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Q: If I wanted to get tested for STDs (just to be safe) where would I go?
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Q: I have a cuz that is so press. Every time i spend a night over her house she get all press all about her computer. Like one time she was playing runescape i took the mouse and change the web site on myspace to check my mail then she get her big brother and make me get off of myspace.i am not selfish!!!
plz tell me what i should do about my cuz
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Honestley now do you think that she wouldnt be mad that you just changed the website right in the middle of the game?
And please explane what press is i had no clue what you were talking about.
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Q: ok i burnt my finger with my hair straightener on thursday nite and today its all blistered and bubbly. anything i can do ?
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The only thing that you can do is wate for it to heal. Put ice on it to make it feel better
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Q: i sweat a lot. like A LOT. even when im not hot i sweat. but i mostly sweat on my under arms a lot! how can i prevent this?
please help!
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I have the same thing as you.I couldnt tell you what its called.But go to a dr and they will try differnt stuff on you.The first thing will be dryasol then porobly dryonic. the dryonic is a device that will paralize the sweat glands.Then the last step would be botox.
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Q: well, here's the whole story.
this girl, samantha, is the most annoying person on earth. she cussed me out twice for no reason what-so-ever and then no one would shut up, so i forgave her, stupidly.
she copies every single thing my friend does and says, "i only do the same stuff you do because i think it is a good idea and i appreciate you."
all she does is talk about people behind their backs, copy everything me and jessica do, make all these retarded noises, if you don't tell her a secret between you and another person that has nothing to do with her she gets really mad at you, she sings along horribly with every song that we listen to, gets mad for no reason, follows us and wont leave us alone, she's obsessed with being popular, and she's changed a lot since i first met her.
i seriously hate her now. i really just want to kind of keep my distance from her so that maybe i dont have to be such close friends with her. she doesn't even get the hint i don't like her and she doesn't realize that she's change a lot in a bad way!!
ugh! SHE'S ANNOYING THE CRAP OUT OF ME!!
what do i do or say to her to just get her to back off?!
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Oh wow that stinks big time.The only thing to do is when she is doing things to annoy you tell her what shes doing.Maybe she has stuff going on at home and shes just trying to keep her mind off of things by hanging around you and your friends all the time.
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Q: should i get surgery on my nose....i really hate how its kinda up pointed...and should i get surgery on my ear..cause one of my ears got messed up.. when my dad abused me..when i was little..btw i dont live with him........sum people tell me my ears look fine but i can tell where one is messed up...should i get surgery..im probly gonna get surgery any way i just wanna know what you think?? 14 almost 15 in a month=D/f
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I think that you should waite untill your 18.When your this young it might be hard to get a surgen to do the things you want and you are going to need parental consent.If you think that you still will want the surgery when your 18 start saving up now.It will be expensive.
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Q: i need advice on moving back with my mom.. i cant take this anymore.. i need answers from people with ideas of excaping my parents ..im not trying to say anything bad.. but i am really depressed unless im with my mom again!!!!! i know this sounds kind of bad because i want to get rid of these people in my life.. but let me explain:
they made me get adopted to them 3 years ago when i was 12..ive been on hold with my life ever since..so i need help..major help!! i dont want any answr about trying to get along with my adopted female and male guardian....i just want to know if there is any way to excape...without being in trouble...if there is no way you can help.. my life is totally ruined...i rather be dead than to live with these people..just saying.. I CAN"T TAKE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I dont think that there is really any thing that can be done.If your new gurdians abuse you stuff like that then that would have to go to court.If you know who your case worker is then talk to him/her or a guidence person at school.
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Q: The part of my pubic area, where the hair grows, I had some irritation from shaving. I shaved over that again *big mistake* and now they've formed purple scar like cirlces. How do I get rid of them? Also, there are areas of perfect white circles by the purple ones where the hair doesn't grow. Is that normal?
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That just sounds like a really bad rash.It should go away with in a few days.If it dosnt or it starts to really bother you go to your dr and get it checked out.Try to be more carefull when you shave and maybe trim the hair first if you let it grow out for any reason.
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Q: ok me and my boyfriend got in a fight this morning and he went to work and he told me he would stop by when he got out because we needed to talk and im so scared what if he breaks up with me.. any advice on what to think or how to get my mind off of it hes not gunna be out of work till midnight so i need to keep my mind off of it help as soon as possible
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Do other things around your house.Clean somthing or if you have a pet take it for a walk assuming it can go for walks.I hate when guys say that to me.If you guys have had a good relationship and not that many fights then im sure he is just going to want to talk things out.
