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is there a term for a guy sucking on a girls chest???
not that i know of. no one i know of calls it anything special.
what are the sex positions?
go to cosmopolitan.com it talks all about sex and good positions one of my fav. sites.
ok, is it possible to have vaginal sex without your hymen being broken, like letting him go in but not all the way? can you still get pregnant if your hymen is intact? i know you can still orgasm, but what about the guy, will he be satisfied?
YOU CAN STILL GET PREGNANT
if you're going to have sex my advice is to use a condom always and just do it all the way because it feels better and the guy will like it better and either way you can get pregnant. if you haven't had sex yet for warning it does not feel good the first time for most girls because there's something going inside of you that is much larger than anything that has ever been there.
Ive known this guy since i was 7 ( now im 13) and we
always had crushes on eacother ever since we met.
Everytime we would sit next to eachother we would
always talk and he would make me laugh. But
everytime we moved our seats we would just ignore
echother.This year i really want to talkto him. How should I do it. I
know he still likes me because this yr i was in the hall
and he smiled at me and last yr his friend told me 3
times that he had a crush on me
okay i remember perfectly being 13 and it's not easy i know everything seems so hard and complicated but this really isn't that big of a deal just go up to him one day and be like hey how have you been i haven't seen you in awhile seem confident but not cocky and don't be all oh my god i can't talk to him no way nahhh. just be yourself he liked you before and he still does apparently so just go for it : )
basiscally when i get my period my vagina aches a bit, like the muscles..i am used to it. But now all of a sudden, I came off my period a couple a days ago but its acheing..i dont the scientific word but like the "flaps" of my vagina are aching like the muscles and i don't know why!
I am NOT sexually active
14/f/uk
it's probably just still swollen take advil or something like that. if it doesn't get better go to the doctor but just give it a couple of days, i know what you're talking about i get like that too sometimes
If I were to say something to my counselor or a nurse about my depression could they talk to my parents without my permission? I've been wanting to see someone about it but I refuse to if my parents have to get involved. If that is the case, who else could I see about it?
I've gotten called down to the drug counselor and regular one before and they tell you what they can and can not do and from what mine told me unless you are hurting yourself or thinking of it they are required to tell someone because they want to make sure you don't but if you're just depressed they can't do anything if you just talk to them and if they do you can sue them because it's like the whole doctor patient confidentiality thing.
16/f
Alright, so me and this guy have been dating since the summer. I couldn't ask for a sweeter guy than him. When i am with him i get the best feeling and i just love spending time with him. Well my problem is this, one day at lunch one of my really good friends came over to my table. so we start talking and things and she told me that my man wants to do more things that just makeout. He has done things before with previous girlfriends. And im really not sure if i should or not. I mean yeah, i want to. But then the other part of me doesnt. Im just so confussed and i really don't know what to do. So if you could PLEASE help me i would really appericate it!! Thanks in advance. (:
don't do something that you aren't sure of. I am one to act on impulse but sex or whatever you consider the next step is a big deal. talk to him about it, tell him how you feel. He'll probably do the same in return. All the luck to you.
There is this guy that I work with, and he's like 19, 20? And I'm sixteen, he always flirts with me and even asked me out once, I dont like him. I pretend to be atleast, "nice" as in friend nice, to him at work. But I cant stand him, he's disgusting, I would never date him. And I have no interest whatsoever in him, not even being friends with him, he's like obsessed he keeps trying to add me on facebook, but I dont accept. He's a moron. He thinks hes so cool, he's not even going to college, and thats his own problem. But I like boys that persue education and learning. and thats not even the point.
How,.. do I .. get rid of him?
to stop bugging me and flirting, I dont flirt back either.
tell him that you are sixteen and you don't like that he is always flirting with you and making you feel uncomfortable. first of all your work place should feel safe and obviously you don't. tell him you aren't interested in someone who isn't doing anything with their life and if that doesn't work tell your manager part of their job is making all their employees feel comfortable.
i have been with my boyfriend who is 20 years older than me for 8 years and we have a 7 year old son. he found out he has liver cancer two years ago and has had 4 operations since then.
he has never treated me real good and never wanted to marry me. lately i have been finding myself treating him mean and having a lot of anger towards him for things in the past. I want to know if you think that i should leave him? i do love him but don't think that i can watch him die.
i know you have probably heard this before but the only thing you can do is try and talk to him. try and make him listen but also realize he has a lot on his plate. i know you love him but sometimes love is not enough. and for your son keep him in mind too. this relationship isn't all about you it's about your son. you have a right to be angry about things in the past but if you didn't bring it up with him then you can't really hold it against him that much now tell him he hurt you and that you're angry don't hold it all in. try and hang in there but if you do all that i tell you to and he doesn't change you can't live your life unhappy that's not fair but i think you should try your hardest especially if a child is involved.
15/F
sorry for the length.
please, just read and respond.
