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Hey there. My name is Jessica Danielle. Im an outgoing person. I love having funn and being loud. I make alot of mistakes. Usually because I dont think before i do or say stuff. I lose the best of friends often, but for very stupid reasons. Im such an emotional person. && I always let my anger get the best of me. There are alot of things I regret doing and some of those things have happened recently. Being noticed and being hard is overrated. Being yourself is true. Ive learned in the past few days that sometimes its best just to let people talk. Nothing matters if you dont let it get to you. Well, I let the talking get to me and I lost alot of friends. Im not saying not to stick up for yourself. Im just saying that one argument can ruin everything. Now, Ill be fighting with one of my bestfriends instead of laughing with her. Life throws unexpected turns @ you. Sometimes you can fix what happened, but there are those times that nothing can be done. My life isnt the easiest, but it sure isnt the hardest. I take my mistakes && learn from them. Ive been beig someone that isnt me @ all. Acting like your someone your not is the worst thing ever. I didnt act like that on purpose, I just lost myself somewhere along the line. && I lost all sight of whats really important. Fight ing doesnt make people respect you, it makes them fearyou. Why would someone want people to fear them is what i dont get. Its not who you hang out with, how you dress, or whos ass you beat that makes people like you. Its how you make other poeple feel when they are around you. It took me a long time to notice that, but I finally got it. Bragging about fights youve been in is stupid. Being hard is stupid. Not being true to yourself is stupid. Holding gruges is stupid. Being who you are && who you want to be is smart. Dont let people push you around, but dont push other people around. I love my mom no matter how much of a screw up she is. She made me who I am today. Shes amazing. Please, dont make the same mistakes over && over again like i have. Live. Laugh. Learn. Grow. Be you. && Forgive people. ;}





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My prom is next month!. ahh!.. I have a picture of what I want my hair to look like. BUT I want to get my hair cut now.
heres what I want for prom
http://a825.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/24/l_8410e4d9a6fe07f2b0e6795e7d991778.jpg

But I want to get my hair cut like Lindsey Lohan.
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f319/jaygotera/01_linsay_Lohan-maxim.jpg

is that possible to have my hair cut like that, but get it done like that other photo?
THANKS!

of couse yes.

cute style.

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I have looooong strawberry blonde hair
Its seriously down to my butt
Its so long that my layers grew out
I'm going into High School next year and I wanna change my hair look
I don't want it cut TOO much
But what kind of hair styles could I ask the hait cutter person?
I really want 'scene' or 'emo' hair
But my hair is THIN and silky so it doesnt stay the way I want it
And I have those side bangs things already

But could someone give me a few links to hairstyle that might look good?
And the name of it please?
Thanks

i think this hair would look cute with strawberry blonde hair.

http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i107/xjsbellamias13/1385690382_l.jpg

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14/f. to make a long story short, my doctor thinks i have depression. i wouldnt doubt it. i am constantly sad and crying and mad and all that stuff. she suggests i see a pshycologist. i was just wondering...if i get put on pills for depression, what happens exactly? i heard it very risky. help?

here is some advice.....


ask your doctor. i wouldnt be asking people on here because we are not doctors and can't tell you over the internet what it is that you need.




sorry :)

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Where can I a crop a photo to make it 7"x7"?

www.blibs.com

its an online download free photoshop.

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i had a dream i was walking in the park with my ex-boyfriend

what does that mean?

could mean you still have feelings for him :)

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im not a punk or emo or anything like that but my friends call me im a skater/punk/emo since i skate (still learning dont know the tricks yet)but im seriously willing to learn the tricks if i have time and they call me emo/punk because of my hair. When my friends call me that i just say "nah" and talk about something else i wear skinny jeans shirt/tank top and stuff and
im just wondering that does that make me a poser if i make my hairstyle like this picture even though im not emo/punk? right now i have a side bangs and long choppy hair. pls tell me what you think! thanky you =)


http://img231.imageshack.us/img231/1936/1469668813lji0.jpg

screw what people have to say about you.

you make your own opinions about yourself and thats what matters most.

and i have that hairstyle and i dont dress skater/emo/punk. i wear alot of hollister (what people consider preppy) and i dont give a damn what they think.

and just because you have a hobby (new hobby) dont make you a poser. a poser is like a hick dressin gangsta. or someone being unoriginal.

i would say; do what you wanna do and what you feel is you. & that hair is to die forr.

