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Location: Tennessee
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Member Since: November 6, 2005
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Last Update: December 30, 2005
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my parents finally let me have a pet, but they said it has to be quiet and not stink too bad. i wanted something i could really play with, you know take on walks or something. Will rate good.
Cheyenne (link)
I think you should get a cat because they don't stink to eaisly and they are quiet but you don't need a DOG! They are loud and they stink but not CATS.


my pet cat is in heat can somebody help me...
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If she is in heat keep her away from boy cats unless you want her pregnant. But if you want her pregnant then let her be with a boy cat.


We eat eggs(I mean chicken egg). Had we not eaten them, would they have given rise to live chicks? Or are they some sort of non reproductive egg? (link)
You ate an egg that was not a chick. The chicken made it with out a rooster around and if there was a rooster around then you wouldn't have aten it because they cannot sell them. So you din't eat a chick


I asked this girl out and she tells her friends to tell me that she likes me but she doesnt know if she wants to go out with me. Whats the difference? Also, she said her parents won't let her too. I'm not sure what the real thing is or not. What should I do?
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You should MAYBE ask her parents if that is true or ask them if you could take her out on a date(that really impresses them). Or you could just talk to her.


hello .. well this is going to sound really lame? but whatever uhh its not like that bad i dont really care but.. well there is the boy at my school i like him kinda lot not like obsessive or anything not that many people know* and anyways hes going to ask out one of my good friends and its really shocking cause u woold never ever think like its random its not like im jealous or anything but i want to find ways to kinda avoid them like to not see them together and im just you kno trying to get over it what should i do? x0ox emmaa +) (link)
I think you should maybe ask him out and he might say yes so go for it.





Please help,

I broke up with my girlfriend about 6 months ago, and I have been depressed ever since. About 1 month ago I ran into her and I have made numerous attempts by calling her way too much and going over to her house to try and talk to her but she does not want to see me. "I broke off the relationship". She is seeing an older man in his late 50's I am 31 and she is 36. What should I do. (link)
I think you should tell her that you still like her and that she doesn't need to go out with older men because that is just nasty. Try to talk to her.


hi
I am balaji from india.. my friend name is ...... we both are studying in same class.. she likes me a lot as a friend... i became crazy about her.. and i am in love with her... since she dont like love... i dont know to how to express my love to her.. if i said my love, she will cut my friendship.. so advice me shall i say my love or maintain my friendship
regards.
balaji (link)
I think you should tell her what you want to tell her. If you want to tell her you love her then do it but if you don't want to be friends anymore if she says no then don't tell her and keep being her friend.


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I am a good writer and I LOVE writing shor stories. I am 13/f. I was looking for a new topic to write about but no one has any ideas. I like writing about reality... meaning I don't like to write fantasies. For example, I don't write about dwarfs, dragons, elves, etc. Anyways, I was wondering if anyone had a summary or something of something yall have heard or something so I can turn it into a story. Much appreciation.
I rate high! (link)
Maybe you should write about (this is something that happened to me) three friends and they always get into fights but they always are friends again and they get mad about everything!


Ok my cousin went out with this guy for about a year and i just found out that he hits her and all kinds of stuff but she never did anything about it...now their broke up and she's talking to another guy from the same school but her ex still hits on her and cusses her out at school while her new bf's not around...I want to speak up but she told me NO...should i or not?This is getting way out of hand and im the only one who knows!!Please help me out!! (link)
I think you should tell because she is getting hurt. If I was you I would tell her mom or a police officer so that boy will get hopefully arrsted or something. You should really tell whoever it is that CAN help.


