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ok well i was going out with my ex boyfriend for 7 weeks when i found out he was going around the town saying that he was just messing me about.so i decided i was going to break up with him.i was going to ring him to ask him could we meet up but i couldnt bare to see him after saying all kind of stuff about me.i really didnt want to believe that he said really mean stuff about me because he had said he loved me so many times.and i had fallen in love with him.so i decided i would just send him a text message saying that i was breaking up with him because of all the stuff he said about my friends and i.the next day i came home from school and he was ringing me well i thought it was him.it was actually his mother ringing me from his phone.she was really mean to me on the phone.i told her that he called me a slut and other stuff like that.and she just said well you must have been saying stuff about him first.but i wasnt i was in love with him and wouldnt say anything bad about a lad that i was in love with.my older sister came home the next day saying thet his mother had spread bad romours about me around the town.now all the teachers hate me.
then this lad asked me out a few days later and i said that i had just broke up with some one and he said he has been wanting to ask me out for months but i was going out my ex-bf.i asked him did he hear the stuff my ex-bf was saying about me and he said yea i heard that ye had broke up.so i told him that my ex-bf called me a slut.he went mad he started saying stuff like god help him at football training tonight and he said your the kindest and sexyest girl that lives in this town.
the next day i rang him and he said my ex-bf wont be going around saying stuff about me ever again.i said i would go out with him and he was delighted and kept compliminting me all night it was so sweet.were getting on really well and just to let ye know he is the finest lad that lives in my town.
im just afraid about next year because im starting a new school where my older sister goes and im afraid i will be called a slut and stuff because of what my ex-bf and his mother were saying about me.
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oh, sweetie, that's so sad! What a jerk. you are so better off without your ex. just be careful about the new guy too. It's nice that he cares, but it's really non of his business. As for next year, amnyone who mentions what that ex crapwhole and his mom did, tell them they have the wrong girl, and he was talking about his mom. Then, if you don't want to go the revenge route, say "I'm disgusted you would mention that to me, and dissappointed you believed him" now go out there and give your ex and his mom the cold shoulder ignore him and totally pretend he ain't there. he'll be outta your mind in no time!
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Well im gonna go short.In DEEPLY in Love with my Best friend but he has a gf.I reallly want to tell him how i feel but im scared:(.plz guys tell me what to do..i really really really like him.Do you think theres something i can do to make him leave her??or i dunno plz just hepl out:'( (link)
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whoa, I'm sorry, but you have crossed the line. Girl rule #1, NEVER try to break up a couple, no matter what, unless one partner is being unfaithful. Anyway, onto your "crisis". Wait. you have to wait 'till he's single, and then go for it. If that don't happen, he's happy, forget him and enjoy your friendship. My way of trying to forget a guy is go guy shopping. Pick out a guy you like, then go for him.
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There is something wrong with me! Everytime i start liking aguy i change myself (sometimes for the good and sometimes for the bad). It's not just my peronallity it's also my intresets! I just want them to like me back! I am so affraid to show "real me", i'm afraid they will never like it!! And I have gotten to the point i don't know who the "real me" is anymore! I have just copied all the guys i have been intrested in and that's it...am i a hoplesscase or is there any light at the end of my tunnel? Please help me! (link)
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my friend, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel,it just may take a while to reach it. First thigs first. finding yourself. when you have free time next, sit tdown in your room, by yourself, where your surrounded by stuff you like. (i mean, you like your room, nes pas?) Then take a sheet of paper, and make two columns. one column for stuff youhate, and one for stuff you like. now fill those columns. don't let anything untrue in them. if your not sure it's you talking or the girl who you've changed into to, then don't put it down. i hope i helped.
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my body is so... different. I have a very hard time finding jeans and shirts that fit or look good. i have a very small waist, and long skinny legs. all the jeans i find are too big and if i get them a size smaller they're too small and i get holes in the pockets in the back. and for shirts i'm not TOO big in the chest but i can't find shirts that look good and aren't too short or too long. =/ anyoneknow where to find good clothes? thanks (link)
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garage. that's all i gotta say. they have the best jeans. some are really skinny, but all are tall. they have wicked clothes
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I have a really reeeeeeeeeeally important audition on thursday and i have to prepare 2 two-minute contrasting monologues.
How am i going to accomplish this in 2 days?
