,, they think you're snobby or stuck up because you're QUIET?!?! oh you said probably, so i'm pretty sure they don't think that! anyways, a good technique is.. that whenever you get insecure, try to vision the guy as one of your girl friends -- ok don't give up now, because i kno its hard but it WORKS if you do it right -- and just talk to them.. another good way is to surround yourself with good friends that aren't so full of them selves, and make sure you approach a guy casually (not like a mob) and if he's alone, you might want to talk to him alone so he wouldn't feel so intimidated. To keep talking to them, get a s/n if you haven't already, and this boosts friendship to the maxx, because you dont have to see them when you talk to them and it gives you time to think up something funny or good to say. Hey, you can do it! Go up to those guys you havent talked to in a while and say hey! come on.. Boys are people too, you know? try to make this big deal *something smaller* Hope i helped, and GOOD LUCK!
Ok so I need some opinions on this really LONG love question... It has 2 parts... This first part is that I need to pick between two guys.
Guy #1- We're going out, he's really sweet and nice and i like him, sometimes. My friends all like him because he doesn't want to hurt me and he has never made me cut myself (yeah- i cut) We've only known eachother for about a month, and the only reason I know him is because I was jealous of my friend, who was going out with the guy I liked at the time. Him and I are very much the same, and are very shy around eachother. I barely see him in school, but he really likes me.
Guy #2- I'm secretly in love with him. He's kind of a jerk, and he acts nice to you and then will say something horribly offencive to you in the same sentance. He's absolutly gorgeous, and more popular then me. He lead me on beofre, and my friends blame him for making me cut once. They all think he's a jerk, but I really like him.
Who should I pick?
The second part is that today, I am supposed to call #2. Atleast he wants me to, or so he told me last night. I am very intrigued, and I think I may call him. My best friend, the only other person who knows about this, says that I should call #1 and break it off with him before I call #2. But I don't know if I should becuse, #2 might hate me, and i don't want to be single right now, and have to explain to my friends why I broke it off with #1. So what should I do?
GIRL PLEASE! cant you use your common sense? pick #1! he seems like a waaay nicer guy than #2, and he definitely won't make you cut yourself! call #2, but if he asks you to go out with him, say no. people will be amazed at how you can stay grounded, and how you dont seem so "clingy". #2 won't know what he'll be missing.. and if he REALLY, REALLY likes you, he'll ask you out again. that's a good way to test if they're playing around or that they have true feelings. Good luck! and stop cutting yourself.. its not worth it.
hey nicole. whoa this thing rocks. well yes i need help. i don't have a name or anything and i don't plan on getting one too much work for me. well okay i have this problem with my i tihnk boyfriend. i hear a bunch of stuff from people like one person says he doesnt like meh and that asking meh out was a joke but someone else says he does like meh and he likes meh alot but doesnt wanta girlfriend. i don't get it! i'm going bananas! should i still go out with him and like wait and see what happens becuase we went to the movies and he did squat he just sat there and his excuse was his dad was there who was sitting where he couldn't see us. but should i wait it out and see what happens or just move on?
definitely wait it out. if you just move on, you'll never be sure of what ever happens to your relationship! guys are so confusing, theyre a mystery. sometimes they do nothing and just keep you wondering. i feel the same with this guy i like, b/c i'm not sure if he even really likes me, but now i'm just talkin bout my own problems. well hope i helped and good luck with your i think b/f!
Hi Nicole, My name is Nicole, too! Anyways, I need some help, even though I am also a columnist here ((pinayprincess74)). My friend Tyler keeps making mean racial jokes about me and always spreads rumors about me. But at time, when I really need him, hes there for me. Is he REALLY my friend? Please help me.
~**~((NiCoLe AnNe))~**~
PS. I'm also filipino!! Its awesome, we should be friends, visit my page, you're on my favorite columnist list!! ^_^
HEY NICOLE!!! HAHAHA THAT IS SO COOL! XD
of course ill help you! First of all.. i'd like to say that some people are really shallow and don't understand the words that come out of their mouth..OR MAYBE, he could think that those jokes make you laugh.. but ask yourself first.
Wow, ok does Tyler make those jokes all the time? Actually.. it doesnt matter if he does it all the time, if he does it, he's not worthy enough to be called your friend. Especially since he spreads rumors about you. Does he know that those jokes tick you off? You should tell him.. before you break off your frienship. Once you hear him crack another racial joke about you be like, "i hate it when you make those gay racial jokes about me and even though you're there for me at times, this frienship wont last unless you cut it out, you fag." If its too much of a handful to say, then tell him on AIM or on the phone or something. I hope this advice worked and thanks for coming to me!! ;D
haha being filipino rocks my socks.. O AND I PUT U ON MY FAVORITE COLUMNISTS! ill come by later to urs if i ever need advice, and stop by my lj if you want. www.livejournal.com/~ima_square99
Hi! My name is Andrea. Everyone at my school makes fun of me, but I don't know why. It may be because I wear flood pants, button-up collar shirts, and Converse sneekers! But what's wrong with that? I mean, it's not like I'm mean. I'm a very nice person. I love everyone! I like pretty butterflies, and long walks at the library! Don't you? I love bugger pumpkin pie, it's my 3 year-old sister's specialty! Please help me, what could be wrong with me? Everyone making fun of me and all! Thank you for your cooperation! Bye bye now!
