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I am a person who loves meeting people and giving them advice at their most vulnerable moments. I don't don't give advice for anything rather than my want and need to help people. I just feel happy when someone feels clear or has weight lifted off their shoulders when i give them advice. I am not saying I am perfect or mother Teresa but I can say that with life you get knowledge and the power to give someone advice on something using both your heart and mind. I have a wide range of advice I give because I believe that anyone with a soul can find someone else that needs help an answer. Technology,love,and limitless troubles are something that I love helping with. Whether someone is 14 or 45...I don't care. People are who they are. They are not perfect because they are indeed human. With that I know I have a lot of advice to give.advice
I got my belly pierced about 3 days ago, I have two friends that got theirs done a long time ago, one friend says dont use peroxide use neosporin for healing and salt water for cleaning, and my other friend says dont use neosporin and use peroxide for cleaning, both friends piercings look great and they never had any problems. How do I do this? By the way both friends work at the tattoo and piercing place i got it done at (i met them getting my nose pierced) so going to my piercer is not going to help haha... what is the right way and is it normal to have little hard things on my ring in the morning? (like what kittens get in their eyes almost)
Alcohol is the easiest method in my case. It cleans and disinfects perfectly. In this case alcohol is the difference between an infection and a healthy belly piercing. I recommend alcohol for the skin and salt water for the mouth. Don't get me wrong.....salt water is good but not the best option.
Congrats on the piercing
This guy I talk to was talking to this girl and she said "Seems like you like natural white girls with frilly blouses." I'm only part white, and I dont understand why she said that. What does that mean?
She meant the innocent girl who is lives next door. Some girls take it as a compliment while some dont. I believe personally it's a compliment because she is identifying you as a girl who is not a slut or someone who is known for bad things.
June 14th, when the second season of PLL started, I was away that night and couldn't watch the show. Since then, I've been forgetting to sit down and watch the second season every Tuesday. I tried searching online for all thee full episodes for free so I could catch up and watch it tonight on tv, but I'm having absolutely no luck.
Can anyone give me a website that you KNOW for certain the episodes are on? Season 2! Not 1!
Thank you!
The perfect place to watch the episodes is letmewatchthis.com. You can go to google and say pretty little liars let me watch this and you will have all episodes so far for season 2. The best thing about this site is that it gives you different players like megavideo and hulu which is good because every computer owner has their favorite.
Enjoy
how do you know were your hymen is? How would you find out if you broke it or not?
Your hymen is located on the external opening of your vagina. You can see if its broken by just checking. If you touch your vagina and feel a layer of external tissue covering it somewhat, then you have not broken it. There are many shapes to a hymen but it is easy to spot.
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I am skinny, yet my face is chubby, Hair cut advice, its looking dull and flat.. and makeup advice? thanks How old do you think i look in this picture?
You are really beautiful to begin with. I notice that in this picture is that your hair is completely straight. I advice you to make your hair a little curly to center your face.
Try to brighten your lip color so it focuses on your lips a little bit. Some blush will lighten your cheekbones and make your cheekbones a little slim and kind of attention taking.
I advice you to not go crazy with the makeup. Try to be natural as you can. As for eye-shadow, I want you to try light brown and pink. Something earthy because that is what i see when I look at you.
Some mascara will not hurt but not too much because it wont look good with your eyes. I don't want it to clump. For mascara use dark brown not black.
I was selling paintings on Craigslist when a potential buyer contacted me; I let him know the paintings were still available. Later, he told me that his assistant accidentally sent me money that was meant for another seller and begged me to cash the money order, keep what he owes me, and send him a money order for the remainder. This was a little fishy (so was his failure to, in our many exchanges and despite my questioning, specify which painting he was buying), but I decided to have good faith. Today, however, the money orders (that's right, plural) arrived in the mail and it turned out that he overpaid me not by $50 or $100, but by nearly two grand. At this point, I took to the internet, realized it's probably a scam, and contacted MoneyGram (the company that issued the MOs), who told me that it's probably a fake and that I should send the MOs to them. They also informed me that in the small chance that it's actually real, the buyer can always request a refund / replacement money order.
Anyway, I was about to email my scammer to inform him of the following:
- I foudn out his money orders are likely a fake
- I am sending them to the company
- In the event that they was actually real, he shoudl contact MoneyGram for a refund or replacement
- I no longer want to do business with him
My boyfriend, however told me that I should leave this be, send the MOs to MG, but not send the email, and not talk to him. According to him, i should ignore him because any other action will simply antagonize the guy and encourage him to make further attempts to cheat me.
