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Ok well I got a dress fron Jcpennys for a dance on may 7 2011 and i just wanted to know how to do my hair and makeup and what color i should paint my nails. My dress is wite blue gree and purple. he theme for the dance is a tropical/hawaiian well please answer as soon as you can cuz its cumming up very very soon. (link)
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So i know this is tommorrow so i'll get right to it and hope you see this: I'd do either beachy waves (scrunch lightly and blow dry) or braids(peices of whole head, whatever you know how) you're makeup i think should be natural, but with a subtle glow, maybe do a punch of blue eyeshadow? you're nails i would say should be purple since it wont look like you're trying too hard :)
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Okay, Well before you answer my question I want you guys to know My mom had bought me four new phones in one month and she had to pay for 50$ each because three of them didn't charge like a week my mom paid for the replacement, And The last one broke because my friend accidently broke in water at a skating rink, That was a month ago and now i am ready to be responsible for a cellphone again..But everytime i mention a new phone for me she just laughs or says "Not gonna hapen"! I really want to have another phone to keep in contact with my friends cause im moving soon..HWAT DO i DO? i AM 13 (link)
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Your mother does have a point, but you should try to get a new way of contacting your friends (facebook, e-mail, home phone, even letters) but if you just need a phone, then tell your mom why you want a phone exactly NO ATTITUDE NEEDED
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Hi,
I have been having acne problems for about a year and a half now mainly in my forehead, t-zone, side of faces, my chin, nose and under my eyes as well as my neck so basically everywhere.
It was light acne at first but I got a fringe and it got really bad so I began clipping back my hair. And I got prescribed medicine--- Zineryt --- from the doctors, I had that for 5-6 weeks and it helped quite a bit on my forehead although not on my chin at all but some spots are still visible on my forehead. I have very sensitive skin and My current cleanser is Clearisil. So I am wondering If anyone knows how to get rid Of acne or anything good products that work. I was also wondering if Pantothen or Proactive work? (link)
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I'd stay with Clearisil, but be sure to get there four step system that includes the spot treatment. Also, for you, you may meed the scar healing one too :) it cleared me up fast !!! :)
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I have already pretty much decided which classes I'm going to take next year (I'll be a junior), but I just can't get over that guilty feeling of not deciding to take Spanish 2 next year. I'm currently taking Spanish 1, but I've decided not to next year. Instead, I've decided to take psychology one semester, and sociology the other semester. The thing is, I'm not sure whether or not it would be the best choice. I know that have 2 years of a foreign language is recommended, and is also good for colleges and for getting jobs. It's just something I don't want to do that. It just makes me mad thinking that I HAVE to do this or that to please colleges and stuff. I want to do whatever I am interested in, but I can't even speak my own language, so I can't help to think that Spanish would be good for me. If I don't take Spanish 2, I also think about things like what if I'm not offered very many opportunities, even with good grades and everything? What are your guys' opinions? (link)
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well since you are a junior you have plenty of ways to fit it in your schedule for the apt ammount of credits for a good diploma, and yes you should take spanish 2...preferably the year following your first course because it'll definately boost your GPA. The best thing to do is go to your counselor and ask if she can help you fit in all the classes you want to take (you'd be shocked at how much they control that)
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I have a crush on two boys and can't decide which one I like the most.One does martial arts the other loves something else.They both do archery and so do I.Which should I love most?? (link)
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Think about which one you have more feelings for and know the best. The one that you don't fight with, and has never said anything bad to you, and lastly the one that you could actually see marrying. That's usually where i decide i want a boyfriend is if i could see, one day, marrying them
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I'm not the smartest kid in the world, but not I'm not dumb either. I'm pretty much useless, though, and I don't have anything that would jump out at people, except... I do write. It's about the only thing I do with myself and I'm not exaggerating in the least bit when I say that I write day and night, from the time I get home from school to the time I get home. I carry a notebook with me everywhere just in case I'm hit with inspiration.
