Hey, lots of people say I give great advice that (usually) comes through in the end, but I'll let you be the judge of that.
I love reading, rocking and getting high. [:
I play bass guitar and I am bisexual.
I am a purebred metalhead, but I'm really into peace and love and all the hippy crap... probably because I'm a pot head. XP
I don't have many chick friends, I just don't get along as well with females. My bestfriend's are the greatest. [:
I like to meet new people and have fun. So, got a question? I'll do my best to answer it.
Peace.
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15/f
i used to cut but recently i've been having urges to do it and i find it hard to ignore them. have any suggestions on how to make the urges stop? i've tried scraping my arm with a pen so it doesnt leave any marks but that doesn't seem to satisfy the urges.
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Hey!
I totally understand where you're coming from, I
use to cut, when I stopped I got aweful urges...
And I found it really hard to ignore them, I turned
to drugs, not a very good idea, but when I got off
the drugs, I wanted to cut again.
We have a punching bag in our garage... whenever I
Feel like cutting, or doing drugs... I just bash
the shit out of that thing.
If you don't have one... maybe join a gym...
Just please, please, please don't turn to drugs...
their NEVER the answer!
Peace.
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My leg hair grows back really fast.
And I used the new Embrace razor from Venus and it didn't work very good on me.
But everyone else says it works wonders!
I think it sucked.
Am I normal? Cause if it has 5 blades it should get a close shave, but it didn't for me!
Please help! I'm very curious! :)
Thanks! (link)
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Maybe its just that razors aren't for you.
I know it hurts but why not try waxing?
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I am looking for some tabs for lead guitar.
I have been trying to learn the lead tab for the song "Tomorrow" by Silverchair but it is too fast and I just can't get it.
Can anyone suggest some cool songs similar to Silverchair's songs I can learn lead guitar for?
Thanks. (link)
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http://www.fretplay.com/tabs/s/silverchair/freak-tab.shtml
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Peace.
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Theres this guy im almost sorta going out with. I seen one of his friends and thought oh hes cute and seen how he acted and thought maybe he'd be good for my best friend. I told my best friend about him and I want them to meet. I haven't formally met the guy either though. so how should i tell my crush that his friend and my friend should get to know eachother? And he doesn't know my friend either. I could say oh my friend thinks that your friend over there is cute [even though she hasn't seen him] and/ or what else could i say? I have it set for them to go out, i dont know why but i really want them to. (link)
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You could just say to him:
"wouldn't it be funny if you friend and my friend went out or something, we should totally introduce them"
Peace.
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long story short, my best friend was acting really strange and un-like her usual self, so since i know her myspace password & email i logged into her account. I read her messages, and found out she had been forwarding some of the private, personal messages i sent to her, to other people! she was also talking really badly about me to behibnd my back.
My question is, do you agree with my being mad at her? I mean, she asked me what I thought about this guy, so i messaged her the answer, and then she forwarded my message to him! thats just one example. shes telling people things ive done and said that she promised to keep quiet. so, who is wrong here? (link)
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What a bitch!!
Yes, you have every right to be mad at her!
Some best friend.
Don't feel bad about being mad.
What a cow!
Well, laterz.
Peace.
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what do guys think is the cutest thing about a girl? (link)
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Boobies!!
Haha, guys like out going girls, chicks that aren't afraid to look like a total loser in front of everyone.
Girls who aren't afraid to tell a guy he looks hot or he's heckers funny.
Shit like that.
Peace
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I'm 17 and very shy. I've never had a boyfriend and am not that close to any guys. My senior prom's coming up in a few months and I'd rather not go by myself but I'm not interested in anyone at my school. How do I meet more guys my own age that don't go to my school? (link)
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Well, can you skate?
Ride a bike??
I suggest hanging out a a skate park.
That's where a meet new mates, and occasionally
dates to dumb school shit.
So, yeah think about it.
Just go there, maybe with a mate... just hang out
if you can ride or stake.
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Peace.
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umm........ icut myself and i dont no how hazarddis it is to health can u plz tell me (link)
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Depends how deep you're cutting.
Like that other person said I think drugs are the better alternative. Just try not to OD, unless you are actually trying to off your self. But it's not on me if you do. k?
[: Try and chill out. aye?
Laterz.
Peace.
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Okay,first off i haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years,(15/f.blah.whatever)and it only lasted a month. I know people always say "love yourself before you can love someone else"- i do, and i have great friends and i'm really happy.I know i dont need a guy to be happy- Its just I reaaaally want to be in love! Its not helping that all of the sudden theres like romance everywhere,but me, all aloonnne!its like taunting me haha.I keep envisioning meeting "the guy of my dreams" at like the movies or the mall-because i heard if you do this you can attract it to happen-but none of it works!I can't be set up with people,no no no. I'm not ugly,i have a great personality. Its just the fact that its impossible for me to ever meet a guy anywhere! So i guess what i'm asking is- How can i meet guys at like the mall or something like that? And have you ever had a -love-at-first-sight thing happen to you? If you have,what happend? Thanks so much for the imput and advice! (link)
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Mmkay. Cool, Yeah.
