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every boyfriend iv ever had has beet me up.they have choked me,kicked me,punched me.chased me and jumped me,some of my guy friends have hit me with bats and the list gos on and on.i have NEVER had a boyfriend who hasent.there has to be somthing wrone with me because even some of my guy friends have beet me up. whats my problem that i always get beet up.13/f im currently single
first off, ther is absolutely nothing wrong with you. theres something wrong with them. if your "friends" hit you then they are not deserving of your company and friendship and you should ditch them. no guy should hit you.
How far do you think is too far when it comes to changing for your boyfriend? Is it the hair, the clothes, the attitude & friends?! I need to know.
changing at all is too far. there isnt anything wrong with you. hes supposed to like you the way you are. isnt that why he went out with you? dont change yourself for anyone.if they dont like you the way you are now..tough shit!
i got my ipod from china and i'm from canada so i don't no how to read chinese. all the instructions were in chinese and my ipod running low on battery. how am i suppose to recharge it??
if you have a shuffle there is a little cap at the bottom. take it off and plug it into your USB port that will charge it. if you have any other ipod, then there should have been a cord that came with it. at the bottom of your ipod, you plug one end of the cord and and the other end plugs into the USB port.
hopefully you understand now =D
im soo in love (:
can this be a bad thing? =/
true love is a great thing..but be careful. love can blind you. figuratively speaking of course
16-f
well i dont know why but right now it seems like im always attracted to guys that have girlfriends =( i wish i wouldnt because i know i cant have them but i just fall for them but they flirt with me even! what can i do? ive never had a boyfriend though and i get so jealous when they talk about their girlfriends. what can i do to solve this problem because both of them are my friends and one of them is a really good friend of mine so im always around them!
i think that part of the reason you like them is because you know you cant have them
I'm 14 and haven't had a boyfriend yet, but almost all my friends have. How can I tell if they like me or how do I tell i like them?
if they like you enough to want to go out with you, they'll tell you. dont rush into trying to get a boyfriend. if you try too hard then people will see it and label you as desperate. you can get into dating the wrong guy that way. its okay not to hvae dated at 14
i'm a 16 year old girl who has never done it or had even had a REAL boyfriend.
is this abnormal?
cause my friends are all off doing it and they think im such a nerd.
thats totally normal. i know people who havent had a b/f yet. and for the sex part..i know a lot of people who havent either. but that is because they are christian. i think you should wait for marriage. your virginity is a special thing and should be taken by someone that you love and that loves you..enough to spend the rest os your lives together. if a guy is pressuring you to have sex or dumps you because of it..its his loss..he was using you for sex.
true love waits
Ok, so my ex friend hates me because she thinks i was talking bad about her. i feel pretty bad because i kind of was by telling my guy friend about her, he rephrased what i said to her, so my ex friend thinks what i said was all too wrong. All I said to him was that she dumped me for her new best friend and her ex boyfriend used her, and that's what she told me word-by-word. in a way i feel like it was wrong to say anything (guilty on that one), but my guy friend rephrased it saying her ex used her sexually or whatever and she dumped me and started hating me when her new friend came along. i didn't say any of that...
I feel horrible for saying anything but what she heard was a lie. yet before we argued over this she wasn't treating me like a friend at all. she would always hang out with her new friend and it'd make me mad. i don't mind her making new friends but what she did was inconsiderate. so my question is, what should i do? forget about her and make new friends? or try to talk to her again? thanks in advance
i had a friend exactly like that. what i advise you to is tell her that you didnt mean what your said to your guy friend in a mean way just. then tell her that the only reason you told him that stuff was because you felt that you guys havent hung out in awhile and were drifting apart. if she still is being a bad friend after you told her that: ditch her. a good friend would care about someting like that
(13, Female)
My crush asked me out recently. I'm totally outgoing and flirty, but once we start going out I get shy. How do I break out of that. Like on the phone, I don't know what to say. Sometime's I'll try excuses not to talk to him, or hang out with him cause I hate ackward silences. How can I be a more outgoing, romantic type when I'm going out with someone?
just be yourself.. act like you have been before you were going out. he liked you enough to go out with you then so why change. going out with someone is supposed to make you feel good about yourself. not awkward. this person loves your personality. thats why he wants to be your boyfriend
IS this site really for free because I think people that gives their advice here must be paid somehow? who created this site and did it cost money?
i just joined today and i am not recieving anything other then the satisfaction of helping somebody out. trust me..we arent paid
If god loves every one then why dose it seem that being gay is wrong. im a big gay rights person and i dont understand how in most religions its like one of the bigest sins
"You shall not lie with a man as with a woman; that is an abomination"
that is a direct quote from my bible..i had the same question and asked one of my youth group leaders and they gave me this. basically what this verse is saying is that a man should not be with another man like he should be with a woman. God does love everyone its just that he doesnt love everything we do. homosexuality is a sin.
