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in love with 2??
I have been dating a guy for over a year, and i love him. The thing is I think I'm falling for this other guy too. I dont want to admit but im starting too...
i know its wrong.
and the guy im dating now- i ask him a lot of questions- and one day i asked him what would he do if i told him i was in love with two people and he was one of those people. he told me he would want me to choose who i wanted. i asked him,"what if it wasnt you". he told me as long as i was happy he would want it for me.
that makes me feel bad and love him even more.
is there a way to stop falling for this other guy?
should i choose, and how do i choose?
i dont know what to do and im normally really good at this stuff... its scaring me because i dont want to hurt the guy im dating if its not him i want. and i really dont want to fall for this other guy. when i catch myself near this guy i always find myself smiling and flirting... but i do this with my boyfriend too, and i feel guilty but i havent done anything but flirt...
what do you sugguest i do?
**Thank you in advance!
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Omg this is tough but you know your boyfriend, the one you love, should always come first in these situtations because he doesn't deserve to be treated like crap! Not saying you do but he has feelings! Try to avoid the other guy for awhile untill you can get your head straight about whether or not you want to be with him or not ok! Just take a walk and clear your mind and think about what you truly want to do you know? I hoped I helped
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La Loca
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a simple way is to pick out everything that's wrong about the other guy. or limit your talk to him to keep your mind off him a little. just don't make a decision too soon about who you want to go for, it might take a little time.
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youve had a relationship with your boyfriend for a year, so i would not throw that away
he seems sooo sweeeett, like saying he wants what youd want. thats so cute
but you should choose on who you like more. if you do love your boyfriend, then theres that, and i doubt you love this guy you dont date...
but like he said you should do what makes youuu happy
just keep this in mind if your relationship isnt boring yet, like you know how sometimes couples just get bored of each other and so they have to break up? well if this isn't the case then i wouldn't break up. you wouldn't want to throw away a relationship that youve had for a year unless your completely sure about what you want your decision to be
good luck and keep me postedd =]
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