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well i used to be kind of an ass hole on here but now i decided to be nice.
Gender: Female
Location: lala land
Occupation: high school
Age: 15
Member Since: June 18, 2006
Answers: 46
Last Update: September 6, 2006
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my boyfreind are thinking about sex. and we know we are both ready for it so please dont say anything along the lines of "you might not be ready".
but anyways. we are going to be safe about it. but my boyfreind doesnt want to buy condoms, he just thinks its embarssing. and isnt that supposed to be the guys job?


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haha hell yah go for it.
if he won't buy them then you can it's no big deal... and if you don't want to get one from a friend =]


I am virgin, and i Have not come on my period for nearly 2 months. The boy didnt ejacuate cum on his finger and he didnt have pre-cum.. people said it is normal to miss some months of menstruation as i only started my period in june.. CAn i get pregnant? (link)
nah. you're period is just irregular for the first 2 years. don't worry about it sweetie.


what does the school do if they found out that you skipped a class or something?? (link)
psh nothing. detention maybe. who cares though... go do something funner than being in class =] just don't do it all the time or you'll get caught.


i live in the south, and we always say ma'am and sir when speaking to adults. however, i recently met some students from northern states and they don't say that. they even said that adults from northern states think it's weird when they say ma'am and sir. but in the south, adults think it's disrespectful to not say ma'am and sir. why is this, and should i just say ma'am and sir to all adults because that's how i was brought up? (link)
yah they'll just think you're respectfull.


i have this cousin who is 15 and im 13 and he is so hot and he has been checking me out and i was wondering (we are blood related) what would happen if we made out or worse. (link)
okay wowww it's your cousin dear seriously think about that he's related to you and if you guys ever had sex and you ended up pregnent your baby would be messed up agh.


hey i asked a question about the chi straightner. i think im going to buy it off ebay but everyone said it cost like 100 bucks and on ebay the cheapest i can get it is around $12-14. they're only one inch irons but i dont care. i just want to know what kind you guys have. theres a whole bunch of different styles: pink, white, black, gray/red, and stuff like that. i just want to know which one you guys have specifically so i know its not a scam.

thanks again! (link)
heyy well i just searched for mine online and here's the one i have

http://www.overstock.com/sm-chi-turbo-flat-iron-7-10-ceramic-straightener--pg-proframe_pi-1680600_ti-82124.html

try and make sure the straightner isn't used if you buy it because it might be lacking in quality if it's been used before and eh gross you don't know where it's been i hope i helped any more questions just ask =]


i really need help, the other day i was really drunk and kissed another guy, and i have a bf..its completley killing me and i feel horrible..should i tell my bf, what should i do? has anyone been in this position before..thanks. (link)
you're gonna have to tell him otherwise he'll find out on his own and be more mad because you didn't tell him. I don't know how things are gonna work out..just say it wwas a drunken mistake.


im 4'11 and im 85 pounds, and everyone calls me anorexic, because i have really skinny arms and legs and a stomach. but i have a pretty fat face. its not like i have a double chin or six chins or anything, just my cheeks are kinda fat. is there anyway to make them skinnier?? (link)
nah you can't most people like chubby cheeks though it's cute haha


are chi straightners good? like really good? i'm trying to find a new straightner for this school year. i'm free for experimenting but i have to use my own money so i want some backround information before i buy it. and what's the average cost?

oh, and if there are better straightners that are like out-of-this-world (and under 40 dollars please), i'd like to hear about them too. so far i used conair and remington but they're not working as well as i was looking for.

thanks a bunch! (link)
sweetie...you're not going to get a chi straightner for under 40 dollars...i have one and mine was almost 200 i had a revlon one and it worked wonders =] it was only like 20 bucks too


I am in a depressed mood and i was wondering if you guys could give me some good slow songs.
like stuff by sarah McLachlan I have been listening too
its mostly about a guy so some stuff like that would be appreciated.
we all have our days right? (link)
that song that that other person posted is by avril lavigne btw.


im so upset all my boyfriends friends think they can do what ever they want to me my boyfriend always hits me and i cant tell my parents or the cops my boyfriend said he will hit me till i cant walk anymore please someone give me advice (link)
are you kidding me? FUCK THAT no girl deserves to get hit by a guy leave the ass hole he obviously doesn't deserve you and if you're not gonna report him fine whatever your choice but don't do this to yourself. seriously.

here read this.

Girls if you aren't being treated right by a guy,
don't wait for him to change. Ditch his sorry disgrace-to-the-male-population ass , && find
someone who will treat you with utter respect,
who will honor your morals && someone who
will make you smile when you're at your lowest


oh one more thing.
listen to this song too
it's by The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus it's called Face Down here's the lyrics.

Hey girl you know you drive me crazy
one look puts the rhythm in my hand.
Still I'll never understand why you hang around
I see what's going down.

Cover up with make up in the mirror
tell yourself it's never gonna happen again
you cry alone and then he swears he loves you.

Do you feel like a man
when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend, one day this world's going to end
as your lies crumble down, a new life she has found.

A pebble in the water makes a ripple effect
every action in this world will bear a consequence
If you wade around forever you will surely drown
I see what's going down.

I see the way you go and say your right again,
say your right again
heed my lecture

Do you feel like a man
when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend, one day this world's going to end
as your lies crumble down a new life she has.

One day she will tell you that she has had enough
its coming round again.
(repeat)

Do you feel like a man, when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the grown?
Well I'll tell you my friend, one day this world's going to end
as your lies crumble down, a new life she has.

