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boyfriends cancer
i have been with my boyfriend who is 20 years older than me for 8 years and we have a 7 year old son. he found out he has liver cancer two years ago and has had 4 operations since then.
he has never treated me real good and never wanted to marry me. lately i have been finding myself treating him mean and having a lot of anger towards him for things in the past. I want to know if you think that i should leave him? i do love him but don't think that i can watch him die.
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i know you have probably heard this before but the only thing you can do is try and talk to him. try and make him listen but also realize he has a lot on his plate. i know you love him but sometimes love is not enough. and for your son keep him in mind too. this relationship isn't all about you it's about your son. you have a right to be angry about things in the past but if you didn't bring it up with him then you can't really hold it against him that much now tell him he hurt you and that you're angry don't hold it all in. try and hang in there but if you do all that i tell you to and he doesn't change you can't live your life unhappy that's not fair but i think you should try your hardest especially if a child is involved.
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