i am 22, i love helping people. I have been through alot even though i am still young. I know alot about friend problems, dating, meeting people online, seriouse realtionships, sex, computers, and even parenting. i dont know anything about music that would be one thing i am not good at. I am more than happy to help any one who needs it.
Gender: Female
Location: UK
Occupation: at home mom kind of
Age: 22
Member Since: May 6, 2010
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What is better? Asking a girl on a few dates then asking her to be your gf, or, flirt awhile and be "talking" then ask her to be my gf. Which is the better way to go? How do you go about starting a relationship up with someone you just met? (link)
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a few dates first so you make sure you have a real connection
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I have an ex that im still crazy in love with.He obviously broke up with me..because he said he stopped liking me as much as he did in the beggining. We still talk and hangout ALL the time.Once in a while alone,but most of the time we are in a group. We get along so well still and always have fun times together.He even told me he hangs out with me more than some of his best friends and the same goes for me too. When we first broke up,he made a few attempts to hookup with me and made a small attempt a couple weeks ago.We sometimes fight though and then he gets mad at me and it usually results in him saying "im not your boyfriend anymore so stop acting like it!" so i feel as though he gets the vibe i still like him..yet whenever we go to parties,im usually flirting with lots of other guys,in front of his face. We never ever talk about eachothers hookups,or if we are talking to any other people,or anything about love interests etc. so thats good but I cant continue hanging out with him if we aren't dating.He's become routine in my group of friends and it's almost hard to avoid him all together.When we dated,we mixed our groups of friends into one big group and now we are all close so i dont know what to do! I was going to write him a letter about how i feel and tell him i can't talk to him anymore and maybe then he'll either realize what he had when im gone,or we will just separate and hopefully ill get over him.help! (link)
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thats a hard one maybe you should try to find another guy to get your mind off him.
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iv been with my boyfriend for almost two months and im starting to question if we should stay together. we are perfect other than at times he is veryyyy immature and he is younger than me and a mamas boy. he asks his mom everything even advice about us, laughs at words 3yo's do and carrys a big red bookbag n puts it between us in the car saying its a barrior for a flood, wouldnt even let me buy a new lighter bc his mom wouldnt approve. he goes out of his way to talk to my mom ALOT and i hate my mom... but hes so sweet and im starting to love him, but i did just get out of a few year long serious relationship, should i ride it out or try and move on? and whats some advice as to how i can fix how he does all that? (link)
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he sounds like he bugs you alot maybe tell him the things he does that annoy you and if he changes them keep trying. if not move on before you fall in love and get hurt
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Ok so i've only gotten my hair colored once and it was a few years ago and it was lighter highlights. I want to dye my hair darker but there are a few things I'm unsure about.
1) I know getting it done lighter is really bad for your hair but I heard that getting it done darker isnt as bad. Is that true? Whats the healthiest way to get your hair darker? because i think theres a few different things they can do.. maybe?
2) Will salons do temporary dye? I don't trust myself enough to do it myself, I want it done by a professional. But I don't want to be committed to re-dying it ever. I just want to change it up a little for summer to see how I like it. If I can get it done temporarily how long will it last?
and 3) Is it a bad idea to get it dyed for summer? I'll be outside a lot and in the water some. I don't want it to fade too much because then there wouldnt have been any point in dying it. Is there anything I should do to it to keep it from fading?
I know that was a lot of questions so thanks for listening. And any input you can give is appreciated even if you can't answer all of the questions. (link)
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they have a temporary wash out dye that you can get at walmart. its like mouse it last 3 or 4 days try that and maybe itll help you commit. its not to bad on your hair and its temporary
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i LOVE my best friend. and he knows i like him and i know he likes me. we aren't together....yet....but i wont to be. i just have 1 question. my mom says that dating your neighbor is bad and that i cant date him. so IF we ever get together......how do i hide it from her???? i hope you can help. thank you in advance. (link)
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just tell her you are friends still. and if you want to kiss and all the dont do it out side. tell him that your mom feels like you should take it slow, and after a few months maybe tell her that you and him are together
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So, my boyfriend and I have been dating almost a month, but we've been together for about three and a half. We've never had actual sex, but we are close. We hang out a lot, and we have a lot of alone time. I do a lot of sexual things for him, and he enjoys it. But i'm often let down, cuz when I think he's going to do something sexual for me, he doesn't. He almost never does, and I feel like i'm in a one sided sexual relationship. Not only that, but it makes me feel as tho he's not really attracted to me. At first he was really into it, but recently he never seems to want to do anything for me. I know I need to talk to him, but how do I start a conversation like that? What kind of things do I say to him? I just need help. Please? (link)
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i know this answer will probley be booed. but if i have a question for my bf i dont want to ask him i text it to him. immature maybe but it makes it easyer. maybe he is comftorable enough with you that he feels like you enjoy doing it idk. good luck.
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How do I get a popular girl to like me, she flirts with me all the time, but claims she doesnt like me, what should I do? (link)
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if she cant amit she likes you then she is immature make her come to you, move on and try to have fun dont worry about it. girls are complicated, if she really lifes you she will show you and ammit it soon
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I recently started volunteering at a nursing home because I want some experience since I want to become a nurse.
Well a lot of the residents today weren't particularly well and this elderly gentlemen said something extremely hurtful to me and hurt my feelings. And I'm trying to convince myself that it doesn't matter and stuff but I keep hearing his voice in my head and it's really bothering me.