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so long story , i broke up with my boyfriend in april of last year. it was one of those addicting relationships wher we talked non-stop and planned our wedding and what we were going to name our kids. needless to say it was kinda unhealthy so i broke it off.

and then summer was good and he got a gf and i flirted with people and so maybe we cought ourselves staring at eachother every once and a while but it wasnt so bad.

and then all this year i dont know why, but i always knew where he was. its not like i sat and memorized his schedule but i knew where he was all the time. and so i wasnt always looking for him but i guess i always found him.

and now, hes calling me again and being all flirty and i dont know what to do.

im pretty sure hes not playing games because my friend is his best friend and she says hes pretty serous about this. which makes it even more complicated!

well last night he was all "remember how we were going to fly to the moon for our wedding, well do you think we could still do that?" and i was just like "uhhh..." and i guess he took that as a bad sign.but i really didnt see that coming.

and now he wants to talk about it, and i dont know what to say. i just want us both to move on. with our self esteems still intact.

i cant tell him i dont like him at all and that i never thought about him because its a lie.

and i cant get back together with him because its so suffocating.

what to do?

Let him know that you cant stop thinking about him. Let him know how you feel about just being friends and moving on.

i personally think that if it was meant to be you would later on find each other with love still in mind.

Just because you can't stop thinking about where he is and what he is doing does not make it love (affection is more like it, and of course you'll feel that way. He's your ex).

and if you was to want to get back him than maybe you should talk to him about being to clingy with stuff. i mean, (are you in high school, or school) maybe you arent ready for marriage and kids. I never plan for the future. i live for today. who knows you guys could come up with wedding plans today and later find those plans with someone totally different.

i seriously hope i helped you out :)

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i have pretty yellow teeth. i DO brush them.. im scared like hell to go to the dentist though so i cant go and ask tem. anyways i DO brush my teeth but their still pretty yellow. it might be from coffee... so any adivce on the best outcomes or if they get gooey and slip off... or whatever happens to the whiteness strips.. anything that might be useful. thank you

i agree the oral b whiten pen.

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okay, well. i met this guy. well, i knew him. well like.. i don't know i guess you could say i always knew of him but really knew him. but i just started getting to know him at like the VERY end of february if not beginning of march. but, hes a really really really nice guy, and he makes me soo happy when i talk to him and he like. i don't know hes just an all around great guy, and i kind of have a feeling that he likes me too. but the thing is, im 5"4 and hes like... up to my boobs. :p i know, i know. :p but anyways, he gets like really excited when he sees me, not like... in the pants.. like just a big smile and all jumpy and entergentic and i guess you could say i get like that too when i see him, but hes always like hugging me and like.. i don't know he just makes me really happy and i dont know what to do. i don't want to make the first move, so im not going to do that. so dont tell me to do that. but, like... i don't know hes really short and i think people would like... make fun of us and i know i shouldnt care about that but i do.. and, also. my BEST, BEST, BEST guy friend is jealous weve started talking and were becoming good friends and lately ive had to like remind him that hes my bestfriend and everything all the time, at least tiwce a night and im being totally patient with him, i havet gotten mad but its starting to aggrivate me.
HELP?!

i dont think you should make the first movee (to be honest im the same way). i think most girls are like that. so no shame there. but there has to be someway that you could let him no that you like him without giving it away to quick because you guys are friends and if you rush into things im afraid that would blow the relationship and your friendship.


start by calling him (not to much) and asking to hangout (just you too);movies, mall, lunch, etc.

if this guy makes you happy and you can tell that you make him happy then i would say... this could be the guy for you. even though he is short. screw people who look at you guys (not literally). my boyfriend is in a wheelchair and im sure people look at us in a mean/strange way. there are some sick people out there.

and the whole other guy friend thing, there is not much you could do to stop him from being jealous. He will always have those feelings for you.

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Okay this may make me sound like a looser but I've never went to any concert before and it's finally about time! This kind of makes it hard that my fisrt concert I go to is a rock concert but can anyone give me some hlep or advice?

I absolutely love rock and metal but I don't think I'll jump or anything or punhc my fist into the air continueously...will someone curse at me for that?

And does it matter what I wear since everyone's going to sweat?

Any other advice would be great, thanks!

Rock concerts are always the bestt.

i mean if you like to be wild and party :) lol. they are mosly pushy and loud. and people are all over. im sure if you dont be mean to someone they wont curse at you or anything (maybe if they are drunk). and no it dont matter what you wear, just dress like you (i must say there are some mega hotties at some rock concerts.

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Ok so one of these guys really likes me... but i am only friends with him. after a few weeks of being friends, he told someone that i broke up with him. we were only freinds. we werent dating.
2nd of all, Ive heard lots of rumors about disgusting things aout him, like... peeking in the girls bathroom(its near the PE room and some girls change in that bathroom 0.0) and stuff... problem is, i dont really wanna be friends. I am trying to slowly stop contact with him, but i am scared he will say something like she broke up with mee, wateva blah blah blaah"
and this one guy keeps teasing me about us being "together!" it is driving me insane. he is so annoyig.
PLZ HELPPPP!!#!@#!

ohkay problem solved just talk to him about it. or do like your doing "slowly stop contact" with him. im sure he'll understand. and if he was to go around and start rumors about you & him dating and you broke up with him. just let them talk. you must be great if he is bragging about you like that. People are probably teasing you about it because they are jealous because you have someone. you shouldnt let people get to you. especially when you know the truth and the rumors arent true. when someone ask you about it dont get all worked up just act like you dont care and say " no ".

