okay i found out that this guy i've been sleeping with has been sleeping with this other girl who is married. she has just recently had a baby and told me last night - i'm the only one that knows other than the guy we've been sleeping with - that the baby could be this guys, her husbands or her mothers partner. thing is, i know the husband, well i know him to talk to but not really that well; should i tell him that his wifes a slut and the kid might not be his?(in a nicer way obviously)
Send him an anonymous text that tells him of your concerns. Give him the first names of the 2 guys, so he can confront his wife if he chooses.
http://www.sendanonymoustext.com/
I hope this helps and good luck.
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In a few weeks my girlfriend will be 30. We live 3 hours away from each other and wth work not sure if we will get to spend it together. She isnt into flowers so what could I do to really wow her?
Set up a great spa day for her. Don't just send her a gift card but call some places close by her and set up the appointment on her day off. If you can't afford the whole day, it could just be a massage, facial or mani-pedicure. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I am 17 she is 42 I want her badly any advice?
It's not a good idea. If you like older women, that's fine but you still need to wait until you're 18. If you have sex with an older person before you turn 18, they could go to jail.
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I'm a female who has for the most part lived a heterosexual lifestyle although I identify as bisexual.
Recently, I have increasingly developed feelings for a close female friend. I think she's straight and she has told me about guys she likes on occasion but she rarely discusses her relationships with people.
We have a very loving friendship and she is very tactile with me. Sometimes I wonder if perhaps she feels the same way about me but I am terrified of saying anything to her.
What should I do?
Technically you're only bi-curious until you have sex with another girl, then you'll become bisexual. You can start telling her about a few female friends that you know who've slept with other girls and see what her reaction is. Let it slip that one of those girls wanted to hook up with you and you considered it but you weren't that attracted to her. Let her know you're attracted to someone more like her and see what she says. There's also the sleep over approach. Play a little truth or dare and see how she plays along with some risky dares. If she refuses just blame it on the game but if she agrees, then you can move forward. If you need any other help, please let me know. I hope this helps and good luck.
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My boyfriend and I are thiiiinking about having anal sex. it's not a for sure thing yet and we aren't rushing each other. But when the time comes I want to be prepared. I have read about enema bags and all this other stuff I cant get. Is there any way to douche my anus with something I can get around the house?
Don't use a douche but buy an enema kit from your local drug or walmart store. It's fairly easy to use alone and if anyone asks (which they won't), tell them it's for your grandmother. After you use that, you can reuse (after washing) the bottle to use the next day. Fill it with warm water to rinse out the anus. If you haven't done anal before, I suggest you work into it slowly. Let him lick you and slip 1, then 2 fingers inside your ass. It's good to have a strong vibrator handy but your fingers will work well too. Have him enter slowly while you stimulate your clit. He will want to go in fast but it will hurt and you won't want to try it again. If you need any other help, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Me and my intimate other have had sex twice and he was first and only so far. The last time we made love he wanted me to go on top and I wanted to but I was nervous because I did not know how to move my body and did'nt know if he would like it. I did alright and we had a rythm for about 2 minutes but I lost it and then we both just kinda laughed and did something else. But I want to know how to pleasure him by riding on top but make me feel great at the same time(which I know how it works just dont know how to do it. If I lean back it will hit my g-spot more efficiently). So any tips what men like and how to make him feel good and give him a good show?
Thanks :)
It doesn't always have to be fast and hard. Slow down a little and grind against him a little. Squat down on his penis with your feet by his side and your hands by his head. Here's a little example on a porn website if you don't mind checking it out. I hope this helps and good luck.
http://xhamster.com/movies/389135/on_top.html
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if you have a condom on do you have to/should you pull out?
If she's not on birth control and you want to be extra careful, you can. But, if you trust the condom to work, it's usually pretty safe.
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i need to know how to actually aask your parents if you can go to a sleepover and get their mom to talk to my mom
Talk it over with your mom and set up a time that's convenient for her and your friends mom. The day of the sleepover is best because when the moms talk, it's easier for her to leave you at the house. Arrange for a pickup or drop off time the next day but not too late (you don't want to overstay your welcome). As long as mom has the house number and a phone number, she shouldn't have a problem letting you stay. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Hello. I'd like to thank you for your advice/reply on my question before. But you see, I can't talk to her about it or do the sleepover thing. She graduated early, so she's gone now. I mean, I don't think she's going to move anywhere until she turns eighteen, which is in December.