Here's the deal. This isn't one of those stories where I ask advice for my friend. It really is him. Alright, well a little while ago I went to my cousins house and I met his neighbor whom I clicked with immedietly. We had this instant atraction that was werid because Iusualy wouldn't go for guys like him. I'm a good girl, because of the choices I make, and he's more of the bad boy who's been through alot. So we liked eachother a little bit, but he lives about an hour away and I have a boyfriend, and he had a girlfriend.The feelings faded how I wanted them too. When we got to know eachother, he told me that he cuts. I got him to stop and he promied me that he'd never do it again, but only because he loves me and that he wants to make sure that I trust him. I got him through alot of stuff and I became his "hero" as he says. A little while after that he told me that he missed his ex and that his life meant nothing to him anymore and I had to convince him to not take his life. I don't say anything inconsiderate and I talk to him about his feelings. I know how to play. He thanked me for the help and everything was fine for awhile. Then, yesturday, he told me that he broke up with the girlfriend that he currently had because they lived far away. I asked him if I could help and he said no, because, "It scares me how much I care about you, and I can't take loving you anymore." I didn't understand what he meant by this and I tried over and over again to ask him but he never gave me the explaination that I wanted. I thought we were over what we had, but maybe he doens't like me anymore. I asked if he still had feelings for me and he said yes, but I just really don't know. I asked him if he broke up with his girlfriend because of me and he said that he didn't know. I'm gonig up to my aunts house on monday and I'm gonig to see him because he is my aunts neighbor. I'm just afraid that things will be different and that I'll make him feel weird. We had somthing, I'll admit. I love the boyfriend that I have right now and I don't want anything to rekindle with my aunts neighbor. I want to be there for him, but I don't wnat to fall for him. I had a big problem with this last time and it almost caused me and my boyfriend to brake up. This kid means alot to me, and he changed me as a person and I see life alot differently. I just recently lost one of my best friends and he helped me get through. Now I want to be there for him. I can't have him take his life or hurt himself. Please...please help me. I sound desperate, but what would you do if you were me.
you could help me, help him save his LIFE.
thankyou and God bless all who resppond.
alright first of all, you can't help who you fall for if you controlled your feelings i think everyone in this world would be a lot different. just make sure not to do anything you might regret who means more to you him or your boyfriend? with everything he said to you it is pretty much obvious in my book the kid likes you but he obviously has some problems. you can't change someone unless they want to and if he tells you about all this he obviously wants some kind of help. you can't stop him from anything though. you can tell him how you feel about it and advise him to talk to someone professional about it but who knows if he'll do that. i know that you want to help and i do want you to but all that you can do is try and talk to him and tell him how you feel about it. don't blame yourself for what he does either you don't control other peoples decisions but you can impact them. don't let this take over your life either he's important and i understand that but he is not your responsibility just talk to him the best you can.
The song familiar landscapes Im trying to figure out what the lyrics mean. Anyone know?
go to www.songmeanings.net and just search the song or artist and people comment on what it means or how it related to them it's an awesome site.
I would like to hear some opinions on 14, 15 and 16 year olds having sex. I personally find it heartbreaking when I read these questions from these young people asking about sex and if they are doing it right. They don't even know about the other consquences BESIDES pregnancy and HPV, STDs such as STIs and emoional consequences.
I am only 20, so it wasn't long ago I was this age, and I find this to be ridiculous! What happened to true love? Or waiting until marrige? It seems to me these girls just want to be popular with the boys and the guys want to be popular among boys. Is it just me? Am I crazy?
I'm 16 and I started having sex when I had just turned 15 I understand where you are coming from but kids are actually really educated about all the things if you're ready to have sex then you're ready to deal with the consequences. I have never been emotionally hurt about it I mean the first guy I had sex with I had been with for a long time and I'm happy I did it. It doesn't bother me at all and I'm not a slut or anything like that. Being popular has nothing to do with it guys who here that girls are sleeping around with a bunch of guys don't want anything to do with a dirty girl. I don't think you should judge us or anyone for what they do, everyone has their opinions and they have a right to do whatever they want to. If something happens then that's their fault, no one else's
I know im young but is there any place i could get a job at 14? or even 15 i guess is better. i really need to make some money and was wondering. i dont care what job it is anything would be good EXCEPT no babysitting jobs or anything like that cause i already do that.thanks so much! 14/f
you might be able to work at fast food places a lot of people hire kids that are 15 there
i want to give my boyfriend reallly good oral sex. does anyone have any tips or tecneiqcs? answers asap!!
thank you =]
never use your teeth and grab the shaft you don't need to stick the whole thing in your mouth and then just kinda change things up sometimes suck hard sometimes soft use your tongue and never make it seem like it's something you just have to do otherwise they won't enjoy it as much they'll think you don't like it
In my AP Biology class we were discussing diseases and viruses.
And we started talking about bulimia,
if it is a mental disease, is it contagious?
I know you cant like cough and catch it.
But can you "catch" it?
I think u can.
What do y'all think?
Thanks.
XCody*X
it's not really contagious but if you have a friend who is bulimic or anorexic sometimes people feel as if they need to look like them and as a result of that start doing the types of things they do. it all depends on the person and how confident they are with themselves
ive had a backache for 2 days now and this morning when i went to the bathroom and wiped there was pinkish read on it does that mean im getting my period help
yeah most likely a lot of people get pain in different areas when they get their period just check in the morning and see if it's still there when you pee and if it is, it's your period