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need peoples' opinions!
long story short, my best friend was acting really strange and un-like her usual self, so since i know her myspace password & email i logged into her account. I read her messages, and found out she had been forwarding some of the private, personal messages i sent to her, to other people! she was also talking really badly about me to behibnd my back.
My question is, do you agree with my being mad at her? I mean, she asked me what I thought about this guy, so i messaged her the answer, and then she forwarded my message to him! thats just one example. shes telling people things ive done and said that she promised to keep quiet. so, who is wrong here?
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That girl is not your friend honey. You need to realize the qualities of a good friend! Her doing that to you betrayed your trust and with out trust no realationship can survive....
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What a bitch!!
Yes, you have every right to be mad at her!
Some best friend.
Don't feel bad about being mad.
What a cow!
Well, laterz.
Peace.
xx
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I've had something like this happen to me with my best friend. But it was with her email. She was talking about me behind my back. I was so mad and I didn't know how I should handle it. I mean, it was wrong first of all to go through her account. I didn't mess with it though but it was still wrong. Here is one thing, do not trust her with anything of yours again. I think you know that now but don't tell her anything about your personal life. Best friends don't do that. You can't exactly confront her with this kinda thing unless you want her to know you went through her messages. Your just gonna have to dig it out of her. Somehow get her to admit to it or just forget the friendship. I mean you guys could still be friends, but best friends...your gonna need more trust for that. But I get what you mean. You have a right to be mad at her. Just don't tell her anything else. Good luck! I hope everything works out for you!
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The truth might hurt. But both of you are wrong. You shouldn't of went through her personal buisness. But also she shouldn't be telling secrets to other people and fowarding personal messages. It's wrong. You have every right to be mad at her. But maybe you did something in the past to make her act like this. You never know. I really hope this helped.
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