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What products should I try to get rid of acne. My skin type is combination, I break out really bad around my time of the month, and most times I get these really big pimples under the skin, and they never come to a head where I can pop them. I want to know what product I can use to prevent my acne and those really big under the skin unpopable pimples.
Thanks

i have tough skin and i tried proavctiv and several other products and none of them worked for me. but one time i went out to my grandma's and she suggested that i used rubbing alcohol on my face and where i was breaking out at. and i SWEAR (and i know i shouldnt but i do) i was clear in like 4 weeks.

99% rubbing alcohol and fill your sink up ( or half way ) with steaming hot water. and after you rub the alcohol on your face just barely hold your head above the water and let the steam touch your face for about 5-10 (what you want). do that about everynight before bed.

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How do you know when you have an orgasm? Like how does it feel?

its hard to explain really. its just a feeling that you KNOW you get. and no one can really describe. many people act different ways and have different reactions during an orgasim.


try to google it. i guess. but its a feeling you cant miss.

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how can you get rid of athletes foot
?!? HELPP

im sure there are some spray that you can buy like tinachden. or......


i heard you can pee on your feet. lol. i wouldnt suggest that. i thought i would add it in there for laughs.

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Hey all!! I'm a girl, 16 and I really want to make my hair look more cute, sexy, whatever. All my life I have been the cute girl, but never the one that guys wanted to be with. Mainly because I have had self issues. My teeth are/was bad, but I now just got braces and I feel so much more confident. I have been trying to dress more cute and girly, but I have no idea for my hair. I will be getting it cut next month after prom, until then can you guys give me some cute ideas for my hair now? I will still like to dress "comfy" but I want my hair looking cute still. So is there any way I can dress "bummy"
but still have cute hair? (pictures?)

here is my hair now.


if that one doesn't work, heres another link

http://i101.photobucket.com/albums/m63/Samantha_kay_42/l_9c660cbfeb6c7a56eb2a5cd82752755c.jpg

Ideas for now?

&& what do you think I should get my hair cut like next?(pictures)

I was thinking

http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f319/jaygotera/01_linsay_Lohan-maxim.jpg

THANKS!!

i love your hairr. and your very gorgeous.

i think that maybe you could put some blone highlights and a tone darker lowlights. and blend it together. i think that would be cut.

and your hair fits your face.....

WoW i just looked at that linsdey picture. and i printer that picture off so i could get my hair cut and dyed like that. but yeah thats cute. and it would loook cute on you.

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what is considered a large,medium,and small
penis in inches









thanks

6 and a half is average, so i guess anything below that would be small. Seven and up is biggg.

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well, i know this is really weird. but should i be shaving down there like around the crotch. i asked my mom but she didnt give me an answer. im afraid to ask my friends cause im afraid that they'll call me a perv or something. please answer.

its more likely up to you. because i mean you can if you want to, but it seems to be less irritated when you shave more and more. and i know that my boyfriend likes it shaved down there. so then im guessing the best thing to do is to shave.


but there are other ways to shave. like... some girls have the strips where they shave almost everything but have a patch of hair above. and that must be trimmed alot though. Cuz pubic hair gross fasttt.

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my face has been breaking out lately. but i havnt had my period for like 10 days now. i have proactive but it hasnt been working lately.

i tried proactive too and it didnt seem to help me either. So, my grandma recommended using 99% rubbing alcohol and then filling the sink with hot water and just setting your face above the sink so that the steem just hits your face. It should work. it worked for me and i have really tough skin.


and also try differin. it has to be prescribted by the doctor. and it is cheap.

but i would try the first thing first.

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Ok, which one of the following stores is most likely to have hair dye for guys? CVS, Walgreens, Shaws/Star Market, or a local haircut salon? Also, how much do they usually cost? Are the prices different if you find them at a pharmacy store or a local haircut salon?

Walgreens and Wal-Mart but i agree with the last answer. Guys hair dye sucks, the girls seems to work best. and plus i think you get more in the girls.

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What are the pros and the cons of the blackberry pearl on the tmobile phone line?

Some of the pros and cons of the balckberry pearl are:


Pros: the camera is good, its small, lots of features that most phones dont have, easy emailing, easy to use keyboard, call quality, powerful PDA, fast interent, and wide screen.

Cons: Small keys so you sometimes hit the wrong key,Drops Cingular EDGE network from time to time,Sometimes loads slowly,Doesn't have video capabilties. It's a mini computer, so sometimes, not offen, you have to reboot by removing the battery,Speaker not loud enough, you can never bluetooth from phone to phone, can never get customer service from your phone, you have to pay more for the internet which is like 30.00 $ a month more, the predictive text sucks, trackball does not work correctly.


it hasmore cons than pros. i thought it was something that i wouldnt but instead i got the shine. which is a greattt phonee.

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