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Ok well our last day of school was last thursday and i told my b/f to come to school b/c that was the last day i would be able to see him b/c he was going to another school.well he didn't come so i didn't get to say goodbye or get a pic of him so i could remember him!i don't have his phone number or anything so i can't call him! what should i do so i can get over this?
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You have a boyfriend but you don't have a picture of him, his phone number, or his email address?? All you need to do to get over him (he sounds like a jerk, anyways) is to go out and have fun with your friends over the summer. Thats what summer is for, anyway!
hey i just was wondering whats a good site to get your poems published, Somthing where you dont habe to pay but doesnt have some sort of scam with it. or like a poetry contest.
Allpoetry.com - its my favorite website:-)
What do you say to someone you see everyday, have never talked to, you have know what he likes, who is having problems fitting in and whose friends despise you and would not only make fun of you but him too for talking to him? Oh, and did I mention I am madly in love with him?
How can you be in love with him if you've never talked to him? But anyway, you could say "Hey." That's usually a good start. Then ask him whats up and like about stuff he likes, etc, etc. Hope I helped.
Hey im doing an upcoming talent show for skool and the only song that i can think of doing that is easy enuff for my friend is Smells like teen spirit by Nirvana!!! I want a song sumwere around Nirvana, Sum 41 and The White stripes...plz help!!
Thanx in advance =)
Well, why don't you listen to all the Nirvana, Sum 41, and White Stripes songs and see what you can do? I think that from Nirvana songs.. All Apologies is pretty easy.. Sum 41 probably The Hell Song or Fat Lip, maybe.. and White Stripes probably Seven Nation Army:-). Hope I helped!
Does anyone know of any movies with dancing in them?
Apart from musicals, I think I've watched enough musicals to last me a life time.
It doesn't matter what type of dancing it is I just need dancing in it.
Save the Last Dance, Honey, Footloose, Dirty Dancing, Dirty Dancing 2: Havana Nights.. Those are the ones I can think up off the top of my head, but I'm sure theres more. Hope I helped:-).
what color eyeshadow brings out dark brown eyes on a girl with dark brown hair and tan skin?
Silver always looks good on people with dark eyes.
okay, so i am like totally creeped out. this guy (hes really really cute) is following me around, and wont even talk to me. hes like, stalking me. it effing annoying. but idk. i think i MITE like him,but if hes gonna follow me around, at least talk to me, rite? pleazzz.. i need help. what should i do?
Okay, hot guy almost stalking you. Some would say thats good.. But I get what you mean. I have a suggestion - why don't YOU talk to him. Tell him that you see him around a lot, ask him whats up, whats his name, etc, etc. Start a conversation! Maybe he does like you and he's just shy, maybe he's not following you around at all - only one way to find out. Hope I helped!
Ugh...okay I HATE my clothes. I went through this whole phase recently of "I care what everyone else thinks and my opinion doesnt matter". And that includes clothes. I wear the same old crappy polo tees from hollister and stupid jeans and stupid shoes. I just look like every other boring un-unique "prep". Well, i've finally grown out of this. I now want to start dressing like my personality which is edgy, unique, and artsy. I like rock/emo/indie music if it helps? I'm looking for some fashion tips (example...stuff like wearing your belt to the side, etc.) And some stores online I could check out to help me dress more "edgy". Also, i dont have alot of money. How can i rock out a plain polo? Any hair ideas? Makeup ideas? I hate dressing "preppy" when inside im not like that. THANKS!
Well... my advice would be to dress what YOU like. Don't ask other people how you should dress, or what's "emo" clothes, or what's "cool" in the "rock" scene.. Dress in clothes that YOU think are cute. You could shop at thrift stores for unique stuff, and you could dress up your polos by writing on them, or sewing things on them, or just altering them. Play around and figure out what you think is cool. Don't let the rest of the world judge you or influence you - do what YOU want, wear what YOU want. It doesn't matter if it's cool or if other people think it's edgy. If you're unique, you'll find a way on your own to show that through your style. Hope I helped!
I liked this guy and his sister is one of my friends. Anyways, she told him on Tuesday that i liked him. I don't know how to react. He said that he didn't care and just went on as normal, but i found out this today. Yesterday, I talked to him, but know how to continue to talk to him. We were talking in a conversation and i thought that it was fine, but i wonder if the only reason he was talking to me was because he knew that i liked him. it is really weird. plus on top of that i'm not sure on how i feel about him. i didn't want him to know about it until we became good friends. What should i do? I could barely talk to him when i thought that he didn't know, but know he does i feel.... I don't know how i feel. I need help. I do rate high for appropriate answers.
