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Junior in high school to be. 16f.

I met this guy in eighth grade and we became really good friends. We had a couple classes together. Unfortunately, when he told me he liked me the summer after eighth grade (I had liked him the first half of eighth grade whereas he liked me the second half), nothing came to be out of it since this other guy liked me at the same time, and I didn't want to hurt the other guy since he was my friend, as well. Although I don't regret making the decision that I did, I definitely have strong feelings for him again after two years; maybe it's better now than two summers ago since recently, we've discovered that we have a lot in common, and we connect better than we have ever before. We've hung out a few times this summer with our mutual friends. I leaned on his shoulder as we lay watching the fireworks on July 4th, and held onto his arm during a movie we watched together. The most memorable time with him was a couple days ago when we watched another movie, and I held onto his arm, just as I had before. In return, he put his hand on my knee. Slowly, though, he reached for my hand and interlocked fingers with me (I read online that that's a signal that he wants to be serious with you), and kept and smiling the whole time. He has complimented me before and helped me with troubles with another recent past crush (the getting over the last guy resparked my interest in this guy), saying that normal guys don't pass up girls as funny, smart, and attractive as I am. My worry is that he wouldn't ask me out again and waste time, especially since that awkwardness a few years back. I'm not ready to tell him I like him just yet, though. What do you think of the situation? Do you think anything will come to be out of it, or am I wasting my time just like on my last crush? I feel like I'm making it pretty obvious I'm interested without being pushy or forward, but is there something that I'm doing wrong or should be doing more / less of? (link)
From what you say it seems you're giving the signals of being interested in him and it seems like he's giving you signals as well. Ultimately, you're going to just have to tell him how you feel. If not now, soon. You can't just wait for him to make the move because he may be too afraid to or be wondering the same thing you are.
Tell him before it slips away.


do people who used to smoke pot and stopped still have the same "stoner attitude" as before? like being passive/lazy-ish (link)
Not necessarily. My boyfriend used to be a hardcore stoner before we started dating. He doesn't have anything remotely close to a 'stoner attitude'.


hey i have minnior acne and i am 13 and im so afraid that i am never gonna get a boyfriend and i want my first kiss and i keeo reading thease first kiss stories and listening to thease love songs WHAT SHOULD I DO ? (link)
Seriously, don't worry about it.
I didn't get my first kiss until I was almost and I've now been in a loving relationship for over 14 months. My brother just got his first girlfriend and he's almost 20. You're 13. You shouldn't be worrying about when you're going to get a boyfriend or if you will. Worry about spending time with your friends and having fun with hobbies and other things you enjoy. Boys can always wait.


16/f So recently i had surgery, and before it i had to get my blood drawn. Well they told me that i was anemic or something and i asked what that was and she told me that i was really low on iron. I was wondering what foods have iron in them. I usually eat healthy foods and i like to be healthy so this kinda bothered me. Any ideas on how to get it up would be appreciated. Thanks =] (link)
I looked up a couple sites for you as well as talked to my friend who is also anemic.

She told me she eats a lot of fish and lean meats, as well as beans and green veggies. She also eats a lot of peanuts and she loves pasta which is great because she now gets whole grain noodles because things with whole grains are good also.

Try out these sites also.


http://foodshighiniron.com/

http://www.fatfreekitchen.com/nutrition/iron.html

http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/common/blood/009.html

Hope I helped.




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