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I am a 20 year old female. I have been out of highschool for two years, so I know how it is and am willing to give advice at any time. I'm engaged, going into my second year of college and can't wait to get out.

I am a devout Christian and will love to talk about my Lord with ANYONE. If you have a question, I will more than likely make sure Jesus is in my answer. =)

Go ahead.. ask me anything!

Things that I'm proud of:
I'm a Christian
I'm a virgin
I pay for all of my things which include a car, an apartment, a cell phone, groceries, gas, personal items, etc...
Basically what I'm saying is, I know how real life is.. please don't come to me with dumb questions.

I'm what most people call a "nerd." I like playing video games. MAGIC is a hobbie of mine. I play many different instruments. Computers are not only a past time, they are also my occupation. I enjoy being in the choir at school and church.

I'm vegetarian. Yes, I have a warm heart.


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hi. im 16 and i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for our one year. im madly in love with him and i want it to be something really romantic i dont know what to do. please help

I'm going with the scrapbook idea.

It's cute, sweet, and romantic all at the same time.

good luck!

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I just got my tongue pierced and i got these sore throat lozenges. It says "with pain numbing relief" and it also says "Benzocaine/menthol oral anesthetic lozenges"

Would this be okay to get rid of the pain and swelling?

Hmm.. well considering the last person spelled "they're" and "definitely" wrong.. let me help you out.

If it came with the piercing, then it is DEFINITELY ok to use.

Infact, I'm 100% that it's ok. I've had a few piercing's myself and they always come with numbing medication.

good luck!



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ok all of my friends are having sex (and there all around 15 and 16, and i am 15.) And I don't feel like people our age are ready to have sex yet...but all of my friends are telling me how much fun it is, and they kept telling me how i need to lose it. I kept telling them that i'm not ready, but they keep pressuring me to have it. How can I get it throgh there head that i'm not ready and I don't want to lose it untill i'm ready?

I don't think anyone is quite ready until they're in love. Maybe I'm old fashioned.. but I know that when my fiance and I get married, it will be the greatest experience of our lives.

Please don't let others tell you it's "fun."

Sex is fun until you're pregnant.. or sex is fun until Jesus says "Depart from me, I never knew you"..

it's harsh, but true.

Think about it.

Make wise decisions.

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for the first time i had phone sex. my boyfriend told me what to do but i didnt think it would be so plesent i dont know if know i should have sex with him? anyone please answer i'll give 5's

ok, obviously, the other person doesn't have any sense to tell you what to do. She's 13.. and if her mama didn't teach her anything about morals, well, I'm sorry for her future. She will have one filled with hell and regret. Plus they didn't even spell KNOW right...

Look.. take some advice from me. DO NOT HAVE SEX UNTIL YOU ARE FULLY READY. I am 20 years old, engaged, and still a virgin. I have been with this guy for a year and know he's the one. BUT I will not have sex with him until we are married.

I love him very much and most of all love my Lord.

I know what it's like to be a teenager... I was just one! I dated a guy for two years when I was in highschool and didn't have sex with him.

I know the pressures of boys and their sweet words. I also know what it's like to want to rip a guys shirt off and eat them for dinner! :)

Please, do not do it until you are ready or you will truely regret it.

I don't know you, but I do care for you.

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My name is Justine, I am 14 and in one month 15, and female
I really like my moms ex-best friends son and I have known him all my life but I am not alowed to see him anymore. He likes me and I like him, but he moved to far away. We sneek around just so we can see each other but its not enough. We call ourselves friends with benifets, but the truth is I am in love with him but I dont know if I should tell him. Hes been my friend for so long, and I dont want to ruin our friend ship just because how I feel What do I do? Do I tell him how i feel any possibly dont talk to him for a long time, or do I keep me Fellings locked inside of me?

I used to have that "in love" feeling all of the time. I'm 20, so 15 wasn't that long ago for me.

Personally, I don't think you are "in love" with him. I think love is a very strong word and when you do meet the love of your life, you will understand the TRUE meaning.

Although, I would tell him how much you care about him and how good he makes you feel.

I'm sure he will agree and make sure you know his feelings.

Don't rush things. You still have a while.

I'm engaged.. 20... and still a virgin! :)

My advice isn't mothering.. it's just truely experience.

Good luck with the guy!

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Okay this is kind of hard to explain but you know when you search Google for certain specific things and after you are done with the search, the context in which you searched remains in the Google box's history. For example, let's say I searched one day for the terms "latest DVD releases." Then the next day I start to search for something different, but begins with the letter "L" like maybe "Little Mermaid" or something like that and as soon as I type the letter "L" the phrase "latest DVD realeases" pops up as well as some other things I searched for weeks ago and you can even scroll through and see what all you have searched for, aka the "history." Well is there any way I can delete the history for the Google box? It's annoying to see all those things pop up before I search. I don't think it has anything to do with the web page history that all computers have because I just totally cleared it out but the Google hostory things still exists. How can I deleted that or does is just go away by itself? Sorry if I didn't explain that very well.

This will be an easier option for you... go to tools, internet options, and clear history.

To make sure all is gone.. you can also go to tools, internet options, settings (under temporary internet files), view files... highlight EVERYTHING on the page and delete it.

It won't hurt your computer... it's just deleting everything you have been to.

It's actually good to clean out your computer. It doesn't have as much back up and allows it to run faster.

I clean mine at least once a week.

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15/Female

Are there guys, around the age of 15 or 16, who just want a relationship of holding hands, kissing and making out (but not sex) anymore? I don't think I even know any guys who want relationships like that. Do I just know the wrong guys or is the majority wanting more?

Thanks! :)

The thing is.. you're young.. but they're young too. Guys mature at least 2 years slower than girls. They're at the the thinking process you were when you were thirteen. They can't get girls off of their mind. They're just going through puberty...

I'm 20 and I'm saying just from experience.. I never met a guy that couldn't get their mind off of sex until I met the boyfriend I have now.

I enjoy being in a right relationship and being out of teenage drama. You..and other boys.. will grow out of it eventually.


The best advice I can give you is to be safe. DO NOT let the words of a boy talk you into doing something you know you shouldn't do.

I'm 20 and still a virgin. I couldn't be any happier about that.

Remember.. Good things come to those that wait

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