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Hey GUYS! I am so thrilled to be answering questions. Life is tough and I'm here to help!
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(ok this is gonna be pretty long...sorry in advance)
Ok Im not the best looking guy in the school, but i know some of the girls who like me. I was going out with this girl and she dumped me. Im not over her but i am trying hard to get over her. I am trying to get another girl friend but i dont have a very good reputation with girls...it seems like all the girls that like me are afraid to go out with me because they think they're good reps will get ruined....like this one girl i dated, her friend paid her to make out with me(I wasn't told she was being paid)and now everyone calls her a 2-dallar-ho. And the girl that just dumped me is being called a slut cuz she let me finger her.I have three questions...
1) how should i get over my old girlfriend?
2) how do i gt rid of my bad rep?
3) how do i keep from ruining girls reps?
signed.....considered dangerous
ps-please answer...I'll rate 5
So what if your not the best looking guy in school. Im not the best looking girl in school either, but people still like me. Your trying hard to get over your ex-girlfriend. That takes time and its normal after a break up. That will gradually go away as different girls come into the picture. Since you don't have a very good reputation with girls, change your reputation. Be the best you can be. It's not your fault that the girl that was paid to make out with you is called a 2-dallar-ho. She put that upon herself so people shouldn't balme you for the situation she put herself into. Girls should like you for your personality, not your looks or the people you hang out with. Gradually, over time, people will see the real you through YOU. Not through the girls you dated. Hope I helped!
Tell me how it works out.
~K~
hi im really confused because me and my boyfriend got into this really big fight and its all because he thinks i like this other boy and i kinda do but i dont wanna hurt him by dumping him because i really like him two and theres these to other boys i also like so this makes four boys that i like i dont wanna like that many but i cant help it there all soooo hot i only want one tho what can i do to try to just like one boy???
There isn't much you can do. You may like these other boys because there is something that your boyfriend is missing. Focus on your boyfriend more than those hot guys. They're hot, but you have a boyfriend because there was something that triggered him to you away from those hot guys you see every now and then. Who do you like/love. As in can't stop thinking about. Get to know your boyfriend more. If it just isn't working out, see what the hot guys personalities are and get to know them before dumping your boyfriend. Hope I helped!
~K~
(13/f)My friend, Amy, got me together with a guy called Wayne as a joke because nobody likes Wayne. But I started to really like him. I could tell him anything. He was my best friend. However, he can't stay out of trouble and I found out his grades are really low. So I broke up with him. Now he says he wants me back but he won't change to meet my standards He says he'll try but he doesn't put forth much effort. I told him I just wanted to be friends but it's hard for me because I'm not over him yet. I still want to treat him like a boyfriend. What should I do?
If you like him, I'd say go with it. Maybe, you could both put forth an effort to meet eachothers standards. You can still like him and use will power to not do things you know you wouldn't normally do. Encourage him to work hard and help him too! Hope I helped!
~K~
ok well i like this guy chris and he flirts with me in indpendent study and i really like him and i want to send him a candy gram on valentines dayand i will probly write Will You Go Out With Me?
Love Jess and hes in my home room and we have independent study that day should i send him a candy gram or just ask him out face to face? i need help pleaze ill rate high
Eaither way sounds nice. What do you think he'll like most. I would think that it'd be nice for someone to send me a candygram because someone was thinking about me enough to do something like that for me! Hope I helped!
~K~
Ok for Valentines Day I am getting my boyfriend of almost 9 months a box of chocolates, a dozen lollipops that taste really good-have REALLY long stems-the actually candy part of it looks like glass, and a silver key with a heart engraved on it with our intitials on it (K+C). Is that a good idea if not what are some good ideas?
ps. NO colonge bc i like how he smells already, he wouldn't like a teddy bear, prolly wouldn't like a mix cd w. love songs on it, and no boxers (I am not sure of how his mom would feel about that)
WOW! That sounds so SWEET! They are perfect gifts for your special guy! Happy Valentine's Day. (almost) Hope I helped!
~K~
My boyfriend is prude and won't make any moves like handing hands or kissing. I would really like him to show his affection for me sometimes. Should I make the moves or is he not interested in it? I don't want to scare him off. If I do make moves, what should I do and how? People tell me to follow my heart but how do I know how he feels? Please help!
Only time will tell.
Your bf might be nervous too. Maybe he's not ready to hold hands or is scarred of what you might think. Maybe he's thinking the exact same thing as you! When people say, follow your heart, they're right, I know. If someone won't like you for who YOU are and for what YOU want to do, then maybe its just not meant to be. Remember, they're going through some of the same things as you! Hope I helped!