Okay, so I'm dreading next week. Its the 5th anniversary of my dad's death. And for this last month it seems like everything i look at or touch reminds me of him and i just break down crying...but its been five years i mean im almost 18 i shouldnt be acting like im 5, right? I have the support of my boyfriend, but my family isn't here to support me, they dont and havent liked me since the day my dad passed away. I'm not thinking about hurting myself in anyways...its just that my heart hurts terribly...is this normal? (link)
I think you are just so sad. What you should do is start thinking all the good thoughts of your dad and not that he is dead. I am really sorry for you. Maybe you should even talk with your family about it.


i sweat alot and i use good deodarant but i find that i stink by the end of the school day and i wont take off my hoodie. whats hould i do? (link)
I think you should take your deo. to school and use it after gym.


Is limewire free? (link)
yes


My sister is my guardian and she told me last year that if my grades arent great then im going to a christian school..Now my grades havent been great and now i have to go but i realllllly dont want to.. so how can i convince her to let me stay in my school?.. this christian school is very small and has a really strict dress code! HELP ME!! ASAP! (link)
Tell your sister that you really will try to bring up your grades and that if you don't tell her you will do something special for her so you don't have to go to that school.


Ok well see I am a 13/f and my dad like hits me all the time with like eather a wooden stick or his hands or whatever he has in reach and it usually leaves bruises.....and like he always tells me when he does it that I could never call the police and get him in trouble because he will just say that it's his way of "punishing me". And like I always ask him why doesnt he just ground me or something else and he always says that he thinks this will work better.....but I really don't think it does. What should I doo?? Is this considered abuse or not??

thanxxx (link)
You should tell your mom and then you should tell the police. They won't believe him if you have bruises. Just call the police whenever you want to. YOU NEED TO!


well i like this guy at my school. Last year he used to be soooooooooooo annoying but this year i think he's really cute! but i cant tell if he likes me!!! plz help!

here's some signs that he might like me...........................

1. he always talks to me
2.he asked me to sit on his lap (being me i said no)
3. really nice to me
4. he usually goes out of his way just to talk to me ( like one time he was late for class because he was talking to me)

-sammy (link)
He might but a good way to tell is just to ask him you know if you do you will really know if he likes you or not. No one else can tell you.


evertime i become friends with guys i wind up either falling for them and getting hurt or something else. but it ALWAYS ends up BAD.
i cant handle it anymore so ive givin up talking to boys, looking at boys, talking ABOUT boys, being with boys, having a boyfriend, you got the point.

over-reacting? is this typical? any other advice..? (link)
You will find the right boy sometime but if you really want to give up boys you might not ever find the right one for you.


i am 13/f and i love acting and singing and i really want a career in it! that's like all i want to do... i want to act, sing, model, dance, be a performer! this may sound really stupid... but does anyone know a way to get discovered? this is what i really want to do... and soon! thank you very much!!! (link)
The only real way to get noticed is by putting on plays and doing stuff by yourself on the streets or something.


okay so i want a ae all access pass and i was wondering if i would register online on ae.com and have them mail it to me.. has anyone done this and does this work.. do you think i should sign up on the site? (link)
If you really want to you should. But you might want to look it up before you do.


I'm 13/f and have a nagging problem. My friend and I have another friend thats really starting to bug us. She feels left out so eaisly, and she has to know EVERYTHING. Like, if I was talking to someone and she just walked up, she would have to know what we are talking about. Also, my friend and I feel like we can never hang out with ought her getting mad. What do I do?

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Tell her that you don't want to hang out with her because she has to know everything you do and if she gets mad tell her you will hang out with her if she stops.


Volleyball is the one sport I love with a passion. I connect with it so well and I've played it for 5 years. This year, alot of conflicts came up that make me miss many practices, games, and tournaments. So, I talked to my coach about becoming team manager and helping out in practices and keeping score for the team during some games. Things like that. But, last year I sat out at every game because I was a freshman, and this year would be my time to play in games. It's hard for me, but I'm deciding to go with the team manager or actually try out and have the concequence of my coach really getting mad at me for missing so many pracitces... which one sounds better? (link)
I think you should go with being the manager. If you miss alot of practices that is what you should do.




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