Hi! I'm Brodie. I'm 17.
I drink too much and eat too much
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okay. sunday im going to my first overnight camp. it will be until wednesday. how many shirts/shorts? any other tips? should i bring my new razr? PLEASE HELP
I RATE !!!!!!
please do this ASAP (link)
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You should take 4-6 (incase some get dirty) you could probably wear one pair of shorts for 2 days if you have a lack of space, shirts and underwear you should change every day though.You should take all your basic toiletries, including a razor if you're going to need to shave. Tips : have a great time :)
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me and my bf have been going out for seven months and we are so in love but we have this usual schedule kissing and making out ya know, and we just usually go by it and i wanna know what can i do to make the schedule more fun??? (link)
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It depends what you mean by 'fun'. If you want to go further with this guy then you should try and bring it up in a light conversation with him, try some teasing etc, thas normally good fun....if you dont want to go further you could organise a romantic evening (maybe one of could cook the other a meal or you can go out), then you can lie in bed holding eachother for a night. Have fun :)
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How long do hangovers last and is there anything I can do to feel better? (link)
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They can last anything from an hour to a couple of days. But drinking water before you go to bed or throughout while you're out drinking should stop it pretty much. DONT have a fry up
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i want to buy this kid nick a present. the thing is that i don't know what 14 year old guys like. i ccan't buy him something to expensive like a game boy advance (or whatever) so i need some advice on what i could possible get him..
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Money is always a ngood present, but if you want him to feel you put lots of effort in find out what bands/sports teams etc he likes, and get him a shirt or something along those lines (there are loads more options though. good luck :)
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About two months ago,I was just looking through my closet (it's a mess :]) and I came across a letter. I assumed it was something for me or from me being in my closet and all. So I opened the letter and I saw that it was adressed to my dad, from my mom (they got divorced when I was about 7. I assumed this letter was from then) My curiosity got the best of me, so I read it. About half-way through the letter, I just wanted to crawl in a hole. My mom said that my dad told her that when they got divorced, that he didnt love her, and that he hadn't for a while. I just thought that all the times I saw them together, hugging and kissing and everything was a lie. I'm still really upset about it, even though the letter got wet, so I can't read it anymore. I was just wondering, how can I help myself to get over it? thank you :] (link)
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Talking to them is a really important part of getting over it. They must have loved eachother at some point to be together for at least 7 years....theres nothing i can really do or say to help you get over this. But as long as they're happy now, you should be happy for them :)
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How exactly does one become a famous singer? (link)
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If your a talented singer you should do well. But whether nor not you'll become famous or not is based strongly on luck (i.e. if your seen by a certain scout at a certain time)...work hard and it will increase your chances though. Good luck :)
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i think im gay. am i? (link)
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i think you should try making out with girls :)
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What is the difference between love and lust? and how do you really know if a guy loves you? (link)
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Lust is more a physical attraction. Love is much deeper. If you're already going out ith this guy ask him what he'd think if you didnt want to do anything sexual yet. If he says he wouldnt mind and sticks with ou the chances are it really is love
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i am a 13yr old female and my boyfreind has been trying to go down my pants and i was wondering if i should shave my pubic hair or not (link)
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If you want to, then do it, if you just want to do it because your boyfriend wants you to, dont do it. It's your body :)
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my friend and i are recently getting in fight and they are mostly about her bf(im 14/f by the way)her bf said some really mean stuff to me and my friend was mad at him about it for like 5 min and then forgave him.she always does that when hes mean to me or her. Should her and i stay friends or should we go our seperate ways?
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This guy doesnt deserve a girlfriend if he treats you and her like this. He's just using her, tell her that, and if she doesnt accept it just show her our advice.
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Hi, I apologise for this may be a little long.
I got dumped a few weeks ago by this guy after this huge misunderstanding. Some guy tried to interfere and told me all these things about my bf, that he was cheating on me and saying things behind my back. I confronted my bf about it and he was really angry for not trusting him.. said we were over.. said it had been coming for a while and that was that.
Well, I blocked and deleted him and tried to forget about him. For two weeks we didn't contact each other at all. But I still thought of him and was upset about what happened. He wanted to "still be friends" but I don't believe in that personally. I thought having a complete break would make me get over him, but it didn't.
The other day I went on my old MSN account and I forgot my ex was still on there. After about 20 mins he IMed me and said "I've figured out who it was who said those things" I considered blocking him there and then, but I didn't. We started talking and soon we got onto the topic of us. I wanted him to stop because I didn't think it mattered anymore where it all went wrong.. but he said he wanted to let me know everything and he really wanted to work things out. We got everything out in the open, even argued a bit because he called me "sheltered" just because my mom was strict. But we went through everything and left on decent terms laughing and joking around like old times (We were friends for years)
We're meeting in person in a couple of days to talk properly, and there's a chance we might get back together. But I'm not sure whether it's a good idea. What should I do? Give him another chance, but slow down things for a while? Or just forget him and move on with my life? I'm still angry about being dumped and the fact he waited so long to do this.. but I still have feelings for him. Help? lol. Thanks. (link)
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This all depends on what you want. You may enjoy just being friends with him, or you may not. He dumped you so you have nothing to feel guilty about when having these doubts, but think very carefully into this. What he sai9d about ''this has been coming for a while'' obviously meant he'd had at least mild doubts before hand, but he may have just been angry (most people would be if someone told them they'd heard about them cheating on you)...and he may have just felt he had no-one to blame. :) good luck
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i want to know how i can meet bi/lesbian teen females or where i can. i've never been with one because i dont know how to find out if someone is gay or not. i dont want to hit on a girl whose straight. how do you make getting with one happen?? (link)
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Checking your local newspapers is a really good idea, you may also be able to find groups local to you on sites such as msn, yahoo and myspace etc. When using these sites though, be very wary of people posing as lesbian/bi :)
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What would you do if you hated your body so much that you would't let your partner see it?
