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okay.. well im 14/f and imk 5'3 and 86 lbs. and i really need to gain some weight because i am not comfortable wirh how skinny i am. like every day someone says omg your so skinny! or something like that and its so annoying and i hate it.. and im definitely not anorexic or belemic.. i could never do that. but the thing is that i eat a lot every day and i dont gain a pound! does anyone know what i can eat or do to gain a few pounds? thanks! ♥ (link)
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I have the exact same issue. Last summer I gained about 6 pounds by working out to get muscle, and eating A LOT! I'm now 5'5 and 101 lbs. I was 90 lbs. before. Good luck.
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Is it right for a girl to ask a guy out? please answer..i rate!! (link)
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Yes. In today's society it is perfectly acceptable for a girl to ask a guy out. The only problem is, that now you may have to deal with the terrible feeling of rejection. Good luck.
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Okay, my mom is making me see a shrink, because she thinks that I need to let out my feelings. I HATE shrinks. I just hate them!! I used to go see one and then i would just leave! I dont want to go, but I dont know how to get out of it! PLEASE HELP ME! I FIND SHRINKS SUCH A WASTE OF TIME!!!!!!!!!!!
~Melissa~
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My mother has forced me to go see a shrink as well. I hate them, but they can help. Explain the way you feel to your mother, and maybe she'll reconsider. Probably not, though. Take advantage of this opportunity to help yourself.
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I had something about this about 2-3 months ago.
I have this huge cat scratch on my nose & its just in 2 lines... I think its scared... but I was wondering how I could get rid of this scar & how long it would take?
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I would use Neosporin, it works great.
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15/m ive been feeling really mean and nasty lately. it seems like i get upset over everything. one day, my friend even asked if we were still friends because she thought i wasnt being nice. im not sure what it could be. im taking my finals this week and its also the last chance ill get too see my friends until next year so maybe that could be it. please help. i hate being like this (link)
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I have the same problem. It seems like I'm always angry over something. Try your hardest to be nice and use whatever techniques you can. It is most likely because of school stress, and will fade away more once summer comes.
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Hi, I know this might be a stupid question....
My boyfriend and I have fooled around naked, although not had sex. My period is now late, could I be pregnant? (link)
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It is possible, though unlikely, that you could be pregnant. The sperm could have traveled through and stayed alive for a few minutes. Have a pregnancy test done.
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Well i have this friend lets call him fred... Yesterday i was talking to fred when i found out that he had tried to kill himself tree times already... but the worst thing is he is only in 7th grade... what can i do to help him? please help.. (link)
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When Fred told you this, he was obviously reaching out. He wanted attention, and there is nothing wrong with giving it to him. Let him know that you care about him, invite him over to places, and let a counselor or parent know ASAP. Just continue to be his friend, and pray he makes it through this hard time.
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Ok my teeth weren't that screwed but I got braces anyway for a cosmetic reason..anyway, I only get them on for 5 months..it's been 2 months and I don't notice any difference..is this normal or is it just a waste of time..please tell me when I should notice a difference! (link)
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You will notice the difference at the end. Besides, isn't it hard to tell with all the metal in the way? :-)
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17/f ..all the time i cry..about little things and i get upset very easily sometimes i jsut sit in the bathroom and cry...i think about my life and whats going on and i just break down..does anybody know what i can do.or have an idea whats wrong? please help i rate high (link)
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I feel the same way a lot of the time. I figure that it is simply teenage emotions, but if you ever feel extremely depressed, or want to kill yourself, seek psychological help immediatly. Try talking to your mom or dad now, it feels good to let some emotions out.
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I don't exactly know how to explain so I'm just gonna try. My mom is a great mom and I love her so much! But all she does is try to please people and my brother's take advantage of that. One brother always makes her go out and buy alcohol for them and he gets drunk all the time with his friends. My other brother treats her like she's trash! He talks back cusses her out, calls her names, etc. It's scary sometimes because they get her to the point of tears and sometimes she actually does cry and my brother's and their friends keep going. She's told me before that the only thing that's keeping her from just ending her life is us kids and if we turn on her then what does she have? Nothing, and I'm scared she's gonna take her life. I want to help her get control of her life but I don't know how i mean I'm only 13! Please help! *thank you* (link)
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Wow, this is a huge problem. Do you have a father in the house? If so, you need to get him to fend for his wife. You need to get a 3rd party in there. Try telling a grandparent, uncle, or other person. If you are close to your brothers, explain to them how bad you feel. Keep your mom going, you may have to be the adult for awhile. She obviously has serious confidence issues. Maybe you could find a self-help group to build up her self-esteem? Good luck, and I'm here if you need me.
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hey well me n this guy started going out and he broke up with me cause I guess he just tstpped likeing me but we wer going out for like 3 weeks and I had liked him so much to the point where when it came to him asking me out.. I cared soo unbelivably much for him! after we broke up I still cared up for him and still do what can I do that will get him back or help me get over him because I am really heart brokenn.. and is this like weird? (link)
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Of course this isn't weird, but waht is weird is your terrible use of grammer. Holy crap. Anyway, you will eventually heal.
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so here it is...
I flirt alot ! but only with guys i know well... not with this guy i like.. i dont flirt with him... but i flirt with likes guys who flirt back so i think they think that i like them.. but i dont... how do i stop flirting with ther other guys and flirt with the guy i like ?
Ps when i try to even talk to the guy i get really red and cant think of anything to say...
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It sounds like you need to mellow out. Learn some self control. For the love of god...
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I get sick very often. If something is "going around" i KNOW i will catch it. Is there anything i can do or take (like maybe vitamins or something) to help my imune system so i wont get sick so often?
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You should talk to your doctor about how you can build up your immune system. There are many types of foods that claim to help "build up" your immune system. :-)
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My boyfriend looks at porn. This hurts me because we are in a serious relationship and I feel like it's unfaithful. What is your view on the matter? Do you consider it cheating? (link)
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Some people think that it's okay for their partner to look at porn while in a relationship, others consider it unfaithful and a betrayal. My personal take on it is that I think it is wrong. If you are in a relationship you should be 100 percent devoted. End of story.
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