Well, everyone knows that I like writing, but no one ever supports me. My friends always brag about my writing, but it makes me feel like crap because I know that not a single one of them has ever read my writing. My parents haven't even read my writing and they do the same thing. I have offered them to read it, but they say they don't want to, it's a waste of time, they just don't care. I used to brush it off and just post my stuff online and I loved making new friends who loved my work and talked to me, but recently, it's beginning to bother me and my writing has also begun to fall apart and it's really hurting me. I'm feeling absolutely miserable because no one will help me or encourage me... Maybe I'm asking too much or something? And people aren't used to me asking for something? I don't mean to sound like a drama queen or anything, but I would like at least one person to say good job... (link)
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For me, I have been writing, but i haven't taken it to the extent you do. I usually write when i get home from school, you know, and when (like you said) inspiration hits. Try going for a book, then when your done e-mail it to your friends and a publisher, and your parents...then see what happens from there.
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Choices are; Wind it up by Gwen stefani,sweet escape Gwen stefani,Sk8ter boi Avril Lavigne,D.I.N.O.S.A.U.R Ke$ha or Mobile Avril Lavigne???? Please I can not decide!! SOS,SOS,SOS,SOS,SOS,SOS!!!! :( :( (link)
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For a fifth grader i think sk8ter boi by Avril Lavigne would be a great one! It would be super cute to see a fifth grader sing it. It, to me, was between that and sweet escape, but sweet escape is just too serious for kids so go for the cuteness affect and wow them with a good easy dance number (youtube helps)
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I have never asked for advice before but this is really upseting my entire world. I will try to make this clear. Also, I will try to keep it anonymous by not including the actual wedding date and will use *'s before the made up names to disguise the real people. OK~here goes. I am 33 yrs old and the mother of one extraordinary son! In the month of May, 2011 (nothing like waiting till the last min I know and I apologize) my cousin is getting married, the guest list stops at second cousins due to large families. On our side of the family she(bride-to-be) only has 3 second cousins. Our cousin *AA's 2 children--(*AA1 & *AA2) and then me, *BB ,also her cousin and I have 1 son(*BB1) who is her second cousin. Now, according to the rules no second cousins are invited. However, *AA1 is in the wedding and *AA2 is her Godchild so both of them will be attending. This creates a situation where not only is my son the only child on our side of the family not invited but it just so happens then that he is also the ONLY FAMILY MEMBER on our side not invited. So essentially when our sides family picture is taken~my son would be the only one absent (if I would attend). To make feelings worse-nobody in my family seems to think this is wrong or hurtfull. In fact they have said many times(not to my face) that I should not take this personally. How can I not? I am really hurt! Even more so because not one person bothered to mention all of this to me-not even the bride-to-be. I only found out the second cousin rule by accident because I asked my aunt about a meal selection for my son or if he should just share with me! We all get along and there are no hard feelings or background incidents that need to be mentioned. In fact~we all celebrated Easter together and I was very warm and talkative to my cousin and her fiance hoping that one would explain more to me or at least address it but not one word was mentioned and I couldn't bring myself to ask. How do you suggest is the best way to handle this? Thank you so much! Miserable in MN (link)
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You should definitely tell them. Not going to such an important event will harm the relationship and only create drama. Also, do not tell the bride about this because clearly she will have enough on her mind right now. Try telling who is helping her like her mother about why you're upset, and that you'd like your son to be a part of this occasion
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recently i've found myself a little sad because i hear or see people having fun with other friends like going to parties and hanging out etc.
I don't really have many friends. I have 1 best friend and we hang out a lot, he's a dude, i'm a girl. we're both 18 in high school still. i'm not really any stereotype. i'm like a mix. i'm weird but pretty. smart but kinda ditzy. athletic but girly. i'm having a really hard time finding a group of friends/or even a friend. i'm not a big fan of girl friends.. i used to have a lot of girl friends in my past but i always find myself so frustrated with girl friends because they cause so much drama and problems. thats why i dont have many friends, because most of my friendships are so full of drama and i get sick of it. thats why i like to hang out with guys, because they're so chillax and don't cause problems and i have so much fun just hanging out with them :)
but like i said, i have been finding myself a little sad. i hear about girls in my school going to get mani/pedi's and going shopping together and having a girls night out. i get sad because i don't really have friends like that who i can do things like that with..
but at the same time, i'm glad i dont have girl friends because i dont have to deal with drama like fighting over boys and jealousy etc.
i'm really torn in this issue. i miss having a girl friend to talk to about girl talk and going shopping together etc. but at the same time i kinda like just being independent and hanging with guys.
what do i do?? (link)
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Dear Being Independant,
So finding friends can be difficult, and everyone faces this problem, i've seen a lot of girls go through this, even i did. I tried being friends with one girl, and even had to fake smile so much during it, that i decided after that to stop hanging out with her, it's pretty tough, but a few days later i started hanging out with a new best friend, and she still is today. It's sort of just a shyness thing you have to get over in order to make new friends. No one can tell you exactly how to make friends, it varies per person. The thing to remember is try talking about girl things, you know perfume and shopping, and how you need someone to go with. I promise they won't look at you funny or run around with a bra and wig on.
hope this helps!