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Q: ok i'm 16/f & i haven't been to the gyno yet. my period has been regular since i was 11 [when i first got it] & i haven't had sexual intercourse or anything. i haven't had a UTI or anything either & i was wondering when would be the best time to go?? i know everyone says you should go juss to be careful, but since i haven't really had a problem in that area, i don't know when to start. would 18 be ok or what??
thanks!!
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The best time that you should go is when your comfortable going.If you stay a virgen and dont really have any problems then go when you feel is necassary.
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Q: for 5 months i couldn't bring myself to the make the moves on my boyfriend. and he never made them. so we didnt do very much of anything. but now we broke up and im dating a new guy name justin. and i really like justin and he asked meout. but everyones sayin that if i date him he's just goina fuck me and then once hes got that hes goina be done with me. and that makes me nervous but for once i actually think im ready to have sex for the first time, because i like justin that much, but everything everyones sayin about his reputation and stuff just makes me nervous. i dont wanna give it up to him just to have him be in it to say he fucked me first.
any ideas ... ?
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If your having any problems deciding rather to have sex or not dont.I know it seems like you really like this guy not but wate untill you love him.Dont rush into sex it wont be good.
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Q: 15/f
okies hey
i've met this guy in the year below me
well we hit it off right away and i really like him and it clear he likes me too , which im really thrilled about :) but the trouble is he is only 13 right now, he does look older though and is mature for his ages. he is just 1 year 3 months younger.
is this too young for me?
please help. xxx
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Naa its no big deal.Age dosnt really matter to an extent. If you really like him alot and he likes you age is only a number.
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Q: ok, so i am completely in love with this boy for the past 2.5 years. we are on a swim team together and that is the only time we see each other, so everyday. plus meets. these are some of the things he did. what is your opinion, does he like me? (hes really shy)
he stares into my eyes a lot
he layed his head on my lap, of all the girls that were there... but i was the closest cuz i sat next to him
in a game of sharks and minnows he went for me and grabbed me hard by the wrists and kept me underwater instead of forcing me up. then when i pushed off the bottom to get air he asked if i liked his tactics.
he blew on my face when we were lying next to each other at a swim meet
he sometimes "steals" my sunglasses, but not from my face, but he def. know there mine
we went to a dance once, but it was one of those "girls ask the guys". he said well go as friends, but we didnt know each other as well then, and it was a long time ago, but we danced with each other for practicly the whole dance, but he did go dance with this one girl that he went to homecoming with, and who he supposedly used to like... i dont know if he still does but he might
when we were lying next to each other, he moved hand was lying against my forhead on a pillow, then he said sorry i'm punching you in the face, and moved it down towards my nose so it was touching. than he probly felt me breathing on his hand, cuz he asked if his hand smelt good, and i smelled it, and almost kissed it (lol!) and he didnt move it away.
but otherwise we dont talk much, like we never had a conversation, but as i said he is really shy around me. but with other girls he is fine, but with the girl he supposedly might like he talks alot to her, but not as much as he used to. now there just friends. but she doesnt like him.
so ya based everything that i told you, does he like me? and how should i give him hints that i REALLY like him without scaring him?
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That could be his silly little way of flirting.Just flirt back but dont be annoying. Dont hang on him or be next to him all the time. Unless you guys are really good friends and acting a little distant would be odd for you guys.Good luck
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Q: I lost my virginity about 2 months ago
aand I've only had sex 4 times
but recently I've been using a dildo and it hurts and stuff, but I keep going anyway because I want the pain to go away.
But now I'm really red and I kind of hurt
"downthere"
Could I have an STD?
or is this normal?
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Your just being to rough on your self.Or using the dildo to many times a week or it is to big for you.If you have had un protected sex you should get your self checked out.
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Q: Is there any way to make your nose look smaller, like with makeup or something?
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I dont think there is a way to make your nose look smaller with out actually geting it smaller.You can try to play up other things on your body.Like your eyes,you can try using differnt color eyeshadow.
