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what is a yeast infection and what are some signs?
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well you can get them from the types of underwear you wear or if you take antibiotics. but some sighns are iching or bruning(in you private area) you privates might also stink. you can get over the counter medicen for it though.


ok so i have a friend (joann) who loves to sing, and wants to be a famous singer for her career and she works really LOVES to sing. i also love to sing, and know a great deal and music along with many of my friends. The problem is joann cant sing fo rthe life of her. everytime she starts to sing people laugh. shes ac=bsolutley awful. shes known in my school to be an awful singer. being a friend i cant tell her, and her parents tell her shes good. what can my friends and i do to help her see that maybe singing isnt the right thing for her? thanks!!
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well maybe you could say that your going to get singing lessons and see if she wants to go(not cause you suck)but if you go than maybe she wont think nothing about it.


ok, i really like this girl at school and shes the only girl ive like at my new school. i told a couple of my best friends that i liked her and it slowly spread throughout the class to her. her friend asked if i am going to ask her out or not and im really not sure because she has been known to dump boys after 2 days(thats the record for her) some of her friends said that shes interested in me but i dont want to get my heart broken like i did with my last girlfriend. should i take this chance (link)
well the 2 day thing might be true, i think you should take the chance to askher out. maybe she didnt like the other people she dated so it took her two days to realize it. you might be different!


'k, sorry if this gets long winded. i'll try to keep it to the point.
18f, had my bf for about a year, & its pretty serious & we care alot about ea. other. sounds good, right? 'k, but theres this guy friend (call him Greg for now) that i used to have a crush on, and i was about to get up nerves to ask him out, but then my current bf asked me. It's not as if theres anything wrong, and i love my bf i guess, but lately i'm thinking alot about Greg, and what it would have been like to go out with him. i had that crush for a long, long time, and now school is practically almost over and i'll never find out.
I don't think it would really be possible to dump my bf for him anyways, but now Greg has a gf of his, for the first time ever.
'k, sorry, lots to explain this, but after learning this, i've felt really depressed and jealous. I know i shouldn't be, first he never was mine and second i feel guilty thinking about in the first place. But the feelings don't go away. i feel like i'm being torn apart. i'm so confused. what's wrong with me? what should i do?
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well you might want to think about what you got and try to realize what it might be like if you dont have him, that "might" help you quit thinking about -greg-.and after you think about it and if you realize it wouldnt bother you if you didnt have the bf you have now than talk to greg and see if he feels the same way.


i am 19 and my brother is 18 and we dont get along he has a realy bad temper and when he is in a bad mood he hits me and i dont do anything to him like the other day he strangled me and though me on the floor i told my mum but she does not say or do anything about it so he is just gets away with it and then he tries talking to me and pretends like noting happened and i hate it what can i do to make my mum and dad listen to me please help me.
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what you should do first is tell you parents to pay more attention to what happens. then try to talk to your brother and tell him that if he dont stop you going to start fighting back(well if he not bigger than you)


What are the steps to get a girl from hardly noticing you to her going out with you? I am ugly so don't count on looks helping me here. I also don't want this to happen "That ugly guy keeps saying hi to me and talking to me. Its so weird. Next time he says hi to me I am going to say don't look at me"
So detailed guide in how to start. (link)
your kinda hard on your self. she might not think your ugly, all diffrent girls have diffrent tastes in guys. you might not be the best looking(i dont know) but if guys have good personalities than that can also make them cute. you'll just have to try the whole"hi" thing and see how she acts, and try to be nice to her like open door for her(not like wait 5 min. for her to come down the hall way or ne thing, but if shes behind you than do it).


okay so i have longish dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, and an ovalish shaped face. i was thinking about getting side bangs when i get another hair cut but i don't know if they would look good on me. if you could tell me what shape faces, what hair colors, and what eye colors, side bangs generally look good on it would be really helpful for me to figure out if they would look good on me. I rate 5's. Thanks in advance! (link)
i think that side bangs look better with dark hair and a long kinda skinny face.