What are your thoughts? (link)
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You should try and feel less selfconscious, it may be difficult but it'll really help. If you're partner wants to see your body then there cant be anything to worry about, they obviously like your body, and you should like it to :)
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Does anyone kno any happy love songs. My bf is going away for almost two weeks and music always makes me feel better. So I would like to make a cd full of happy love songs. Any ideas? (link)
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The calling - wherever you will go
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Here's the deal: I really loved this guy and I didn't think he loved me back. But on 4th of July, he said he had a confession to make and he said he loved me and asked me out. I said yes! But I haven't talked to him since and it's been two days. What could he be thinking? Guys, Why would he do this? It's sensless.
~Kayla~
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He's probably waiting for you to make the first move. Just call him up or something, and ask him if he wants to go out somewhere (making something solid times etc will mean there shouldnt be any putting stuff off). I expect everything will be fine though....he did tell you how he felt first :)
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My band recently played a gig at a bar - we were there for four hours and were promised a minimum of $200.
Some friends of the band were there, and they got into a fight (verbal) with the bartender, he got angry and kicked them out. Then waited for us to finish the song we were on, and he turned on the jukebox.
We packed up our things and as we were packing up the last of it, one of the people that was kicked out, came back in to see if we needed any help with anything. The bartender started screaming at her, telling her to get out, when she started explaining herself (and to be fair, no one was acting really rationally at the time - except for maybe the band.) the bartender kept telling her to get out, and eventually grabbed her and tried to push her out. A guy with us got in the bartenders face about it - saying he shouldn't be pushing her around - and yeah. One of our band members broke it up and got the people to leave.
After we got what we believed was all of our things, the band member which got us the gig went in to get the money. We heard the bartender start yelling at him - and it sounded like it was getting very heated - so myself and the other member went in to make sure we had all of our things, since it didn't seem likely that we'd be able to return anymore. As soon as we stepped in the door, he yelled at us and told us to get out. I left right away but the other guy kept going in, eventually all of the band members came out - but we recieved no money for our gig.
When we went there, one person gave the bartender his credit card to start a tab on - and he intended to pay it with the money that he recieved from the gig. We believe that he still may have charged the credit card for the drinks - so we really want our money so we're not in the hole for all of the drinks that were had.
What i'm wondering - is there any form of action that we can take (We're going to talk to the owner again tomorrow and try to settle it when everyone has calmed down) to get our money? Or at the very least to have the credit card bill dropped? (link)
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If they still dont co-operate after this, mention to all the other local bands that you can contact, that this bar isnt reliable for paying you, and they'll soon avoid them
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I have been spending alot of time with this guy. We have both told eachother that we like eachother and we kiss and last night we held eachother. Basicly Its obvious to everyone that we like eachother. Well, yesterday my friend was talking to him and she asked him "If she asked you out what would you say." and he said that he would say yes! So now my problem is, how do I ask? I want it to be sweet and cute but not over done. Just simple and easy but still cute. any suggestions? please help! (link)
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When your holding eachother one night, and theres not loads of peope around you, just ask him if he'd like to go out with you..it doesnt need to be anything fancy or complicated, even if it shows your a bit nervous...that will show him you do like him :)
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okay to start off I'm such an IDIOT! I dumped my boyfriend about a month ago, and we went out for 4 months. i was happpy that i dumped him cuz i wanted to be single. i still like being single but i still like my ex. It made me sad when i figured out the girl he liked. He is still like my friend and stuff but i kno he doesn't like me. How do i get over him? I WILL RATE (link)
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Think about how much more you can do when you're single.....it opens up so many more doors, and if you dumped him after 4 months something was obviously wrong in the relationship...it wouldnt have worked no matter how hard either of you tried. Just keep looking and you'll find a guy who's great for you
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14.f.
My parents make me go to my grandparents house during the day, because they don't trust me in our house alone.
Well, a few days ago I was reading this book that I have to read for school. I finished the book, and my grandmother asked if she could read it then give it back to me. And I said sure, and gave it to her.
The thing is, I don't know what I was thinking, because the book has SO many cursewords and has sex (gasp) in it. And she's my grandmother...
My mom went over to my grandparents house today just for a visit, and my grandmother said she finished the book, and was concerned about my school, for assigning a book like that. She said she was really surprised about all the cursewords and that I was reading it.
I have to go to their house again all this week. And I am SO embarressed, you have no idea. I'm not sure what my exact question is, just, what do I do?
Does anyone care to be my savior? (link)
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You got assigned to read this book...and if you didnt you wouldnt be putting enough effort in at school. Use that as an answer and they cant blame you, they might try talking to your school about it though.
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hi i'm 15 and i have a boyfriend my period is two days late but weve been having alot of sex a week but everytime he cums he takes it out and then i check the condumn and it isnt broken is my period cycle changing? i'm really worried but im sure im not preganant because we always had protection and never broke and we never did anything that could cause it so please write back ASAP!!!!!!
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It sounds like your being responsible and as safe as possible.....but its always best to check these things, chanceas are though that its just your period changing
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