Your friend,
Andrea
P.S. Thank you again, I love you!
hello "andrea"..
fuck those other kids at ur skool then! i personally think your style is fabulous! probably what's wrong with you is your attitude around people.. how you're all lovey dovey while they could be sad emo people.. but that quality is good! Make friends who accept your individuality.. like me! Good luck @ school and with your problem!
your friend,
nicole [:
Have any of you guys tryed to spray on tan where you stand in the thing and it gives you a tan? If so does it work good and better then a tanning bed?
well, spray on tans are pretty good according to some of my friends. me, in particular, i dont need it because i'm very a very mocha colored Filipino. on the plus side, they're way safer than other types of tanning because they dont involve the intensity of the sun to damage your skin. It can give you skin cancer. Well hope i helped & good luck!
i cant take it anymore i just want to kill myself or somebody. I had one person I could talk to about absolutely anything, he talked me out of killing myself and cutting and running away. but last night i told him i like him and i feel like that fucked everything up and its just awful..i just got told i was disturbing an messed up so i had to tell this guy about my suicide problems, and im going to have to tell this other guy about it too. just so they will understand. only 1 guy knew about it..now 2 do..soon to be 3, i didnt want to tell these people these things, the 1st person was the only one who knew abuot it cause he realized ya know something is wrong. and the other one knows just cause i dont want him thinkin I'm weird, same reason that the 3rd on is going to know. the 1st person than knew said that i shouldnt tell them cause the more people that know then they could tell..so should i tell them and make them not think im weird, but also risk the 3 person being able to tell or do i just let them think i'm weird
hey.. first off..i may not know what you've been through but you shouldn't kill youself, even though all you're thinking about now is that you cant take it anymore. but think of all the life you have ahead of you, these suicidal feelings wont last very long if you just pull together and not to linger in the past about every bad thing that happened. and hey that person who told you you were disturbing and messed up, well f*** them, b/c they possibly can't feel how you feel. dont listen to what they say.
To answer your question, i think it's okay if you tell those guys if you trust them enough. Dont care what other people think about you. If you really really need to tell someone, then tell someone who will help you like the 1st guy you told. i really hope i helped! Good luck and live it up!
if a guy sees this question he will know wat i mean.
I have a problem. I am a christian kid but im slipping away from the lord because of things i look at. if ya know wat i mean. I cant stop. I try but nothin works. If you can help, please do
hey you. LISTEN TO GOD. okay?! he not only accepted death and crucifiction for OURS (INCLUDING YOURS) SINS, but because he loved us and he wanted us to live a GOOD life! if you're looking at bad stuff like porn or whatever, drop it because thats a huge turn-off.. and god gave you guys DICKS for making kids ONCE YOUVE BEEN MARRIED. look for a good hobby, and hanging out with good friends can lead to good hobbies/habits, whatever. Good luck kid!!
well i like this boy right and he's spanish and i have no problem with that b/c he''s really sweet and cute. but all my friends do b/c im like white and we're totally diff and some of my friends are sort of racist. i don't know what to do b/c i rlly like this boy...what should i do
its good that you like someone of a different ethnicity other than some racist people these days. you shouldnt listen to what your friends think, if you like him, go out and flirt! get to know him better and if u have good chemistry, then go for it and ask for his number or s/n. sooner or later you'll either be really good friends or maybe even a couple. go to the movies or hang out and stuff! Good luck!!!
I keep having dreams about the guy I used to go out with. I guess I kind of still like him. Well anyway first dream was where I was yelling at my friend in the art room. (I'm in art with the guy I keep dreaming about.) He was sitting with other people at a table and not even noticing our fight. Then last night for the dream I was sitting in the art room once again. He was answering a question that the teacher asked. He answered it really good but the teacher didn't really care. I was amazed at his great response to the question. When I woke up this morning I had a headache and I never get those, especially when I wake up. Are my dreams trying to tell me something? If so, do you have any idea what?
i'm not quite sure what your dream is about but you should go to www.myjellybean.com and click on "Dream Interpreter" and look for key words that happened in your dream. It's a cool site b/c it has SO many words.. you'd think something wasnt on there but it is! lol!
What is a good brand of *ceramic* hair straighter that isn't too expensive (under $25)
The Revlon cermaic straighteners are pretty good.. its about 18-20 dollars i'm sure..
When I was 8, my grandfather died of cancer. It is now 6 years later and I still am extreamly upset about it. I was very close to my grandpa, I always remember him joking around with me. He'd always tap me on the head when I wasn't looking and then I'd turn around and he'd be looking around pretty much making it obvious that he did it. He'd always give me money even if I didn't ask for it and he was just a very happy grandpa. The night I found out he died, I was devistated. I was in my room listening to music and I heard the phone ring but didn't think much of it. My mom called me and my brother into her room and she told us to sit down. She looked a bit shakey but I still didn't think much of it. She held my hand and looked at me and said Papa (that's what we called him) just passed a way. And I looked at her in disbelief. I was in too much shock to even cry. Once I started crying I coudln't stop. I fell asleep crying, I woke up crying and I cried for the next 4 days straight. This happened six years ago and I'm still upset about it. Everytime I go to my grandma's house and I see his pictures I cry. Can anyone help me? It's been 6 years and I'm still not over his death. Please help.
You can never truly get over someone's death, but you have to accept that what is done is done and not linger in the past. You should set aside a day to look at all your photographs, videos, and etc. and know that even though hes not with you anymore doesnt mean you have to forget about the good times you had with him. My grandma died, and i was as sad as you, im not over it, but to keep myself from crying i'd think of a happy or funny thing she said and just live with the memories. I'm very sorry about your grandpa. Good luck.