Can you skate?
Ride a bike?
Whenever I want to meet some new guys, I always go
to the closet skate park. But that's just 'cause
those are the type of boys I go for... I don't know
what you're into though.
If you can't skate... or ride very well. Just go
there, possibly with a bunch of mates, and just
hang out, check out some guys... whatever.
Sorry if I was no help.
Peace.
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so the night of january 1st, my best friend had a party because her parents were out of town.
there was a bunch of people that i knew of but didn't really know there.
as soon as i walked in the door there was this kid singing in the other room, and i saw him and my jaw just dropped, i thought he was just perfect.
he was cute and had good style and a really good singer.
so the night went on and later we played kings cup.
well me and this kid ended up sitting next to each other in the circle, and we were just goofing around and all that all night.
well we all got drunk and all that, and i headed to my friend's sister's room to sleep.
well this kid followed me in there as we were talking and climbed into bed with me.
me and my other friend had planned to sleep in there but she wasn't there yet so i figured what the hell.
so i just laid in his arms all night and talked to him until 7am when everyone else woke up.
it was really one of the nicest times i've ever had.
then his parents called and he ended up having to leave in a hurry and never got to say goodbye.
but we got in touch that next day and found out that my friend had been planning to have another party on the 3rd, so we planned to both go.
but he got in trouble and wasn't allowed out, but he snuck out just so he could go to the party and see me.
we were beer pong partners then we ended up going back to the same bedroom we were in before.
we ended up sleeping together (keep in mind i was drunk but not drunk enough to not know what i was doing, and i wasn't a virgin).
then i walked him to the end of the street and we just stood under the street light for like a half hour saying goodbye, because everytime one of us would go to walk away, the other one would pull us back and kiss us again.
but from that day on we were acting like we were dating, talking on the phone every night, kissing in school, still hooking up and sleeping together, hanging out all the time, all that.
like everyone thought we were dating.
then the other night he asked me out and i said yes..
anyway, ever since that first night, i thought i loved him, and i still do think that, but i don't know what to do.
he's 17 and i'm 15, and i know he really likes me,
he's not only my boyfriend he's like my best friend,
but i'm afraid to tell him that i love him because i don't want him to break up with me.
do you think i really love him? or should i not tell him or what?
please help. =/ (link)
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Oh my goshh! This has got to be one of the sweetest
stories I've ever heard. I totally think you're in
love. [:
I think maybe you should wait just a little while
longer to tell him you love him. Not very long, a
week or so.
I doubt he'll brake up with you. He doesn't really
seem the type... although I've never met him.
Obviously.
But, you should tell him.
Peace.
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15/f. boyfriend-15/m
Okay. I know I'm probably going to sound super stupid and all, but I'm beyond paranoid and this will just make me feel better. Yesterday, my boyfriend and I were making out. I had already told him I wasn't going to have sex if we weren't being safe. But, we got naked and he was on top of me. He didn't go in, and he says he didn't cum or anything. But, I coulda sworn I felt something. Or maybe that was just me? I don't know. I'm just so paranoid. And it's probably about nothing. I just need reassurance, I guess that I'm not pregnant. Haha ? :/ I felt really sick today and I don't know. I'm just weird. But yeah. Help ? :D Haha.. (link)
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Heh, fear not oh paranoid one.
d/w you're most likely NOT pregnant. Like if he
didn't go in, them the sperm couldn't have gotten
very far. Even if he did maybe cum on you a little.
Most sperm don't make it to the egg, like two or
three. Out of thousands. So, don't worry.
If you're feeling sick, it's probably that you're
just worried about it. [:
Peace.
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I loveee the clothes Selena wears. I really like this sweatshirt: http://media.photobucket.com/image/another%20cinderella%20story%20selena/SellyJewel/2.jpg?o=23
And this outfut: http://media.photobucket.com/image/another%20cinderella%20story%20selena/stacy55_bucket/Another%20Cinderella%20Story/normal_7194.jpg?o=35
I also lovee the white sneakers she is constantly wearing (link)
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Yeah so...?
Whats your question?
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i'm 15 f
i've been struggling with my sexuality for a few months now, almost half a year. first, my best friend who moved to texas said she had a crush on me over AIM and i grew to like her back. since she hasnt been able to visit us, i think her interest faded. she considers herself bicurious but i really dont think she likes me. it took me a while to finally not like her so much, but she's gotten with a group of friends who really dont label her and they all act sexual anyway. i really wish i could be with that group of friends because my friends would label me in an instant. i dont want to be labeled bi because i really don't know what i am. i'm kinda attracted to girls but i'm also attracted to guys, i know im not straight but i dont want to be bi. i've only dated 1 guy in the past and that didnt work out very well. i havent dated any girls, and i havent opened up except to that friend, and one other friend that i just talked to tonight. how do i get comfortable with myself enough to open up to more people? and where do i begin? all i want them to know is that i'm probably bicurious. at first i thought i was going through a phase, but im not sure what phases last for half a year. =\
help me pleassssssee (link)
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What kind of friends are these that would label you
or be uncomfortable around??? Jeez. Well as they say
the first step is admitting it. If you are Bi, tell
your self that's ok. As soon as your comfortable with that you'll feel much better. I am bi. I know
it's a little weird to begin with, but you'll get
over that.