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Q: Ok, this whole problem happened at the beginning of summer but stated like a month before (it's confusing, i'll explain). Well me and my other 5 best freinds have this name in our grade that everybody knows us by. Ok and in this all girl group all of us are best freinds, and we have always been and stuff. And yes, everybody has who their closer with but we ALL still know we're best friends. Well, a couple months back, at the beginning of May, my one friend Kristin started going out with this one boy Tommy. Now Tommy is apart of our group too, but like the other half... the guy half. Kristin really liked him.. but Tommy has never had a serious relationship, and I could honestly say that I felt that he didn't really "love" her (he was always the guy that would hook up with random girls). Well while the two were going out.. I found at that my other best friend, Ashley, was calling Tommy late at night, and talking with him for almost hours on the phone while Kristin and him were going out. Then she admitted to liking him, and he admitted it back. This was when Tommy and Kristin were still going out. Now the two managed to keep this a secret from the whole group. Sooner or late.. around the last week of June, Tommy broke up with Kristin replying that "I'm holding you down". But Then I found out, two days before the break-up Tommy asked Ashley, "Do you want me to break up with Kristin so me and you can hang out" and obviously he meant hook-up. THEN after the break-up, Kristin cried for weeks, every single day I saw that girl cry and I felt crushed. While Kristin still wasn't over Tommy, and still felt crushed... it turns out that Ashley and Tommy hooked up and she gave head to him and then he asked if he could eat her out, and she denied. Now somehow they kept this a secret until the past week when everyone foudn out... Yet they dont' know that everyone knows. You have no clue how mad I am at Ashely, we're all suppose to be best friends and she did this. She's a whore. I'm soo pissed off, and now someone has to break the news to AShley and I'm devistatde that I have to because no one is brave enough to. I dont' know what to say. I feel so bad. I mean it took all summer for her to get over Tommy and it turns out he hooked up with her so called best friend. And also I don't know how to tell Ashley that she is so low adn a backstabbing slut. Alond with Tommy I don't know what to do, I'm so confused?!?! Please Help Me : (
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Im sorry that this happend you you guys.The best thing to do is just to talk to kristn but just dont come out and tell her about it.She will learn after a while and when she dose just calm her down and be there for her.There will be many more guys in her life not only boyfriend wise but also frinds.Although your mad at ashley dont go off telling her shes a whore and every other name.That will do nothing but piss her off and maybe other people that your friends with.Some crappy things in life happen and this would be one of them.Learning to deal with it is a hard thing to do.
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Q: okay, well i'm 14/f. and i have this guy friend that is 15/m. he's like freaking out because he got into a HUGE fight with a girl that he really liked, but she didn't like him. now he's thinking about commiting suicide. i am soo scared, what can i tell him?
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Hi im so sorry this is happing to your friend.Theres not much you can do.Just talk with him and be there for him.He will relise that he has such great friends that he wouldnt leave them behind.
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Q: My boyfriend and i has been together for two weeks, and we had dry sex with our clothes on. His penis had touched my vagina, but we had pants on, he wore boy shorts and i wore my sleeping shorts, and i wore underwear and he wore boxers under his shorts. So then, the question is am i pregnate? im scared as usual about this. I havent gotten my period yet because it should be coming soon, if it doesnt come yet, I don't know what should i do. Am i pregnate? Please help me !
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No your not pregnet.Theres no way you would be its not possible for any thing to get through two layers of cloths.Dont worry about it.If you worry to much it can make your period late because of stress
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Q: I'm open to new ideas and Wiccan seemed interesting to me. My mother's not open minded at all and so I can't talk to her about it. I'm afraid to talk about it with my family because they are all close minded along with my friends. I don't mind that I want to persue wiccan. I wanted to know if anyone here was into Wiccan and I would like to talk to you guys...
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Hey
I know how you feel.Telling your mom might not be the best thing to do.When i told my mom that i was looking into becoming wiccan she gave me the over my dead body look. the best thing you can do is to look up some websites about it.Thats how i got most of the information just google it and you will find some good sites.
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Q: i recently learned i am pregnant. so far, im thinkin its prolly a month and a half along. im 16, and there is NOOOOOOO way in the world i can have this baby. theres no way in the world i can tell anyone my boyfriend of over a year got me pregnant. my family's real good friends with his, and things just wouldnt be pretty. also, both our families are real religious and would drown us in all the 'sex before marriage is a sin' stuff. well, fact of the matter is, since we havent told anyone about it yet- i havent gone to a doctor. i know youre supposed to get prenatal care the second you find out youre pregnant- but i cant bring myself to tell anyone, and truthfully- i really dont want to have this baby. i will NOT have an abortion, but i think i might be having a miscarriage, or about to be having one. i have all of the symptoms. i guess my questions are;
1. how do i tell people?
2. how do i know for sure if im having a miscarriage?
and 3. am i a horrible person?
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hi
Im sorry this has happend you you but you dont have very many choices
Sit your family and his down and just calmley tell them. they might freek out thats to be expected.But thats the only logical thing to do.
The most sign is bleading go to a docter and find out it can be dangerous if its somthing else
No your not a horrable person theas things happen
*~tori~*
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hey im tori but i have alot of other nick names it getting to the point where i will answer to about most any thing that im use to hearing but any ways i love helping people i applyed to answer qusetions on some other websites but i havent got a email back yet conserning them well thats all that i can think of to have in hear for now if i think of other things then i will add them
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Gender: Female Location: rochester NY Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: January 1, 2005 Answers: 135 Last Update: June 12, 2007 Visitors: 9305
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