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this is kinda weird but my boyfriend gave me this perfume (bvlgari jasmin noir) for my birthday and i was just being myself and went to check how much it costed online it's a 5ml and it said it's a tester which probably meant it was free, should i be upset about this? (link)
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Dear expensive...i thought!,
This doesn't matter how much he spent! The fact that he remembered is great! if you freak out on him he will feel bad, especially if you call him out when he thought it was a great gift!
HOPE I HELPED!
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well , hello im a female early teenager . So there's this boy name kyle, when i first met him i only thought he was cute but than things start tn change about two weeks ago . You guys might say this is childish but im so confused right now . So just last friday i went to a party and he was there and he was there so toward the end me the party people start to leave . So me and my friends start to talk to him and a group of his friends that was your real first conversation with me and him, but people came tn ruin the circle . So later i asked him to dance and he was like no i don't dance that's what his friend said but i could tell he wanted to .. fifteen minutes Later i left not because of him just because my mom was there ..... Soo today i seen him au school i walked right past him && nothing happened ... So this weekend there is suppose to another party and what am suppose to doo ... i really like him , he also does NOT know . (link)
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Dear HUGE CRUSH,
Well, there are a lot of things you can do. I know people say just ask him out, but your a girl, you shouldn't have to. I did my research for you, and found some things that should work!
1. DO NOT BRING A CAMERA OR IPOD TO A PARTY- an ipod says that you aren't open to a guy and you're bossy. A camera says you're not confident, if you must though, ask him to be in the pic.!
2. DON'T WEAR A MINISKIRT- it shows that you are insecure, instead, vow to approach him that night (without worrying if your butt is hanging out!)
3.Sit next to him!- you may not think he notices, but he does! a sweet smile his way gives guys the confidence to speak up.
hope this helps!
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There is this guy who works at the gym I go to. Whenever he works the front desk he always seems to be the one that checks me. At first I thought it was just a coincidence but after awhile I started to realize that he always check me in. No matter how many people are standing waiting to be seen or how many people are working behind the desk he always calls me over to him so he can check me in himself. When I show him my key pass he stares at it a very long time and sometimes he repeats my number over and over. I was wondering if this is just really good customer service or is there something else that I'm not seeing? Also I want to know what info shows up when I check in? (link)
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Dear Coincidence or not,
There aren't many people that ask this, and i can't really tell what your asking, because i don't know if your a girl or your a guy, but i'd say if your a girl, he might be into you.... Regarding your information, the only thing that comes up on the screen is the information you used to get the key pass to the gym. So if you per say put in your credit card number, he won't have it though, it shows up as stars,there is no way he knows it. Don't worry, the computer protects all identity and theft things. hope this helps.
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latley ive been really down and i avoide talking to people but when people talk to me i change my mood quick to happy . but im really not lately my friends havent been there for me and im losing alot of them . ive been sleeping alot and i have a loss of appite . me and my ex stopped talking last week and ever since then it seems like everything is coming crashing down am i depressed? and i really dont feel like doing things lately what can i do to stop being this way or feeling this way and my heart has been hurting i have also had thoughts of hurtng myself bt i wont do it :P (link)
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Dear Deppression,
Lately, i've seen a lot of people talk about this issue. Deppression is a big deal, but i don't beleive you have it. It's actually caused in the brain. Yes, it is a medical condition. Listen to this peice of advice: live now. See, you won't ever get this life back, so do outside the box things, branch out and put a lot of effort into your appearance and the way you do things, this will make you feel better about your life, find a favorite song, if you can, go clubbing with your friends. go shopping! get a new haircut! just try to live your life now while you can!!!