What is the right course of action? Please note that I am a college student that has no experience with this :( If emailing him is in fact, the right thing to do, what is a polite way of saying "Take your business elsewhere and do not contact me again"?
Also, how can I avoid scams like this in the future? What are signs to watch out for? Is there anything else I should know about selling merchandise on a website like Craigslist?
And lastly, I read that if someone attempts to cash a counterfeit check / money order, they are responsible for that money. As in, if I took that money order to the bank today, I would've had to pay 2 grand. Why is this? Technically, the money never existed in the first place and it seems like the majority of people affected are unknowing victims, not the people responsible.
This is fraud. This below is an example....
Sample Fraud Letters
THE MONEY TRANSFER SCAM LETTERS
Sample letter one:
Dear Sir,
Pardon my intrusion into your privacy like this, but the
Circumstances warrant that I do so.
I am Mr. Albert Young- a lawyer/consultant for some Asian
Eminent personnels who prefer to remain anonymous.
They have shown proofs to me which I have verified professionally that their claims are true, sincere and accurate as I wouldn't want my name and career smeared with mud; that they have a certain large sum of money in CASH (USD$45,000,000.00 -
Forty five million USA dollars) stashed away in security and finance houses in Europe.
My clients are politicians, ex-head of states and some of them are in asylum which explains why they prefer to remain anonymous. They have requested that I source for a reliable and capable foreigner to act as their partner who will help claim these funds from
the security company after which it shall be used for investment as directed by the foreigner (subject to a close study of feasibility expected to be supplied).The funds are duly protected professionally to avoid any unauthorized tampering or theft.
A total of 22.5% of the total sum has been set aside for you if you agree to be our partner as well as a 5% which is mapped out for all expenses which might be incurred in the process of claiming the funds from the security company.
As a lawyer, I am aware of the various similar propositions flying about on the internet and I must confess that I was reluctant to take up this task, but having carried out my investigations and confirm it is true, I can confidently tell you that this is no scam.
Kindly reply back to me should you wish to be a partner with 100% assurance that you will not regret your decision.
Awaiting your prompt response.
Sincerely yours,
Mr. Albert Young
Sample letter two:
We want to transfer to overseas $10,000.000.00 USD (ten million United States Dollars) from National Credit Bank (NCB) of South Africa. We look for a reliable and honest person who is capable of doing this all-important business transaction with us.
I am MR. BASIL RAYMOND, former Minister of State for Solid Minerals of South Africa and the CEO of LION COMMODITIES SA (PTY) LTD, Postal Address: --------GT � South Africa.
My company business activity includes Dealers in Dimension Stone, Minerals and Metals, Chemicals, Agricultural and Food & Beverages etc. We will start the first transfer with Twenty four million [$4,000.000], upon successful transfer, the second and last transfer of $6m will follow.
This amount is an excess revenue derived from company activities after last year�s audit and it has been approved to be paid into a new foreign account. Hence we are contacting you as a foreigner to assist us transact this profitable business.
However, we will sign a binding agreement before any thing else. I got your contact address from South Africa chamber of commerce. Please reply urgently so that I will inform you the next step to take urgently. Send also your telephone and fax number including the full details of the account to be used for the deposit, whether a new account or an existing one.
To build confidence with us, you can come immediately to discuss with us face to face,
After which we will make this remittance in your presence and two of us (I and Mr. Jargon T. Doorman of National Credit Bank (NCB) of South Africa) will fly to your country at least two days ahead of the money going into the account.
I will apply for annual leave to get visa immediately I hear from you that you are ready to act and receive this fund in your account. I will use my position and influence to obtain all legal approvals for onward transfer of this money to your account with appropriate clearance from the relevant ministries and foreign exchange departments.
At the conclusion of this business, you will be given 20% of the total amount, while 5% will be for expenses both parties might have incurred during the process of transferring.
We look forward to your earliest reply.
Regards.
Basil Raymond.
The whole idea of a scam is for you to be tricked into sending money in a money gram that is YOURS!!!!!! You send them the money and keep their check and later find out that its fake. I advise you to NEVER SEND money because you are being scammed. I know many situation in which this happened which is why you should be careful on Craigslist. There is also the fact that he send YOU more money. No one will just give away money!!!! BE CAREFUL and listen to your boyfriend!!!!!