Help make me feel better? (link)
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people say hurtful things all the time so dont let it get to you. he has no idea any thing about you so what ever he said is totaly just out of anger on something else. good luck and just remberer he didnt really mean it, it was just he is misearble maybe if you try to be extra nice to him it will help. nursing homes are a sad place try to brighten there day it will make you feel awesome and maybe they will be nicer to you good luck
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im the wierd emo boy that nobody likes and i was wondering what kinda clothes i should wear to look more emo (link)
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go to hot topic and buy all the discount clothes those are really emo
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i have two friends who seem to be in love with each other they went out but it didnt work out so well cause hes not such a great well lets say lover so they broke up months pass and now he said he wants her back but turns out he might be going out with the one girl we all hate but at the same time his hiting on my friend she knows all of this but what do i do to help them cause i know he loves her (link)
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dont get in the middle of it becuase if they end up hating each othere they will blame you. i know you are tryin to be nice but the best thing is to let them figure out what they want.
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do? (link)
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move on, he sounds very confused you need a real man that knows that he wants a treats you right good luck : )
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no one likes the sounds of chalk scraping across a board, but whenever i see, touch, or even think about chalk or chalk boards, i freak out. literally. i'll start twitching like crazy and cover my ears to keep from hearing things. i go to an art school and when we had to use chalk to draw a picture i couldn't do the work. i kept flipping out and on several occasions, nearly had an anxiety attack.
is this normal? is there an actual phobia of chalk? i know this question isn't really important but chalk isn't leaving my life anytime soon and i'm wondering if there is something i can do about it. i don't react like this to any other substance. (link)
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just reading the question gives me chills i am not as bad as you are but i hate chalk. good luck maybe think of something else when you are around it take you mind off it.
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hi im 14 yeears old and i hasve had my period for quite awhwile, when i was 13, i have been using tapons for almost the hole time when i was taking it out it hurt and i couldn't get it out i looked and theres like a piece of skin not liek a piece but its suppose to be there, the string got hooked around it and i had to untangle it to get it out, is that normal?? (link)
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that has never happen to me. but some girls are diffrent about it, if you are really worried go to your gyno. i would say maybe you had a tear in the past and it didnt heal right but i have no clue good luck
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well i can't just go out and buy a vibrator, so i use a back massager. i have underwear on when i'm doing it and even shorts most the time. but could i get an infection from using that as a vibrator? (link)
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it should be ok but make sure you wash it if its just your panties on because then there could be a small chance of getting an infection. i think just wash it.
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My parents have been divorced for several years now and until about a year ago I've had a good relationship with both of them. I live with my mom and I used to see my dad every second weekend. Then about two years ago he got re-married. At first things were going good and then she got pregnant and my step-sister was born just before Christmas. I spent last Christmas with them and that was the last time I've seen my dad. I don't know what happened but all of a sudden he just stopped calling me. I used to try and call him but he never answered the phone or was too busy to see me. So I've basically given up. It's gotten to the point the point I don't even want to see him anymore because I really feel like he doesn't care. Everyone tells me I need to re-establish a relationship with him, and I've been thinking about it, but he acts like he doesn't want to see me. What should I do? (link)
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tell him how you feel. he has a new child in his life and thats alot of work but that is no excuse. tell him how you feel and see what he says, if he doesnt step up then back off for awhile and try again. its hard to say just never talk to him again he is you family, so as long as you give it your all i dont think you will regret any thing good luck and i am sorry any one would have to go through soemthing like that :(
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ok i am 22 and been with my fair share of men sexually and maybe more then needed. i have never had a guy that can last over a hour which is fine with me because that is about my cut off as well lol. i recently got together with a friend from work who is 18 and i was figuring you know being that young would be a 30 minute go and be done. 3 hours later he had still not "got off" and i just had to give up lol is this normal because maybe ive just always been with guys that have no clue what they are doing but who knows. i really dont see this being normal especially for a 18 year old. (link)
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some guys just try to last longer. they have there little tricks maybe he was showing off it not WOW
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I am an 18 year old female, very mature for my age, and I know what I want out of life. I went on exchange to Brasil last year for 11 months and basically was on my own, I have seen a whole other side of life that most people never get to see. I always used to think, "I am young, I have time to mess up, to be with the wrong people." Until I met this guy. He is an exchange student currently here in the US on exchange. We texted for awhile before we finally met, and the moment I saw him I knew he was the one. (And I was always the time to not believe in love at first sight and I never thought I had met the one) We instantly hit it off and ever since then we are very happy together. He lives an hour away from me, But we see each other every weekend. It has only been 20 days since we officially met, but we both feel like we are perfect for each other. The plan is for me to go to Brasil for 6 months until he is finished with school and then he will come here and we will be together. What is your advice? Should I take the risk? (link)
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if you think it is love go for it. but you must think if you two break up can you get back on your own and take care of yourselve. make sure you have a plan if it happens. but it sounds like a great idea your long you live once go for it.
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my friends always says that im silly what does that mean and is it a bad thing? (link)
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nope if they said annoying i would be worried. as long as you arnt silly in sad or stressful times you are fine. but silly means outgoing and fun to be around also.
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Does anyone know a site where I can ask a question on sex. I believe my question would be too graphic for this site because of how young most of the people here seem to be. :\ Or maybe a girl that would be old enough to answer my question (im 16) (link)
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you can write me if you want i am 22 female with exsperence. ( who cant spell lol ) but girlsaskguys.com may be what you are looking for good luck
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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on??? (link)
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i love when a guy is nice to me but some times i like to be treated like a equal, so nice to a point but dont act to much more of a dominante.
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