~K~
13/f in 8th grade..I just found out that people in my school spread a rumor that i tried to kill myself which is TOTALLY UNTRUE! No one believes me though, because i've been kind of depressed lately. And im sitting here crying because i am afraid about what my classmates think of me and think i did something i didnt! But, its because of alot of things at home. My friends are starting to believe it now and ask me if its true! And i feel like everyone feels weird around me and i hate it! What do i do? Oh yeah, please dont say guidance counselor - ive tried that and it made things even worse ..so if you say that i will rate you a 1. im sorry. thanks!
Well, rumors are rumors and SOMETIMES you have to let them be. If this is NOT an option for you, tell one of your friends a rumor about yourself saying something thats opposite of what is being said. If this doesn't work, you might have to let things be. If I didn't help, I'm REALLY sorry. So, Hope I helped! Tell me if things get worse! Hope all goes well!
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~K~
How can i eat healthy i do eat healthy but i would lyk to be more and i am 13 i dont think i am fat if n e one thinks that i just want to stay in shape 4 basketball and softbal and swimming which r summer sports!
does n e one have ne suggestions about wut i can eat or do thanks
if this helps i am in california and i am 13 and 100lbs if that helps
Well, depending on your height, you are healthy. Try eating what the food pyramid says. Grain, veggies, protein, etc. That is the best way you can get into shape, and stay in shape. Are you learning about nutrition in science? If not, you might be pretty soon unless you already have. Exercise reguarlly, too. Like running once aroun your steet! Hope I helped!
~K~
I got my cartilage pierced in august, and I didn't have a problem with it until now. Everytime I take the earring out to try and put a new one in, it seems like the back of my ear scabbed over in the 5 seconds that an earring wasn't in. I have to push the earring in, and eventually I get it in, and it's usually fine. Today I changed it again, and I tried to put a new one it-a post hoop, and I couldn't get it in cause it hurt. Then the back of my ear started to bleed a little. Does that mean it's infected? Or just irritated? Should I take the earring out and let it close up, or is it something that will go away? What should I do? I don't want to take it out. Thanks
Most of the time, cartilage closes up. It gets infected easily. You should be fine. You might not be pushing your earing through the hole, but maybe a millimeter away from the opening. This might happen for a couple of months. My ears still tend to slightly close even if it is a few seconds. Don't worry about it unless it gets worse. Continually clean it everyday in the morning and at night. If it does get worse or infected, see your doctor. Hope I helped!
~K~
Okay i have this friend who has a sorta g/f in another state...they only see eahother 6 weeks out of the year (camp)and they rarely ever talk on the phone, only a little bit on the internet. He's been really upset about not seeing her and shiz b/c of the past holiday season and upcoming holiday. I'm want to convince him having a long distance relationship is too hard but i don't want to just tell him flat out its wrong.I know that its not my business to tell him who to date but i just don't want him to be sad anymore. He's always sad and i don't like him being sad...so how do i do that? Someone please help me! Thanx! I appreciate it!
Well, telling him a relationship long distance won't work is well, rude. Many long distant relationships work out. You have to be able to take time out of your schedule to make it work. First, tell him to maybe talk more to his gf and see if they can talk say, 30 min. a night. If this doesn't work, express to him what you think and let him figure it out. It may be he needs some time to think! Hope I helped!
~K~
I'm having several different problems with my Internet connection right now . . . .
1. I can't access ANY secure servers. That includes eBay, Amazon, and my mom's banking website.
2. When I try to log into MSN Explorer, it says that it can't log in because there's a problem with my connection.
3. When I try to log in to MSN Messenger, it says my password is wrong. I know it's not because I had a friend try it at her house. (AFTER I was having the password problems, so even if she had changed my password that wouldn't be it. ^~)
Does anyone know how to fix these problems?
Your best bet is to contact your internet service company. They will know EXACTLY what the problem is. It may be that you have a virus! Hope I helped!
~K~
Ok, me and my friend Jessica got in a fight that was ridiculous and I had no idea what it was about. She was always wicked mean and shes like oh yeah you think your allll that and I was like No... and so we ended up ending our like 3-4 year friendship. I miss her, she was a TRUE friend, before..that is. What should I do?
Signed,
A Engineer with no travelers.
Well, there isn't much you can do but apoligize. Freinds last a lifetime but only if you treat eachother with respect. That means her treating you with respect too. Ask if she can explain what the fight was about. If she doesn't remember than, was the fight really any important? Hope I helped!
~K~
okay my friend susan started cutting herself whenever she gets confused sad or mad.i mean our friend lisa goes to theropy for it so i wood think susan wood know better. but she does it more now than she used to. i mean its not deep thank god but i mean its still bad. i told her i wodont get mad at her if she came out and told me she was about to do it so i codo help her. cas i got mad at lisa n seh stoped comign to me for advice and i dont want that to happen to one of my closer friends. i told her whenever she thinks about doing it to call me and id always be there for her. i dont wanan tell anyone cas shell get mad at me. n if it gets worse i think im gunna tell someone cas teachers hav been noticeing how depressed she is. is there anything else i can or should do?
xo briana .. i rate =)
Well, what is more important? Your friends life, or her getting mad at you? If you honestly don't want to tell anyone RIGHT now, then you should if it gets worse. Immidiately! Your friend could be in serious danger. Not only for harming her self, it could give her major blood loss and she might want to well, hurt herself REALLY bad! Hope I helped!
