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hey hey welcome to my site! my name is alissa but alot of people just call me lissa, i luv to play the piano (8 years) i have 2 brothers a mom and a dad, i have 2 kittens and a dog. what can i say..i love the lord. attending youth group and starting point is something that gets me through my week. i teach sunday school, babysit at the church and im a stright A student.
helping people has always been one of my strong assets.
so if anyone has any type of question, please dont hesitate to ask..im here for support, comforting and obviously.. advice.
so just drop one in my inbox anytime and i will try my best to answer your question the best i can.
Gender: Female
Location: MN
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: loochalo
Member Since: November 13, 2004
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Last Update: December 10, 2005
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my underarms get sweaty a lot! and ive heard secret is the best brand to use a lot but it doesnt work well for me.. i need something stronger..do you guys think using babypowder would work? why or why not.. thanks!!
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try shower-to-shower deoderent powder! it works great for me! i hope i helped!


Me and this boy are really serious. We have been talking for like3-4 months.But this other guy asked me to the dance and then we started to talk cuz i kinda said yea since the first boy doesnt go to my school.Then he asked me to come outside and we were walkin around all day.Then he fingered me like 4 times,. But i feel really guilty cuz i love the other boy.What do I do? IS this cheating? Do i tell the other dude. (link)
well if your ofically going out with a guy than letting another guy finger you would be cheating!
well i hope i helped, and the best thing to do is to be honest with the other "dude", if he knows that you are sorry and he loves you, things could really work out, jus remember the key to a good relationship is commuincation and honesty, im sure he would rather know about what has been going on.


Can you get genital herpes without having any sexual contact? (link)
yes, if like someone were to have their coldsore touch your genitals, then you would be exposed to it, and even if someone touches their coldsore and then touches your genitals so be very carful! hope that helped!


Could someone please give me a site for myspace layouts.People gave me sites but I couldn't find any so if you have any good ones I would love to hear about them.Thank you! (link)
http://strikefile.com/myspace/index.htm
hope that helps!


i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice? (link)
just go ahead and tell your mom, she had it to! she went throught the same thing, she will be happy that you came out and told her right away,she will have alot of great advice for you! so just let her know, and im sure she will be happy to answer any questions that you might have!


what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out? (link)
it just means that blood fills the penis and so it totally normal to have one when you making out


Ok, this is such an odd question, but it has been bothering me for a little while now. theres two commercials on the television that play the same ear-catching sound, the Vonage commercial, and the Cobalt commercial (car), but the tune is simple, and if you write it out it goes:
wu who wu who who, wu who wu who who, wu who wu who, wu who wu who who.
If any of you know this i am gunna be extremely happy.... what is the name of that song!? (link)
thats from kill bill!! i love that movie! well i know that it is from this japinesse group type thing ,but im not sure what it is called, i would like to know that fo rmy self! lol, well if you like get the soundtrack to that movie, it should be on the back or something, hope i helped! bubye!


Hey, I would like to know if you all can tell what is wrong with my finger and if I should go to the doctor. Wednesday night, I was at gymnastics messing around, and as I went for a back tuck, my middle finger jammed into my leg... then about 3 minutes later, I jammed it again into a panel mat (a hard mat in case you dont know) same finger and everything. My coach didnt care because i shouldnt have been messing around, so I went through the rest of practice ignoring the pain. Its now 2 days later, and im getting shooting pains throughout it, my whole finger is about 1 1/2 the size of the other, and my knuckle in the middle of my finger is twice the size of the other and i cant feel from there down to the end of it. I have it taped together for now, but it hurts to even write, im typing this without it. Im sorry its long, but i cant decide if I should go to the docot Monday and get x-rays jus to make surem or relax and let it heal on its own because of an expierience with shoulda been broken foot since i didnt go to the doctor right away. Today, I had to call home for some medicine to help with the pain. So, what do you all think of this situation (any of you who read this)...? (link)
im sure its broken, my brother went through the same thing exept he hurt his in wrestling, he dint go to the doctor and now he has a croked finger that will be with him for the rest of his life, so i advise you to go to the doctor and check and just see if everything is ok!


hey..ok so here's the problem..i've liked this guy Chris for like Ever. he was going out w/ my friend for about two months and i had liked him the whole time. they broke up awhile ago, and i just found out he likes me. and one of my friends was talking to him and he said he'd ask me out. and i dont know if i wanna go out w/ him..i mean i've liked him for so long and i still Really like him..but we have this Fun Flirty friendship that i deff. don't wanna lose. and i'm scared that if we go out, and break up that we'll be all akward and not even talk to eachother..but i've liked him for so long and i dont think i could turn him down! ahhhh Help pleaseee! I Rate!! xOxO (link)
well frieship is more important, if this is how you feel, then you really need to let him know by telling him how you feel, that you never want to lose you friendship over this relationship. you can always just go out as friends to. hope i helped!