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there is not damage in being extra careful
Hi, I'm graduating 8th grade tomorrow, and I'm getting my hair and need to pick a style. Which of these: (last 2 are the same, different angles)
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Would look best on me:
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(Without the glasses). Please respond soon! Thank you
i SUGGEST THE first one because it gives you more shape and makes you in a way more flawless. I think your really pretty and will look amazing with that hairstyle. I also want to suggest one more thing. You should accompany this hairstyle with a pink accented color for lips. It will make you angelic looking in comparison to your beautiful skin color.
I am 17 and my boyfriend will not make out with me yet, but I want to!! What do I say to him or what do I do?
If he is your boyfriend it's easy. Here are some tips.
One. Set a good mood. Some place private where you can just hangout and talk. Like movie night at his or your house on the sofa.
Second. Be inviting. Cuddle or share a blanket.It sets the mood and makes him and you comfortable and peaceful in a way.
Third. Don't go too quick. First give him and kiss on the cheek or lips. You pick. Hold his hand and play with it. It will make him feel like he can kiss you and show his feelings.
Lastly. After your first kiss which is not too much.....initiate a make out. All that matters is that its you and him.
Caution::::
If this doesn't work....i suggest you talk because there could be a problem. Either way good luck with your boyfriend.!!!
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COMMMUNICATION is key in a relationship!
My friend and I used to be so close but now one of my other friends is sort of stealing my friend away from me. All three of us used to be really good friends but now im being pushed out of the group. i dont want to loose her because we have been friends since pre-school. we are now in grade 7 (almost 8)
What do i do?????
YOU SOUND JUST LIKE ME!!!! You need to realize that all friends come and go. The mistake I made was pushing both so much and causing drama that i lost my friends all together. You should become friends and find common interest with the other girl. She can be a great friend. Don't hate the other girl because you think she is stealing you friend. Connect yourself with the other girl and find something that the three of you can do together. That way you can have a new friend and reconnect with the old one.
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Okay I get the birth control shot every 3 months and when i get the shot my period comes. But this time it hasnt came so I'm thinking within the 3 months my period can come anytime. I have been having sex with protection and I just wanted to know is it acturate that my period can come within the 3 months or I missed a period and I might be pregant?
To tell you the truth....it can be both. Not any type of protection is 100 percent effective. You can have hormonal imbalance causing irregularity or even be pregnant. I suggest you be careful and check all possibilities. I suggest you weight all options for the time being.
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My boyfriend of 2 years.. left me for partying,and drinking.. and all that crap.. he was never like that, he used to be really clean, infact he used to make fun of people and hate people like that.. i dont know what to do, i cant write much because im so shocked and devistated.. i told him icant be with someone like that, and he chose it over me.. he keeps saying he loves me but he just wants to have fun.. i told him i cant have that stuff in my life.. thats just the kind of person i am, and were muslims by the way.. so in our religion this stuff is wrong.. and he knows that really well.. but im so heartbroken.. he changed so much, you dont understand how much hes changed.. i dont know what to do..will he ever regret dropping me for this? help..
The fact of the matter is that people change. It simple. One day a person says he hates drinking...the next day he can be an alcoholic. Either way..you fell in love with the guy he was before and you have to admit it. He is not the same person anymore and you need to move on. If drinking and partying is his life which is what you dont need.......then he is not going to be in your life. You told him he had to choose and he did. He loves you but he loves drinking and partying more. I suggest you forget him and find someone that WILL put you first then anything in the world because that my dear is true love. This man is not what you need. He might regret what he did but you may never know. I know that you know what is best for you and with that i give you a goodbye.
You said i could get my car taken away even though my friend was driving and she already paid the ticket and already paid her court costs. Will they send me a letter tellin me about how or when they will take my car or what will happen? This was last year and she is just now saying she wants me to pay for all of it so what's going to happen
First of all dont pay for it. Her lack of responsibility is what caused this. Anybody even a judge will tell you this. If she already paid for everything that has to do with the car, then she cant take it back and you are safe. If everything is paid for the car...all tickets and its CLEAN as in no payments regarding the court or gov't...i believe you are fine. You just need to double check...have your records because mistakes can be made.
Last year I decided to teach my friend how to drive my 5 speed stick shift car. Long story short, we got hit on the driver side bumper (my car at a complete stop) because the other girl was texting while driving and "didn't see us". After the cop got there he talked to her and let her leave and she even passed the turn into her friends driveway, had to back up her car a good ten fifteen feet to go to where she was trying to go. My passenger side wheels are in the ditch from where my friend got over so far trying to avoid the girl. Anyways she got the ticket for no insurance I and paid court costs and paid the ticket but now (eight months later) messages me on facebook to tell me that she wants me to send her my tags a registration to send to Nashville over the wreck so her name can be cleared and she can get her liscence back and my liscence be revoked. So not friends anymore. Yes it's my responsibility to have insurance on my car. And it's her responibility for driving. After we argued and she realized I'm not givin her anything she said that my car was going to be taken away from me and she was trying to save my a** So anyways can my car really be taken away from me over her wrecking last year or what?