Did you ever see that movie
"But, I'm a cheerleader" ??
Whatever anybody says about the matter... Fuck Them!
They just want something to say, or do to someone
to make that person feel bad and themselves better.
People are assholes. Forget them.
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I'm thirteen years old. My cousin is a vegitarian and I really want to be one. How would I tell my parents I want to be one?
Also what are some foods and things i do to stay healthy?
Also what exacly is peta?
thanks in advance (link)
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I'm a vegetarian. I tured one because every time
I looked at or put meat in my mouth I felt sick.
All I could think about was the animal.
Anyway, whatever your reason for being one is none
of my concern.
Just tell your parents you can't stand meat and
you want to become a vegetarian. Most likely
they'll respect that.
Most vegies give you all you need.
But there are iron, protein etc pills you can get
I'm pretty sure from your local supermarket. If
not you'll need to get them prescribed from the chemist.
Also, before you go vejo, you can see a doctor
just to make sure you're healthy enough to go
without meat.
People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals - PETA
http://www.peta.org/
Its like an animal right group.
Peta is also a bread. [:
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ok so i know this is bad but ive smoked marijuana at least 25 and i inhale correctly and everything. however, i do not get high. i know someone that has been smoking for 10 years and theyll get sooo baked but i get nothing? is it possible to be immune to marijuana? (link)
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It's possible for some reason your body can take it
better than your friend, me and my brother are like
that.
I'm not sure if you can be immune it pot, but my
mate feels nothing from speed... Maybe it's the
same thing.
Sorry if I was of no help.
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Alright , so I had sex with my boyfriend not because I felt like I had to but we both wanted to and I figured that I loved him and he felt the same way about me. But , since then it just hasent been the same we dont have the same connection that we had before. I never know where he is and I lost my virginity to him and before me he had sex with about 8 people. He's 4 years older than me so calling him all the time and being like where are you makes me feel like im getting annoying, but when they say whoever you lose your virginity too you become emotionally attachted to him and thats exactly how I feel. Its like a HUGE deal for me he took my virginity you know ? and to him I feel like im just another girl he had sex with . So should I talk to him and tell him how I feel or just let him go even though I love him with everything I have and he "claims" to feel the exact same way about me ?
Thankkyouu ! (:
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I think you should stay with him until he mistreats
you in ANY way... emotionally or physically.
Whatver.
You should tell him how you feel, it helps to get
shit off your chest. Does it really matter if you
know where he is all the time? Not to be rude or
anything... just is it that important?
Yeah, I know the feeling of being very attached to
the taker of your virginity, I know. But after a
while you'll get over it.
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I have alot going on in my life from different angles, like school, deaths and just a bunch of stuff in all. I love listening to music and jsut sitting outside and getting absorbed into my music, its like my escape. I was wonderring if anyone could give me somne songs that kind of put you in a different world or just kind of sound... distint? to think to. I dont like rap or country but im free for almost anything else.
Im looking for stuff around the lines of:
Circle -Paramore
Keep Driving -Woodale (I love this one) (link)
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I Like the songs:
Superstar - Sonic Youth.
Broken Promise - Placebo.
Congratulations I Heart You - Alesana.
History - Funeral For A Friend.
Wicked Days - Android Lust.
Rise Up (acoustic) - Bless The Fall.
Taking Over Me - Evanescence.
Today Is The Greatest - Smashing Pumpkins.
Disarm (acoustic) - Smashing Pumpkins.
Screenwriting An Apology - Hawthorne Heights.
In This River - Black Label Society.
Send Me An Angel - Zeromancer.
Face Down (acoustic) [or not] - The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
(it gos Song - Band)
If you want any more email me.
s8en666@hotmail.com
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i love books like TTYl, the boy book, and the boyfriend list.. does anyone have any book reccomendations for me? thanks :) (link)
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I love the book "Notes From The Teenage Underground"
It is a little long.
but as soon as I read the first chapter, i fell in love with it & couldn't put it down.
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Okay there is this guy who im reallly like talking to but the thing is one of my friend like him as well bu the thing is that Im the he calls after the football games, and after school, he walks me to class and hang out before periods. well i put his number on my cheek at a football game and well the other gurl that likes him is one of the trainers and im a cheerleader but the thing is that she saw me with his number in my cheeck and she didnt like it. well my point is we have different lunches so when i go to my 4th period class he walks her to the same class i have with her. well it reallly bugs me even through he talks to me more. should i worry about it. should i do anything about it? (link)
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I think you should slap the bitch & walk off with your guy.
haha.
seriously, just hit her.
or at least ask this guy if he says stuff to other girls too.
he will probably lie... but if your good at it, you can catch him out.
-B
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