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The next step?!
16/f
Alright, so me and this guy have been dating since the summer. I couldn't ask for a sweeter guy than him. When i am with him i get the best feeling and i just love spending time with him. Well my problem is this, one day at lunch one of my really good friends came over to my table. so we start talking and things and she told me that my man wants to do more things that just makeout. He has done things before with previous girlfriends. And im really not sure if i should or not. I mean yeah, i want to. But then the other part of me doesnt. Im just so confussed and i really don't know what to do. So if you could PLEASE help me i would really appericate it!! Thanks in advance. (:
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i would say go with the flow, if he tries to do something while your making out, if you don't want to tell him, but if you do what to, then just go with what your body and mind are telling you. and don't think about it too hard. i know it can get all complicated if you think too much about it.
hope this helped.
xoxo
Maya
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Never pressured to have sex. Its a big step and something you will have to live with for life so you need to think carefully about it. I'm going to encourage you to talk to your partner about it, express your thoughts and feelings on the subject. Being that he is your boyfriend you should be able to be honest and open with him. If he gets annoyed and tries to pressure you to have sex, he isn't a very genuine guy.
Bet wishes xx
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don't do something that you aren't sure of. I am one to act on impulse but sex or whatever you consider the next step is a big deal. talk to him about it, tell him how you feel. He'll probably do the same in return. All the luck to you.
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Do what you feel you are ready to do. If you really like the guy why not take things to the next level?
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