Hi! I'm Ivy. I was born in Macau and I moved to Hong Kong before one. I moved to Canada(Ontario,North York) on 6th July,09. Feel free to ask me anything. I'll be glad if I can help. You are welcome to add me on facebook or msn(facebook is better) but please tell me via e-mail before you do so because I won't know who you are and might just consider you as crazy. I consider myself more mature than others in my age. As far as I know, others think I'm mature too. I'm interested in topics that are deep. Homosexual(I am a huge fan of Lindsay Lohan, a talented lesbian actress, designer and a model), religion(I don't believe in anything for now tough), friendship and theories of everything. Other things are great too. Personally, I like reading, listening to music, watch TV, surfing the internet like now, sports(except swimming 'cause I'm not good at it, but I'm good at Tennis, badminton and running) and many other stuffs. I love to know people that have different thoughts with things because I want to understand more people.
If you like to ask me personal questions about myself, it's also fine, I don't write it out only because I don't really like typing a lot.
E-mail: ivycheang1252525@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Canada now(Hong Kong before 6th July,09)
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
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Member Since: September 14, 2009
Answers: 33
Last Update: March 15, 2010
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okay. so i'm a junior, i've been out for two years now. my school's very gay-friendly.
a freshman girl caught my eye. i really suspect she's bicurious but to the best of my knowledge she hasn't 'done anything' before. i have a class with her and we flirt pretty mercilessly. i intend to ask her to a movie or something with friends.
speaking of friends, in my information-gathering a few people told me she acts like a whore. this doesn't bother me much but is perhaps something to take into account.
so is it ethical for me to date someone two years younger?
and do you have any other advice? (link)
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I'm just answering the last question you asked. I also think there's no problem with dating someone two years younger than you. I met lesbian lovers with 8 years of age difference.
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Ok. My boy friend has a lot of people who hate him and dislike him,he's nice, sweet and cares about people and people think that means he's gay! His friend told me that people started a rumor about him that he's bisexual and stuff. It ruined his reputation. I believe that he doesn't because he never told me he was, and he flirts and says he wants me in his bed LOL so, like idk what to do, it worrys me. See He's in 9th im in 8th. The homecomings coming up and i cant come :/ I asked him if he's going with anyone he said "ya with a guy tyler JK" SO i dont know.. what should i do? Is there any signs to if he is or not? I really love him, and he said himself he loved me two? so.. help? (link)
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If your boyfriend is gay, he wouldn't date you in the first place, right? Why would he care so much about you if he doesn't like you? Unless you're not sure if he loves you, gay is not a possibility at all. Ask him if you think he might be lying.
If he's a bisexual, I don't think there's a problem with that. As long as he loves you and you love him, why care? He might not think of being bisexual when you two are so happy together.
PLEASE don't hate him if he's gay or bisexual. At least give him a chance to explain. I think I might be a lesbian and I always feel sad when I see people hating homosexual and bisexual. This is just a personal favor I'm asking because you seem nice, you can ignore me. It's your choice.
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I think that i might be a lesbian. I have had crushes on boys, I had a crush on a boy recently. but i still think i kind of like girls. Please dont tell me its ok to be lesbian because I know I would never EVER be happy with my self. Tell me how not be a lesbian any more! please please please! (link)
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Why should you be upset of the fact you might be a lesbian? I think I might be one but still I feel great about it. I've met lesbian and they're so normal. Some of them are even better than people around them. I understand it might feel like you're not normal and there are people that hate lesbian but what they think is really really not important. Think of them as stupid if you want but never feel bad about who you might be. I'm saying all these from my heart.
If you really think you won't be happy of being a lesbian after what I've said, I'm sure you won't be able to date a girl and the felling might eventually pass when you meet someone good enough.
Yep... I saw your feedback and there's just one fact I recently heard of I wanna tell you. In Scientific point of view, there's no real lesbian. There are real gays, they are sexually attracted(according to their brain) but girls are just appreciate the body of another female. Therefore, a girl should never feel hard to resist the attraction towards another girl since it's just emotional matter.
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i thick i am gey but i dont know how to tell my mom i am onlly 14
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I'm 14 as you are and I'm thinking I might be a lesbian. I've never tell anyone yet. Don't tell them before you're certain or you are in love with someone because being lesbian is a serious thing. It's definitely not something to play with. If you're sure, tell them honestly. That's what I'm gonna do if I'm know I'm actually a lesbian. I'm sure they'll accept who you are. That's what families do, isn't it?
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is lindsay lohan a lesbian with samantha?
is samantha a lesbian? why does she dress like a guy / sorta look like a guy? or is she just a cross-dresser? (link)
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I'm a huge fan of Lindsay Lohan. Yes, she's a lesbian now. I always believe that we don't have to choose to be lesbian or not. If you love someone, why don't date him/her? Just sometimes we like a girl and sometimes a guy. No difference. Same to Samantha, she might as well like to dress like a guy. She might think she looks good in guy clothes or anything else. I used to dress as same as a guy too. It's less than a year ago. I liked how I looked and I still like it now. Just that I what to be more like Lindsay. Ellen Degeneres also dress quite like a guy. Whatever they like.