Anyways, she blocked me on Facebook. But that was because I didn't know how to leave her alone. I was so "lovestruck" from actually being her friend that I didn't realize I was hurting her. I've been thinking about just sending her a normal email. Not now, but maybe in a few months or so. I don't want to do it right away. I haven't talked to her in eight months, but I still feel like I should wait. And I'm not really stuck on trying to get her to change her mind, or to be with me, because like I said, I'm not sure if she'd like that. Basically I just want to apologize for everything that happened and for hurting her and just go from there. You know what I mean? And I just don't know what to say to her about it or how to word it. I'm scared that if I say one wrong thing, I'll ruin it for GOOD good.
Thoughts?
(in case you don't remember from before):
basically I'm a girl that liked a girl.
She told me that she wondered for EVER if she was straight or not, but after hooking up with a few guys she just knew. Personally I think that she'd have to hook up with a girl to know, but I guess not.
First she said she didn't want to be my friend, because it was weird that I liked her.
But then all of a sudden she wanted to be my friend, and she was extremely nice to me.
Then she stopped talking to me because she thought I was confused.
That's basically it, I know a lot of people don't like too many details.
Then again, if there aren't enough details, people don't know what I'm talking about.
Oh well.
I've heard different opinions from my friends about it. I've heard that maybe she was confused herself, and didn't know what to do in that situation.
I've heard that maybe she was a little attracted to me, otherwise she would've just said "no" and never talked to me again.
Both make sense to me. Maybe she just felt sorry for me. But she did say that a lot of her friends told her to tell me to 'fuck off' but she didn't.
Like I said she was really nice to me at one point.
I just don't know why.
Wow..it's going to be hard since you haven't spoke to her in 8 months. You can ask her if she'd like to have coffee, lunch or some other daytime activity. Maybe ask her help to shop for school clothes. Something where there's other people around and she doesn't have to worry about being alone with you. Tell her there's no strings attached and you'd really enjoy talking with her and just some casual hanging out. If she doesn't respond right away don't worry about it. Wait a few weeks and tell her you understand her concerns about your previous actions and if she wouldn't mind, you'd like to get her a birthday present. If you need anything else, you can send me an e-mail directly to julie19751975@yahoo.com
I hope this helps and good luck.
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basically I'm a girl that liked a girl.
She told me that she wondered for EVER if she was straight or not, but after hooking up with a few guys she just knew. Personally I think that she'd have to hook up with a girl to know, but I guess not.
First she said she didn't want to be my friend, because it was weird that I liked her.
But then all of a sudden she wanted to be my friend, and she was extremely nice to me.
Then she stopped talking to me because she thought I was confused.
That's basically it, I know a lot of people don't like too many details.
Then again, if there aren't enough details, people don't know what I'm talking about.
Oh well.
I've heard different opinions from my friends about it. I've heard that maybe she was confused herself, and didn't know what to do in that situation.
I've heard that maybe she was a little attracted to me, otherwise she would've just said "no" and never talked to me again.
Both make sense to me. Maybe she just felt sorry for me. But she did say that a lot of her friends told her to tell me to 'fuck off' but she didn't.
Like I said she was really nice to me at one point.
I just don't know why.
Thoughts?
There is a chance she's not attracted to you or she is but can't let her friends know she is. Her close friends may be making fun of her for wanting to" switch" sides too. If you really want to see how she feels, get her alone and see if she wants to go out on a few friend dates. Try inviting her to a sleepover. When it gets late, play a little truth or dare and make it a little risky. If she says no, she's not into you but if she agrees, you can go for more. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I know this is random and odd, but I'm interested in learning about what makes females interested in other females. I know it's weird, but I should be allowed to ask about it because people on here ask the weirdest things.
Anyways, if anyone knows about any internet articles based on the idea of bisexuality or what in a girls' mind makes them um.. interested? You know, stuff like that.
Basically I'm interested in learning about what makes a girl want a girl.
That should explain it.
Thoughts?