I'm a teenage girl.
can anyone reccomend monologues for me? (link)
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you could try the one from the first princess diaries where mia has to give a little speech right before the ball, at the end of the movie. i did, and it ain't to hard to remember
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Alright, my mom says that I shouldn't be an actress because she doesn't want to see me waiting tables when I get older. But I love acting, it's what I do, I mean my nickname is basically Drama Queen. But now I don't like much attention, yet I still want to be an actress, that or do something with animals. Everyone says that I'm a great actress, and I'm waiting for for the play I always wanted to do, Romeo and Juliet. Ever since I was like 5, I wanted to do this play. But I think I should just end my acting career now. Who am I kidding, show buisness wants an actress to be beautiful and skinny, which im neither. What do you think I should do? Should I end my acting career?
thx. ^__^ (link)
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girl, don't make me come down there. DON'T YOU EVER LET ANYONE EVER TELL YOU YOU CAN'T!!!! OK?!?! good. now, since you are a good actress, try taking a few acting courses in the summer, then, take science for your highschool elective. Then, in college/ university, take vet courses. That way you can fall back on that. ok?just to add, you neeeeeed to get out there and show your mom she's wrong (who dosen't luv to prove their parents wrong, hmmm?) Try making up diff. scenes in your head, than doin them in front of the mirror, to get more comfortable acting. ok good.
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Hey, ok, I need songs that I have to do w/being overwhelmed or just so busy and tired and run-down. Anything like that would help. Doesn't really matter what type of music either. Thanks (link)
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fix you-coldplay, pain-3 doors down, this ain't a scene, it's an armrace-fall out boy. sorry, that's all i can think of.omg, i am so glad i helped. let me know if you need anything else. i'll be here! kisses ^-^
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okay, lets get to the point..i have no butt...what can i do to make my butt bigger without increasing the size of my stomach lol..and what can i do to get rid of love handles (link)
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dudette, my booty is way too big. But let's face it. i can't make my toush smaller, nor can you make it bigger. you could try eatin a bit more, than exersizing to keep the weight off your tum, i guess, but i'd just try to be okay with it
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yes you answered my question!! (link)
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ok. sorry about that. kisses! ^-^
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Several times a day I feel something big moving in my abdomen just under my waist line on one side from the center toward the back. I've never had such a thing before. What's going on? (link)
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just a hint, you might really want to get that checked out by a doctor. just in case
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Basically I need a quick confidence booster for talking to girls. I am about 5'10" and 150lbs. Not any body fat basically just a sheet of muscle. I play strong safety in football and also play tennis and basketball. I also drive a blue corvette and dress pretty nicely. If you are this girl I am talking to would you like me and please say anything else that will boost my confidence. (link)
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dude, i am a girl, and, although i am too young for you (13. you can drive!?!?!) i know i'd be head over heels for you. you're tall, a must for me (gotta be taller than me) a "sheet of muscle", as you put it, and dress nice, according to you. If it's a girl you want, it shouldn't be too difficult. The ladies are just waiting for you to make the first move. you gotta flirt openly with them, and see if they flirt back. girls also love it when a guy smiles. It's a garanteed hook. but you gotta make the first move. get to know her first, or you might find you made a mistake. i know i'd want a guy like you in one glance, and it has nothin to do with the corvette. on a scale of 1-10, you are a 6.5. i'd need more details for a higher rating. just believe you can do it though, and go for it. i am telling you though. no girl is gonna make the first move. now good luck, and go for it!
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well last night this guy that i like ALOT asked me out,and i was extremely happy.but heres the catch..hes extremely close friends with my ex boyfriend whom i went out with for 6 months and liked for a year and he was my first love..and now my ex boyfriend told my boyfriend he doesnt wanna talk to him ever again since hes going out with me..and i feel really,really bad. not just about the fact that he lost a friend due to this, but also that im going out with someone whos that close with someone i loved..because i talked to my ex boyfriend today and he made it very very obvious how hurt he is. i just hate hurting people and i do wanna be with my boyfriend but at the same time i dont feel as strongly about him as i thought i did..and im not even sure if this is what i want..maybe its just fear im not sure but if anyone could help me thatd be amazing..thank you. (link)
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oooooooh, tough. but, that is your ex's bad luck. he needs to face facts that you two are NOT together anymore. if your ex isn't friends with your bf anymore because of you(no offense, it could have been anygirl) then he wasn't a good friend in the first place. If you broke up with him, then you have to, HAVE TO, ask him why he's hurting so bad. but if you broke up withhim, forget him. you said goodbye for a reason, and no amount of emotion is gonna help that. if you want your guy, go get him, girl!
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what are some cute nicknames i could call my boyfriend? (link)
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shnookems, sweety, muffin, cupcake, honey. i'd go with muffin, personally, but you gotta say it sincearly, not just randomly, or it don't work. good luck with that
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Okay, so this boy.. he likes me. He used to go with one of my friends. Well, really we just got good friends.. but I didn't know they were going out untill like a week ago.. I really want to go out with him, yet again... I don't want to do that to a friend. But, we're not like best budz for life.. or anything, we're just like..friends. Soo..would I be wrong for going out with him... Should I just leave him alone,?..and go fetch some other fishes in the sea? (link)
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k, here's the deal. you never, ever steal some other girls man, no matter the reason. if your just a friend and this guy are dating, then leave them alone. if they aren't dating, then go for him. she let go when they broke up, and she has no right to be mad if they ain't together anymore. she gave him up, now he's fair game. she has to deal with that.