Yes!!! You need to be careful. The car is yours and because you gave her permission to use it and she made mistakes, you will pay for it. You really need to be careful about who you lend your car to. Its your car and your responsibility and you can be screwed if anything happens.
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What does it mean if your period blood is brown and smells really bad?
It just outdated period residue. Its harmless and its just something that is getting out of your body after staying a little big long its harmless.
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Hi,
I plan to take a road trip with 2 guys friends, a girl friend and myself. We are all 20 years plus in age. We want to take a camper van and we have the option to all sleep in the same camper van. If we did, us girls would be very modest, have separate beds of course and wear normal clothes to bed. But, I'm not sure if sleeping in the same room with the guys is ok?
PS We are all single, committed Christians.
Thanks for your help.
Hannah
Hi hannah im Hanna. I know you all committed christians. I believe that you all will be fine then. You all know what is right and wrong and you all are adults. You are responsible and as committed christians you wont do anything that isn't right.
P.S. Have a fun and safe trip
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dont be afraid to have faith in yourself like you have for god
I feel like "Will you be my boyfriend/girlfriend?" is grade school. When you're an adult how do you know?
I've been talking and seeing this guy for a couple months now and I don't really know how to bring it up. I'm ready for a relationship with him but is he? I don't want to seem like I'm rushing him into it or if he even wants one period.
Ask him!!1 Look i know you like him but dont waste your time. Ask him if you are in a relationship because he needs to know that you are exclusive and cant do other things that he can. There needs to be bounds or else you will get hurt. Dont be afraid to ask. You really need to find out and i suggest soon.
Okay I have somewat of a big tummy & alot of people say one reasons why is cause my digestive system is off so it backed up food, I also feel real bloated & dont poop alot. Wat are some good diet / digestive pills? I heard acai berry was good. Any suggestions?
i know what it is like to have digestive problems. I suggest you add more fiber to your diet so you can go visit the bathroom a lot and lose that constipation. When I think about the digestive system, i look at my colon first and think about cleansing it as well. i think that you should do colon hydrotherapy which will cleanse and remove that waste that has been there for years. This cleansing is easy. All you have to do is buy an enamel bag which is at the most ten dollars. Its safe and easy but there are some cautions of course such as the water you use which has to be purified and not sink water. I suggest your read into it more online and just do it. It will make you feel so nice and make your body more healthier. I also suggest you try the yogurts that are called realign after your hydrotherapy to realign your digestive system. It tastes good and is great for you.
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i make this diet quiche type thing.
its like about a cup of eggwhites
one frozen bag of coliflower and broccoli (small bag)
some onion soup mix. less then a cup.
and about a tablespoon of light mayo- less even.
about how many calories would you say this is?
The white of 1 large egg contains 17 calories while 1 cup provides 117 calories. In addition 1 cup of egg whites contains less than 0.5 g of fat.
100 calories for bag of cauliflower and for a cup of broccoli there is 52 calories.
onion soup mix is about about 60 to 70 calories.
A tablespoon of Mayo is about 10 to 15 calories.
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All of these calorie counts are estimated and are 5 calories or 10 calories too much or too short
What is Love? I always hear people sayong they love someone or something but what does it all really mean? Why do people like my parents and family say they love me? Is there actually something so ridiculous and naive out there?
Love is something that is endless to give or receive. Make you cry, think, daydream, smile,laugh and so many other things. Love can hurt...it can cure. Either way...no matter who you are .....you are born with the ability to love. Love is something we all human have in common. It is what makes us what we are as well as what we shouldn't be. It makes us do crazy things as well smart things. love is the most infinite way of showing emotion. It is life.
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How can I know that I am anorexic?
Do you feel fat even though people tell you you’re not?
Are you terrified of gaining weight?
Do you lie about how much you eat or hide your eating habits from others?
Are your friends or family concerned about your weight loss, eating habits, or appearance?
Do you diet, compulsively exercise, or purge when you’re feeling overwhelmed or bad about yourself?
Do you feel powerful or in control when you go without food, over-exercise, or purge?
Do you base your self-worth on your weight or body size?
if you say yes on many of these....you might be in need of some help
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You need help in life so dont take it all on by yourslef