Personal preferences. Everyone has there own needs and desires. Why do some people like feet or bondage or chubby girls or anything else. It's whatever the mind finds attractive and the willingness to act on those desires. I always found women more attractive and desireable but a man is strong and protective. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Im 15/f and I was wondering what I could use to masturbate. I have tried fingering myself but I dont ever feel anything when i do. Also im more clitoral (meaning I get more please from stimulating my clit then penetration). PLease let me know!
From: Horny and In Need
I find a nice smooth candle works well. If you can go to walmart or a local drug store, you can by a handheld massager and that will work well on your clit. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Im 15 and my boyfriend wants to finger me. I want him to but im a little nervouse and scared. Plus when like rubs like my waist under my pants i get a little turned on and then i have like a lot of discharge and then get really nervous about it. What should i do? Should i talk to him about it?
The wetness is totally normal. You're turned on and excited and that's your bodies way of approval. You may want to check your b/f fingernails and fingers for any rough spots. It definately doesn't feel good when it's rough. The day you decide you're ready, wear some loose shorts, sweats or jogging pants. It won't feel good if he has to put his hand where it's super tight. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Me and my boyfriend are planning a threesome for the first time. I'm not sure what all I should do any advice for a first timer
If you haven't picked someone yet, go to a hotel bar near the airport. There are usually women traveling that don't mind hooking up for the night and you'll probably never see them again. I've had luck a few times with craigslist but voice verify and webcam if at all possible. Then you can meet for drinks and see how you all get along. I would recommend a hotel room for the first time, so they don't know where you live and can't stalk you or have any other problems that may occur. Make sure you talk to your man about boundaries and what you expect from him when the other girl is around. If you want it to be more about you and the other girl, let him orgasm early and he'll be on the sideline and you'll be having fun. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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18/f.
I would like to be able to shave all my pubic hair, as I just feel more comortable with my body that way and prefer the look/feel of it.
However, whenever I try it leaves stubble, a shaving rash and becomes incredibly itchy and a little painful. I know that others shave their pubic hair and don't have these problems, so there must be a way round it.
As much as waxing sounds like it would leave a better effect, it's just too painful, and I don't have the money to pay to get it done (I can't make myself do it, because I do one strip and then chicken out due to the pain.)
So what can I do to get a good result with shaving, and avoid shaving rash? I would really appreciate any tips.
Shaving is best when done in the shower. Make sure you use a new razor and don't use it again for any other part of your body. After you're done washing your hair and everything else, soap up the area to be shaved. Put on the shaving cream and carefully shave the area. If you've just recently shaved, wait a few days for the bumps and rash to go down. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I really want to give this guy a blowjob but something is just telling me not to. What should I do?
It really depends on how long you've been going out, how much you care about him and how old you are. I know it's better to do that if you're not ready for sex and you want to keep him happy but sometimes the guy's just not worth it. You'll have to make that decision when the time comes but don't let some guy pressure you into doing something you don't want to. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex with a woman.talked to my boyfriend about it hie answer was yes but when I called him into the room to come see he rubed her pussy and let her suck his dick without asking me if it was ok. I say it's cheating because I did not give him premission to do anything and it's been over a year and I still hurt behind this
If you really wanted to see what it was like to have sex with a woman, you should have done it on your own. Having him in the room naked without setting any boundries isn't his fault. He's going to do what any horny male would do, have sex with two girls. If you decide to do this again, set some real boundries, tie him to a chair to watch or don't invite him to join at all. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Should one shave their pubic hair for someone with whom they are casually sexing?
If you're not comfortable doing it, then don't do it. Maybe you could offer a compromise or meet somewhere in the middle to appease him for a while. I hope this helps and good luck.
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What can I use for masterbation?
14/f
Go to walmart or the local drugstore and buy a handheld massager. A long smooth candle is a nice substitute for a dildo. Don't use anything that's rough or could cause a tear on the inside. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm 18 and going to a Foam party in a club after getting my results back with all my friends and I want to know what to wear?
I was thinking of wearing some black shorts and a tight top maybe but should I wear a bikini underneath or something and what kind of shoes?
I never been to a foam party but been out a few times, I'm pretty sure the short dresses don't apply for this one though lol btw It's legal to drink at 18 so I'm not breaking any laws.
Dark polyester top (polyester dries fast) with a bikini top underneath, cute shorts and shoes with good soles so you don't slip on the floor. I hope this helps and good luck.
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