So i have pin straight hair, like you can not curl it at all no matter how long you leave the iron in for or sleep in curls, it does not work. I was thinking about a perm, but how long do they last? Do they damage your hair? Can you still straighten it? Is it hard to straighten? Are there different types of perms? Yeah I am a perm-dummy so all the help and information would be helpful :] I will rate high if I get a good response. (link)
yes if you can still strighten your hair with a perm it might take a while but it is possible. they can dammage your hair though. you can get spiral curls or just perms that add body to your hair. but if you get the kind that you do at home the smell of the perm solution stinks and burns you eyes pretty bad.


i am really good friends with this one guy we hang out all the time we play basketball football everything we are neighbors so ya but i really like him and well i am afraid that if i tell him that i like him he mite not like me and we will grow distant from eachother and i really don't want that to happen i tried forgeting about him but it won't work als i am 13.f and he 16/m and the age difference kinda bothers me please help i will rate really high (link)
well first i would try to kinda hint it off that you like him and if he says anything back kinda on the line of what you said than go for it, it sounds like to me that its worth it.


I've already asked my friends, but I thought a few of you would have GRRRREAT advice. So I like this guy. A while ago, I told him he was a hottie. Nothing realy happened after that. He went out with my friend a while after, but they broke up. They are still friends and she said he would tell him to call me. I am NOT a shy person. But whenever Im around him, I can't talk. At all. My friend told me she sees him glancing at me, but I haven't seen it. I really like him and want to go out with him, but Im kinda stuck on what to do. Any suggestions on what to do? ANYTHING is appreciated. Thanks =] (link)
you should probablly make sure you friend has no feelings all all for him, and make sure she dont mind because she had him first. and if she dont than you should ask him if he wants to hang out some time and see where it goes from their.


I've been going out with this kid for about a week and a half now. He has a very bad reputation for smoking alot, drug use, getting in fights and stealing things. Everyone is scared of him so they don't know his good side. Actually he is very nice, considerate, sweet and ready for commitment.

Sometimes he lies to impress me though. Just one example, he told me he is 100 percent Irish but when I said I was Italian, he said he was 50% Irish and 50% Italian. He also buys me lots of jewelry to impress me I guess, but he doesn't need to.

I guess I'm just kind of shocked. But if he really feels like he has to be like that to keep me, I'm not sure if I actually want to keep dating him. This happened with all my previous boyfriends because I figure out their flaws as I get to know them and I start to drift away.

So Is he worth my time? Is it just that I have really high expectations for a guy?

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if you already notice that he is lieing thats not a very good sighn. i mean its good that he is tring to impress you and everything but sometimes the whole jewerly thing gets cheesy. i think that its good you have high expectations but you might want to wait for a while to see if he is worth your time, and try to talk to him about how you feel.


I know my boyfriend REALLY likes me. To him, I am his number one priority and I even think he is ditching his friends so he can have more time with me.

Now, he is a pretty nice guy but he always wants me to kiss him or makeout with him. He's 14 and I know that at that age, boys hormones are racing! I can't blame him for wanting to because I know everyone feels that way sometimes.

But I'm not sure I'm ready for making out, especially in school. I don't think he is either. We both just got our first ever kisses this year. He is so nervous around me at school so he tells me to take the lead when kissing him. But I don't want to be the lead! I can't handle all of this responsibility because if I mess up, I'll feel stupid!

What should I do? Should I talk to him about this? What if he breaks up with me? (link)
well,if your not ready than tell him, you are the one in charge. if he breaks up with you than thats his fault, he will probaly understand he might just act that way because he thinks thats how you want him to act.


ok i have been dating this guy for awhile now and i care for him alot but i dont think a relationship is what i want from him anymore.hes to CLINGY and SENSITIVE.he always wants to just talk to me or just hang out with me alone.he never wants to talk with me and my friends we always have to be alone.i noticed i never have time for my friends anymore and im always going to be late.i have already tried to break up with him twice but he just cried and i felt guilty so i took him back now ive had it and we got into a fight about my friends a couple days ago and now im just avoiding him because i know when i do talk to him hell cry...help me what do i do?!?!?1 (link)
hey, i went through the same thing not to long ago! i think it would be better to do it now than to wait for a long time and letting him get more attached. im sure it will hurt him, but you should nt give up your friends for him. just tell him its not working and that you two can still be friends(if that what you want), and give him tome to cool off a little.




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