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Yeah, I saw tabloid things where they say Lindsay Lohan is dating Samantha Ronson but then other magazines say they announced they aren't dating. I even read they broke up before and, well, it's confusing. I liked Lindsay Lohan and thought she was a really pretty girl but WOW I didn't think she would be a lesbian, especially with someone like Samantha Ronson who isn't pretty at all. Anyway, just curious if she REALLY is dating the girl or if they're just best friends or something. I've been wondering for awhile so I'm sorry about being darn late and behind on the times! (link)
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I'm a huge fan of Lindsay Lohan(I check her news and twitter account everyday). I can't tell you exactly are they dating since their relationship is kind of complicated. I would just say they're the way they are. If I have to pick one, I would say yes, they're dating because Samantha is a very important person to Lindsay.
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ok i cant bottle this up inside anymore i need to let it out!no one understands me so i cant talk to my friends about this because they just wont understand, theyll laugh at me and probibly call me pathetic. i dont blame them because this is just too weird. there this guy at my college/uni iv never spoke to him we always look at eachother but never spoke to one another and i think im seriously inlove with a guy iv never spoken to.its like when i look at him i know who he is and how he is and i just make up this fantasy in my head whether its true or not. he seems like a shy guy not really into going after girls hes always at the libry so i take it hes into his studies first all of this makes me like him more and more but i just dont have the courage to walk up to him and talk to him, i wouldnt even know what to say.usually im a random person and wouldnt mind but this guy makes my heart stop every time i look at him(oh my gosh i sound soo crazy i know) what am i suppose to do? i like him so much that im scared hell reject me or turn out to be gay or have a gf or not like me or think im some crazy girl...i really like him what do i do? i think the longer i hold it the more hell drift away i dont wanna like him and not tell him. what am i ment to say to him if i talk to him?how would i do it?write him a note?i just dont wanna be a random. im going crazyyy (link)
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I have to tell you I was in the same position as you are now. I love a friend that is really really not close with me. I found out everything about that girl in every ways I could think of(friends,internet etc.) and I still think she's a great person for me. I'm very shy so I've never tell her about it. And now I'm in Canada so far away from Hong Kong, where she is, since I immigrated and I almost melt down whenever I think of her. I regret of what I didn't do and I don't want anyone to be like me. So PLEASE, find a easier way to talk to him. you may sit near him at the library and find some questions to ask(time, words etc.). I'm sure he'll recognize you after you show up near him constantly.
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Okay so I'm 18 and in college. I'm also a gay male. Well I found this really sweet guy! He always makes me smile. Well there is this other guy who i really don't see like that at all, but he is so protective of me and he knows exactly what im thinking and no one else ever can, so that's like a turn on. This first guy i like though is very confusing, he acts different around certain people. Okay like if he's with me he acts like someone different, when he's with some one else he acts totally different! Now his best friend has been saying the same thing about him. like he's not comfortable with who he is, so he has to act the way everyone else is around him. He's more of a follower. Now me I love who i am, and if you don't like me i could care less. But him, he's doesn't have any self confidence at all. He's just confusing, should i even waste my time on him?? (link)
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I'm sorry if this is too late. I have absolutely no experience with love. The only reason I'm writing here is that I think I might be same as the first guy that you like. I am very shy in front of others except for close friends. I have not much confident in myself that makes me scared of doing anything first but if I'm close to someone, I will open up myself to him/her. I can tell you people that have less confident in themselves hate to be like that too, they would try really hard to be confident if they have reason to. I'm doing it right now. That person might just be the same so choose by your feelings. Choose the one you like more.
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i'm having some trouble deciding on what religion i actually am. i was brought up catholic and i'd like to believe i'm catholic because i believe in everything the bible says about jesus and the resurrection and all. however i think that gay marriage shouldn't be a problem (as long as they don't raise children). and i don't see the big deal in having sex before marriage, as long as you're in love and not just being a prostitute or whatever. i don't really know much about religion so can someone help me out to religions i could look into? thankss. (link)
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I don't see the reason why we must choose a religion to believe in. My entirely family has no religion, and I came out fine. I am willing to think that god exist and I also support homosexuals. I think it's perfectly fine for them to raise a children too. It's same as children with a parent that is criminal. It don't affect them. I think having sex before marriage is okay too. I don't see why we must select a religion. I would love to hear your thoughts of why we need a religion. I just wanna know what others think. Not that I don't support religion. I do like to have it too but I can't find one I want.
