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I always have to be perfect in every single way. That's just the way I am. Well, now that i'm getting older i feel very uncomfortable wiht my body. I weigh 97 pounds and i am 5'3". I'm worried my thighs are to jiggely and my butt as well. I'm also very uncomfortable wiht my bra size, i'm the 32 AA,=, and i hardly fit in that. Well, yesterday i was making a list about all the things i liked about my body and hate about my body. The only thing i liked was my eye color, and i have evrything else. Please help me!! What are some excersizes that i can get my whole bpdy toned up AND HOW CAN I FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE WITH MYSELF!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
You sound like you're underweight, so I'd say eat a little bit more, which will make you gain a bit more weight, adding curves.
I had this same problem the beginning of my Freshman year. I was 104 lbs & 5'4", and had no boobs, butt, or curves whatsoever. I started eating more meat & wheats, and I'm up at 116 now and I'm beginning to get curves.
I have a major problem. I'm best friends with this guy. The only problem is I have a crush on him. Do I tell him and risk losing our friendship or do I not tell him at all? Please Help!
If it seems like he likes you, go ahead and tell him. If you're not sure, then bring up a dream that you had, where you two were boyf & girlf. See what his response is, and then take it from there.
Ok, so there's this kid at my school that is obsessed with me, and we talk on the phone and internet and hes asked me out several times already, everytime i said i wasn't sure, what my question is is that do you think it would be smart to get to know him better, or is it "bad" to have an obsessive boyfriend? I don't really "like" him yet, but hes one of the sweetest kids i've ever met. Okay.. sorry it was long thanks
ashley
Yes! It's bad to have an obsessive boyfriend. Obsessiveness can lead to possessiveness and possibly violence. He's too persistent and that can be a bad thing.
ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE!
It sounds like he likes you, but is too shy to admit it. I know a lot of guys like that. Like, I talk to my neighbor a lot outside of school, but in school he completely ignores me.
alright i am a 13 year old male and i am friends with this one girl. She already has a boyfriend but he goes to a different skool and she doesn't really get to talk to him. And i like the girl sooo much... What should i do ask her out??
Don't ask her out. Wait till they're over and then go for it.
therez this kid who i was involved w/ for lyke a month very physically he was going out with someone at the time but i was his unofficial gf who he talked to and did stuff with, and he promised he'd break up with her, then i come back after a weekend and he's broken up with her, and i expect him to ask me out, and some other girl's on his arm, i feel like ive been used and i should be pissed, so how should i ger back at him? no really i want to burn this jerk, he ignores me everyday and acts like we were never all over each other, how should i get revenge?
Show him that you're happy without him. That'll be pure torture. Look for a guy that respects you and doesn't just see you as a sex object.
What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you?
Here's a few signs..
1) He doesn't call you as much as he used to.
2) He stops asking you to go places with him.
3) You haven't kissed or hugged in over a week.
4) His friends tell you that he's getting bored with you.
5) He starts being mean to you.
Those are just a few.. I could think of so many more.
my boyfriend is supposed to hug me on valentines day and it would our first hug ever... but i don't know what to do... this may sound stupid but please helpp.... i love him soo much... also im afraid my arm pits will smell because lately my deoderent hasn't been working... any suggestions on good deoderents and no spray because i have a reaction to it... thanks... 13/f
Ban works really good, and so does Skin So Soft roll-on deodorant by Avon (it doesn't appear on clothes or anything)
Okay, sorry i know everyone is asking questions about Valentines Day and all but me and this guy started going out just today not too long ago and i like him and stuff. But valentines Day is in 2 days and we don't go to the same school so i wouldn't see him ON valentines day-maybe just tomorrow. But should i get something for him anyways? and if i do when can i get it without him being there (if he does go tomorrow) and if i get it tomorrow how do i give it to him? and what should i get if i do?? thanks
Get him a cute stuffed animal or something small like that. Since the two of you aren't serious, don't buy something lavish & over the top.
People keep making up rumors about me and I dont know who it is and I want it to stop. I could just start a huge fist fight but thats not the way I want it settled. What do I do?
Wow, I've been through that a lot. Don't start a fist fight, because in some places people can get expelled for that. I'd say just wait for it to die down, but if rumors keep starting, ask where people heard it from. This happened to me last year and I found out that my so-called friend was the one starting all the nasty rumors about me! If it gets to the point where people are physically hurting you or it's getting to you, go to the counselor.
(15/m) I have known this girl for awhile for about 3 years. and we used to hangout and talk all the time. but now lately I havent talked to her that much and I really like her.I don't know what to do ecspecially since valentines day is coming up.(don't want to make talking to her an akward silence)
-signed lying dreamer
Give her a Valentine or a cute present! That'd be really sweet and I'm sure she'd melt! Do something personal & from the heart.
i'm like a tomboy. And i have my first boyfreind. But the thing is that he is shorter then me and i get picked on about that. But he is really sweet.
Those people that are picking on you are obviously losers with no lives whatsoever. There are a lot of couples in Hollywood in which the girl is taller than the guy. Remember Nicole Kidman & Tom Cruise?
This kid in my school asked me to this party and I turned him down because i knew no one would dance. I want to know if he still likes me but i'm scared to ask. What do i do??
This is one of the few times when it's okay to have a friend to talk a guy for you. If you're friends with his friends, that makes it easier. Maybe just have them casually ask him?
I am a 13 male and i am really attracted to a girl but i dont know how to talk to her. I'm a little afarid of girls can u help.
Try IMing her or writing her a cute note, asking her to a movie or an upcoming dance. Whatever you do, don't have a friend do it for you, that's the worst possible thing to do.
what are some good ways to get a boy to notice you in school?? i like this kid in school but i dont think he notices me... i need help!! thanks!
Flaunt all your best qualities, be confident, and always show him that you're a fun person. Any guy will notice you for that!
i wanna know whats da differents between puppy love or love?
Puppy love is a lot like an infatuation. But love is when you are in-love.
please dont delete this question..id really like 2 kno. well im a freshman in high school and ive been having my period since the middle of my 7th grade year. my friend told me that she had discharge before her period but then it stopped. i still have discharge. is there something wrong?
No, there's NOTHING wrong! It's completely normal for discharge to be different for everyone.
i need help my parents stariotype me like if i don't want to study they automaticly think i just want to watch t.v. i don't i have told them that they do that they say the same thing every time they won't litsen to me and i am in major need of help because they blame everything on me even if its not true
My parents are just like that, except they think that I just wanna go on the computer. What I did is that I proved that I can study but still have fun. I studied for an hour after school & then just had the rest of the evening to do whatever. Show them your work so they at least know that you're doing good in school.
umm theres this guy that likes me alot and he is def. not my type...... but my friends tell him i lik him bc they feel bad for him... But i dont like him... Im going icekating on my birthday and soo is he.... he is giving me this real diamond ring and asking me out... what should i do?
Welcome to my world! LOL. Anyway, I think you should tell him that you like him as JUST A FRIEND, nothing more. It may hurt him, but he'll get hurt even more in the long run if you don't do anything now.
My 14 yr. old brother will be turning 15 soon and I was wondering if anyone knows where I can buy him some vintage t-shirts (i.e. Atari, Nintendo, etc.)? Thanks!
There's a shop around my area called Ragstock that has cute vintage tees for guys. If you don't have one, try Kohl's.. They have some Nintendo ones.