~K~
my best friend has a boyfriend who she thinks is more important than me. when i say something about him, she gets mad at me!does that mean she doesnt care about me anymore?
No. She probably has gotten over protective about her boyfriend when you or anyone brings him up. She might want a little space. Let her get used to the idea first! Hope I helped!♥♥♥
~K~
The situation is as follows:
-I would like to buy a digital camera
-I would like fairly decent zoom ability
-I would like removable storage
-My budget is $200
I've been trying to do some research but I'm feeling pretty confused. There are so many options and I know so little about all of them. Any advice from people who actually have a digital camera or know a fair amount about them would be fantastic. Is it possible to get what I want within my budget? What brands should I look for?
Kodak...I got one for Christmas and it works GREAT! I believe it is an Easy Share, It has different features. It uses a unique dial to change how you want to take your picture! Hope I helped!
~K~
hey i was wondering, how do you tune a half step down? iv'e been trying to figure it out but it doesn't work... thanks so much
Try:
http://metronomeonline.com/
It helps my sister with oboe and english horm practice! It plays NOTES not just a beat! Hope I helped!
~K~
I feel like my bestfriend likes her other friend more than me. she sits by the other girl at lunch together more often than with me.they do lots of things together, but not with me.How do i get my best friend to like me better?
aloner,
Well, maybe your friend is changing. When my best friend ditched me for the popular caln, I felt terrible. Maybe, you could start hanging out with them. Like, at lunch, when she sits with her other friend, ask if you can sit with her too. Or, when they don't invite you do things with you ASK if you can. Try talking to your BFF and maybe explain how you feel. Talking is sometimes the best way to reslove things. DO NOT go down hard. It'll make things worse! Hope I helped!♥♥♥
~K~
hey im 13 and i cant go anywhere exept skool and sports-so if theres not adult supervisoin then i cant go which sux i talk to my mom about it all the time but i cant get her to give in she says she trust me but she dosnt think ill be safe but i kno i will-and on a totaly dif subject i have this one friend she like one of my best friends ive known her for year and i feel like im her "posse" who ever answers this dont tell me to talk to her about it cuz i dont need to i just wanna kno am i or is it just a feeling
plz help
lost ~n~ life
It's probably just a feeling. If you don't want to be her posse, let her be your posse. You are friends right? Well, I know how you feel about not being able to go anywhere. My parents won't let me date till im 16, uh...probably not happening. Anyway, is there a way to convince to her or prove to her that you are responsible?
Hope I helped!
~K~
this might be confusing. but here goes. ok i liek this guy named matt and ive liked him since last summer and he likes me too. every time i talk to him im so happy and i cant stop smiling but the thing is he lives in denton and i live in flowermound. (texas) so i never ever see him so it sucks. but the thing is at my school (FMHS) theres this one guy ive liked since the beginning of football season and he liked me and all but nothing ever happened besides we kissed one time during truth or dare but thats not the point. i still like him and he told me he likes me but neither of us want a boyfriend or girlfriend. he told me he just wants someone he can be really good friedns with and flirt with and he wants it to be me. well heres the bad part, this other guy likes me and i talked to him on the phone last night for like 8 hours. it was amazing. so i kinda liek all three guys and all 3 liek me and i have no idea what to do!please help! ill rate you veryy high if you give a good answer
Well, it depends on what kind of relationship you want! Do you want a long distance, great friend, or lets say total BF relationship. Who do you like the MOST. Make a little "get to know you quiz" for each guy. Whoever rates the highest is probably a good match. If you are not ready for a relationship, I would chose, 1st or 2nd guy mentioned. What do you have in common with each guy. Who do you think would be a "perfect match?" Complete opposites, slightly in common, or two peas in a pod? Hope I helped!
~K~
Alot of my friends are really annoyed by one of my friends latley. She's going out with someone that she doens't really like (she likes 2 other ppl) and one of them is some one that her friend got dumped by (it's been a month but she still really likes him)and sometimes she wears clothes that r uh...too small and well...i'm torn between my tow friends, they both have good points but i don't kno wut to do, i don't want one ot hate me.
plz help me
If you were to wear clothes that most people would say "unfashionalbe" would you want someone to tell you? THink about that. Go easy on her when you tell her. Tell her to be herself and act normal. I mean, who would want a guy to like you as say, Brittany Spears but you're really a simple life girl. Such as Monica on "Friends." Tell her that or something similar. Don't go hard on her. DON'T chose sides. THis would make it worse! Hope I helped! Tell me if it worked out!
~K~