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My friend told me that she is gay and I do not want to be friends with her anymore. It's not that I don't like her as a person but I cannot grasp the fact that she has become a lesbian. Just months ago she was dating men and now she is claiming homosexuality. I don't like it and the entire thing makes me uncomfortable. I'm trying to avoid her now more than ever since she has confessed her sexuality to me and I feel that I need to just tell her to her face why I no longer have interest in our friendship. How should I tell her? What should I say? I don't want to come off as cruel by saying, "You're a homosexual and that makes me too uncomfortable to continue a friendship with you," but at the same time I think it sounds most appropriate because it is the truth.
I know it isn't fair of me to not tell her why I have been avoiding contact with her. I know I should tell her but I'm not sure how I should go about this. I was thinking a neutral setting would be most appropriate but I don't want to embarrass her if she gets upset in some form.
Does anyone have experience with this or any ideas of how I should handle this matter? Thank you. (link)
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I agree with xosodapopx3 that "Its not an easy thing for someone who is gay to come out. The fact that she trusts you enough to confide in you and tell you that, says a lot" but I don't think it's wrong for you. I support homosexuality but I do understand why you feel uncomfortable with your friend now. It's something natural for some people. I think you should try to be with your friend for sometime first. You can decide how long. I'm sure the fact that she told you the fact worth you trying to except her. If you really feel too uncomfortable and you believe that's no way you can be a close friend with her anymore, you have to tell her how you feel. Tell the truth, tell her you like her personality and everything else of her but that you really don't feel comfortable being with her. I'm sure she'll understand, she should have think of this possibility before she told you.
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This requires some background knowledge:
I live with a guy, Tim, who up until a little while ago believed he was gay. My other roommate, Susan, is best friends with me as well as Tim. This other guy, Jeremy, has liked me for 3 months now and it wasn't until about 3 weeks ago that I started returning the feelings. This guy is perfect on paper, but I wasn't attracted to him that way until I basically told myself to be and have come to actually like him.
Now for the actual dilhema that needs solving:
I was drinking socially with Tim and a friend, Nick, one night and he was joking around about the fact that Tim needed to test out his "am i gay" theory and I needed to get laid, so he suggested with get them both out of the way by having sex with eachother. Had we been completely sober I don't think I would have gone along with him, but in the past I had liked him before I found out he was gay, so I agreed to it. We are now in a very complicated situation; I am in a unofficial relationshipwith Jeremy and I had sex with Tim, who I found out the next day, that he's had feelings for me the whole time and that's why he was questioning his sexual preference. I am so lost as to what I should do! I know that I have to tell Jeremy no matter what, I'm just not sure what. Do I tell him, sorry it's not going to work, or do I just tell him I had sex with another guy and let him do what he wants about it? Do I tell him who, because he knows my roommate, or do I just say "some guy" which can sound that much worse. I know if I told him I had sex with Tim when I was drunk to test the theory, yeah it's still stupid but it's better, and he might forgive me. The thing is, I don't know if I want him to.. and that tells me that I'm not sure what I want and that I should end it now rather than later so I don't hurt him more than I already am going to. To make all this worse, my best friend Susan was dissapointed when we told her we had sex, but she was more pissed off about the prospect of us dating. She immediately said she would move out the moment we decided to date. Yet, she says she will be in an awkward position whether we date, or whether we want to but don't for her sake. I have so many important and vital decisions to make, that will change everything, I just don't know what to do. (link)
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I'm sure it's really hard for you, I totally get it but all you can do is ask yourself. No one else can help you now and I'm sure you know that too. Just don't lie to your friends because it will hurt them even deeper than the truth when they find out. All I can say is good luck. Hope it goes fine.
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So, Ive been best friends with this guy for like 3 years now, and now we're off at college together. Anyway, I don't know whether or not he's gay. He has some tendencies that would suggest it and his facebook doesnt say "interested in". I love him to death and would no matter what. But I wish he would just tell me one way or the other. I don't think I should bring it up right? Does he feel like he can't trust me or that I wouldn't think of him in the same way? I want him to feel like he can tell me anything! What should i do? (link)
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I believe you shouldn't bring it up all of a sudden too but I think maybe you can drop some kind of hint. You may talk about this topic with him, see how he react or so. I've been doing that with a girl that most likely don't like me since we're not close. I have to say, it's frustrating but really all you can do is hope and wait. At least you have a bigger chance.
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I'm delivering a speech favoring gay rights in america for my college and I'd like to compile a list of openly gay celebrities but I can only think of about four and I can't find anything on the internet that's reliable. So I was wondering if anyone could possibly help me find something.
Thanks in advance. (link)
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I noticed no one mention Lindsay Lohan. She's my idol so I hope you know about her too. In case you see any untrue news of her on tabloids, she's doing well now, no more drugs and drama, focusing on work. Check her out on these webs:
www.lohangroupie.com
www.lindsaylohansource.com
twitter.com/sevinnyne6126
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