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Q: i need to know how to grow my ails the fastest way before my birthday party its in a week and there just a little bit long not that much i want the white part of my ails to show relly good and relly long i know not to bite them cauz i decided to stop but any other ways !!!!!!!!!
well idk any ways but if their not long just get a french manicure or buy some white nail polish and do it your self!

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**~mari~**

Q: For some time now i've thought i was bi. I've never done anything but i've realized how i was thinking was totally different and unusual. It's been a year and i still haven't made up my mind. Once in awhile i'll "decide" that i'm not but then it ALWAYS comes back and drives me nuts until i'll decide i'm not again. But even then i can't get it off my mind. I know that raging hormones has to deal with this too, but what are the chances of this coming back EVERY SINGLE TIME?!?!?! My family is against it and my friends are okay with it. So please don't tell me to talk with my parents. I just need to know what's going on and why i can't decide. I'll rate ya high!!!
1st of all its totally ok to be bi......and if ur not sure just wait longer you'll kno eventually

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**~mari~**

Q: me and my ex-boyfriend just started talkin again. i like him again and i think he likes me again but im not sure.he says he wants to have sex with me. he always says it so i went to his house and all we did was watch his brother play a video game for 2 hours then i had to leave. i asked him y he didnt do anything and he said he didnt want to do it while his brothers were sittin right there becuz his room is in his basement and both of his brothers were sittin right there. does he really want to do this with me and does it look like we will ever go out again?? we flirt all the time and before we stop talkin to each other we always say i love u.i really like him so i need sum help. sorry its so long!!
no prob theres a really big chance that u will get together i think sounds like your really compatible when the times right just wait it out

LOVE!

**~mari~**

Q: Ok i have a rash i've had it for 1 month it itches and i can't get it to go away!Does anyone know what this is?
no...i don't but you need to get it checked out by a professional hunn SOON!!!


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**~mari~**

Q: ok i hope i don't freak anyone out but sometimes i feel like i belong in a previous time. i feel like i dont' belong in this world.....(for intance i feel like i was supposed to live in the 1950's or something)....what should i do?
well theres nothing really you can do hunn.... you just gotta be yourself and if you feel like your 1950's ish or watever do that people will like you for you believe me !!!!! BE YOURSELF!!!!!

LOVE!


**~Mari~**

Q: What does it mean to say, for example, someone in you family has been twice removed?
it means they're 3rd cousins

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x3 mari

Q: i just started use tampons. behind my moms back. my sister was the one who wanted me to. but thats not the point. my mom told me all this stuff about how if it gets stuck you will have to get it serically removed or u could even die from them. soo basically im terridy of them. ive got it in "there" but like im too scared to let the plastic come completely off cause im too scared to leave it in there on even sit up. that probally sounds really retarded. but what do i do about. if u give good answeres ill rate high
just don't do it! nevver do something you don't think is right if it can danger you i mean seriously its not dangerous but if you don't feel comfortable don't do it!
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x3 mari

Q: my dad usually makes me lunch before he goes to work when i have a 1/2 day of school.today he forgot and there is nothing i can make!HELP!Any food recipes i can make?!
i rate high!
just have some snacks!
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x3 mari

Q: my best friend marissa moved to germany.i really miss her.i've known her since pre-k.we did everything together.she was like a sis to me.but what really sucks...is that before she moved we had a fight.well actually she was mad at me for somethin real stupid.i can't call her b/c i don't have her#.and i don't know if she still has her comp.but i want to apologize.please help me.what should i do?
you could try to look them up or something but otherwise i don't know what i can say i mean its tough its kind of rude for her not to call tho i mean you don't have her # she should call you so gl with that im me if you want marzilicious89
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x3 mari

Q: okay i have this friend but i like him as more then a friend ...we've never seen each other but we talk on the phone almost every day ...i want to find out if he likes me as just a friend or as more ..how should i ask?? ....o and i want to see him some where do any of you guys have any suggestions?

ill give every one 5's who trys to help!

**help**
ok this is wat i've done ok when ur talking to him on da phone say"ok you can ask me one question and i'll answer it truthfully and then i get to ask you one if i don't answer truthfully i'll pay you 10 bucks same for you k?" then be that as your question it usually works!
much love
x3 mari

Q: my girlfriend is on this game literally 24/7 LITTERALLY she`ll stay up all night playing that game.. or she`ll go to bed at like fuckin 2 3 in the moring.. get up at what 11 12.. then play it.. then stop at 6 for a hour then start playing it till like 2 3 in the moring... sometimes she`ll stay up all night till like 8 9 then go to sleep till 2 then get up and play it again. im really worried bout her. (were bi im a girl too) and i dunno how to explain what shes doing.. i mean i dont even talk to her anymore.. and when i do its alway a "kk" every 10 mins or somehting. its really bugging me... i dont wanan sound all mean and tell her not to play it and talk to me. errr *hits head* i dunno what the fucking im writing this for...
she'll stop eventually and if she doesn't hse seriously needs to get a grip AND GET A LIFE shes missing all te fun of life by being addicted to a stupid game
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x3 mari