what makes a guy get an erection and when can they start getting them? (link)
its totally normal, it happens since you were born! it can happen by thinking of sexual things or an attractive woman. if you have alot of questions about this then i think you should proablly ask your dad or a docor! thats what their there for!


yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
haha, its perfectly normal! well i hope i helped and happy new year!


ok...i have turned into a complete and total prep..my family had ALOT of money...i get 100 every 2 weeks for allowence...and next month, i am getting a brand new SL55 AMG mercedes-benz...
but only my family knows about it...i dont want to tell anyone else, but people are starting to find out...my old friends have started calling me a "rich bitch" just because of the colthes i wear...and they completly kicked me out of the clique...so i started hanging out with the other "rich kids" and they are really nice...everyone thinks that they are evil, just because they have money...next semester, my parents are sending me to a private school..which i also havent told anyone about...and tuition alone is 18,000 per year, let alone books and uniforms...people are turning their backs on me just because i have money, and i am dreading to find out how many of my friends are going to leave me after they find out how much money i actually have..i feel really sad that my friends are leaving me just because i have alot of money...i could understand if i was bragging about it, but i havent told anyone...what do i do? (link)
well if they are "kicking you out of there clique" then they would not be considered "true friends" if you were rich or if you were poor, true friends will love ya no matter what, just let them know that!hopfully there will be more "truer" friends at your privite school.
hope i helped!


MY DOG is 12 years old and is suffering from arthritist.and last year he started to eat charcoal and vomiting it out.Do u think this is normal?does your dog do this? (link)
if a dog eats anything that is not soppose to be eaten by dog then it is normal for them to puke it up. hope i helped!


My teacher likes me and he stinks.I do not think he uses deoderant.so because of this he is always coming near me,like i said i aint pretty being near him.I want him to stop liking me but i do not want to affect my grades of conduct report.what should i do?
-dont like stink dudes-
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you should always say what you feel, if this is becoming a issue that is involving your grades, then i would tell your parents so then they can talk to the school board about this problem,this can get serious if he tries to do "something" but i diffinetly would let another teacher that you trust or a parent. good luck! hope i helped!


I can put a tampon in just fine, it just hurts *really* bad whenever I pull it out, is it maybe because I let it get too full before I changed it? Please help! (link)
you probally need to switch to a smaller tampon or just leave it in longer.... its not full enough, when its full then is just slides out really really easily! hope i helped!


Ok, well, right now, i'm in 7th grade. Well, a couple of weeks ago, i got bored and well, i fingered myself...i kno pretty desprit, eh? Well, anyway, me and my boyfriend r ready to go to the next step, and he wants to finger me. Well, see the only thing that's stopping me is that I don't know if there is any transmitted disease i can get. Id there any transmitted disease i can get or can i get hurt in any kind of way?


thnx for the help>> roxy (link)
well just make sure that his finger is very *clean* and if he goes up far enough it can pop your cherry!


what is a birthday suit? (link)
it means that your naked, since when you were born you were naked, people just would rather say your "baby suit" hope i helped!


I just got spacers about 4 hours ago. I felt just a pinch when I got them on but now they hurt so much I cannot bite down. On Jan. 12 I will be getting braces. I am wondering are they going to hurt more then the spacers, and how can I relieve the pain. Thanks in advance. (link)
they are going to hurt WAY WAY much more then spacers! i got mine about 1 year and 2 months ago. they hurt so bad, just to be prepared have lots of soft foods around such as jello and pudding and just a whole bunch of soft foods, ibprofine is always good to have around (advil) when it really really starts to hurt. i couldn't even chew saled! its pretty sad!
well i hope i helped!!!!


Ok, well I heard this one person say "I think he was hitting up on me". What does 'hitting up' mean?? If it helps, the person who said it was a guy in high school, a junior I think. He might have been joking around or something like that though, because it kind of sounded like it, but I couldn't tell. Anyways, all I wanna know is what it means. I rate. (link)
it means that he is trying to get your attention :) i hope i helped! happy holidays!


where is the best place to buy a fancy dress not formal or semi formal casual-fancy (link)
DEB! they have great dresses of all kind! merry christmas and a happy new year!




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