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I'm very depressed. My mom died 8 months ago after being diagnosed with breast cancer. When she first found out, it was still at an early stage, so she could have cured it, but when she told my dad to go to the doctor with her, he said 'I don't give a fuck', so she ended up just living with the cancer for 3 more months or so till it reached the last stage and spread through her entire body, and she died. You see my dad hates my mom, and he's been abusing her since before I was even born. And I hate him because of that, I truly hate him, and I also hate him because he hates me and hates my sisters and he physically and emotionally abuses us all the time, but I can't send him to jail because where I live and in my religion, the father does not go to jail or is not punished for abusing his children. So i came up with a plan of leaving home, and I've been saving up ever since I was young, and I'm going to leave home at the last day of college, because I don't want to leave my sister alone, and by the time I finish college, hopefully she would've started her own life away from the house. So I still have 3 more years in college, and I also can't leave now, because I have to finish college and my studies, and I need money from him to do be able to do that. But the thing is, I can't take it anymore, I wanna leave now, but if I leave now, I won't be able to go to college, because then he'll find me, and bring me back and abuse me again and more. I keep having all those thoughts of killing him and stabbing him and I pray to god all the time that he dies, because I've been miserable since I was born, and he made my mom miserable and my whole family, and now my mom is dead, and he killed her because he wouldn't take her to the doctor when she first told him. Me and my sisters are the ones who took her to the doctor when she finally told us, but it was too late. And I am mad at her, I am mad at my mom, because she had the chance to divorce him so many times, and yet she didn't, and when she got sick, she knew that she was going to die and she knew he'd abuse us and make our lives miserable, and yet she didn't do anything about it. I just want to leave, I want it all to end, I am so depressed. (link)
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I know that it is hard, but you have to stay and get your college degree, once you're done you will be able to move on. Buy a house, don't ever let him in, change your number, and then go to a courthouse to see about getting custody for your sister. He won't be able to touch or hurt you anymore after that, if he tries, get a restraining order and if he tries, call the police and have them send his sorry butt to jail. Just keep thinking of what you will be able to accomplish after College.
Hope this helps!
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I don't know if I'm expecting "too much" from my roommate but I wish she could be more considerate about what she does and says. My biggest problem with her right now is the inordinate amount of noise she makes when I'm trying to sleep. I don't get much sleep at night because I'm up late studying and up early going to classes. When I take a valuable nap in the middle of the day, she claims she didn't realize and/or didn't see me. During those times and when I go to sleep before her/sleep in after she wakes up, she is so inconsiderate and loud. Some examples include leaving the door to the common room open - my suitemates are obnoxiously loud and it lets in a hefty amount of light and noise, bumps into my bed (it shakes it enough to startle me), closes her drawers and closet with too much energy, throws her granola box to the side after she's done crunching them in her open mouth, has phone conversations in the room, turns on music or the light, brushes her teeth in the room with her electric toothbrush, etc. I have already asked her to be careful when I'm sleeping because she wakes me up...in vain.
What's more aggravating is that she tells ME to be quiet when she's getting her precious 9 hours of sleep. First of all, she signed up to be in a morning suite when she's not willing to get up any tie before 9am. I have 8am classes almost everyday so I have changed my routine a lot just to make my mornings as quiet as possible - laying out my outfit in the mornings, packing my bags at night, using my phone alarm instead of my alarm clock, changing my lamp lightbulb to a dimmer one, etc. But she STILL tells me to be quiet because I wake her up when in reality she rarely wakes up except when she is sleeping really lightly. I am quiet as a mouse in the morning but I have no motivation to do so.
Just 4 hours ago, at 3am, she knocked the top half of my desk (it's a detached shelf like component) in her sleep. She says "Sorry, haha" and goes RIGHT back to sleep while I spend an hour putting it back up and picking up everything that fell and lying awake in my bed, super annoyed.
She also has a tendency to demean the college we go to. She says that this was her back up and she should've gotten into an Ivy League but doesn't know why she didn't. She says everyone here is such a slack with no motivation to do well. She talks about transferring, how she's so shocked at how low of a standard the school and kids have, etc. First of all, this school she is talking about is UVA - #2 public college in the US. Second of all, does she not realize that she's not doing so hot academically here yet she says UVA kids are stupid and she should've gone to an Ivy? Third of all, does she not realize how annoying and insulting that is?
I only have 2 months left before the semester ends, but I am at my wit's end and on the verge of just screaming my head off at her. What should I do? What should I say? (link)
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Dear Rowdy Roomate,
I'm going to adress all the issues: 1. She is degrading your school because she thinks she's better, she's not, but ask her this when she says it again "then, why are you here?!"