Q: what is a free program that is safe and allows you to make icons??
animation shop 3 get it on jasc.com and register than go to free samples!
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x3 mari

Q: where can you go to get layouts for advicenators???
on the bottom on the left side scroll down and there will be a link that says backgrounds under miscellaneous
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x3 mari

Q: So, there is this guy and I still really like him, but we already went out and I'm pretty sure he doesn't even think about me as more than a friend anymore. The thing is he isn't really "boyfriend material". He gets bored of one girl and then goes to the next. I still like him, but I know I shouldn't because I'll just get hurt again.

I am trying to get over him. I've tried so much! But it seems like even when I'm hanging with my friends I am like... fakely happy. None of my friends know I still like him.

I still think about him. I've tried to give it time but I've felt like this for about a year now. It's like I'm crazy over him. Will I ever get over him? And what can I do to help me get over him?

Thanks so much.
try to get interested in another guy i know it sounds wierd but hang out with more guyz and not him and you'll soon start thinking about them! lolz
much love
x3 mari

Q: I was wondering what lap dancing is? I read it in one of the questions but I didn't know what it meant.
it means giving someone a sexual dance thing kind of like on top of them while their sitting to make them horny and shit
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x3 mari

Q: I'm currently going to cheer camp everyday for 9 hours a day for my squad. (Ive been going for 2 weeks) I'm so tired and so worn out I dont know if I can take it anymore. I'm very sore from all the jumps, stretching etc., But my coach wants me to push through but I dont know if I can take it anymore, I've already pulled my hamstring, and bruised my big toe (stunting), and my shoulder(while tumbling). What should I do? (I still have 2 more weeks of it!)
take the weekend and just relax don't go out don't do ANYTHING then just i guess do it cuz in the long run it will pay off also when you think you cant work anyharder you really can its your brain telling you you cant thats a fact no joke so work hard and gl
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x3 mari

Q: I've read before that pink eyeshadow is not a good shade for your eye for some reason- is this true, and if so why?
its just not that attracktive go for a skin tone or a very very pale pink thats wat i use
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x3 mari

Q: ok so heres the thing: im WAY too quiet, shy, and boring and its stopping me from meeting new people!! like whenever someone talks to me, they say something like hey and im like hi, then... *awkward silence* so then there like whats up an im like um,, nothing. *awkward silence*. like just today i met this really nice girl at the town pool ( not like i LIKED her as in crush, cause im a girl too) and she talked to me then there was awkward silence!! what can i do to have fun and comfortbale with people!!
talk or be really outgoing tell them your name and like ask them if they wanna swim or do something in the pool or ask them where they go to school how old they are kk???i know its hard i used to be like that the way i thinkof it is if you don't like becomme friends with her you'll probly never see her again and she;'ll forget who you are and it won't really matter so just go for it
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x3 mari

Q: Okay , this girl moved from another part of the town to the part i live in around last year . I was quite popular in school. I became friends with her because i thought she was sweet and friendly. But since last month ( or maybe even before that ,who knows?) she started backstabbing me , but still acted nice and sweet and oh-so-innocent in front of me .I have been busy for some time because of some commitments i have , so i didn't realise this until last week . None of my old friends talk to me as much as before , and now even when i sms my best guy friend , he'll talk about her smsing him at the same time .And it seems as though all of them like her more than they like me , and my best guy friend ( former ? ) he'll say stuff like :" oh , me and her and ___ and ___ and ___ are real close man " Without even including ME ! And if he wants to go somewhere he'll say :"if she goes , i'll go . " It turns out she's been saying stuff behind my back , and now , SHE'S where i used to be , with MY friends , and MY popularity .Even my crush seems to sorta like her , and pay attention to her like how he used to do with me . WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
get back there don't just sit around waiting for them to come back (even tho eventually she'll backstab them and they'll come back to you) but you have to act now if they don't include you include yourself or start something and don't include her do stuff with them without her being there and be eally extra outgoing hope i helped
much love
x3 mari

Q: Tonight my guy friend is bringing his friends from another school to this community festival. They are really hot, and I'd like to get to know them. What things should I say or do to get their attention? Should I go with a casual look (jeans and a black cami) or should I wear short shorts with a tight top?
jeans and a tight top and also be really outgoing and flirt with them a ittle not to much tho
much love
x3 mari

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hey guys! I'm just your average 16-year-old girl. I love tennis, friends, shopping, reading, boys! I also love giving advice so hit me up with any problems/questions you have!

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