I get really shy around a lot of people. I hate it, because when i'm around a guy I really like I get shy. How do I become less shy. I hate it!!! I really need help. I hardly talk to people cuz i'm sooo shy. Someone please help,
And guys please tell me how I can talk to guys and not sound like an idiot. Lol. Like what should I say? I don't want to come off too strong or like be too shy, please help. Thanks a bunch!!
im super shy as well. but i am better now. when im around new people i think that they are probably uncomfortable too. they are lucky to meet you and be hanging out with you. just talk to guys like they are one of your girl friends. the most attractive thing to anyone is confidence. dont care about what people think and be proud of who you are. dont deprive people of your great personality. and if they dont like you..oh well..its their loss
My puppy is almost 9 months and we can't potty train her! We've tried everything! We take her out every hour, or half hour. Sometimes shell go outside for three days then out-of-the-blue go on the floor! HELP!
what i did to my dog was that when she went potty inside we brought her over to the "stuff" so she would see what we were going to yell at her for and then took 2 different sized pan lids and banged them together so they would make a loud noise. we also put bells on the doorknob. we rang them to show her what to do and then she started to whenever she wanted to go outside. when she does ues the bells give her a treat or praise hug and pet her
good luck!
Ima christian & at church with youth group we sometimes do this. The youth leaders will put questions on a piece of paper & you answer them.
First: she said answer these questions as if god was not standing right next too you.
and i did.
Second: she said now answer the questions as if god was not standing right next to you.
I know that god is with you all the time.
But this one question had me stumped.
--If a relative was in the hospital & could die any minute would you stay in the room with them?--
I said no to this because i couldnt bring myself to let someone die right next too me.
Would you guys of said the same thing or would you be able to stay in the room? Why?
Thank you:)
sounds like there isnt a right or wrong answer. it is more of an opinion. i would have probably stayed in the room only because i would want to spend the most time i could with them. but in a real-life situation it could change. i tihnk the lesson they tried to show you was that would you do that same thing if God was standing right next to you or if he wasnt. DO you put on a front when your in s defferent place surrounded with differnt people or do you always think about the christian thing to do?
im sorry if that was a little confusing but it was the best i could do.
sorry if this is long..
to start things off im 15/F..
my best friend and i have been friends since the 5th grade.(and by best friends, i mean you COULD NOT seperate us!) then towards the end of my 8th grade year i moved about 45 minutes away. we still kept in touch by phone calls and we always hung out. but this past summer was hard for me to get out places. i always had things to do, or i already made previous plans with people. and now i think that shes uber mad at me because i cant do anything. she says: "you said we would hang out over the summer.. and you go and make other plans" the thing is, ive had these plans since the end of the school year, its not like i can ignore them. and i really dont want to lose her as a friend, but now im not even in her profile, and its because i couldnt hang out.. when one of us can drive.. things will be different, because then we dont have to worry about getting rides places, but im wondering(AND HOPING!) that our friendship will last that long.. what can i do to explain to her that im not ignoring her or anything? and ive already tried to just tell her straight out. it doesnt work! any advice will be appreciated!
i had a friend like that..look you moved away and had previous plans. she shouldnt get mad at your for keeping your word.what i did was email her and tell her everything i felt. i think you should do the same. speak to her calmly ang tell her that you had previous plans with those people. then you could put down a few times that you are free and have her call you if she is available at any of those times and you can hang out.
i hope that i helped you out =D
All my best friends have gotten into weed. I'm not like that, so I've shifted to a new group of friends. Now one of my other good friends, who doesn't do weed, all of her "group" is into it too.
She so scared, and she pretty much has no friends now cause she's not into that stuff and they hate her now cause she isn't doing it too.
I'm her friend, but theyre in her classes and I'm not. How do I help her get thru this. She's starting to show symptoms of depression from this too.
i think she should do what you did..shift to a new group of friends..to help her do this maybe you could include her into your new group. invite her when you go out with your friends. those friends of hers are obviously not true friends if they dont like her because she wont do weed. keep supporting her in her decision not to do weed. and i am so glad that you havent either. i had a rough patch with my friends for awhile too.i just started hanging out with new people and now i couldnt be happier with them!
hope this helped =]