THanKS!
~Linda
Well, if he talked to you before he knew you liked him, then he probably wasn't just talking to you b/c you like him. Act like you used to around him - when you didn't know he knew. If he can act the same, so can you. Don't let it get awkward - that's the worst possible thing you can do. Especially if you're not sure you like him like that - you don't want to jeopardize what could possibly be a great friendship. Hope I helped some!
My friend is pregnant and she's only 13. She's freaking out a lot..and she wants me to help her. What should i do ? i dont wanna end up killing someone else's baby!
Take her to Planned Parenthood.
is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me
It's not weird! Well, I don't think it is. I think it's sweet, but if it makes you uncomfortable, I guess you could tell him?
what are some bands that aren't well known? like rock or metal bands. like how TBS used to be. but know a lot of people know who they are. know any good ones?thanks.
There's a ton at www.purevolume.com. If you don't know what that site is, it's for up-and-coming bands to post their music on, so just flip around it a bit. That's where I get all my music that no ones ever heard of. I reccommend Last Winter. :-)
Ok I am not happy with my life right now....and I have no idea why...I have friends and a bf who cares soo much about me...I'm a good student and I'm Secretary of my class at school...I have a lot going for me but I feel so empty inside...Please dont think that this is just for attention because thats why I cant tell my friends how I feel...I just feel like I need help...most of those things I said above were true but I messed up most of my friendships and lied to my bf about things. I'm a cutter and a snapper and I need help sorting out my life.
You need to talk to someone - tell your parents how you're feeling, or a counselor if you feel like you can't trust your parents. You sound like you're suffering from depression, but more than half of the teenagers in the world are, so don't worry about it. You could also talk to your parents about getting a prescription for anti-depressants, and see if those help. Hope I helped a little!
I have had my heart broken alot. Since my ex (which was ended about 9 months or more ago) I still haven't moved on. Now I have someone I really like that likes me. I want to be with him I am just scared I will be hurt again.. Should I trust him?
He is a wonderful guy and really gorgeous. I am just afraid to give my heart to someone again and then it be handed back broken.
Of course you trust him - you might get your heart broken, but that happens. Love is a risk, but you have to take it, no matter what. Otherwise you'll end up wondering what could've happened.
i want to dye my hair out of a box as opposed to getting it done professionally. is this a bad idea?
Probably.
Someone told me that washing your hair every day can damage it. Then someone else told me that it wasn't true unless you blow dry it everyday (which I don't so)
So which person is right?
I've been washing my hair everyday for ages because there's nothing better to do, haha. I don't want to damage my hair from it though!
Washing your hair every day won't damage it, it just cleans it lol, but blow drying it everyday could dry it out.
this is really weird but ..im always afraid to sign on aim because im afraid someone will say something really mean to me and ill get upset for weeks. I over analyze convos on AIM wayy too much and I think if someone says anything like hi instead of hey or um i think they hate me!! what do i do? I love talking on AIM but Ive had some bad experiences and now im paranoid!
Block whoever says crap to you, because you deserve better than that. Talk to your friends when someone says something mean, they can help a lot, and I guess just try not to think too hard about what people say, because they're probably not thinking too hard about it.
I have a really hideous color on my nails right now because I decided to let my friends paint my nails- but let's not get into that. I really need to remove the polish off of my nails, but I don't own a nail polish remover and my parents aren't going to drive out now to get me some. Is there anything natural or DIY that will get this polish off my nails?
Rubbing alcohol will get it off, or you could try to pick at it and chip it off, but that takes forever..
I got highlights about 3-4 months ago. My mom said i can only get them done by the hairdressers every 6 months because its expensive. But it looks really bad now. Is there any product I can buy thats like a do-it-yourself highlighting kit?
I don't reccomend those, especially if you have dark hair. It might make it look worse, but there are products. Just go to the hair-type-section in a local drugstore, there will be stuff. Just take my warning, it's not as easy as it looks, lol. Hope I helped!
Today in English we were reading some story about something to do with someone having a disability wanting to play golf. He had trouble walking and had to use a cart to get around to the hole while everyone else had to walk (obviously I wasn't paying much attention). But, towards the end of class my teacher brought up a good point about what the word "fair" meant to us.
Her question was, "Is being fair treating everyone equally, or giving lea-way to those with disabilities so they can be like everyone else.
I was wondering what it meant to you guys.
Well, I believe that those who have disabilities should have the same oppurtunities as people who aren't handicapped, which I realise is a lot to ask, but honestly, I think that everyone should have a chance, and just because you aren't disabled doesn't mean that you should have the upperhand over those who are.