Face down in the dirt she says, this doesn't hurt she says I finally had enough..
(repeat)





Hey,
Im 15 years old, female, 5'3, and weigh 87 pounds All theese B.M.I things say i am dangerously underweight...even though i have a very small body frame, im also a late bloomer (I havent had my period) I go to the doctor regularly and they never said i was underweight...i dont feel like im too thin. Should i be worried? Does not having your period and being a late bloomer have an affect on ideal weight?

Thank you. (link)
once you get you're period you'll start growing more because then you're going through puberty and shit so for now you're fine because thigns will change once you get your period


My school has a strict dresscode
-only collared shirts or sweaters
-only SOLLID color pants or skirts (No jean at all)

Does anyone have some good suggestions on what i can wear? (link)
go to abercrombie or hollister and get polos and double those when you wear them or get a lacy tank top and put it on underneath and have the lace stick out and they have skirts like that there too.


ok so this doesnt rly have to do with an actual computer but i didnt know what else to put this in. ok I have a Aiptek IS-DV digital camcorder, and i've had it for a little over a year. In the past like 2 weeks i've tried to take pictures on it and it says memory full even tho there are no pictures in it right now. one of my friends told me it might be something with a memory card? but it didnt come with one and i dont know anything about it.. please help me!!!! (link)
yah exactly why you need to buy a memory card to take pictures


Im getting my belly naval pierced tomorrow and i was wondering on a scale 1 - 10. 10 being the worst.. how bad did it hurt? Im kind of nervous but I just want a heads up thing. Thanks in advanced (link)
it doesn't hurt at all
no joke.


Well today I found out my friend Brian is bisexual and since my boyfriend Craig is bisexual I had him talk to my friend about it. Well Brian and Craig were talking and Brian is like a brother to me and told me he wouldn't do anything to hurt me like take him away. Well Craig and him sorta hit it off now Brian and him like eachother but he "loves" me and I was crying for a long time because he is my "first true love" blah blah. Well now everyone knows and I just feel like crap... I am the really emotional type. I don't open up to people and I opened up to craig.. now he basically cheated on my (he came on to Brian) and Brian didn't stop him and hes like its not my fault but I am still sad.. So i wanted that off my chest basically. Is there anything I could do to make this pain go away.. (link)
exactly why i would never date a bi guy
go make out with one of his lesbian friends
see how he likes that


i am 13 years old and i weigh 86 lbs is that over weight or under? (link)
um what's your height


ok like i have big bags or circles i dont know what there called under my eyes. and people say to get rid of them you have to get some more sleep. but all i do is sleep. like i go to bed around 10 pm or 11 pm then i wake up the next day at like 11 am. i get like 12 hours asleep per nite or even more. so i was just wonderin how do i get them to go away? i eman there not bg but there dark. it makes me look like bad or like im on drugs or whatever so it like changes my appearance. sorry if this is in the rong category. so... does anyone know like what to do?? thanks (link)
who said being on drugs was bad? seriously


14/f

Ok, before I give you the actual question, I'm going ot give you the background.

Here it goes,
It started yesterday, it was my dad and I, watching Jeapordy, and he was making fun of all the contestants, so I hit him in the arm, but then he hit me back, I don't think he realized how hard he hits, but it's very hard. So I hit him back again, and so on, and so on. But at one point he slapped/hit my leg so hard that it left a huge hand print, and I got so mad. My mom wasn't home at the time, I tried contacting her, but she didn't answer. So I took a picture of the mark. It was ok, after that, seeing how I got out of the house for a couple of hours with my friends.Then he and my brother, came to pick me up, we decided to go rent a movie. After that was over, this is going to sound childish, but we were arguing over who got the front seat. And my dad always takes his side, so I was frustrated, so frustrated, that when I got in the back, I said "I hate you both". My dad went "Hate is an awfuly strong word." Then I went "Fine I loathe you, I despise both of you." And it was a quiet car ride after that. When we got home, I had a serious attitude, and my mom wanted to know why. That's when I showed her the picture of my leg[from earlier]. She got really mad, and started hitting my dad. Since I was just as mad, I went upstairs to cool off, and watch the movie I had chosen. When it was over, I wasn't quite as mad, and we[my brother, dad and I] watched the other movie. That was fine.


But, when I woke up this morning, I woke up an hour late, so I jumped in the shower, and while I was in there, my dad comes in and goes "Your too late, Your too late." I have no idea why, but it irritated me. So I snapped back at him; "I can still take a shower!". After I got out, my mom came in and started telling me, that she was going to leave my dad, that we don't get along, and she's leaving us both behind. She asked if I deserved the hit on the leg. Then she goes that stunt you pulled, really screwwed things up.[Refering to showing her the picture, to get my dad in trouble.] And I wasn't allowed to go, where I had planned on going. So I slept. When I woke up, my dad was leaving for work, and he said "Bye." I said "Bye." And he goes, "I hope your happy." And as I sit here now, I can't help, but believe that I was responsible for my family falling apart. My parents have been otgether since they were 14, and I feel as though I ruined it all. That I was some sort of mistake. And I don't know what to do. Does anyone know how I can fix things? I'm feeling very depressed right now,and I have no idea what I'm going to do.

Thanks for anyone who tries. (link)
fuck that hell no
parents are dumb and are childish and blame things on other people instead of taking responsibility for their actions


This is weird, but Im TERRIFIED of sex. Im 14. But, I hate to think about which is weird because I masturbate all the time..but to think of something actually going in there is scary to me. Ive tried to put tampons in before and even that KILLS..I only get half way and I stop. Can anyone tell me if sex really hurts? On a scale of 1-10? Is there any pain sex compares to? Is it worth it? (link)
um that's because you're obviously not putting the tampon in right and it hurts duh




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