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Hey guys. im 13 like 4'11" im no im freakin short im single!!! i have alot of friends i live in a small town in the south west corner of Indiana. i have 2 dogs scrappy and elche (chihuahua and boxer) lol i no weird combo. i also have 3 cats (austin mindy and willie) okay enough about pets. My parents r divorced whoopti freakin doo. n e way i luv soccer i've been playin 8 years im 13. blonde lol i sing all the time no offense not tryin braggy but im kinda good.. in the OK range. i play piano, 4 years. fav store. aeropostal!!!

some of mah fav quotes~

if abercrombie, hollister, or even the popular ppl of schools decided breathing wasn't cool, more than 50% of the teenage population would die

... we are all born individual... don't die a copy!!!

goth. geek, punk. prep, popular, weirdo, pyshco, freak~ labels r 4 soup cans... not people

i am jealous of every person that every hugged you... b/c in that instant they wer holding my whole world

lyl
have fun!

advice

Okay, i'm a ninth grader, and i can't stand all of the 7th graders, they're all stuck up. i got into a huge fight with one of them cuz they were sayen stuff about me. and then the one girls friends sister got involved and shes 16, and im on 14, she threatened to kick my ass, i duno if she'll actually do it though. i see her alot in the halls , i dont think she exactly knows what i look like either, but alot of people in my school know me, so they might tell her. should i skip school tomorrow, or just go? im soo worried.. thanks!!! and if i do skip school, what can i tell my mom, like what are some good tricks?

pretend sickness!!! haha it always works if you have to take your temp... when your mom isnt lookin take a flashlight and put the thermometer on the flashlight light.. it makes it go up..but make sure it isn't to hot... and do alot of exersices to make your face really red... thats what i always do hahah...

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Ive noticed in the last few months I am always tired when I wake up. And its not because lack of sleep because no matter how early i go to sleep or how late i wake up or vice versa I always feel the same. Any suggestions? What can I do to make myself feel better and not be so tired in the morning?

coffee!!! lol just kidding..it helps me...okay so i have had the same problem... oaky say you set your alarm for 6:30 and you are so tired you cant get up... okay so try setting your alarm a bit earlier...say 6:00...okay when it goes off... just lay in bed until 6:30...then you'll be awake you won't worry about fallin back asleep..(listnin 2 musik helps keep u awake btw) hope i helped

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hey..ok so here's the problem..i've liked this guy Chris for like Ever. he was going out w/ my friend for about two months and i had liked him the whole time. they broke up awhile ago, and i just found out he likes me. and one of my friends was talking to him and he said he'd ask me out. and i dont know if i wanna go out w/ him..i mean i've liked him for so long and i still Really like him..but we have this Fun Flirty friendship that i deff. don't wanna lose. and i'm scared that if we go out, and break up that we'll be all akward and not even talk to eachother..but i've liked him for so long and i dont think i could turn him down! ahhhh Help pleaseee! I Rate!! xOxO

okay flirting is fun... but this is really up to you...if you like him alot..then go 4 it...as for the okward thing...yeah every one is after they first break up...you get over it though

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i always seem to go for the wrong guys and get hurt in relationships. how can i stop that

same here babe just wait you'll find the right guy...just don't go out with them unless your sure...how old are you btw...if u r in like 7th grade forget it

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Im 13/f. im about 5'4" and i weigh about 140. EVen if it doesnt sound like a lot which im sure it does, my stomach is Big. Its not all like, flabby and stuff but its not even in a flat shape. it sticks out a lot, and expecially at the top. anything i can do about this? will starving myself reduce my stomach size but at the same time my breast size?

oh, honey, you're only 13, that's just baby fat... don't worry about it...just exercise! crunches work great... its all good

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if you get a fake tan do they look kind of obvious and people will be able to tell that they are fake? (im talking about the kind of tan that you get and get done at the salon, not the one you can buy at a store and put on yourself)

tanning beds rock!!! just start out with 5 minutes if you go.. every 3 times you go increase you time 3 minutes work your way up to 20 but don't go past that

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im 14/f and i really like my brothers best friend. we are always flirting but i know my brother gets really mad. i wouldnt care what my brother thinks but we recently started talking more and gotten close..my brothers friend is 16..i dont know if i should pursue my secret crush on this boy or just back off?

back off hun... ur bro could get really mad... he's 2 years older btw that is definetly not a plus

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i ben playin soccer for 5 years now....im okay...i should be better i want to be better....i just get nervous when i have the ball and i lyke kick it anywhere and i dont have very good ball control....is there ne 1 who plays soccer who kan give me a few tips or excersizes 2 do?? i have practice everyday (i amde the skool team) for 2 hrs...so we do practice ALOT but the season is starting in about 3wks and i wanna get beter...thx

ok...i have played soccer since i was 5... 8 years of soccer for me.. i am obsessed with it lol...ok so make sure you practice juggling at least 30 minutes every day...that really helps... just practice dribbling...do alot of sprints.. sprint 5 minutes then cool down...10 minutes of sprinting is better than a 3 mile jog.. ;)
hope i helped
signed,
the obsessed 13 year old soccer player

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umm after im finished playin basketball or volleyball, im usually sweating a lot. my face also is very red after practice. is there any way that i can keep my face from being so red? o ya and im 13/f.

well i have same sort of problem... but i don't really care abut how red i am.. it just means i was working hard...just drink alot of water and keep cool...wet towel behind ur neck helps

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ok so,i play like every sport there is except rugby and football...cuz im a girl...all my friends say that im amazimg cuz when i get home from school iu do my homework get online then sports the rest of the night..but sometimes i goto basketball then to soccer then to lacrosse then to swimming. everyone says that i should quiet mayb 3 sports and only havge like 3 sports to do...should i quit? but i always have time for them...i rate REALLY high..*but it has to be good please!)

okay i don't really play alot of different sports..but i had the same sort of problem... i had 5 soccer camps to go to every day i was in 6th grade... i practiced with the highschool for 2 camps 2 hours...then i went to 3 junior high camps that lasted for about 3 hours ... i was really tired at the end of the day but i still made sure all my home work was done... so basically just make sure you get all school work done.. and if you are okay with it just keep going with all of them (SOCCER ROX!)

