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He left me so he could party and drink and everything. He changed SO much! What do I do?
My boyfriend of 2 years.. left me for partying,and drinking.. and all that crap.. he was never like that, he used to be really clean, infact he used to make fun of people and hate people like that.. i dont know what to do, i cant write much because im so shocked and devistated.. i told him icant be with someone like that, and he chose it over me.. he keeps saying he loves me but he just wants to have fun.. i told him i cant have that stuff in my life.. thats just the kind of person i am, and were muslims by the way.. so in our religion this stuff is wrong.. and he knows that really well.. but im so heartbroken.. he changed so much, you dont understand how much hes changed.. i dont know what to do..will he ever regret dropping me for this? help..
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Some day he is going to realize what a hugh mistake he made by leaving you.... you seem like a very nice girl and youre right you dont need that in your life you did the right thing... I know it hurts now but you can get through this... someday you will look back and it will only be a memory not pain... you are going to find a great guy who loves you and respects you and would never do something like this good luck and keep your head held high you got this
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I was in the same situation, my boyfriend of a year left me because he loved getting drunk and high and partying and it's hard to say but a lot of guys will choose this path at one point in their life and they won't regret it for many years until they've matured and realized how much they have missed, or they might look back and realize how much fun they had. It's a hard truth to accept in your life but he might not ever realize it and if you don't accept that you can never move on.
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Leave it alone. Let it be. If he is the stupid one to let such a wonderful person just walk out of his life over a drink then, let him. You'll come around. You'll come to find that there is someone who appreciates you && has enough respect for you then that. they'll love/like you for what you are, you. You'll come to find out that there are way more people out there that really care about you, that would rather see you happy and not worried or hurt over the fact that some idoit has no control of self respect. <3
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The fact of the matter is that people change. It simple. One day a person says he hates drinking...the next day he can be an alcoholic. Either way..you fell in love with the guy he was before and you have to admit it. He is not the same person anymore and you need to move on. If drinking and partying is his life which is what you dont need.......then he is not going to be in your life. You told him he had to choose and he did. He loves you but he loves drinking and partying more. I suggest you forget him and find someone that WILL put you first then anything in the world because that my dear is true love. This man is not what you need. He might regret what he did but you may never know. I know that you know what is best for you and with that i give you a goodbye.
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