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I think ive become desensitized to all the violence on tv. When I hear statistics about 10000 people dying somewhere I don’t feel anything. Its horrible but theres something wrong with me! Am I a sosciopath/psychopath? (link)
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ok, calm down. there is nothing to worry about. it's hard for everyone to feel sad when you hear that someone died if you don't really know them. mostly i know i feel mad when the people are killed, and i feel sorry for them, but not really sad. i just feel sad for our society, who has murderers, and nobody can get their head around the fact that when you shoot, you're going to ge shot back. sorry, i am rambling. but, no, don't worry. it's only a problem when you kill some one and don't care or feel bad. don't kill anyone tho. that's not good. hey, no prob, i just hope i helped
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i need more dogs at my doggy daycare but i don't know if i should tell the whole world. What should i do? (link)
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okay. here's what you can do. make up fliers about you daycare, then give them to your neighboughrs who have dogs. boom, there you go, some doggies, right there.
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I know you hate these questions. Sorry.
I'm making a mix CD for my boyfriend. Some of the songs are;
Baby you save me -Kenny Chesney
Kepper of the stars- Kenny Chesney
Crazy B*tch- Buck Cherry
Don't Matter- Akon
Pain- 3 Days Grace
Pretty much a variety of things. I'm looking for good love songs (ie; the 2 Kenny Chesney) then some like Akon. The words of the song, not artist. You know, nobody wants us to be together but it doesn't bother him. Then some good rock.
Any ideas/suggestions appreciated. (link)
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i looooooove the last two songs, might i say, and they are sweet. i only have opne song right now, but it's pretty good. it's upbeat with sweet lyrics. It's called "everytime we touch" by cascada. some of the lyrics are "'cause everytime we touch, i get this feeling, and everytime we kiss, i reach for the sky, can't you feel my heart beat fast, i want this to last, i need you by my side.... your arms are my castle, your heart is my sky, you wipe away tears that cry, the good and the bad times, we've been thru them all, you make me rise when i fall" try it out, see if you like it.
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OK, i like this guy that works at pacsun, i've only talked to him once and only seen him once,but i'm completely love struck and i don't know why. I don't even know his name, because his name tag was flipped around. My friend even asked his hours but not his name, i need to know who he is because i can search him on myspace, is there anything you could do to help me find his name?
heres a few details:
longer dark brown hair;
tan;
works at pacsun in the southern park mall;
Boardman, Ohio;
works the evenings on every night;
age:14
gender:female
p.s. i'm not a stalker haha and i never will be (link)
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my frined, this sounds like a fleeting crush that can't end good. You've met the guy once. once. you don't even know his name. this crush has to be based on looks. try and meet some guys and talk to them before you decide to fall head over heels for them
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I've liked this girl and she's liked me for 3 and a half years now. We've had our problems but have pretty much always stayed best friends. Now we've been going out for a while and senior prom is coming up. We're going to go together. Our relationship is going amazing. I've never felt more comfortable with anyone, not even family. My family loves her and vice-versa. I'm so in love. Everything is great. Except for one thing. I like another girl. She has a boyfriend and likes me back. She offered to get drunk with me on Saturday and said she thinks that her boyfriend is cheating on her. She basically straight out OFFERED to break up with her boyfriend for me tonight and make out with me. I don't know what to do. I love my girlfriend so much and don't want to mess any of it up but I really lust for this other girl and like hanging out with her a lot. I know that I just need to get over the other girl but I'm having a really tough time doing so. Any ideas? :) (link)
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Tough break guy. a few words of advice. Do not even THINK about breaking up with your special lil friend. you hear me? good. as for this crush thing. dude. forget her. yes, it might be hard, but do it. if she thinks her bf is cheating on her, she might be thinking of a way to get her mind off him that includes you.You want some ways to get your mind off this annoying girl(who is proboly jealous of what you and your gf have), here you go. Plan overtime for some get togethers with your gf. More dates and together time. It'll help you realize just how special she is and help you forget this other person. if you break up with your gf, you will regret it the moment you do, and she'll want to know what happened. Just spend more time with her so you are thinking 'bout her, NOT this "other woman". ok dude? good.
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how is water good for you? does it clean your body or increase metabolism? (link)
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water flushes salt retaining fluids out of your body andkeeps you hydrated, which can prevent fainting spells and being hungry
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