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i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks

okay...just talk to him...tell him you don't lke it when he tells everyone..but be reasonable...you don't want him mad @ you

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ok...for the last day of school, before break, i wore white pants...because they were white, i work a thong...im not a slut, so i dont let it hang out, and i usually wear a belt with my pants, but these were nice pants that i didnt need a belt for...well during lunch, i was walking up to my friend and my guy friend wanted to hug me from behind, but ended up steping on my pants adn everyone saw i was wearing a thong. he didnt pants me, but some people saw the string...i know its not bad to wear thongs, but that was a pretty embarassing situation, and i didnt want everyone knowing. tommorow i go back to school, and i dont want everyone laughing at me...what do i do?

forget about it... people will probably forget...i know at least one person will probably remeber but jsut ignor them...they'll find someone else to pick on

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the other day, my boyfriend came over and we were sitting on the couch. then we started kissing. he slipped his tounge into my mouth and i did the same. (we were kissing for like 10-15 seconds) is that considered just french kissing or making out?

wow...nice...it's both dear

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i have really really REALLY sweaty armpits and i need advice on wut kinda deoderant would actually work for me.. its really very embaressing and its really embaressing to ask u all rite now so please don't reply and make fun of me... neway cya hope u can help

alot of people have this problem..just take showers...and i personally use soft and dry with a power stripe... :)

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heyy ok.. one of my bestfriends has this secret and she only told me and my other bestfriend but she told us not to tell our other bestfriend (all four of us are bestfriends) but anyway.. i told that person n i kno i shouldnt have but it was too hard not to. We also fight alot.. we say really mean things to eachother and hit eachother as a joke.. but do u think thats a good friendship? Let me know wat u think! thanks a bunch!

this sounds exactly like me and 3 of my friends we'll call them..."K" "c" and "l" we all have nicknames krispy camello and laurabug okay if you promised you wouldn't tell then why did you..i mean if she really was your best friend then why did you tell her...if she wanted the other best friend to know she would have told her, herself...okay so does the friend with the secret know you told the other bestfriend...because you need to apologize or somthing...but if she really is a friend she'll understand and then it'll all be fine...as for the mean things and hitting me and my friends do it all the time...but we know we are just joking...don't worry about it

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guys always use me and then dump me! i am sick of it, i can never have a real relatioship! they just like my looks! what should i do? its not like i give them any sometimes only

whoa! geesh well don't go out with them then DUH! i mean if they are using you and you no it dump them or just don't go out with them... you dont always have to be going out with someone i mean wait 4 the rite guy and don't wear like short and tite clothes just dress normal...hope i helped

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i have this friend i like.. hes like my best guy friend but i want to be more than just a friend to him.. how can i tell him how i feel?

just talk to him he'll understand if he's really you're friend but don't just walk up and say will you go out with me he might freak! hope i helped

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I was cleaning out my closet that I havn't cleaned for like a year and a half and I found the $125 gold necklace that my ex-boyfriend gave me last year. I remember throwing it in the closet when i broke up with him-----but now I found it. I don't have any jewelery that fine and I was thinking about wearing the necklace. Who's gonna know? My ex lives in N.Y.C. anyway and i'm like 2 hours north of the city, so I wont see him. Do you think its ok to wear it???

Well, if you think it wouldn't bother you wearing it then go ahead. But if you feel insicure then maybe you could, save up some money and buy some nice jewelry

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I'm treated pretty badly at school. Like, people pick on me and call me names. I don't do anything to deserve such treatment, and it's been like this since Kindergarden. I have friends and all that, but a lot of people still threaten me and what not. Don't tell me to tell a teacher or what not because they already not yet fail to do a damn thing about it. I can't defend myself because I can't fight, and I don't like making fun of others. If there is any advice people could give me to maybe help me stop the torment, that'd be great.
Thank you for your time,
♥Shattered Soul in Shelby♥

P.S-Don't ask to be rated.

well the exact same thing happened to my brother he was a bit skimpy and people picked on him when he was a freshman, well know he is a senior and people look up to him, because instead of fighting back, he just ignored them and whenever they would come up to him and say somthing, he would think of somthing really smart to say. He took a "Karate" type class, but insted of karate it was a class that only taught defense and mind power it really helped him, he also worked out. I know you're a girl but they are only doing that to you because they are just mad at there own dumb and boring lives. They feel insicure so they pick on other people. Trust me ignor them and pay them no mind, they'll get over themselves

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ok well I am kind of mad. I think my mom's b/f is just using her, And I am to scard to tell my mom. But when I do wont to tell my mom he is there. He is always over and he eats all of our food. But he never cleans up. My mom has not been dateing for a while because my dad went to jail. I dont know what to do.... PLEASE HELP

just tell you're mom you don't like him if she ask's you why then just tell her what you just typed

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