2. I've studied up a little and this is what you should do: you could make a roomate contract going over what you do in situations with hookups, bedtimes, ask for permission for borrowing, and getting a few hours of alone time in the room etc. Tell her that you two will make sure that when you have an early class, you'll only turn on the desk lamp, and she should do the same. hope this helps!
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I've recently reconnected with a guy I met at school who I have always had a thing for. We are both from the same city but are in different places for university. We have always stayed in touch and been friends but recently we have been talking everyday and although nothing has actually happened yet, it's pretty clear that it will do. We have arranged to meet up when we are both back in our hometown which will be in a week or so.
The problem is not only do we live really far away from each other during term time (our universities are about 6 hours apart) but at the end of June I am going to work in another country for nearly three months over the Summer.
I don't know whether it's sensible to get more attached and start a relationship with him if I'm going to leave and only be able to see him during breaks after that. I struggle with insecurities and homesickness as it is and I worry that being in a long distance relationship will exacerbate things. What do you think?
I'm 19 and he's 21. (link)
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Dear Long distance Relationship,
I've gone through a long distance relationship with a guy two cities away, and it didn't work out for more than a week, though, this was because i didn't feel he was making any effort. However, i see what kind of relationship it is. He is 21, he can drink and party, if you trust him enought to let him be in another country while you date, then i say date the guy because he seems amazing. And, if you don't i'd say it's a new country, meet new guys, and it will all work out :) I wouldn't get attached.
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I am 13(m)and my hair is really coarse/thick and curly. Right now I straighten it every morning and its just getting to be too much work. I have no idea what do with it, any suggestions? (link)
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Dear hair hysterical,
There are tons of great things to do with thick, curly hair. You can pin it back, put it half up half down with a big clip in the middle, you could do a side pony (looks awesome!), you could braid it if it's naturally curly (learn how on youtube), or you could put it in a bun and put a headband in front (good for lazy days). There are sooo many things you can do with curly hair. Another one of my favorites is brush it through to creat nice waves before putting in any kind of cream. Another one of my favorites is to braid only one peice of your hair and pin it back, it adds a little twist! Do a glamorous half up (like a snooki poof, but smaller) I love this style because it is just so cute. So that is all of my options for you (oh and they are all natural, NO HEAT!)
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i want to know if its anything i can do if me and my suppose to be father, took a dna test after he stood me up for 31yrs and he was always lying about taking the test. [he is a pastor in his brother chruch] im getting married in his bother chruch so he was kinda force to take one but we had to do it his way. threw the mail and i did not see him mail it off. the dna center said they dont know who dna they were testing because he mail it in. we all think something is fishy including the dna center. how can i get him to take anthor test for my benfit. i have two children and i need to know where i came from. WHAT CAN I DO? (link)
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Go to your doctor, make him go with you and ask your doctor to please give you DNA results. They should be able to do this and give you an answer, if not a hospital can absolutely give you a straight answer.
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Does ambulance charge just to come check a person at home and see whats wrong (link)
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I beleive they may charge you a small fee, but don't call an ambulance unless someone could die.
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Okay so my dad doesnt like my boyfriend I'm 16 and he's now 17. I've been dating and we have been together for almost 3years. The problem is my Mom put this restraining order against him and the restraining order is only for me and my two sisters.My boyfriend didnt do anything for the restraining order to be agianst him. I was 13 and he was 14 when we first met. Well recently my boyfriend got out of jail because of the restraining order and he wants to try talking to my dad, but I dont think thats a good idea. But I want to see what other people think. Would this be a good idea to meet and talk to my dad and possably see if we can be a couple with out sneaking around.If so where would he talk to my dad? Should I try talking to my dad about geting the restraing order off? How would I start off? (link)
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Dear Parental Problem,
Okay so there is a lot to adress here. Firstly, how was he in jail if he is only 17? Second, I don't quite understand why your mom put up a restraining order for no reason that, in my opinion is overreactive and a little psychotic. Talking to your dad seems like the best idea. I think it's better for him to talk to your dad instead of your mom, since she clearly doesn't like him, and are your parents divorced? This makes a reasonable difference in the matter. If they are, it could cause more dammage so i'd say no, but if they're not then i'd say yeah go to your dad and ask him first. If you and your dad are close, he will probably take the restraining order off, and here is how you would start.
"So, dad, i know mom doesn't like ____(bf's name), but i really do, and I'd really like it if we could date, without a restraining order over us."
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