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inlove with a stranger
ok i cant bottle this up inside anymore i need to let it out!no one understands me so i cant talk to my friends about this because they just wont understand, theyll laugh at me and probibly call me pathetic. i dont blame them because this is just too weird. there this guy at my college/uni iv never spoke to him we always look at eachother but never spoke to one another and i think im seriously inlove with a guy iv never spoken to.its like when i look at him i know who he is and how he is and i just make up this fantasy in my head whether its true or not. he seems like a shy guy not really into going after girls hes always at the libry so i take it hes into his studies first all of this makes me like him more and more but i just dont have the courage to walk up to him and talk to him, i wouldnt even know what to say.usually im a random person and wouldnt mind but this guy makes my heart stop every time i look at him(oh my gosh i sound soo crazy i know) what am i suppose to do? i like him so much that im scared hell reject me or turn out to be gay or have a gf or not like me or think im some crazy girl...i really like him what do i do? i think the longer i hold it the more hell drift away i dont wanna like him and not tell him. what am i ment to say to him if i talk to him?how would i do it?write him a note?i just dont wanna be a random. im going crazyyy
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I have to tell you I was in the same position as you are now. I love a friend that is really really not close with me. I found out everything about that girl in every ways I could think of(friends,internet etc.) and I still think she's a great person for me. I'm very shy so I've never tell her about it. And now I'm in Canada so far away from Hong Kong, where she is, since I immigrated and I almost melt down whenever I think of her. I regret of what I didn't do and I don't want anyone to be like me. So PLEASE, find a easier way to talk to him. you may sit near him at the library and find some questions to ask(time, words etc.). I'm sure he'll recognize you after you show up near him constantly.
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Many married couples met in college. College is a great place to met the person who could end up being the love of your life. You'll regret it if you don't at least try. Why not approach him and ask if he is in one of your classes, sure he'll say no, but at least you've started a conversation. And no you don't sound crazy at all. We've all been through this. And you'll never know if you let the best guy get away or not, unless you try.
Good luck
- Michele
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The only way to go about this is to slowly start talking to him find out something he likes and read up on it and then go up to him and start up a casual convo and then talk about wut he likes and then once you feel more comfortable and you feel he is comfortable talking to you too then ask him if he would like to meet up for coffee or dinner i knoe this isnt as easy as it sounds but this is the only way to get this guy to talk to you and notice you.
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